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                                                                                                              thethe boss                   bo sanchez




O
                 ne day,
                    my wife Marowe was interviewed on TV.                                 bothers me. You can wear black all you want. It’s the
                  Bishop Tagle’s show on TV5 wanted to ask                                negative, surly, snobbish attitude that steals a lot of life
             her some questions. So they sent a TV crew to                                from them.)
             the house, complete with lights, cameras and a                                    Some Christians have their own version of holy
             truckload of stuff.                                                          angst. These good-hearted people like to focus on their
     Obviously, that doesn’t appeal to her at all. Being                                  sufferings as a way of pleasing God. They like to moan
interviewed on TV is as appealing to her as being trapped                                 and groan about how difficult life is, thinking they earn
in a steel cage with a thousand giant scorpions crawling                                  brownie points in heaven.
all over her body.                                                                             Sheesh.
     She doesn’t like the spotlight. She has never given                                       Well, excuse me, but I don’t have any angst.
a talk in her entire life. (OK, that’s not true. Once, she                                     I’m happy with my life.
was asked to give an eight-minute talk to kindergarten                                         Each day, I wake up expecting miracles to happen.
kids. Two weeks before that talk, she was so stressed, I                                       I also expect the sun to rise, the day to be lovely,
couldn’t talk to her.)                                                                    and my friends to be terrific. And most of the time, that’s
     In the TV interview, she was asked a question that she                               exactly how it happens.
has heard a hundred times before. “How is it like being                                        Sure, once in a while, it doesn’t happen that way.
married to the Bo Sanchez?”                                                               Hey, I can’t win all the time. That’s OK. All I have to do is
     The following day, she was so relieved that the                                      wait for the next beautiful morning.
interview was over, she hugged me and giggled, “Bo,                                            Don’t get me wrong. I’ve got problems.
doesn’t anyone ever ask you, ‘How is it like being married                                     But here’s the key: I don’t focus on them.
to the Marowe Sanchez?’”                                                                       I acknowledge that they’re there. But I move on and
     “No one,” I smiled, “but if someone were to ask                                      focus on my blessings instead. Because I believe my mind
me, I’d say, absolutely wonderful and phenomenal and                                      is a magnet. Thoughts attract.
fantastic.”                                                                                    If I always think of my blessings, I attract more
     It’s really true.                                                                    blessings.
     Not just my family life though.                                                           If I always think of my problems, I attract more
     My whole life is really wonderful.                                                   problems.
     Today, it’s popular to be a little angsty. “Teenage                                       Dear friends, I pray that you attract more blessings in
angst” is very “in” today, even among 40-year-olds who                                    your life today.
still think they’re teenagers. And you see it in how they                                      May your dreams come true.
look — black nail polish, black circles around their eyes,
and a cigarette between their black lips. You’d rarely see
them smile. (Don’t get me wrong. It’s not the style that




How to Live a
Wonderful Life
   Yes, You Can Make Blessings
   Happen Every Day
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                                                                        Thank you for your great magazine. People coming to our house,
                                                                        including our mission rector, can hardly leave because they read
                                                                        and read the accumulated issues we love to display. Do continue
                                                                        to inspire us.

                                                                                                                                  C. Valera
                KERYGMA serves as an inspiration                                                                          Kalinga Province
                every day of my life. I feel the
                presence of God and I look forward                      I consider KERYGMA a blessing to me and my family because
                to reading the monthly issue.Thanks,                    you help us to realize that God is everywhere, even in the simple
                KERYGMA, for shining through my                         things, and to learn how to appreciate Him more! God bless
                dark nights.                                            you!

                                                 Ace                                                                      Galileo Gervacio
                           Polomolok, South Cotabato                                                                     Binangonan, Rizal

                Thanks to KERYGMA magazine
                because when I read it, it gives
                enlightenment to both my mind
                and my heart. More power and God                           From                                  Members:
                bless!

