Sometimes relationships end because we forget that it takes two to fight and two to make it work.

1. It Takes Two To Fight And Two
To Make It Work

2. None of us ever think in the
beginning of a relationship
that it will end.

3. It’s just the opposite. You are
certain the love will last a
lifetime.

4. Sometimes relationships end
because we forget that

5. it takes two to fight and two
to make it work.

6. What you need to keep in
mind is that just because

7. you have disagreements it
doesn’t mean you don’t love
each other.

8. Things might be different, but
it doesn’t mean that the love
is gone.

9. In my opinion, fighting can be
about many different things.

10. There could be underlying
insecurities coming to the
surface,

11. or maybe the two of you just
don’t agree on what a
relationship is ‘supposed’ to be
like.

12. You don’t have to be velcro’d
to your partner 24/7 to show
that you are a couple.

13. Some people seem to think
that you should do everything
together.

14. Oh, lordy, that would drive me
insane!

15. If the two of you are together
all the time, it won’t take long

16. before you have nothing to
talk about.

17. Wow, that’s some kind of a
stale and boring relationship!

18. You might find yourselves
fighting more just to have
something to do!

19. Each of you should have
hobbies or interests that you
pursue separately.

20. You will feel more fulfilled as a
person

21. and you will have some new
experiences to share with your
partner.

22. The flip side of the coin is
where one partner is
constantly gone.

23. Whether they are working or
just hanging out with friends
doesn’t really matter,

24. the partner left behind feels
neglected and unloved.

25. Neglecting your partner is a
good way to cause a breakup.

26. Another sore spot in
relationships is money.

27. Fights often start over how
the money is saved or spent.

28. These issues can take a while
to resolve, especially so

29. if one of you is a saver and
the other a spender.

30. This is where a compromise is
going to have to be reached.

31. If you are pooling your
money, you will have to make
some decisions and stick to
them.

32. There needs to be some
money allocated for savings
and some for spending.

33. This way each of you is
comfortable.

34. Relationships that last over
the long haul are the ones

35. where the partners have
learned the art of
compromise.

36. Compromise isn’t about
winning or losing,

37. it’s about being mature
enough to make things work
for both of you.

38. Being in love and learning to
live in harmony with one
another is a wonderful thing.

39. If it weren’t, you wouldn’t see
couples that are married for
40 years or more.

40. Making a relationship work
starts with sitting down

41. and discussing things that
could cause fights before it
becomes an issue.

42. You need to work things out
before they become problems,

43. agree on how to handle the
situation

44. then you won’t need to worry
too much about fighting.