Improving the emotional intimacy can cure FSD

1. IMPROVING THE EMOTIONAL INTIMACY
CAN CURE THE FEMALE SEXUAL
DYSFUNCTION
DR AJAYAN VARUGHESE
DIRECTOR ISRM
M.B.B.S,
M.Sc Applied Psychology
P.G.C.C (PsychiatryandPsychosexualMedicine)
P.G.D.H.Sc ( Reproductive and Sexual medicine)

2. Female sexual dysfunction is defined as
disorders of sexual desire, arousal,
orgasm and or sexual pain,
which results in significant
personal distress and may have
an impact on the quality of life
and interpersonal relationships.

3. FSD OVERLAP OF SYMPTOMS
.Although each
specific condition
can be separately
defined in medical terms,
clinically there is significant
overlap in afflicted patients.

4. Women are Complex!
Studies report that less than 25% of
women achieve orgasm with
intercourse

5. FAMILY which contains
Non orgasmic
Female Partner
is equivalent to BROKEN FAMILY

9. Emotional
intimacy
Emotional and physical
satisfaction
Spontaneous sexual drive
hunger occurs in each and
every women
if Emotional intimacy is
not there sexual drive
hunger diesin female

10. There is considerable
... difference between
male and female sexual drive

11. IMPROVING
Emotional intimacy
is a time consuming process

12. METHODS TO IMPROVE Emotional intimacy
1. Promotion
2. Nonsexual touch
3. Sexual touch
4. Clitorial and Nipple ...stimulation
5. Penetrate on demand only
6. Validectory

13. PROMOTION
Women are different from men
Ask what she needs to be happy
and listen.
Women typically need listening,
not solutions (she is already competent).
Never ask a woman to get to the point.

14. She needs time,talking,
and Intimacy requires
attention on her
Go for shopping
with her
Go for picnic
with her

15. Never the spouse feel that
male partner is Lying,cheating
Male partner must be able to say sorry
even if he does not commit the mistakes
Do Not blame her for all the trouble
even if she commits a mistake

16. 1. Avoid pattern of bad relationships
2. She should not feel that
You are ambivalent
3. NO Physical Trauma
4. NO Emotional Trauma

17. Follow these
rules for
2-3 weeks

18. NON SEXUAL TOUCH
Her skin is 10Xs more sensitive.
Touching is a subtle , powerful and
complex form of communication
correct touching helps to advance the
relationship

19. WHERE TO TOUCH
START with a light brief touch on the arm
to draw attention
Perform each touch at least twice before progressing
to the next level Advance in the following order
Hand squeeze, Holding brief knee touch Arm
over shoulder
PROGRESS TO HUGGING

20. Touching
gently on
toes and foot
can improve
the emotional
intimacy
BECAUSE GENITALS
ARE VRY CLOSE TO
BIG TOE IN BRAIN

21. Non sexual touch should
continue for 1-2 weeks
If the tuning is perfect
GO FOR SEXUAL TOUCH

22. start with breast and labium
soft touch is beneficial
duration 10-15 mts
during this period verbal
communication is advocated

23. Praise her
eg: The food You have preapared was So
tasty (of course the spouse must lie)
Finger insertion to vagina can be done at
the end of this stage if the vagina is wet
Go for clitorial stimulation

24. Sexual touch

25. Clitoris and Vagina
the Queens of Female sex organ
Stimulation of clitoris
1 simply rubbing the clitoris with one hand
palpating the breast with other hand
2 “Masturbating” the clitoris with one hand
palpating the breast with other hand

26. 1) Simply rubbing the clitoris with one hand
palpating the breast with other hand
(Never do any painful activities)
During this method gradual mood elevation from
the female partner can be seen
Check the Vagina for Lubrication

27. if the lubrication is present
Male partner can penetrate the
finger inside and
GO FOR
TO AND FRO MOVEMENTS

28. 2 “Masterbating” the clitoris with one
hand palpating the breast with other hand
Hold the shaft of the clitoris with thumb and
index finger “masturbate” as how male do
Erection of clitoris can be felt
Check the vagina for lubrication
CONTINUE THE SAME PROCESS of FIRST
METHOD

29. Penetrate on demand
If sexual arousal and sexual desire
is achieved female partner
will demand for penetration

30. After completing intercourse
validectory is helpful to
1, Rectify the mistakes
2,improve the emotional
intimacy

31. FSD of non organic causes can be treated
accordingly
Dual therapy is helpful
Improving the emotional intimacy
It may take 1-2 months
Educate and counsel your Patients
to improve the emotional intimacy

32. Emotional intimacy
IS THE FOUNTATION STONE OF
interpersonal relationships.
Sexual drive
sexual intimacy and...
...Penetrative SEX
Emotional
intimacy

33. Thank you
for
Controlling
your emotions
Thanks to my
patients
for co-operation