                                                       Donna
                                                                            I love reading KERYGMA magazine. It’s so inspiring and
                                                       Davao
                                                                            it adds to my knowledge, especially that I give Pre-Cana
                                                                            seminars in our parish. More power!
                Hallelujah! I really want to thank
                KERYGMA for changing my life, for
                                                                                                                     Naomie R. Labalan
                helping me have a close relationship
                with God, and helping hopeless people
                                                                            I am really inspired by reading KERYGMA magazine. I am
                to realize how much they are needed
                                                                            blessed to be one of the KERYGMA Shepherds spreading
                in this world for God. God bless you!
                                                                            the goodness of God.
                                             Keziah Agura
                                                                                                                       Corazon S. Reyes
                                              Dipolog City
                                                                            You’re such a great speaker, Bro. Bo, and I most especially
                I always make it a point to buy this
                                                                            like your illustrations and stories. They touch the inner core
                super magazine. I just hope Bo and
                                                                            of my being. Thank you so much.
                company can visit Cotabato City.
                                                                                                                                   Ruben
                                              Ding Estaniel
                                                  Cotabato




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just

                                                                                                                                                                       L                                                                                        breathe
                                                                                                                                                                                    ong        before
                                                                                                                                                                                    Patrick Dempsey
                                                                                                                                                                                    landed his role in
                                                                                                                                                                                    the movie, Made                                                              living by grace
                                                                                                                                                                                    of Honor, I had my
                                                                                                                                                                       very own. It was there printed
                                                                                                                                                                       on my wedding invitation for                                                            rissa singson-ka
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    wpeng
                                                                                                                                                                       all to see. I had a matron of
                                                                                                                                                                       honor and a man of honor.
                                                                                                                                                                            The latter was Randy
                                                                                                                                                                       Borromeo, the big guy —
                                                                                                                                                                       literally    and     figuratively
                                                                                                                                                                       — behind the TV shows of               (L-R) Rissa, Thessa Barj
                                                                                                                                                                                                              Randy Borromeo and
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         a-Borromeo,
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 Chris Kawpeng                  MY BEST
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                FRIEND’S
                                                                                                                                                                       Shepherd’s Voice. He’s also the
                                                                                                                                                                       director of all those cameras at
                                                                                                                                                                       The Feast, our Sunday gathering

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                WEDDING
                                                                                                                                                                       at the Valle Verde Country Club Ballroom.
                                                                                                                                                                            I’ve known Randy since we were teenagers. I was
                                                                                                                                                                       already serving in our Catholic community when he
                                                                                                                                                                       attended one of our prayer meetings. Many years later,                                   God provides. Always.
                                                                                                                                                                       he would confess that the reason he was enticed to keep
                                                                                                                                                                       going back to the prayer meetings was because he saw
                                                                                                                                                                       many pretty tisays there.                                             his dreams. It was so cool that evening — it felt like the
Rissa’s clothes courtesy of Limited Couture. Available at Greenhills Shopping Center; HP at Power Plant Mall, Rockwell; Festival Mall, Alabang and SM City, Bicutan.




