The primary attitude towards the marriage ceremony is not that a man and woman are getting married but two divine beings are coming together.
The groom is seen as Lord Vishnu himself and the bride is considered Goddess Lakshmi. And the rituals are performed with great respect and devotion. It is believed that the gods are witness to the marriage ceremony.
All the rituals in the marriage ceremony are meant so that we discover something within. This is our journey of self-discovery. It is said, death is known by dying. The truth is known by diving deep within us.
Esoteric and Liberating Aspect of MarriagePardeep Sehgal
The true nature of soul is transcendental wisdom, peace, contentment, unconditional love and devotion, bliss, forgiveness, inactivity, carefree, compassion, forbearance, discriminative, love and longing for union with the Creator, but we have forgotten it.
All the Scriptures and the Saints advocate marriage as a safe bet for self-realization. A marriage should be on the foundation of Dharma and the other three purposes should be worked towards having Dharma as the base.
Marriage becomes liberating when both husband and wife have a common objective of going within.
A Monthly E-Magazine from the Bhaktivedanta Vidyapitha with Illuminating Perspectives on the Srimad-Bhagavatam
CONTENTS -
1. Pray to Lord Narsimha-deva
2. Selfless and Seamless devotion
3. Quiz Corner
4. Verse of the Month
5. Bhagavata Pravaha
6. Analogy Arena
7. Pari-prasna
Esoteric and Liberating Aspect of MarriagePardeep Sehgal
The true nature of soul is transcendental wisdom, peace, contentment, unconditional love and devotion, bliss, forgiveness, inactivity, carefree, compassion, forbearance, discriminative, love and longing for union with the Creator, but we have forgotten it.
All the Scriptures and the Saints advocate marriage as a safe bet for self-realization. A marriage should be on the foundation of Dharma and the other three purposes should be worked towards having Dharma as the base.
Marriage becomes liberating when both husband and wife have a common objective of going within.
A Monthly E-Magazine from the Bhaktivedanta Vidyapitha with Illuminating Perspectives on the Srimad-Bhagavatam
CONTENTS -
1. Pray to Lord Narsimha-deva
2. Selfless and Seamless devotion
3. Quiz Corner
4. Verse of the Month
5. Bhagavata Pravaha
6. Analogy Arena
7. Pari-prasna
A Monthly E-Magazine from the Bhaktivedanta Vidyapitha with Illuminating Perspectives on the Srimad-Bhagavatam
June 2019 | Issue 24
THE DIVINE ORDER
CONTENTS -
Bhakti from Childhood
The Divine Order
Verse of the Month
Quiz Corner
Bhagavata Pravaha
Analogy Arena
Pari-prasna
Playlist of the whole course "Philosophy of Self-realization" you can watch on YouTube in the playlist https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL_8pA-mTWL8XqTYg8V25cLYPybasbrNHr
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An overview of Lord Caitanya's 61 explanations of the atmarama verse in Sri Caitanya Caritamrta (Madhya Chapter 24).
The atmarama verse is from Srimad Bhagavam 1.7.10:
ātmārāmāś ca munayo
nirgranthā apy urukrame
kurvanty ahaitukīṁ bhaktim
ittham-bhūta-guṇo hariḥ
"Those who are self-satisfied and unattracted by external material desires are also attracted to the loving service of Śrī Krsna, whose qualities are transcendental and whose activities are wonderful. Hari, the Personality of Godhead, is called Krsna because He has such transcendentally attractive features."
Sufism is religious - philosophical study which appeared in 8th century in Arabia and Iran representing a complex, contradictory heterogeneous phenomenon, deprived complete structure. Sufism studies a man, his attitude to the world, God, his inside being. Sufism is the study of “the inner world” of a man; cognition the quality of the state of spirit; study of interrelation of sense and perception; it is the study of spiritual attitude of man to his world.
Playlist of the whole course "Philosophy of Self-realization" you can watch on YouTube in the playlist https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL_8pA-mTWL8XqTYg8V25cLYPybasbrNHr
Thank you
Basic Spiritual Primer 8 (Inward Contemplation of Reality)Pardeep Sehgal
We always think in terms of something. That something is what we call life, or at least an aspect of life. We never see at any time our own mind contemplating its own self. The inward contemplation of Universal Reality is the theme of this Primer.
Krishna Voice is an English monthly newsletter published by ISKCON Bangalore. One of the objectives of our temple is to increase Krishna Consciousness in the community. Through this newsletter, we want to promulgate the message of the Vedic scriptures like Bhagavad-gita and Srimad-Bhagavatam.
Human body is the battlefield where this perpetual inner war is going on between the gods representing the spiritual or restraining forces and the demons representing the material bound natural inclinations. The seeker of Truth has to win this war if he has to regain his unity with the Universal Reality.
The true nature of soul is transcendental wisdom, peace, contentment, unconditional love and devotion, bliss, forgiveness, inactivity, carefree, compassion, forbearance, discriminative, love and longing for union with the Creator, but we have forgotten it.
All the Scriptures and the Saints advocate marriage as a safe bet for self-realization. A marriage should be on the foundation of Dharma and the other three purposes of Artha, Kama, and Moksha should be worked towards having Dharma as the base.
Realization of self is true Dharma. Acquisition of Real Knowledge is true Artha. Intense longing and love for God is true Kama and ultimate merger with God by annihilating Ego is true Moksha.
