Success....how to get it ?

How to achieve ?Dr. Dheeraj MehrotraGlobal Education Management Systems (GEMS)www.gemseducation.com

Did you know that you have the power to change your life?

Did you know that you can, right now, stop living in a life you don’t enjoy and change things so you can have a life you love?

What you resist persists. What you fear perseveres. This is something you need to understand……………because when you don’t try and make a change, and you only let what you fear rule you, it will stay around. You need to say “NO!” and you need to stop it. You need to stand up, rise up and make the change in your life.

We all need a purpose. We all need a reason to get out of bed in the morning, but many of do not even realize what our purpose is. What is your reason for being alive? Find your purpose.

Do you have a reason? Do you simply exist without any force driving you? This does not mean making money is your purpose, or getting promoted. Those are false purposes that blind us to thereal purposes in our lives. No, your purpose is something different.Your purpose is something that even if you did it for free, you would be happy to do it.

Sports athletes get paid millions of dollars to do what they do, but if they were paid nothing, they will still play.Why? The reason is because the sport is their passion. It is why it is so hard for many of them to retire. They can’t leave their passion. It is who they are.

You need to find your purpose of your life. Your purpose is why you start up in the morning and it is the foundation by which you base your entire life. Your purpose is something inside of you, a talent you have and a gift that you have that you can give to the world.

Remember, and this is very important, no one can tell you what your passion is, only youknow the answer to that. Only you know your passion and if someone tells you what your passion is, they are probably going to be wrong.

Now that you have begun to identify your passion and realize the importance of it, we can continue on.

Decisions are important. When we make a decision, we are choosing a course for our lives. There is a theory that there are universes created for every decision that is made. The decision you make puts you on a specific path and you stay on that path.Making a Decision

“There are two ways to climb an oak tree. You can climb it, or you can sit on an acorn and wait for it to grow.” It’s your decision, what will you do?

Once a decision is made, you cannot take the decision back. You can fix the consequences of the decision, but you can’t go back and not make the decision. This is why you need to be sure about your decisions.

When you make a decision, you are looking to achieve a certain result. You are trying to achieve a result and you are making a promise. Who are you making a promise to? You are making a promise to yourself to achieve a result that you hope will be favorable.

Right now, you are making a decision. You are making a decision that will change your life. Rather than be one of those people who makes a blind decision and hopes for a good outcome, you are making an informed decision to have a better life and that can only lead to a good outcome.

If you are driving down the road and you come to a crossroads without a map, you need to make a decision as to where to go. You have three choices in front of you, but only one has a good outcome. Therefore, what do you do? You have to guess. You have a one in three chance of success and a two in three chance of failure. This is what happens when you make a decision without knowing where you want to go.

Now, if you come to that same crossroads and you have a map, you can choose where you want to go based on information you have at your disposal.

This is almost guaranteed to give you a better outcome because you will make a proper decision that will lead you to a proper result.

You will know what to expect because you will have the map to guide you. You will know that you won’t run out of gashalfway down the road. You will know that you will make your destination easier because you will know the road is better.

Without knowing where you want to go, there is no way to know if you are going to be successful.

So, how are you going to make the right decision?

Stop associating yourself with mediocre people who are only a drain on you. You want people who have big ideas and can inspire you, not people who keep you down by not making progress in their own lives.

Don’t have negative people around you because they will only criticize your decisions and make you second guess them. They will undermine your confidence and you need your confidence if you are going to be able to make a change in your life.

Surround yourself with winners because winners will encourage you. They are succeeding in their own lives and they want you to succeed as well.

Think of a strategy for your decision-making and determine what it is you want to achieve.

Well, you need to know where you want to go and to have that; you need to have a vision.

Your vision is where you want to be and what you want to be. Your vision is the better life that you have been hoping for, whether it is financial, spiritual or personal.

Your vision is the result of what you want and it is a way for you to get the new and better results that you have been hoping for. Your vision is what you want your life to be like in a certain amount of time.

Well, some would say that a vision is like the creation of a child. When a child is created through conception, it starts as nothing more than a seed and it grows into something more.How is a vision created?

Like the child, there is a seed that begins the process of growth. Your vision begins the same way. You have an idea, “I want to be a writer” and from that you begin to grow the vision until it is born.

The more you think about your vision, the more it grows and the more it takes shape. Like a baby in the womb, over time it grows from being nothing more than a cell to a human being.

Your vision starts as an idea and you begin to think, “To be a writer I need to do this, and this and this.” Now you have a growing vision because you are looking at how you are going to make it happen.

Finally, your vision comes to fruition; it is born, just like a baby is. While a baby takes nine months to go from nothing to omething, your vision may only take a few weeks, or it could take a few years, it really depends completely on you.

Your brain needs to be fertile soil for your vision. If your brain is full of doubts and worries, then it is like having poison in the soil. Your vision will die before it has a chance to flower, and that is wrong.

Now, if your brain is full of confidence and thoughts of achieving your dreams, then it iscompletely different. Now your brain is fertile soil and the vision you create can growquickly and flower, changing your life and changing you as well.

How can you realize your vision then?

You need to be confident in yourself and your decision.

You need to ignore those people who tell you that you are wrong. Who knows you better than you know yourself? Why should they tell you what to do?Have a vision of what you want and then all you have to do is figure out going from Point A (now) to Point B (the vision).

