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Power Skills
2
Hello!
I’m Nicolle
I am here because I love teaching
people how to build relationships, find
creativity, and tell engaging stories.
I’m the founder of GlobalMe School.
www.globalmeschool.com
#ProfessionalBrag
3 Power Skills for
your fabulous
career Networking
Building relationships
with people who
interest you
Negotiation
Getting the money
and benefits you
deserve
Public Speaking
Sharing your ideas
and knowledge
with the masses
“
For both men and women, the first step in getting power is to
become visible to others — and then to put on an impressive
show. The acquisition of power requires that one aspire to power,
that one believe power is possible. As women then achieve power
and exercise it well, the barriers fall. That’s why I’m optimistic. As
society sees what women can do, as women see what women can
do, there will be even more women out there doing things — and
we’ll all be better off for it. Certainly today women should be
optimistically encouraged to exercise their power and their
leadership skills wherever it might take them.”
Sandra Day O’Connor
Former Supreme Court
Justice
“
Your Power Skills
Networking
Building
relationships with
people who
interest you
Negotiation
Getting the
money and
benefits you
deserve
Public Speaking
Sharing your
ideas and
knowledge with
the masses
Emotional
Intelligence
the capacity to be aware of,
control, and express one's
emotions, and to handle
interpersonal relationships
judiciously and empathetically.
Emotional
Intelligence
the capacity to be aware of,
control, and express one's
emotions, and to handle
interpersonal relationships
judiciously and empathetically.
AND BEAT THE
ROBOTS
“I don’t think anyone can do long-term
career planning with any confidence.
We make assumptions about the
indispensability of human beings but
machines are already doing things we
thought only humans might be able to.”
The Guardian: What jobs will be around in 20 years?
9
“
I have a style that is Sonia, and it is more assertive than many
women are, or even some men. And it’s a style that has held me
generally in good stead. There’s nothing wrong with being a little
bit quieter than me or more timid than me, but if you’re doing it
all of the time and not waiting for the moments where you need to
be more assertive and take greater control, then you won’t be
successful. And I don’t think I would have been successful if I
didn’t know how to soften myself and tone it down at important
moments.”
Sonia Sottomayor
Supreme Court Justice
“
Curious
Conversations
From curious
conversations to
opportunity
Curious
Conversations
Relationships Information Opportunities
“
Social competence takes many forms – it’s more than just being
chatty. These abilities range from being able to tune into another
person’s feelings and understand how they think about things, to
being a great collaborator and team player, to expertise at
negotiation. All these skills are learned in life. We can improve on
any of them we care about, but it takes time, effort, and
perseverance. We need to practice whenever a naturally occurring
opportunity arises – and it may be listening to a teenager, not just
a moment at work.”
Daniel Goleman, author of
The New York Times bestseller
Emotional Intelligence
“
14
Curious conversations are the
foundation of Power Skills
Networking
Learn how to
engage with
diverse people
Negotiation
Learn how to
have difficult
conversations
Public Speaking
Learn what
your audience
wants
So let’s get curious.
What did you learn?
Networking
17
(let’s talk about
awkwardness)
Reframe
18
Networking is about having
curious conversations about
what interests you
We need
to talk
about our
phones*
19
Let’s chat it up.
What’s your advice for
people who want to
get into your role?
How did that
feel?
Negotiation
(more awkwardness)
Reframe
Negotiation is a conversation about getting the
money and benefits you deserve.
Salary discussion map
Take time to review full
offer (1 week)
Note any questions about
offer
Schedule call.
Present range, ask
clarifying questions
Reviews range, answers questions
Accepts or gives counter offer
Review counter offer
Open up discussion on other
compensation
Flex time
Vacation
Signing bonus
Stock/Equity
$98K
$105-115K
$105K
$105+Other
Counteroffer
Reviews range, may include
other people in discussion
Accepts or gives counter offer
Reviews range
Accepts or gives counter
offer
Review counter offer
Accept or counter offer
Counteroffer+
other
Hello, (name). We have
good news. The team
was very impressed with
you. We’d like to offer
you the job with a
starting salary of
$90,000.
Thank you for your offer. I’m
excited to start and contribute to
your team. Based on my
experience and what I have
learned about this role, I’m
expecting a salary of $$$$.
(How can we get closer to those
numbers?)
“ "Don't waste your seat at the table. If you
are scared to use your voice, then you've
got to get up and give it to someone who
isn't afraid to use the spot."
