The document discusses the evolving nature of human relationships over the past decade due to technological advances, shifting societal norms, and changing cultural dynamics. It highlights key trends such as the rise of polyamory, the impact of social media on courtship, and the acceptance of diverse sexualities and gender identities. Additionally, it explores the implications of big data, virtual experiences, and innovative practices in shaping modern relationships.

1. THE
FUTURE OF
RELATIONSHIPS in collaboration with

2. Everything evolves, including how human beings
relate to one another in intimate relationships. Norms
which have been relatively stable in this space have been
mutating and changing rapidly over the past ten years -
and will continue along this trajectory into the foreseeable
future.
In this report we will be sharing a snapshot of some of the
forces and waves of change which are shaping the future
of relationships. And while many of these data points may
seem alien or downright strange, they point to a possible
future of acceptance, openness and increased happiness
through relationships that really work.

3. Dating is different. Sex is different. Break-ups are different.
Relationships, like most aspects of life, are undergoing exponential changes. Radical shifts in
demographics, politics, religion and gender roles, coupled with technological leaps, big data
and scientific breakthroughs, have permanently changed how humans relate to one another.

4. We see three key currents of change that
are shaping modern relationships…

5. Technology
Technological advances continue to shape and speed up all aspects of dating, falling in
and out of love, communication and sex. Big data is changing the foundation of modern
relationships. Data is volunteered, generated by apps, pulled from preference settings
and pushed out by smart devices. Sensors in every space and in every thing not only
track and intuit behaviors and predilections, but anticipate needs and augment
experiences. On the other hand, technology has become so tempting and distracting
that it has created a new kind of “love triangle.”

6. Blurred Lines
Americans are softening on same sex relationships. Polyamory - the practice of being in
multiple consensual relationships simultaneously - is emerging as a more accepted (and
out in the open) practice. Polysexuality (attraction to multiple sexual persuasions) is also
a trending term, as is androgyny. Parents are allowing their child to select their gender.
Male and female roles are blurring, making traditional classifications obsolete. Beliefs
around marriage are shifting; divorce and multiple marriages, each fulfilling different
needs, are becoming part of “normal” life.

8. Kink Goes Mainstream
As seen with the blockbuster success of 50 Shades of Grey and the provocative prime
time performances of Miley Cyrus, formerly “deviant” sexual practices are becoming
mainstreamed. Prime time TV programs explore sexual subcultures in the name of
cultural anthropology, while shows like Masters of Sex demystify sex. A combination of
relaxing moral codes and access to information about fetishes is galvanizing fringe
groups, such as “yoga S&M.” Meanwhile, kink is la mode...today’s fashion runway
lookbooks would have been wrapped in brown paper a decade ago.

9. The following 16 slides illustrate key
trends in relationships and sex
sourced from the cultural strategy team
at sparks & honey, in partnership with
the Museum of Sex in NYC.

10. Microbial Match-Making
As we continue to map and explore our DNA and individual microbiomes, anticipate services
that match people based on both. In an era where our biological makeup can be profiled,
“chemistry” and “compatibility” take on entirely new meanings.

11. Formula One Flirting
The rise of instant gratification social media platforms like Snapchat, Vine, Tinder and Grindr
have turned courtship into a fast and furious process. Seasoned speed daters find
spontaneous snackable video snippets more authentic. Today, quick might trump cute.

12. Selfie Scrubbing
When image is king, nothing can be left to chance. We’ve seen a number of autocorrecting
retouching services launch, such as Facetune, to fine-tune photos effortlessly. From profile
writing to history cleansing, expect perfecting practices to become standard operating
procedure for daters of the future.

13. Quantified Relationships
Moving on from finances and health, sex and relationships are one of the fertile new
frontiers for tracking and measurement. Big [bedroom] data from sensors and apps, such
as Spreadsheets, provide insights into your “performance” and why relationships (and sex)
work or fail.

14. Long Distance Foreplay
We are no longer limited to physical comfort. Recent inventions such as sophisticated sexbots
and Fundawear have compressed space and time, making virtual (or long distance) sex a
physical experience. Virtual sex is no longer vicarious, but visceral. This stands to keep
relationships intact as society becomes more mobile.