Marriage becomes liberating when both husband and wife have a common objective of going within to realize self, Self and God.
A Monthly E-Magazine from the Bhaktivedanta Vidyapitha with Illuminating Perspectives on the Srimad-Bhagavatam
June 2019 | Issue 24
THE DIVINE ORDER
CONTENTS -
Bhakti from Childhood
The Divine Order
Verse of the Month
Quiz Corner
Bhagavata Pravaha
Analogy Arena
Pari-prasna
Playlist of the whole course "Philosophy of Self-realization" you can watch on YouTube in the playlist https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL_8pA-mTWL8XqTYg8V25cLYPybasbrNHr
Thank you
An overview of Lord Caitanya's 61 explanations of the atmarama verse in Sri Caitanya Caritamrta (Madhya Chapter 24).
The atmarama verse is from Srimad Bhagavam 1.7.10:
ātmārāmāś ca munayo
nirgranthā apy urukrame
kurvanty ahaitukīṁ bhaktim
ittham-bhūta-guṇo hariḥ
"Those who are self-satisfied and unattracted by external material desires are also attracted to the loving service of Śrī Krsna, whose qualities are transcendental and whose activities are wonderful. Hari, the Personality of Godhead, is called Krsna because He has such transcendentally attractive features."
Sufism is religious - philosophical study which appeared in 8th century in Arabia and Iran representing a complex, contradictory heterogeneous phenomenon, deprived complete structure. Sufism studies a man, his attitude to the world, God, his inside being. Sufism is the study of “the inner world” of a man; cognition the quality of the state of spirit; study of interrelation of sense and perception; it is the study of spiritual attitude of man to his world.
Playlist of the whole course "Philosophy of Self-realization" you can watch on YouTube in the playlist https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL_8pA-mTWL8XqTYg8V25cLYPybasbrNHr
Thank you
Basic Spiritual Primer 8 (Inward Contemplation of Reality)Pardeep Sehgal
We always think in terms of something. That something is what we call life, or at least an aspect of life. We never see at any time our own mind contemplating its own self. The inward contemplation of Universal Reality is the theme of this Primer.
Krishna Voice is an English monthly newsletter published by ISKCON Bangalore. One of the objectives of our temple is to increase Krishna Consciousness in the community. Through this newsletter, we want to promulgate the message of the Vedic scriptures like Bhagavad-gita and Srimad-Bhagavatam.
Human body is the battlefield where this perpetual inner war is going on between the gods representing the spiritual or restraining forces and the demons representing the material bound natural inclinations. The seeker of Truth has to win this war if he has to regain his unity with the Universal Reality.
The true nature of soul is transcendental wisdom, peace, contentment, unconditional love and devotion, bliss, forgiveness, inactivity, carefree, compassion, forbearance, discriminative, love and longing for union with the Creator, but we have forgotten it.
All the Scriptures and the Saints advocate marriage as a safe bet for self-realization. A marriage should be on the foundation of Dharma and the other three purposes of Artha, Kama, and Moksha should be worked towards having Dharma as the base.
Realization of self is true Dharma. Acquisition of Real Knowledge is true Artha. Intense longing and love for God is true Kama and ultimate merger with God by annihilating Ego is true Moksha.
Marriage becomes liberating when both husband and wife have a common objective of going within to realize self, Self and God.
The most compelling spiritual treatise to my mind is Samayasara, the essence of Religion by Acharya Kunda Kunda. A profile of this book is presented here. Comments and suggestions are solicited.
"Om Namo Bhagavata Rudraya” – the chant that energizes the ambiance of the Rudra Abhishek Puja. The literal meaning of the chant is, “I bow down to Lord Rudra.” A simple mantra to fulfill all your desires and attain your ultimate goal of liberation or “Moksha”. That’s right. Adi Shankaracharya has mentioned that Shri Rudram is the one who can help you attain the acmes of both the material world and the spiritual realm.
Marriage ‘Vivah’ is one of the sixteen Samskaras in Hinduism. Samskara means that which purifies. In ancient times they considered marriage as purifying.
Purifying a man and a woman so that they can individually evolve to their best through each other.
The ritual, the process of the marriage ceremony can be purifying if one knows what it really means.
This will help those seekers who seek the highest truth by giving them a vision of how we can be free from our concepts and see divinity within and in the world and realize what great wisdom has been left behind for us by the great Rishis and Masters.
Learn the basics of Bhakti Yoga and begin your practice with confidence and understanding. Learn about Krsna, Radha, mantra meditation and more from brief presentation on Bhakti Yoga.
Indian J Psychiatry 55 Indian Mental Concepts I – Supplement,.docxannettsparrow
Indian J Psychiatry 55: Indian Mental Concepts I – Supplement, January 2013 S243
in this world; those who have wives truly have a family life;
those who have wives can be happy; those who have wives
can have a full life.”[2] For a Hindu marriage is essential, not
only for begetting a son in order to discharge his debt to the
ancestors, but also for performance of other religious and
spiritual duties. The institution of marriage is considered
sacred even by those who view it as a civil contract.
Wife is the ardhangini (half of man) according to Satpatha
Brahmana “The wife is verily the half of the husband. Man
is only half, not complete until he marries.” The Taittiriya
Samhita is to the same effect. Manu declared that mutual
fidelity between husband and wife was the highest dharma.
