Syed ejaz bukhari (pbe3)

Professional Behaviour & Etiquette
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Syed Ejaz
Bukhari
Life Coach &
Motivational
Speaker

I am a LIFE COACH and I have
 Trained more than 400,000 teachers and professionals
belonging to other fields (public plus private ) of Punjab,
KPK, Kashmir, Waziristan, FATA, Islamabad, Sindh and
Baluchistan
 Written 26 Books
 Trained 30,000 students of IELTS, TOEFL, PTE, TOEIC,
ESOL & SPOKEN ENGLISH
 Tailored 85 ESP (English for Specific Purposes)courses
 Been a TV host
 Been a Word therapist
 Conducting talks and seminars on inter-faith harmony

Aim of the Workshop
Theaimofthetrainingsessionisto:bringaboutpersonality
developmentwithregardtothedifferentbehavioral
dimensions andetiquettethathavefarreaching
significanceinthedirectionoforganizationalplus
personaleffectiveness.

Objectives of Workshop
 Bytheendoftheworkshop,theparticipantswillgetfamiliarwith:
 professionalethics
 Personalgrooming
 differencebetweenpersonalityandcharacterand themultifaceted
influenceoftheBehaviouroftheemployeesuponorganizational
effectiveness
 Behaviourmodification
 Stressandhowitcanbemanaged
 Timeandhowitcanbemanaged
 Mannersandetiquettes(eatinganddrinking)
 Listening (note-taking)

Your acceptance and
involvement in Training
Would ensure a change in
your behaviour and
attitude towards
professional life.

Let’s Shake Hands

Bad Handshakes

We Have, we know
do we show,
Need to know
yes , Need to know (an exercise taken from the book “Meet YOU in You” on
Personality Development by Syed Ejaz Bukhari)

Personality is
WHO we ARE
WHAT we DO
WHEN everybody
is watching

Character is
WHO we ARE
WHAT we DO
WHEN nobody is
watching

Professionals have(ACCEC)
 Attitude
 Character
 Competency
 Excellence
 Conduct

YES

Understand please
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NOW BE (Behaviour and Etiquette)
Professional look : Personality

MASK

MASK
INSIDE
OUTSIDE

Outside

Now SEE(you are your message)
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Shave on daily basis

Yes please !!!!

Reflects taste

Ease –Look-Grandeur

Sober and Professional

How do you see this?

Right Posture: Etiquette

Right posture

Taking Tea Etiquette

Spread the Kindness

We are educationists
•We are
observed
•We are
followed
•We are models

Sneezing, Coughing, Yawning

BE!!!!
 Your behaviour (Verbal/Non Verbal) shows your
personality and your real self.
 Your behaviour makes the image of your
personality in the minds of the people.
 Thus, Your Behaviour itself is your Identity.
Behavior is action
Etiquette is the set of rules

These approaches do not let me change?
 I am like that.
 My parents are like that.
 I don’t know why I am like that.
 That’s my habit.
 That’s my nature.
 I cannot change.
 he/she/they always do this with me.
 Why should I change?

When in professional world
Learn to be someone else
Create and Maintain
professional identity

Change your approach and Love yourself
Or
GET ready for
Stress

Read it to your partner

Inside

Problems are not just with us. SEE VIDEO CLIP

PBE: PERSONALITY
P- Positivity about Privacy
E- Education
R- Righteousness/Right/Reasoning
S- Sensible
O-Opportunity
N- NO to Laziness/delays
A- Attitude
L-Love for all/work
I-Involvement and interaction
T- Tolerance
Y- YES to Productivity
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Positivity about Privacy
Privacy demonstrates
self-respect and
respect for others.
Take pride in respecting
others and yourself

Read Please (an exercise taken from the book “Meet YOU in
You” on Personality Development by Syed Ejaz Bukhari)
Two men went to the bathroom during
a scheduled meeting and one was
ready to go back to the meeting room
before the other. The one that was
ready to go back was getting
frustrated and wanted to tell the other
man to hurry up. He stopped and
remembered that it was important to
respect the privacy of others and then
he waited patiently for his colleague.

Read please (an exercise taken from the book “Meet YOU in
An officer was waiting for his/her
subordinate as he/she went to pick the file
from the office, left by the officer
himself/herself. He/she called out, “hurry
up?” No answer came as the sub-ordinate
in hurry, could not listen to it. The officer
shouted again and again, and his/her
colleague told him/her that he/she needed
to be quite and wait. The officer realized
his/her mistake and waited quietly.

Read please(an exercise taken from the book “Meet YOU in
An officer took one of the visitors (4 in
numbers) away from the place he/she was
sitting with. He/she wanted to share
something in private. In the meanwhile, a
visitor from the rest stood and tried to get
close to both. Suddenly, one among the rest
requested him/her to get back as this might
disturb their privacy. This man understood,
accepted and came back.

Read please(an exercise taken from the book “Meet YOU in
I was sitting with my colleagues in my office.
A ring on my mobile made me leave the
room. One of my colleagues followed me,
it was a call from home, I had to remain
silent as he/she was around, I turned
,passed smile, he smiled back and
remained there. This irritated me but I had
no choice, so I disconnected the call by
saying “call you back”. This was my wife’s
call and rest you know all. When I got back
to my room, they, with big smile, said, “We
knew whose call was that”?

Activities/Role Plays(an exercise taken from the book
“Personality Development” by Syed Ejaz Bukhari)
 Discuss ways in which you can show that you
respect the privacy of others. Share your examples.
 Discuss the relationship between privacy and
respecting yourself.

Read carefully and discuss it with the one sitting next to
you.
We normally do things first and then
think about justifying them. This leads
us nowhere but to stick to whatsoever,
be it wrong or right. This snatches
right from wrong. This results in
deadlock against development.
(An extract taken from the book “Meet YOU in You” on Personality Development by
Syed Ejaz Bukhari)
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PBE: Sensibility
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PBE: NO to Laziness/delays
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SO SAY NO to

PBE:Attitude

PBE(Individual to Society)
INFECT
AFFECT

Jee Junab!!!!

PBE: Love for all/work
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PBE: Involvement /interaction
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Need to know
NO FUN, NO
INTERACTION, NO
INTERACTION,NO
INVOLVEMENT,NO
INVOLVEMENT, NO
LEARNING

PERSONALITY: T- Teaching tolerance
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Prepare

PBE:Say YES to Productivity

Hand out
Professional Behavior
& Etiquettes: Do’s and
Don’ts of
Professionals
(taken from a book on personality development “Meet YOU in
You” by Syed Ejaz Bukhari)

GW: Need to know:(taken from the book
“Personality Development” by Syed Ejaz Bukhari)
 I know and I know that I Know [conviction]
 I know (people say) but I don’t know that I know
[impact]
 I know but I need to know that I know [realization]
 I don’t know but I don’t let any one know that I don’t
know[improvisation]
 I know but he/she does not know that I know [Art]
 I know and they know that I know[impression]

NOW

Video about manners
Who comes into your mind?

Using Napkins

Every day Tea Etiquettes

Dining Etiquettes

Placement and use of utensils

Main course

Salad Course

Dessert

I know BUT I need to realize
and I would In Sha Allah

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