Mediation is a more civilized way of resolving differences than litigation and should be celebrated. It allows parties to avoid the emotional costs of someone being declared wrong through a legal process. Mediation has a long history and requires trust between the mediator and the parties to work. The mediator must listen carefully to both sides and speak simply to maintain this trust, while also demonstrating a thorough understanding of complex issues when needed. Pushing a hesitant party can threaten the trust essential to a successful mediation.