According to Mahabharata, by cherishing the woman one
virtually cherishes the Goddess of prosperity herself. Wife
under Hindu law is not only a “grahpatni,” but also a “dharma
patni” and “shadharmini.” The wife is her husband’s best
of friends. She is the source of Dharma, Artha, Kama, and
Moksha. The husband is known as bharthi. He is supposed
to support his wife. He is also known as pati because he is
supposed to support her.
INTRODUCTION
Since time immemorial marriage has been the greatest
and most important of all institutions in human society. It
has always existed in one form or another in every culture,
ensuring social sanction to a physical union between man
and woman and laying the foundation for building up of the
family – the basic unit of society.[1]
MARRIAGE AND HINDUISM
The Hindus have idealized marriage in a big way. In the
patriarchal society of Rig Vedic Hindus, marriage was
considered as a sacramental union, and this continued to be so
during the entire period. In the Shastric Hindu law,[2] marriage
has been regarded as one of the essential sanakaras (sacrament
for every Hindu). Every Hindu must marry. “To be mothers
were woman created and to be fathers men.” The Veda ordains
that “Dharma must be practiced by man together with his wife
and offspring”. “He is only perfect who consists of his wife and
offspring.” “Those who have wives can fulfill their obligations
Hinduism, marriage and mental illness
Indira Sharma, Balram Pandit, Abhishek Pathak, Reet Sharma1
Departments of Psychiatry, and 1Physiology, Institute of Medical Sciences, Banras Hindu University, Varanasi, India
Address for correspondence: Prof. Indira Sharma,
Department of Psychiatry, Institute of Medical Sciences,
Banras Hindu University, Varanasi ‑ 221 005, India.
E‑mail: indira_06 @ rediffmail.com
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For Hindus, marriage is a sacrosanct union. It is also an important social institution. Marriages in India are between
two families, rather two individuals, arranged marriages and dowry are customary. The society as well as the I.
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Over the course of life, many people become puzzled by circumstances beyond their control – both their own and those of others. While investigating the principle of karma, one may still be left asking, “Why do bad things happen to good people?”
In the book “The Science of Karma”, Gnani Purush (embodiment of Self knowledge) Dada Bhagwan explains a precise definition of karma, and how exactly it works according to spiritual science.
Dadashri offers in-depth answers to questions such as: “What is the law of karma, and how can I master it?”, “What is destiny, and does destiny relate to karma?”, “Can spiritual enlightenment liberate one from karma?”
Dadashri explains that the knowledge of Self is the beginning of true spiritual development. From then, along with understanding the law of karma, one learns to remain with inner peace in daily problems of life.
For those wondering how to live in peace in the midst of life’s challenges, this book is precious.
Grihasta is a man who is in tune with his real self, who works within the frame work of Grihasta Dharma, then, his life becomes Grihastashrama. When his evolution within compliments outside living, then it becomes Grihastashrama.
A Grihasta is a Karma yogi, for whom Lord Krishna while explaining the nature of right action, has advocated a path of Spiritual Action by performing all works as oblations (Yajna). Yajna is any selfless act or sacrifice offered solely to God. It is the religious rite in which the soul offers itself in the Fire of Spirit.
It is said that Grihastashrama is the best of all ashrams because it is the one that feeds the other ashrams.
Ignorance is the spring of misery. Through ignorance one suffers afflictions and incurs great danger. Ignorance has its origin in covetousness. As covetousness grows, ignorance also grows. Ignorance exists there where covetousness exists.
Current COVID virus is a direct attack on the vital Link necessary for transfer of Energy to Form. Our willful engagement in the Greed-Deceit group of negative attributes at Shanks has given birth to this virus.
Life is going to be different post Corona. It is a message to the entire world that we must limit performance of our activity which is based on the Greed-Deceit group of negative attributes.
Disclaimer: This is the opinion of the writer. All are welcome to make further studies in this direction.
Brother, there are three evils most formidable of all: lust, anger and greed. The weapons of greed are desire and hypocrisy, of lust naught but woman; while anger’s weapon is harsh speech: so declare the great sages after deep thought. Woman is God's wonderful creation but to lust after her is not desirable.
Ansuya to Sita on Wifely Virtues from the Epic 'Ramayana' by Tulsi Das Ji. • The woman who deceives her husband and loves a paramour is cast for a hundred cycles into the worst hell known as Raurava. Who is as depraved as the woman who for the sake of a moment’s pleasure reckons not the torment that shall endure for a thousand million births?
Lord Mahadev - Uma discourse on Women's Duties from the Epic 'Mahabharata'. Uma concludes: 'Maheshwara, I do not desire Heaven itself if thou art not satisfied with me'.
No man even in anger, should do anything that is disagreeable to his wife, seeing that happiness, joy and virtue, - everything depends on the wife. A wonderful discourse from the Epic 'Mahabharata'.
Due to their natural disposition women cannot be regarded as offenders. It is the men who should be stained with guilt of any wrongdoing to women. A wonderful discourse from the Epic 'Mahabharata'.
Celibacy 4 - Right Company and Firm DecisionPardeep Sehgal
The sexual impulse has been there for countless lives, and you never know when it will rise again. Therefore, it is important to remain in the right company. If you go out of right company, because of the existing impulse, sexuality will start to sprout all over again.