Michelle Obama on her experience
negotiating for workplace flexibility
when she had two young daughters.
“
EMBRACE
AWKWARD
2 Challenges
1.
#JOBCRUSH
2.
Trade up
32
Thanks!
Questions?
Twitter: @pdxnicolle
Email: nicolle@futuremeschool.com

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Power Skills: Building influence and relationships in your career

  • 2. 2 Hello! I’m Nicolle I am here because I love teaching people how to build relationships, find creativity, and tell engaging stories. I’m the founder of GlobalMe School. www.globalmeschool.com
  • 4. 3 Power Skills for your fabulous career Networking Building relationships with people who interest you Negotiation Getting the money and benefits you deserve Public Speaking Sharing your ideas and knowledge with the masses
  • 5. “ For both men and women, the first step in getting power is to become visible to others — and then to put on an impressive show. The acquisition of power requires that one aspire to power, that one believe power is possible. As women then achieve power and exercise it well, the barriers fall. That’s why I’m optimistic. As society sees what women can do, as women see what women can do, there will be even more women out there doing things — and we’ll all be better off for it. Certainly today women should be optimistically encouraged to exercise their power and their leadership skills wherever it might take them.” Sandra Day O’Connor Former Supreme Court Justice “
  • 6. Your Power Skills Networking Building relationships with people who interest you Negotiation Getting the money and benefits you deserve Public Speaking Sharing your ideas and knowledge with the masses
  • 7. Emotional Intelligence the capacity to be aware of, control, and express one's emotions, and to handle interpersonal relationships judiciously and empathetically.
  • 8. Emotional Intelligence the capacity to be aware of, control, and express one's emotions, and to handle interpersonal relationships judiciously and empathetically. AND BEAT THE ROBOTS
  • 9. “I don’t think anyone can do long-term career planning with any confidence. We make assumptions about the indispensability of human beings but machines are already doing things we thought only humans might be able to.” The Guardian: What jobs will be around in 20 years? 9
  • 10. “ I have a style that is Sonia, and it is more assertive than many women are, or even some men. And it’s a style that has held me generally in good stead. There’s nothing wrong with being a little bit quieter than me or more timid than me, but if you’re doing it all of the time and not waiting for the moments where you need to be more assertive and take greater control, then you won’t be successful. And I don’t think I would have been successful if I didn’t know how to soften myself and tone it down at important moments.” Sonia Sottomayor Supreme Court Justice “
  • 13. “ Social competence takes many forms – it’s more than just being chatty. These abilities range from being able to tune into another person’s feelings and understand how they think about things, to being a great collaborator and team player, to expertise at negotiation. All these skills are learned in life. We can improve on any of them we care about, but it takes time, effort, and perseverance. We need to practice whenever a naturally occurring opportunity arises – and it may be listening to a teenager, not just a moment at work.” Daniel Goleman, author of The New York Times bestseller Emotional Intelligence “
  • 14. 14 Curious conversations are the foundation of Power Skills Networking Learn how to engage with diverse people Negotiation Learn how to have difficult conversations Public Speaking Learn what your audience wants
  • 15. So let’s get curious.
  • 16. What did you learn?
  • 18. Reframe 18 Networking is about having curious conversations about what interests you
  • 19. We need to talk about our phones* 19
  • 21. What’s your advice for people who want to get into your role?
  • 24. Reframe Negotiation is a conversation about getting the money and benefits you deserve.
  • 25. Salary discussion map Take time to review full offer (1 week) Note any questions about offer Schedule call. Present range, ask clarifying questions Reviews range, answers questions Accepts or gives counter offer Review counter offer Open up discussion on other compensation Flex time Vacation Signing bonus Stock/Equity $98K $105-115K $105K $105+Other Counteroffer Reviews range, may include other people in discussion Accepts or gives counter offer Reviews range Accepts or gives counter offer Review counter offer Accept or counter offer Counteroffer+ other
  • 26. Hello, (name). We have good news. The team was very impressed with you. We’d like to offer you the job with a starting salary of $90,000. Thank you for your offer. I’m excited to start and contribute to your team. Based on my experience and what I have learned about this role, I’m expecting a salary of $$$$. (How can we get closer to those numbers?)
  • 27. “ "Don't waste your seat at the table. If you are scared to use your voice, then you've got to get up and give it to someone who isn't afraid to use the spot." Michelle Obama on her experience negotiating for workplace flexibility when she had two young daughters. “