The document discusses the pain of not knowing if a partner is having an affair or experiencing health issues like thyroid problems. It lists potential signs of an affair, such as lack of intimacy or interest in activities previously enjoyed together, and symptoms of thyroid issues, such as weight changes, mood swings, insomnia, and irritability. It emphasizes that either situation can create distress and misery, especially the uncertainty of not knowing what is wrong. Effective communication between partners is presented as important to relieve distrust and find understanding.

1. The Pain Not Knowing

2. Something’s Not Right Where did I go wrong?

3. The Depression Am I causing it? Should I leave?

4. Am I irritating you ? The Anger

5. The Mood Missing someone… ?

6. Lost Interest I miss your hugs.

7. What’s on your mind? The Sleepless Nights

8. Always Tired Is that just an excuse?

9. Just w o n d e r i n g about it. The Misery

10. Who are you with right now? The Ultimate Question

11. The Fear Will knowing change my life?

12. Key to the Pandora’s Box? Who can I turn to for answers?

13. You think he is having an affair? Could her name be Hyperthyroidism? Try your Doctor

14. The Pain of Not Knowing Signs of an Affair or “ She is "touchy“. Why is she angry when I try to hold her hands? I can’t get close to her anymore. ” Symptoms of Thyroid Malfunction: Intolerance of heat Increased perspiration Constant feeling of being hot. Irritability Agitation Impatient

15. The Pain of Not Knowing Signs of an Affair or “ I can feel his heart beating fast against mine. If he still desires me, why won’t he initiate sex with me?” Symptoms of Thyroid Malfunction: Fatigue Exhaustion Weakness Palpitations Low libido

16. The Pain of Not Knowing Signs of an Affair or “ She said she is tired but she keeps tossing and turning in bed. Who is she having sleepless nights for?” Symptoms of Thyroid Malfunction: Insomnia Restless Fidgety

17. The Pain of Not Knowing Signs of an Affair or “ He eats well at home but he goes out every night for supper. I don’t see any weight gain. Is he out meeting someone?” Symptoms of Thyroid Malfunction: High metabolic rate Weight loss accompanied by a ravenous appetite Hyperactive Restlessness

18. The Pain of Not Knowing Signs of an Affair or “ We don’t do the things we used to enjoy doing together anymore. I think she is no longer happy to be with me.” Symptoms of Thyroid Malfunction: Apathy Depression

19. The Pain of Not Knowing Signs of an Affair or “ He gets up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom often. Maybe he is calling his new love on his mobile phone thinking I am asleep?” Symptoms of Thyroid Malfunction: Polyuria (passage of a large volume of urine) Increased frequency of bowel movement

20. The Pain of Not Knowing Signs of an Affair or “ Sometimes I can see tears in her eyes. Who is she crying for?” Symptoms of Thyroid Malfunction: Grave Disease: retraction of the eyelids aches and can cause dryness, irritation and excessive tearing.

21. Misery: The Cause Extreme emotional and physical stress can trigger this disease . “ I dressed up to win him back. The change he noticed stressed him out. He thought that I was having an affair!”

22. Misery: The Cause Loss of interest and pleasure in hobbies or activities once enjoyed. “ When he told me that he was going to give away his aquarium, I thought he was likely moving it to the “other woman’s” home.”

23. Misery: The Cause Some women experience hyperthyroidism after giving birth. “ I stay out of the house because everything is never right with her. Where is that lovely girl I married?”

24. Misery: The Cause “ I looked at the way he often snapped at her and advised her to leave him.” Display of uncontrollable anger, and irrational anger. “ Stop judging me!”

25. Misery: The Cause Too much thyroid hormone increases perspiration, causing skin rashes and sores. “ I was angry. I thought what I saw on his body were love bites. Then I got worried. He might have gotten AIDS from the other partner.”

26. “ What’s the best prescriptions, Doc?”

27. I love you too. “ You don’t have to pay for this cure, so, give and take one as often as you can.”

28. She loves me… She loves me not… “ Don’t leave your loved one guessing! That should relieve the trust related distress.”

29. Exercise but don’t jump… … to the wrong conclusions, that is! No, you didn't get that right!

30. He is a straight-forward and frank Scorpion. She is a moody and sensitive Cancer. Remember “Give and take one ”? “ Adjust your dosage accordingly.”

31. “ Find excuses to stick to the prescription.” Excuse No. 2 Excuse No. 1 Like to know why?

32. “ Learn the effects of broken marriages on child development.” I want my Daddy and Mummy!

33. When Li f e is a Lie What’s “ f ”? It’s f ood for thoughts! Are they just f riends? Has he been f aithful? Is it my f ault? Will he seek f reedom? It’s no f un living this way. What about the f amily; the kids? Can Iife ever be f ulfilling again? Set me f ree of this pain. I need to know, my f riends. Give me the f acts! I’ll be f ine F ight or f light? Let me decide Don’t f ail me and leave me Wondering l ike a f ool… When Life’s a Lie

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