What is nischaya (determined decision)? Nischaya means, no matter how powerful an army of worldly difficulties arises with attacks, you would not back off.
What is nischaya? It is to stop all other thoughts and come onto only one thought. If you make a firm decision, all the evidences will come together and make it happen. If your decision is not firm then the evidences will not come together and your goal will not be accomplished.
True understanding is one that produces results. All other understanding is unfruitful.
Mind, intellect, chit and ego should remain in brahmacharya. And if mind, intellect, chit and ego turn towards brahmacharya, then the external sexuality will shed off automatically.
The illusion of sex is such that it will sink all, even the one who thinks that he has no attachment to anything in the world. This illusion of sex has sunk great sages and masters from tremendous spiritual heights.
Celibacy 2 - Means of Attaining BrahamacharyaPardeep Sehgal
In sexuality, the more a person enjoys it, the more he has a burning desire for it. By not getting involved in the sexual act, one may become uneasy and unsettled for a month or two. But it is not possible for a person enjoying sex to get rid of the desire for it.
In case of excessive intake of ice cream the vomiting is the inhibitor and the act was from outside. But in case of sex the motivation for act is from within. Sex is in the mind and it derives its power from Ignorance (Illusion, Maya) whose charge does not diminish. Repeated indulgence in sex does not appease one’s hunger for its enjoyment.
The research of the scriptures done by people in our country, has led to the discovery that the path of brahmacharya is the best inhibitor to control the desire of sex pleasure.
Celibacy 1 - The Detailed Analysis of SexualityPardeep Sehgal
Brahmacharya means control of the Veerya. The vital force or Veerya is preserved only by one who is established in the practice of Brahmacharya. The vital fluid or semen is lost and wasted during sexual indulgence.
From food comes juice or chyle; from chyle comes blood and flesh; from flesh comes fat; from fat comes bones; from bones come marrow. Lastly, from marrow comes semen.
The Veerya comes out of the very marrow concealed in the bones. It is found in a subtle state in all the cells of the body. Mark here how precious the semen is! It is the last essence of food. It is the essence of essences.
In Yoga Shastra it is stated: "The falling of semen brings death; the preservation of it gives life." 'The nemesis of reproduction is death. The sexual act is essentially katabolic (or a movement towards death) in the male, and in parturition of the offspring it is katabolic for the female.'
"The future is for the nations who are chaste". Tom Mann
Listen! Rama, I am now telling you the secret of accomplishment. Of all the requisites for wisdom, Divine Grace is the most important. He who has entirely surrendered himself to the Goddess (Pure Consciousness by devotion through a true Guru) is sure to gain wisdom readily. Rama! This is the best of all the methods.
This method does not require other aids to reinforce its efficiency, as other methods do for accomplishing the end. This is hard for those whose minds are directed outward; and it is easy, sure and quick for devotees engrossed in the Goddess of the Self to the exclusion of all else.
My concrete form is the eternal couple - the Supreme Lord and Energy - always in undivided union and abiding as the eternal consciousness pervading the three phenomenal states of waking, dream and sleep, and reclining on the cot whose four legs are Brahma (the Creator), Vishnu (the Protector), Siva (the Destroyer) and Isvara (Disappearance) and whose surface is Sadasiva (Grace) which is contained in the mansion known as 'fulfilment of purpose' enclosed by the garden of 'Kadamba' trees in the jewel island situated in the wide ocean of nectar surrounding the cosmos and extending beyond.
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Brahma, Vishnu, Siva, Isvara, Sadasiva, Ganesa, Skanda, the gods of the eight quarters, their energies, other gods, celestials, serpents and other superhuman beings are all manifestations of myself. However, people do not know ME because their intellect is shrouded in ignorance.
I grant boons to those who worship ME. There is no one besides ME worthy of worship or capable of fulfilling all desires.
ADS6 - Different States of the Wise (Jnanis)Pardeep Sehgal
What kind of effort can avail to disclose the eternally self-resplendent consciousness?
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• Being coated with a thick crust of infinite vasanas (dispositions), it is not easily perceived.
• The incrustation must first be soaked in the running stream of mind control and carefully scraped off with the sharp chisel of investigation.
• Then one must turn the closed urn of crystal quartz - namely, the mind cleaned in the aforesaid manner - on the grinding wheel of alertness and finally open the lid with the lever of discrimination.
• Lo! The gem enclosed within is now reached and that is all!
Intellects are the cumulative effects of the predispositions acquired by karma. Effort is necessary so long as the predispositions continue to sway the intellect
Diversity is visible only in space, and this space is in the Self, which in turn projects it at the moment when differentiation starts although it is not then clear. Rama! Look within.
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• What you perceive as space within is the expanse wherein all creatures exist, and it forms their ‘Self’ or consciousness.
• What they look upon as space is your ‘Self’.
• Thus, the ‘Self’ in one is space in another, and vice versa.
• The same thing cannot differ in its nature.
• Therefore there is no difference between space and ‘Self’ - which is full and perfect Bliss-Consciousness.
The strongest fetter is the certainty that one is bound. It is as false as the fearful hallucinations of a frightened child. Even the best of men cannot find release by any amount of efforts unless his sense of bondage is destroyed.
An aspirant for wisdom first turns away from the pleasures of life and absorbs himself in the search for knowledge, which he learns from a master. This is hearsay knowledge.
