Man in the Mirror discusses how confidence is key to leadership and success. It explains that confidence comes from having positive self-perception, self-esteem, self-belief gained through experiences. It emphasizes believing in yourself and your dreams, and controlling your internal thoughts because what you say about yourself influences how others see you. Confidence is reflected to others through posture, voice, and interactions.

1. Man in the Mirror

2. ORIGIN OF MIRRORS
One day Narcissus saw his reflection in the water
and fell in love with it, that was the first mirror.
Men then made mirrors to get a close up look at
themselves.
Mirrors work by reflection and People are like
mirrors they only reflect back to us what we
show them.

3. Mirror Mirror on the wall
what do you see?

4. The Most written and spoken about
topics have at their center, a mirror
• Leadership • Success

5. The Highest Common Multiple
• So what is the common factor of
leaders and the ultra successful people?
• Confidence
• It is all in the Mirror.
• What do you see in yourself

6. • If you don’t see success no one will see it
in you
• If you don’t see Leadership, no one will
see it in you.
• Remember people will only reflect to us
what we show them.

7. Confidence is the Key
• For anyone to achieve anything of
significant magnitude in their
career, personal life or their
finances, they must believe
unequivocally that they have got
what it takes to achieve that goal
plan or dream.
• Every leader and successful person
exudes Confidence.

8. Elements of confidence
Self
Esteem
Self
Confidence
Self
Self Belief
Perception

9. Self Perception
Perception is the spectacles with which you
see yourself .
In essence you will project onto others
what you see in yourself,
If you see yourself as a failure, so will
others
If you see yourself as a nobody so will
others.
On the other hand if you see a Leader, a
success, a good friend, a dependable
person only then will other people see
these qualities in you.

11. YOUR INSULATION FROM A HARD WORLD
SELF ESTEEM

12. • Is feeling good about
yourself, believing that you are
awesome.
• Its about loving yourself and holding
yourself in high regard.
Self Esteem

13. Fall in love with yourself because;
1. you are perfect the way you are
2. only you will be with you to the end, you
might want to enjoy your company.

14. The Second Commandment
• Love your
neighbor as you
love yourself.
• You cant give
what you don’t
have

16. SELF BELIEFis nothing more than believing that you’ve got what it takes
Confidence

20. DREAM BIG AND BELIEVE
• Confident people tend to exhibit a Big Dreamers Complex
• They dream so big and believe in their dreams so much they
act as though it has already happened.
• Lets dream now…..

21. Your Big Hairy Audacious Goal
• Use the piece of paper given to you to dream a dream so
big that it could scare you.
• Imagine;
• - money is not a problem
• - time is not a problem
• Write it down

22. • Be not afraid only believe. Mark 5:36

23. • There is no substitute to self
belief in the building of
confidence and ultimately in the
achievement of significance in life.

24. • Your Experiences
• What people say about you (
outside programming)
• What you say about yourself
(Internal programming
Where does your self belief come from

25. YOUR EXPERIENCES
• Every experience you have been through
in life has been deposited forever in your
subconscious mind.
• If you’ve failed in the past you could
adopt a belief that you are a failure
• However those who live to their potential
have learned to turn every negative
experience into learning points

26. • If you want to increase your
chances of success, double your
rates of failure
Thomas Watson founder of IBM

27. WHAT PEOPLE SAY
we really can’t decide what people will
say about us, but we can decide if we
will believe it or not.
What people say about us is their opinion
of us not the Truth of who we are
.

28. What you say about yourself
• From the Fullness of a mans heart
the mouth speaks
• As a man thinketh in his heart, so
is he.
Jesus

29. HOW TO PROJECT CONFIDENCE
1. How you greet people
2. Your voice
3. Your posture
4. Your facial expressions
5. Your wrapping

30. summery
• Confidence is the common
denominator between
leadership and success the
things we all want to
achieve.
• People want to be with and
work with confident people
because confidence rubs on.
• Confident people never have
to belittle others to feel
better about themselves.