Think about your vision positively all the time. Do not think it won’t happen because once doubt comes in; it will spread like bad weeds in your brains’ fertile soil.Visions are very important if you want to be successful. They are what will allow you torealize your dreams. You have to know where you are going and you have to have a visionto do that.

Without a vision, success is just a pipe dream.

It is a way of life, and to reach that vision you need goals. I prefer to think of goals as stepping stones towards a vision and that is why setting goals are so important.

There are several factors that influence our lives, including:

Our environment – This can be the environment we are in at home, and our work environment. A positive environment can mean the difference between failed goalsand achieving goals.

Where we live – If you live in an area that has a good economy, you may have higher goals than someone who lives in a poor area.

The school we attend – If you attend a good school, you will probably have a better life than if you attend a poor school.

Our friends and family – If you have a lot of support around you, it can be much easier to achieve goals than if you do not have much support around you.

Throughout all of these factors, the biggest thing that dictates success in your life and the achievement of goals is the attitude you have.

Brainstorm a list of as many goals as you can possibly think of. When you are done brainstorming, select 10 goals from the list and write out the reasons why you want to achieve those particular goals.Okay, now that you have your list done, select three goals that are the most important in your life and put those goals into point form based on the objectives you need to meet the goals.

When you wake up in the morning, you will read the goals aloud to yourself.If you work in an office, you will put the index cards up on the wall in front of you.When you go to bed that night, you will read the goals aloud to yourself and think about how close you have come so far to achieving them.Remind yourself of the goals

You can also have your goals put in your wallet so you always have them with you and can refer to them when you wonder why you are on a certain path.

Take Responsibility for Your LifeAbove all…….

One of the biggest problems people have is that they do not take responsibility for their lives. They think that the problems that exist in their life are not their fault. They think that the reason they hate their life is because of things out of their control. Nothing is out of your control and the sooner you stop blaming others for your life, the sooner you will be able to start changing your life. You have to take responsibility for your life.

Do not sit and complain about other people and be envious of what others have achieved. Beproud of who you are and choose to make the change you want in your life.

The people who are afraid to fail will sit around and hope that change comes to them, rather than making change happen.

Once you have decided what you want, you need to plan for how you are going make that change. There is planning involved and if you do not plan, you will be doomed to failure and that is something that you do not want. Failure is not an option at any point.

All right, now we are in the meat and potatoes of this! You have planned everything to the smallest detail, so let’s get you ready to put it all into actionTake Action

The most important thing here is to not delay starting your new action plan. You have to do it right away. The longer you delay, the more it is going to fade in your memory.

Self-Confidence is Vitally importantIf you are going to have any sort of success in your life, then you need to have self-confidence.Self-confidence is important and the fact that you are reading this report shows that you are looking for self-confidence, or you already have the self-confidence to find success. Either way, it is good for you.

Identify the blocks to your confidence.

Defeat the blocks to your confidence.

Unlock the blocks to your confidence and find success.A must do. . .

One of the biggest tell-tale signs of a low self-confidence is procrastination. If you procrastinate your decisions, then you will not be able to make the decisions. If you are not confident in your decisions, then this is the perfect scenario. You can get rid of low self -confidence by destroying procrastination through action.

Attitudeis everything in life. Your attitude dictates how you see the world. If you have a good attitude, you see the glass as half-full. However, if you have a bad attitude, you see the glass as half-empty. Have the Right Attitude

Attitude determines if you are an optimist or pessimist. To succeed, you need to have a good attitude because you need to be optimistic about the success that you will have in your future.

Nothing to Fear from FailureFranklin Roosevelt once said that there was nothing to fear but fear itself, and this is very true. If you have fear, which you may have as you go through the various stages of changing your life, it will hold you back. Fear and doubts will arise on a successful journey, and you cannot get rid of fear or doubt forever. There is no way to never be afraid again.

You have to believe in yourself and you have to think positive. Just like how I talked about positive attitudes, well thinking positively is just like that.Positive Thoughts and Believing In Yourself

If you only think with a second best attitude, then you will only become second-best. You have to believe that you are worth something and that you can achieve anything that you want.

Learn how to control your negative thoughts. When your mind says you can’t do something, refuse to listen to it. Don’t express your negative thoughts in words, tell your mind and say it loud that you are going to do what it takes to get the job done.

Many people procrastinatebecause they have made up their minds that they are going to fail. If you are one of these people, the most important thing you can do today is to stop believing what theprocrastination demon has been telling you.

Many of us have the following in us:Hate (for someone who has achieved more than you)

Jealousy (because someone else has more success)

Anger (at yourself for not doing anything)

Judgemental(of other people and their success) Forgiveness (for yourself and those you hated for being successful) Acceptance (of others who will achieve success) Love (for yourself and what you can achieve)You need to replace them with:

You have belief, you have self-confidence, you have a goal and you have a vision for something you are passionate about. You are ready aren’t you? Well, no, not quite. You have to be committed.Be Committed

Follow to be committed…….Quit procrastinating!Get out of your comfort zone!Do things you have never done before!

Develop and focus your skills.Improve your skills every day.Dedicate yourself to life-long learning, become a student for life. Focus On the Path Ahead

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