In order to experience it, he ponders over it and clears his doubts. Then he applies the knowledge to himself and tries to feel his immortal being transcending the body, mind, etc., he succeeds in feeling his Self within.
Later he remembers the teaching imparted by his Guru that the Self being unqualified, cannot be differentiated from God and experiences his unity with the Universal Self. This is in short the course of wisdom and liberation.
If you infer its eternal light, then closely investigate whether the light is of itself or not. Everybody fails in this investigation however learned and proficient he may be, because his mind is not bent inward but restlessly moves outward.
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• As long as thoughts crop up, so long has the turning inward of the mind not been accomplished.
• As long as the mind is not inward, so long the Self cannot be realised.
• Turning inward means absence of desire.
• How can the mind be fixed within if desires are not given up?
Therefore become dispassionate and inhere as the Self. Such inherence is spontaneous (no effort is needed to inhere as the Self). It is realised after thoughts are eliminated and investigation ceases.
ADS2 - Cosmic Intelligence and Reality of the UniversePardeep Sehgal
All that is seen has an origin and there must therefore be an antecedent cause for it.
If a thing can appear without a cause there is no relation between cause and effect, and there can be no harmony in the world. A potter's work may lead to a weaver's products, and vice versa, which is absurd. Each occurrence must have a cause for it; that is the rule.
The universe must have a Creator, and He must be an intelligent principle, but He cannot be of any known type because of the vastness of the creation. His power is past understanding and is dealt with in the Scriptures, whose authority is incontrovertible.
This whole universe consisting of the mobile and the immobile, arises from, abides in, and resolves into Him. This is the final and well-known conclusion of the Scriptures; and the Scriptures never err. The guide by which one can apprehend the metaphysical and transcendental matters is Scripture alone.
ADS1 - The Story of Hemalekha and HemachudaPardeep Sehgal
Investigation is the root-cause of all, and it is the first step to the supreme reward of indescribable bliss. How can anyone gain security without proper investigation? A deliberating man always shines over others. Brahma is great because of deliberation; Vishnu is worshipped because of it.
Association with the Wise Must Precede "Vichara" – Deliberation – Self-Enquiry. A man undoubtedly reaps the fruits of his company. I shall relate to you a story to illustrate this:
"There was once a king of Dasarna by name Muktachuda. He had two sons: Hemachuda and Manichuda. They were comely, well-behaved and well-learned. At one time they led a hunting party, consisting of a great retinue of men and warriors, into a deep forest which was infested with tigers, lions and other wild animals…
Fie on human beings who appraise the foulest part of the body as the most delightful. If one should see beauty in that body-part which is wet with impure excretions, where will not man see beauty? Tell me!
2 Peter 3: Because some scriptures are hard to understand and some will force them to say things God never intended, Peter warns us to take care.
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Discover various methods for clearing negative entities from your space and spirit, including energy clearing techniques, spiritual rituals, and professional assistance. Gain practical knowledge on how to implement these techniques to restore peace and harmony. For more information visit here: https://www.reikihealingdistance.com/negative-entity-removal/
In Jude 17-23 Jude shifts from piling up examples of false teachers from the Old Testament to a series of practical exhortations that flow from apostolic instruction. He preserves for us what may well have been part of the apostolic catechism for the first generation of Christ-followers. In these instructions Jude exhorts the believer to deal with 3 different groups of people: scoffers who are "devoid of the Spirit", believers who have come under the influence of scoffers and believers who are so entrenched in false teaching that they need rescue and pose some real spiritual risk for the rescuer. In all of this Jude emphasizes Jesus' call to rescue straying sheep, leaving the 99 safely behind and pursuing the 1.
Exploring the Mindfulness Understanding Its Benefits.pptxMartaLoveguard
Slide 1: Title: Exploring the Mindfulness: Understanding Its Benefits
Slide 2: Introduction to Mindfulness
Mindfulness, defined as the conscious, non-judgmental observation of the present moment, has deep roots in Buddhist meditation practice but has gained significant popularity in the Western world in recent years. In today's society, filled with distractions and constant stimuli, mindfulness offers a valuable tool for regaining inner peace and reconnecting with our true selves. By cultivating mindfulness, we can develop a heightened awareness of our thoughts, feelings, and surroundings, leading to a greater sense of clarity and presence in our daily lives.
Slide 3: Benefits of Mindfulness for Mental Well-being
Practicing mindfulness can help reduce stress and anxiety levels, improving overall quality of life.
Mindfulness increases awareness of our emotions and teaches us to manage them better, leading to improved mood.
Regular mindfulness practice can improve our ability to concentrate and focus our attention on the present moment.
Slide 4: Benefits of Mindfulness for Physical Health
Research has shown that practicing mindfulness can contribute to lowering blood pressure, which is beneficial for heart health.
Regular meditation and mindfulness practice can strengthen the immune system, aiding the body in fighting infections.
Mindfulness may help reduce the risk of chronic diseases such as type 2 diabetes and obesity by reducing stress and improving overall lifestyle habits.
Slide 5: Impact of Mindfulness on Relationships
Mindfulness can help us better understand others and improve communication, leading to healthier relationships.
By focusing on the present moment and being fully attentive, mindfulness helps build stronger and more authentic connections with others.
Mindfulness teaches us how to be present for others in difficult times, leading to increased compassion and understanding.
