In Genesis 29, Jacob travels to Haran seeking a wife and falls in love with Rachel, working seven years for her hand in marriage. However, Laban tricks Jacob by giving him Leah instead, leading to further years of labor for Rachel. The story highlights themes of deception, favoritism, and the transformative power of love.

1. The Trickster is Tricked
Genesis 29

2. Genesis 29: 1-30

3. Running Away, Running to.
1 So Jacob moved on and came to the land of
the eastern people.
“moved on” – lit. raised his legs
Jacob had been running away from Esau.
After the vision, he is moving forward to find a
bride.
Jocob’s goal – spend a few months, find a wife and go
home.

4. 400 miles later
2 He saw in the field a well with three flocks of sheep
lying beside it, because the flocks were watered from
that well. Now a large stone covered the mouth of the
well. 3 When all the flocks were gathered there, the
shepherds would roll the stone off the mouth of the
well and water the sheep. Then they would put the
stone back in its place over the well’s mouth.

5. Infatuation begins
4 Jacob asked them, “My brothers, where are
you from?” They replied, “We’re from Haran.” 5
So he said to them, “Do you know Laban, the
grandson of Nahor?” “We know him,” they said.
6 “Is he well?” Jacob asked. They replied, “He is
well. Now look, here comes his daughter Rachel
with the sheep.”

6. Scheming to be alone?
7 Then Jacob said, “Since it is still the middle of
the day, it is not time for the flocks to be
gathered. You should water the sheep and then
go and let them graze some more.” 8 “We can’t,”
they said, “until all the flocks are gathered and
the stone is rolled off the mouth of the well.
Then we water the sheep.”
Is he trying to get them to leave?
There is either a contract by the owner on how to use the well
Or, they want to stay around to look at Rachel

7. Showing off for the girl
9 While he was still speaking with them, Rachel
arrived with her father’s sheep, for she was
tending them. 10 When Jacob saw Rachel, the
daughter of his uncle Laban, and the sheep of
his uncle Laban, he went over and rolled the
stone off the mouth of the well and watered the
sheep of his uncle Laban.
Lazybones of the tents becomes the Macho Man.
Amazing what a pretty girl can do to a guy.
What happened to the Momma’s boy?

8. Moving In for the kiss
11 Then Jacob kissed Rachel and began to weep
loudly. 12 When Jacob explained to Rachel that
he was a relative of her father and the son of
Rebekah, she ran and told her father.
Only place in the Bible where a man kisses a woman other than
his mother or wife.
Seems to be more than a mere “holy kiss”.
First case of “kissing cousins”.
She ran to tell daddy. Think she told about the kiss?

9. Jacob Meets his match
13 When Laban heard this news about Jacob, his
sister’s son, he rushed out to meet him. He
embraced him and kissed him and brought him
to his house. Jacob told Laban how he was
related to him. 14 Then Laban said to him, “You
are indeed my own flesh and blood.” So Jacob
stayed with him for a month.

10. Daughter for wages?
15 Then Laban said to Jacob, “Should you work
for me for nothing because you are my relative?
Tell me what your wages should be.” 16 (Now
Laban had two daughters; the older one was
named Leah, and the younger one Rachel. 17
Leah’s eyes were tender, but Rachel had a lovely
figure and beautiful appearance.)
Leah means Cow.
Rachel means Ewe Lamb.
Rachel was the knock-out.

11. What will a man do for a woman?
18 Since Jacob had fallen in love with Rachel, he
said, “I’ll serve you seven years in exchange for
your younger daughter Rachel.” 19 Laban replied,
“I’d rather give her to you than to another man.
Stay with me.”

12. Time passes fast when you’re in love
20 So Jacob worked for seven years to acquire
Rachel. But they seemed like only a few days to
him because his love for her was so great.
Jacob became a workaholic for Rachel.
But love can make one vulnerable.

13. The Trickster gets Tricked
21 Finally Jacob said to Laban, “Give me my wife, for my
time of service is up. I want to have marital relations
with her.” 22 So Laban invited all the people of that
place and prepared a feast. 23 In the evening he
brought his daughter Leah to Jacob, and Jacob had
marital relations with her. 24 (Laban gave his female
servant Zilpah to his daughter Leah to be her servant.)
“I want to have marital relations with her.” Lit. “I want to go into
her.” Let’s hear one of you guys say that to your father-in-law.
Move over Jerry Springer and Howard Stern. Laban has you guys
beat on mean.
Why do it? GREED!

14. Surprise, Surprise, Surprise!
25 In the morning Jacob discovered it was Leah! So
Jacob said to Laban, “What in the world have you done
to me! Didn’t I work for you in exchange for Rachel?
Why have you tricked me?” 26 “It is not our custom
here,” Laban replied, “to give the younger daughter in
marriage before the firstborn. 27 Complete my older
daughter’s bridal week. Then we will give you the
younger one too, in exchange for seven more years of
work.”
Laban was mean to: Jacob, Leah, and Rachel.
Where did Jacob get his scheming? His Mom? Where did
Rebecca get it? It’s all in the family.

15. Jacob fulfills his contract!
28 Jacob did as Laban said. When Jacob
completed Leah’s bridal week, Laban gave him
his daughter Rachel to be his wife. 29 (Laban
gave his female servant Bilhah to his daughter
Rachel to be her servant.) 30 Jacob had marital
relations with Rachel as well. He loved Rachel
more than Leah, so he worked for Laban for
seven more years.

16. Lessons
• An encounter with God can:
– Change our motivation:
• From fear and running away
• To excited anticipation of what God has planned before
us
– move us from a lazybones among the tents to a
person with purpose and goals.

17. Lessons:
• The love of a woman can:
– Cause a man to act like someone he isn’t to
impress the girl.
– Change a man – from the lazy man to an
industrious, hard worker.
– Make it worth the wait.
– Cause him to put up with the in-laws.

18. Lessons:
• There is payback for deceptions
– Jacob deceived Isaac, taking advantage of his
blindness. Laban deceived Jacob’s inability to see
in the dark tent.
– Jacob pretended to be the older brother, and now
Laban tricked him by replacing the younger with
the older sister.
– Esau was forced to live with the results of Jacob’s
deception; now Jacob is forced to live with the
results of Laban’s deception.

19. Lessons:
• Favoritism has consequences:
– Isaac’s favoritism of Esau and Rebecca's favoritism
of Joseph caused family division.
– Jacob’s greater love of Rachael over Leah will
result in immense family division.

20. Bible Heroes have faults for a reason
The wise man learns as much from the faults
and mistakes of others (and themselves) as
from their virtues and successes.

21. God’s Grace is Greater than our sins
Romans 11:32–36 32 For God has consigned all
people to disobedience so that he may show
mercy to them all. 33 Oh, the depth of the riches
and wisdom and knowledge of God! How
unsearchable are his judgments and how
fathomless his ways! 34 For who has known the
mind of the Lord, or who has been his
counselor? 35 Or who has first given to God, that
God needs to repay him? 36 For from him and
through him and to him are all things. To him be
glory forever! Amen.Do you think you’re any better
than Jacob?