In today’s fast and frantic world maintaining relationships particularly the marital relationship is becoming tricky for few individuals. The honeymoon period in any committed relationship is not meant to last forever. Eventually, it becomes certain that sharing and living a life with another person requires an appropriate set of skills. Many couples start to come apart after the few years of the wedding because some of you are not bothering about how to maintain and strengthen your emotional bonds. In this article marriage counselor and relationship expert Shivani Misri Sadhoo sharing Top 5 Ways To Improve Your Marriage. Here they are. 1. Soften Your Stance Arguments are one of the major reasons for discord in marital life. Arguments often flare up because...

3. In today’s fast and frantic world maintaining relationships
particularly the marital relationship is becoming tricky for
few individuals. The honeymoon period in any committed
relationship is not meant to last forever. Eventually, it
becomes certain that sharing and living a life with another
person requires an appropriate set of skills. Many couples
start to come apart after the few years of the wedding
because some of you are not bothering about how to
maintain and strengthen your emotional bonds.
In this article marriage counselor and relationship expert
Shivani Misri Sadhoo sharing Top 5 Ways To Improve Your
Marriage. Here they are.

4. 1. Soften Your Stance
Arguments are one of the major reasons for discord in
marital life. Arguments often flare up because one partner
escalates the dispute by making a critical or arrogant
remark. Discussing up problems politely and without
blaming each other works much better and allows couples
to peacefully engage in any conflict.

5. 2. Focus On The Positive Things
In a happy and content marriage, while talking about
problems, couples should at least make 5 times as many
positive statements to and about each other and their
relationship as compared to the negative ones. For
instance, a happy couple will say We enjoy a lot instead of
“We never have any fun. A good marriage must have an
abundant climate of positivity. Make daily deposits to your
emotional bank accounts.

7. 3. Learn To Fix And Exit The Arguments
Happy couples know how to exit an argument, or how to fix
the situation before an argument gets completely out of
order. Examples of fix attempts: usage of humor, offering a
gentle remark (I understand that this is not easy for you),
making it clear you are on a common page (We will handle
this ordeal together), backing down (in marriage, just like
any sport, you often have to yield to win) and, mainly
offering signs of appreciation for your partner and their
feelings along the way. If an argument gets too heated,
take a 15 minutes’ break, and try to approach the topic
again when you both become calm and composed.

8. 4. Refine Yourself
The happiest and successful couples are kind to each other.
They refrain from saying every critical thought when
discussing delicate issues, and they will search for ways to
express their needs and concerns respectfully without
blaming or criticizing their partner.

9. 5. Adopt High Standards
Happy couples adopt high standards for each other. The
happiest and successful couples are those who, even as
newlyweds, denies to accept hurtful behavior from each
another. Low levels of tolerance for improper behavior in the
initial phase of a relationship equals a happier couple down
the time.

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