Slide 6: Mindfulness Techniques and Practices
Focusing on the breath and mindful breathing can be a simple way to enter a state of mindfulness.
Body scan meditation involves focusing on different parts of the body, paying attention to any sensations and feelings.
Practicing mindful walking and eating involves consciously focusing on each step or bite, with full attention to sensory experiences.
Slide 7: Incorporating Mindfulness into Daily Life
You can practice mindfulness in everyday activities such as washing dishes or taking a walk in the park.
Adding mindfulness practice to daily routines can help increase awareness and presence.
Mindfulness helps us become more aware of our needs and better manage our time, leading to balance and harmony in life.
Slide 8: Summary: Embracing Mindfulness for Full Living
Mindfulness can bring numerous benefits for physical and mental health.
Regular mindfulness practice can help achieve a fuller and more satisfying life.
Mindfulness has the power to change our perspective and way of perceiving the world, leading to deeper se
The Hope of Salvation - Jude 1:24-25 - MessageCole Hartman
Jude gives us hope at the end of a dark letter. In a dark world like today, we need the light of Christ to shine brighter and brighter. Jude shows us where to fix our focus so we can be filled with God's goodness and glory. Join us to explore this incredible passage.
Why is this So? ~ Do Seek to KNOW (English & Chinese).pptxOH TEIK BIN
A PowerPoint Presentation based on the Dhamma teaching of Kamma-Vipaka (Intentional Actions-Ripening Effects).
A Presentation for developing morality, concentration and wisdom and to spur us to practice the Dhamma diligently.
The texts are in English and Chinese.
A375 Example Taste the taste of the Lord, the taste of the Lord The taste of...franktsao4
It seems that current missionary work requires spending a lot of money, preparing a lot of materials, and traveling to far away places, so that it feels like missionary work. But what was the result they brought back? It's just a lot of photos of activities, fun eating, drinking and some playing games. And then we have to do the same thing next year, never ending. The church once mentioned that a certain missionary would go to the field where she used to work before the end of his life. It seemed that if she had not gone, no one would be willing to go. The reason why these missionary work is so difficult is that no one obeys God’s words, and the Bible is not the main content during missionary work, because in the eyes of those who do not obey God’s words, the Bible is just words and cannot be connected with life, so Reading out God's words is boring because it doesn't have any life experience, so it cannot be connected with human life. I will give a few examples in the hope that this situation can be changed. A375
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(The primary attitude towards the marriage ceremony is not that a
man and woman are getting married but two divine beings are coming
together.)
धन िप एिह न आखीअिन बहिन इकठे होइ ॥
एक जोित दुइ मूरती धन िप कहीऐ सोइ ॥३॥
(Adi Granth, Raag Suhi M3, Page 788: 11)
They are not to be called husband and wife
who only sit together; rather they are husband
and wife who have one spirit in two bodies.
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Hindu Marriage Ceremony
Process and Spiritual Meaning
We shall now try to understand the meaning of some of the rituals
performed in the Hindu marriage ceremony:
• These rituals like the stories are sign boards that point towards the
higher. Now, the rituals vary from place to place so we have just
taken a few important rituals.
• These rituals were formed bearing in mind the truth about marriage
and that the bride and groom meaningfully perform it bearing in
mind its purpose.
• The primary attitude towards the marriage ceremony is not that a
man and woman are getting married but two divine beings are
coming together.
• The groom was seen as Lord Vishnu himself and the bride was
considered Goddess Lakshmi. And the rituals were performed with
great respect and devotion.
• It was believed that the gods were witness to the marriage ceremony.
Hindu Marriage Ceremony
The most important element of any Hindu ceremony is Agni (Fire):
• Agni is considered the purest. It symbolizes the supreme lord. All
the other elements can be polluted but not fire.
• Agni also represents wisdom, that which burns ignorance. Hence,
Agni as the witness, meaning the lord as the witness, they start the
ritual. The Agni in a marriage ceremony is called ‘Yojaka Agni’.
Yojaka means unite. It means to say that the man and the woman
will be united by the grace of the lord.
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Below is a brief discussion of some of the main rituals:
Kanyadaan
Kanyadaan is performed on the main day function of the wedding. It is
performed by the father of the bride, wherein he entrusts his daughter
to the groom. In the absence of the father, Kanyadaan is performed by
an elderly relative or member of the family.
This way the father gives her, the daughter, as a gift to the groom. As
per tradition, groom is considered a form of Lord Vishnu, whereas the
girl represents the goddess of wealth Lakshmi. The parents offer their
daughter to the groom, who is their most cherished gift.
In the general practice of charity or giving a gift one loses what he has.
But in Kanyadaan the parents do not lose their daughter but gain a son
and along with him his family members.
Arundhati Nakshatra Darshana
Rishi Vashishtha and Arundhati were an ideal couple. Arundhati was
a ‘Pativartha’ and to advice the new bride to live a life of a ‘Pativartha’
is the purpose of Arundhati Nakshatra Darshana.
Let us try to understand what Pativartha means. It just doesn’t mean
being loyal to the husband and taking care of him. Seeing the lord
himself in the husband and serving him with the intention of serving
the lord is a real Pativartha.
