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MASTERING THE SECRETS OF NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION 11 
BOX 4: A PURSING OF LIPS LEADS TO 
SAVINGS ON SHIPS 
Universal tells of the lips were very helpful to me during a consulting as-signment 
with a British shipping company. My British client had asked 
me to sit through their contract negotiations with a huge multinational 
corporation that would be outfitting their vessels. I agreed and suggested 
that the proposed contract be presented point by point, with agreement 
being reached on each item before moving forward. That way I could 
more closely watch the corporate negotiator for any nonverbals that might 
reveal information helpful to my client. 
“I’ll pass you a note if I spot something that needs your attention,” I 
told my client and then settled back to watch the parties review the con-tract 
clause by clause. I didn’t have long to wait before I saw an important 
tell. When a clause detailing the outfitting of a specific part of the vessel 
was read—a construction phase involving millions of dollars—the chief 
negotiator from the multinational corporation pursed his lips, a clear indi-cation 
that something in this part of the contract was not to his liking. 
I passed a note to my client, warning him that this particular clause in 
the contract was contentious or problematic and should be revisited and 
discussed thoroughly while we were all still together. 
By confronting the issue then and there—and focusing on the details 
of the clause in question—the two negotiators were able to hammer out 
an agreement face-to-face, which ended up saving my client 13.5 million 
dollars. The negotiator’s nonverbal signal of displeasure was the key evi-dence 
needed to spot a specific problem and deal with it immediately 
and effectively.

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  • 1. MASTERING THE SECRETS OF NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION 11 BOX 4: A PURSING OF LIPS LEADS TO SAVINGS ON SHIPS Universal tells of the lips were very helpful to me during a consulting as-signment with a British shipping company. My British client had asked me to sit through their contract negotiations with a huge multinational corporation that would be outfitting their vessels. I agreed and suggested that the proposed contract be presented point by point, with agreement being reached on each item before moving forward. That way I could more closely watch the corporate negotiator for any nonverbals that might reveal information helpful to my client. “I’ll pass you a note if I spot something that needs your attention,” I told my client and then settled back to watch the parties review the con-tract clause by clause. I didn’t have long to wait before I saw an important tell. When a clause detailing the outfitting of a specific part of the vessel was read—a construction phase involving millions of dollars—the chief negotiator from the multinational corporation pursed his lips, a clear indi-cation that something in this part of the contract was not to his liking. I passed a note to my client, warning him that this particular clause in the contract was contentious or problematic and should be revisited and discussed thoroughly while we were all still together. By confronting the issue then and there—and focusing on the details of the clause in question—the two negotiators were able to hammer out an agreement face-to-face, which ended up saving my client 13.5 million dollars. The negotiator’s nonverbal signal of displeasure was the key evi-dence needed to spot a specific problem and deal with it immediately and effectively.