15. Love Impact Metrics
Metrics can now be applied to ephemeral concepts such as love. For the quantified self-inclined,
stats help to optimize current relationships, extract learning from mistakes and guide planning the
next encounter. Imagine one’s “love footprint” is not only measured but broadcast.

16. Professional Cuddlers
Science has confirmed the health benefits of intimacy and touch. In response, a modern
(cleaner) spin on the oldest profession is a “Professional Cuddler,” who simply comforts with
hugs a society of singletons. This must be loosely connected to the motivation behind the Free
Hugs campaign. Hugging has also become a common greeting practice, sometimes replacing
handshakes in US business settings.

17. Biometric Bonking
Whether connecting with a distant loved one, living through another’s experience or having a
fresh perspective on an encounter, wearables and virtual reality/augmentation innovations
enable unparalleled sexual experiences. With so many different ways to track and manipulate
biometrics (heartbeat, breath, sweat, electromagnetism, etc.), we expect “hooking up” to take
on a whole new meaning.

18. Cosplay Courtship
As Cosplay goes from fringe to mainstream, we are seeing the emergence of in-character
courtship, like Comic-Con speed-dating events. It seems like Second Life has evolved into
“second skin” with costumes becoming important expressions of self. We foresee people
discussing the pros and cons of inter-character relationships as they once did about inter-racial
relationships.

19. SIRI The Sex Surrogate
As Augmented Intelligence and video games become increasingly sophisticated, expect
humans to get attached to and develop real relationships with their hardware and software. The
movies Her and Ex Machina deal with love in the age of seductive operating systems.

20. Celibacy Syndrome
Finding modern relationships too emotionally complicated, many men and women are choosing
not to become romantically involved in any serious way. In Japan, a 2011 survey found that
61% of unmarried men and 49% of women aged 18-34 were not in any kind of romantic
relationship.

21. New Erogenous Zones
In an overstimulated world, we seek new forms of heightened stimulation in the hope of
discovering new erogenous zones. A bogus story about eyeball licking, also called “worming,”
in Japan went viral and subsequently created interest in erogenous experimentation in the US.

22. Porn Programmed Minds
Large numbers of men are no longer physically aroused by real women due to
overstimulation by too much pornography. The growth of erectile dysfunction drugs mirrors
the growth of porn media, while the US birthrate has dropped. Today, men and women can
choose to subsist solely on porn. Cindy Gallop’s Make Love Not Porn organization aims to
promote “real sex” and bring back a sense of humanity and connection for sexual partners.

23. ASMR: Mental Massages and Braingasms
A growing number of people are discovering the benefits of ASMR (Autonomous Sensory
Meridian Response). ASMR is a tingling sensation some people feel when exposed to soothing
environmental sounds and soft talking. Proponents of the practice use videos and audio
recordings to induce these brain tingles and promote relaxation. Prominent ASMR practitioners
such as Lilium make their living making ASMR videos - a kind of therapist/digital friend.

24. Dinosaur Erotica And Beyond
How strange can it get? While some of the “sex with mythical creatures” genre was likely
inspired by a joke, “Rule 34” is hyperbolically infecting every possible niche of culture. The
more absurd and shocking it is, the more viral it goes. Some argue this is having an impact on
real life expectations.

25. Revenge Analytics
We are a culture obsessed with forensic science; introducing, “relationship forensics.” This is not
the future, but reality: daters are using sophisticated systems to discover dirt (or rave reviews)
about their potential mates. From confessional websites to revenge porn posts, the Internet can
be both fierce and forever. Never mind your Digital Death, you need to worry about your Dating
Death.

26. Six Second Breakups
It's a story as old as time: boy meets girl; girl becomes Facebook friends with boy; boy and girl
hook up after finding each other through Bang With Friends; boy likes some other girl's
Instagram photo; girl unfriends boy; boy vines his breakup with girl and uploads it to Reddit.
Relationships implode as fast as they begin.

27. Artisanal Sex Toys
With the advent of easy scanning and mobile phones with object recognition software, virtually
anything smaller than a breadbox can be scanned. Combined with 3D printing and new
fabrication technologies driven by material innovation, custom and artisanal sex toys take on a
whole new dimension.

28. Memory Sifters
Through lifelogging devices such as the Narrative Clip, all aspects of a relationship can be
coded and cataloged for review. Imagine reliving your entire relationship, or savoring key
moments, with one push of a button?

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