Arundhati, wife of Sage Vashishtha, one of the seven sages
(Saptarishis), is famous for her chastity, piety and single-minded
devotion for her husband. Due to her devoutness and faithfulness, she
became a star in the sky known as Arundhati Nakshatra. The epic
‘Mahabharata’ mentions that there is no one as devout and faithful as
Arundhati.
Agni, the god of fire, lusts for union with the wives of the Saptarishis.
But it is undoable for him to fulfil this desire. His wife Svaha, therefore
impersonates the wives of the rishis and makes love with Agni in their
form or ‘rupas’. But it is impossible for her to impersonate Arundhati,
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the wife of Vashishtha. Her loyalty towards her husband is so strong
that no other man can even think otherwise of her.
It is this remarkable loyalty and love towards her husband that
makes her an ideal to be followed for the newly-weds. And there is
no moment better than the marriage time to impact the idea of un-
wavered faith, loyalty, love and devotion in the minds of newly-weds.
Astronomically, Arundhati (Alcor) is one of the double stars. It is
comparatively dimmer and attached to the star Vashishtha (Mizar), one
of the members of the seven bright stars (Saptarishis), lying in second
position from the tail end, as seen in the Big Dipper constellation (Ursa
Major).
Located in the handle of the Big Dipper, Mizar (brighter) and Alcor (fainter) are one of the most
famous visual double stars in the sky.
There is an interesting bit of information about this particular pair.
Mostly a binary star system has a Primary star and a Secondary star,
with the latter revolving around the former.
But this particular binary star system is the first ever known pair of stars
that orbit each other, implying that a husband and wife should be like
Vashishtha and Arundhati – an ideal couple. No one is supposed to go
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around the other. Both the husband and wife have to move together to
have a good family life.
Small things like these, which our ancestors have kept in our rituals,
actually show how forward they were in their thinking. Right from time
immemorial, we have been taught that both the man and the wife have
EQUAL importance and responsibility in the family.
Mizar and Alcor appear so closely linked in our sky’s dome that they’re
often said to be a test of eyesight. But in fact even people with less than
perfect eyesight can see the two stars, especially if they’re looking in a
dark clear sky. This pair of stars in the Big Dipper’s handle is famously
called “the horse and rider.”
Mizar is perhaps the Big Dipper’s most famous star, glorified in the
annals of astronomy many times over. Apart from Alcor, Mizar in itself
became known a double star in 1650. In fact, it was the first double star
to be seen through a telescope.
Thus Mizar and Alcor not only test eyesight, but the limits of our
technological vision as well.
Another belief is that those people who are nearing their death cannot
witness Arundhati Nakshatra. It is also believed that if a person is able
to witness the Nakshatra then death will not approach him for next six
months.
Tying the Mangal Sutra
Mangal means auspicious, sutra means knot. This is the process of tying
the holy thread around the bride’s neck with three knots.
The Shloka goes:
Mangalyam Tantunanena mama jeevana hetuna
Khante badname Shubhage tvam jeeva sharadamshatam
This is a sacred thread essential for my life, I tie this around your neck
for my life’s purpose, O auspicious maiden, and may you live happily
for a hundred years.
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The purpose of the union is for realizing the ‘self’, and wishing
hundred years is wishing immortality. The ‘self’ has no birth and death,
and when one is liberated he becomes immortal realizing he is only
pure consciousness, pure awareness.
The groom ties the holy thread as a symbol of their union in Karmana
(action), Vaacha (speech) and Mansa (mind), that is why the three knots:
• To say that in action they will be one, they will be on the path of
Dharma.
• In speech they will be one, they will speak the truth and about the
truth.
• And finally in mind they will be one, they both have the same goal,
the same Supreme Lord to reach.
Saptapadi
All these rituals are meant so that we discover something within. This
is our journey of self-discovery. It is said, death is known by dying. The
truth is known by diving deep within us.
But how do we dive within? How do we find the truth within? There
are two paths as Krishna says in the Gita:
ŵी भगवान उवाच
लोके İ˝न िȪिवधा िनʿा पुरा Ůोƅा मया अनघ ।
ǒानयोगेन संƥानं कमŊयोगेन योिगनं ।।
(Gita Chapter III, Verse 3)
The Blessed Lord said: O sinless one, at the onset of creation, a twofold
way of salvation was given by me to this world: for the wise, divine
union through wisdom; for the yogis, divine union through active
meditation.
Commonly interpreted, Jnana Yoga is the way of knowledge and
discrimination; Karma Yoga, the way of right action – spiritual and
meditative. The way of discrimination is for the rare, keen-eyed wise
man; for all others, the path of activity and meditation combined.
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Ultimate knowledge of God is the goal of human freedom, but this final
all-satisfying lore cannot be attained without having practiced the right
method of meditation. Scriptural knowledge is gainful only when it
produces the desire to demonstrate in one’s own life the validity of the
spiritual precepts.
God-wisdom is not attained by such religious activities as trying to save
others’ souls without having first achieved one’s own salvation. No
devotee should be satisfied with untested beliefs and dogmas, but
should engage himself in practical efforts to attain God-realization.
Saptapadi is actually a Sadhana. The term sadhana means spiritual
exertion towards an intended goal. Dhana means wealth and sadhana
means spiritual wealth. Purpose of sadhana is to earn seven spiritual
wealth as follows:
1. Sama
To restrain the mind from wandering towards sense objects is Sama.
