1. Are you in a relationship right now? If you are, is it going
smoothly or is it going through very rough times? Not all
relationships are alike; there are always these good
relationships and bad relationships. How you and your
partner will handle the relationship will determine if it is a
bad relationship or if it is a good one and going on
smoothly. If you are in a bad relationship right now,
perhaps you will wonder how your romantic relationship
has a sudden twist. You might have asked yourself what
you have done wrong or what your shortcomings were.
Here are some things that you can think about why you
have a bad relationship:
2. Communication is an important part of every relationship.
Lack of communication can make a romantic relationship
turn into a bad relationship because this keeps both you
and your partner from having a clear understanding of
what is really going on and why a certain problem is
happening.
3. Aside from this, it also creates more conflicts since you do
not know what the other exactly wants and expects from
the relationship. Keeping oneself in silence when a
problem in the relationship arises will not do you any good
but instead it will aggravate the problem. It is not a good
idea that you do not open up about what you really feel or
how your partner feels. If both of you continue to be in
silence, expect your bad relationship to turn into worse.
4. But we cannot deny the fact that there will always be
problems in the relationship later on. Now the question is
how are we going to solve the problems? And that will be
the role of relationship counseling. It will guide us to make
the right decision. The role of the counselor is not give the
solution but to lead us in the process of decision making.
This is in contrast with the role of an adviser wherein he is
expected to give a definite decision by the concerned
individual.
5. Lots of break-ups nowadays are due to infidelity. If you
find out that your partner is unfaithful to you, of course
this can lead to a serious fight and more heated
arguments. For sure, your initial reaction will be so
outraged that you will not be able to listen to reasons
anymore. Upon knowing your partner's infidelity, you will
come to realize some of the dishonest answers that he or
she gave you in the past when you ask about some
important things.
6. The parties involved in the relationship must be aware of
their behavior in order to know how the relationship is
affected. Let us remember that the main concern of
relationship counseling is about the relationship.
Relationship is actually is put to the test most of the time.
We have a wounded relationship. That is the reason why
relationship is taken as a patient to be cured and fixed.
Relationship counseling is centered on how both parties
answer the different issues they are supposed to face.
There are some of them who do not respond, while others
respond effectively. The good of the relationship is the
primary concern for some people, while others do not
bother.
7. Pride is another main reason to have a bad relationship.
Conflicts and petty fights are part of every relationship so
you should not be devastated if you and your partner
encounter and go through these from time to time. There
is nothing wrong in having arguments because you are
able to voice out your views and opinions about an issue.
8. As an individual We will be able to discover a healthy
relationship. Improvement of one's relationship. We will
be able to know what is needed in a relationship. Knowing
the obstacles of being close and committed Be able to
make the relationship full of life, healthy and more fun.
9. As a couple Acquire a relationship that is full of love and
fulfillment. Be able to discuss the reasons why we have
relationship problems Able to end conflicts in a healthy
manner. Able to resolve issues in relation to
commitment.To have more intimacy and enjoyment in the
relationship