Sama consists in not allowing the mind to externalize.
2. Dama
The sense organs are directed outwards, toward the sense objects; so
they naturally seek out sense objects. Diverting the sense organs and
organs of action away from the sense objects is Dama. Dama is
complimentary to Sama in that, success in Dama enhances Sama.
3. Uparati
It consists in not thinking of things of the senses. Most of our time is
spent in thinking about sense-objects, things which we have seen or we
have heard, which we shall see or shall hear, things which we have
eaten or are eating or shall eat, places where we have lived and so on.
We think of them or talk of them most of our time.
One who wishes to go within should develop uplifting thoughts and
intense desire for the highest reality.
4. Titiksha
It is the ideal forbearance. Forbearance of all misery, without even a
thought of resisting or driving it out, without even any painful feeling
in the mind or any remorse – this is Titiksha.
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Cultivating the ability to tolerate the dualities of life; like heat and cold,
pain and pleasure, profit and loss, friend and foe, honour and disgrace
etc. is Titiksha. These dualities are a part of life. Spiritual discipline
becomes impossible by being agitated by these dualities.
5. Shraddha
The next qualification required is Shraddha, faith. One must have
tremendous faith in God. Until he has it, he cannot aspire to be a Jnani.
The Lord cannot be understood by inference or any physical or mental
effort. The Lord has to be understood only through faith. In the words
of Swami Vivekananda:
“A great sage once told me that not one in twenty millions in this world
believe in God. I asked him why, and he told me, “Suppose there is a
thief in this room, and he gets to know that there is a mass of gold in
the next room, and only a very thin partition between the two rooms;
what will be the condition of the thief?
“I answered, “He will not be able to sleep at all; his brain will be
actively thinking of some means of getting at the gold, and he will think
of nothing else.
“Then he replied, “Do you believe that a man could believe in God and
not go mad to get Him? If a man sincerely believes that there is that
immense, infinite mine of Bliss and that it can be reached, would not
that man go mad in his struggles to reach it?”
Strong faith in God and the consequent eagerness to reach Him
constitutes Shraddha.
6. Samadhana
Then comes Samadhana or constant practice to hold the mind in God.
The mind can be conquered only by slow and steady practice. Seating
the mind firmly in the Lord is Samadhana. Samadhana is great patience.
One who is patient is always victorious.
7. Mumukshutva
Mumukshutva is the intense desire to be free. All the misery we have is
of our own choosing; such is our nature:
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• We run headlong after all sorts of misery, and are unwilling to be
freed from them. Every day we run after pleasure and before we
reach it, we find it is gone; it has slipped through our fingers.
• Still we do not cease from our mad pursuit, but on and on we go,
blinded fools that we are.
As born slaves to nature, money and wealth, wives and children, we are
always chasing a wisp of straw, mere chimeras, and going through an
innumerable round of lives without obtaining what we seek.
We seek all these to be happy and never meet with misery, but the more
we go towards happiness, the more it goes away from us:
• And if we study our own lives, we find how little of happiness there
is in us, and how little in truth we have gained in the course of the
wild-goose-chase of the world.
It is because happiness and misery are the obverse and reverse of the
same coin, he who takes happiness must take misery also:
• We all have this foolish idea that we can have happiness without
misery, and it has taken such possession of us that we have no
control over the senses.
The majority of men have more or less undeveloped brains. One in a
million we see with a well-developed brain.
Few men realize that with pleasure there is pain, and with pain,
pleasure; and as pain is disgusting, so is pleasure, as it is the twin-
brother of pain:
• Both should be turned aside by men whose reason is balanced. Why
will not men seek freedom from being played upon?
The sage wants liberty; he finds that sense-objects are all vain and that
there is no end to pleasures and pains. When a man begins to see the
vanity of worldly things, he will feel he ought not to be thus played
upon or borne along by nature. That is slavery.
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When one realizes all this slavery, then comes the desire to be free; and
intense desire comes. If a piece of burning charcoal were placed on a
man’s head, see how he struggles to throw it off:
• Similar will be the struggles for freedom of a man who really
understands that he is a slave of nature. This is what Mumukshutva
or the desire to be free is.
Nityanitya-viveka – discriminating between that which is true and that
which is untrue, between the eternal and the transitory:
• God alone is eternal everything else is transitory. Everything dies;
the angel’s die, humans die, animal’s die, earth’s die, sun, moon and
stars – all die; everything undergoes constant change. The
mountains of today were the oceans of yesterday and will be oceans
tomorrow.
Everything is in state of flux; the whole universe is a mass of change:
• But there is One who never changes, and that is God; and the nearer
we get to Him, the less will be the change for us, the less will nature
be able to work on us; and when we reach Him, and stand with Him,
we shall conquer nature, we shall be masters of these phenomena of
nature, and it will have no effect on us.
Saptapadi means "Seven steps". After tying the Mangal Sutra, the
couple take seven steps around the holy fire, which is called Saptapadi.
After the seventh step, the couple legally become husband and wife.
Seven promises are associated with seven steps. Promises that the
couple do to each other and promises they together do to the Lord to
achieve the four goals of life – Dharma, Artha, Kama and Moksha.
• Holding of hand symbolizes responsibility, and walking around
fire is their pledge and commitment that they are serious to achieve
the goals of life.
• Fire is symbolic of the purest, it represents light, wisdom.
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