                                                                                                                                                                            But no matter how hard we tried, we couldn’t remember            whole garden was air-conditioned.
                                                                                                                                                                       any tisays attending the prayer meetings. Pretty girls, yes.                 KERYGMA preachers George Gabriel, Alvin Barcelona,
                                                                                                                                                                       (Ahem.)                                                               Obet Cabrillas, Jon Escoto, Arun Gogna and Adrian
                                                                                                                                                                            We could only conclude that it was the Lord at work.             Panganiban were there to lend good music and humor to
                                                                                                                                                                       Knowing Randy’s weakness for tisays, God tweaked his                  the occasion.
                                                                                                                                                                       eyesight to bait him to attend the community gatherings.                     It was a memorable, fun wedding.
                                                                                                                                                                            While our friendship goes way back, Randy and I                         Weeks later, Randy told me how much they had spent
                                                                                                                                                                       became close when I experienced a major life crisis. At a             for their wedding and marveled at how he was able to
                                                                                                                                                                       time when I desperately needed friends and all my closest             earn all that money.
                                                                                                                                                                       ones severed ties with me, Randy was the only one who’d                      What can I say?
                                                                                                                                                                       call and listen.                                                             God provides. Always.
                                                                                                                                                                            We’d talk through the wee hours, sometimes hanging                      Whether it’s a friend in time of need, a woman of your
                                                                                                                                                                       up only because the sun was about to shine.                           dreams, a rainless day, or money to pay for your perfect
                                                                                                                                                                            One Christmas, he was hired to direct a presentation at          wedding.
                                                                                                                                                                       an office party. There, he saw a pretty tisay dancing with a
                                                                                                                                                                       friend. This time, God played no tricks. She was a gift from                 The works of God are all of them good; every need when it comes
                                                                                                                                                                       heaven named Thessa Barja.                                                   he fills. (Sirach 39:33)
                                                                                                                                                                            Last January 10, the day Randy married Thessa, time              Email me your reactions/comments at justbreatherissa@gmail.com.
                                                                                                                                                                       stopped — literally. (To match my gown and shoes, I had to
                                                                                                                                                                       wear a gold watch and the only one I had wasn’t working.
                                                                                                                                                                       I wore it anyway.) All of creation cooperated to give the                       WHAT TO EXPECT TH
                                                                                                                                                                       couple the most beautiful wedding possible.                                                                             IS MONTH:
                                                                                                                                                                            The day before the wedding, it was raining. A worried                If you can’t wait to find
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               out what life has in sto
                                                                                                                                                                       Randy called me to ask for prayers. The reception was                     you, grab my hot-off-the                               re for
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                -press book, Confession
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 Impatient Bride. Yes, thi                                  s of an
                                                                                                                                                                       going to be in a garden and he had no more budget for a                                                 s is my first book ever
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                published and it’s alrea                                  to be
                                                                                                                                                                       giant tent. “Lord, take over,” we prayed.                                                               dy a bestseller — as so
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        on as all
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                KErYGMA readers buy
                                                                                                                                                                            The next day, the sun was out. The newspaper also                                                their own copy! It’s the
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                read for women waitin                                  perfect
                                                                                                                                                                       announced that the biggest and brightest moon of the year                                              g to find their one true
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               young wives starting on                                  love and
                                                                                                                                                                       would be out that evening.                                                                              the family way. Laugh,
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               inspired by life lessons                                  cry and be
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             from one woman’s heart
                                                                                                                                                                            So under the canopy of stars and a large, radiant moon,            Available in bookstores                                   to yours.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                nationwide or call (02
                                                                                                                                                                       we celebrated the union of my best friend and the girl of              9999.                                                       )725-
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publisher                     columns                       the bo files                special section
               BO SANCHEZ
             editor-in-chief                   03 Just Breathe               01 The Boss                 17 {Paid! How to Achieve
       RISSA SINGSON-KAWPENG                                                                                Financial Freedom}
                                                  {My Best Friend’s Wedding}     {How to Live a
            managing editor
              TESS ATIENZA                     35 Kitchen Scribbles              Wonderful Life}         18 {Change Your Money
               staff writers                      {Disdain Not Thy Thumb} 30 Heroes of Faith                Habits}
               NOVA ARIAS
                                               37 K Preacher                     {Rex Mendoza:           24 {Create Multiple
              JOY SOSOBAN
            creative director                     {One Plus One Equals Two}      The Good Influencer}       Income Streams}
             STIMPY CORTES
                                                                             40 Point of Contact         testimonies
            graphics director
            REY DE GUZMAN
          contributing writers                                                                           22 {Victory Over My
             ALVIN FABELLA                                                                                  Debts}
          JUDITH CONCEPCION
                                                                                                         28 {Money Myths}
            JANE GONZALES
               CECILLE LIM
              DINA PECAñA                                                                                departments
             photographers
              ED SANTIAGO                                                                                02 Mailroom
            DANIEL SORIANO                                                                               06 New You
                columnists                                                                               07 Anawim
           ROSANNE ROMERO
                                                                                                         08 Dear Kerygma
              ARUN GOGNA
         chairman of the board                                                                           10 Real Stuff
               BO SANCHEZ                                                                                11 Feast Snapshots
           marketing director                                                                            13 It Happened:
           JOSEPH MARTINEZ                                                                                  {From a Fool’s Life
                                                                                                            to a Full Life}
KERYGMA. A Greek word meaning                                                                            33 Gawad Kalinga
Proclamation of the Gospel. It is a                                                                      39 {I Was Prepared for
Catholic inspirational magazine. It aims                                                                    My Death, But God
to be an evangelistic tool to all nations,                                                                  Had Other Plans for
providing Scriptural, practical and orthodox
                                                                                                            Me}
teachings to Catholics, particularly those
in the Catholic Renewal, as an alternative
to present-day magazines. It is also
committed to fostering the renewal and
unity of the whole Christian people.
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Publications, Inc. 2009 No part of this
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by Shepherd’s Voice Publications, Inc.,                                                                                 osephine Anne M.
whose editorial and business offices are                                                                                Agustin isn’t immune
located at 60 Chicago St., Cubao, 1109
                                                                                                                     to money problems.
Quezon City. Tels: 725-9999, 725-1115,
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5615 Email: editsvp@shepherdsvoice.com.                                                                              with a baby, Jopay is
ph Website: www.shepherdsvoice.com.ph                                                                                getting accustomed to
                                                                                                                     the financial demands
                                                                                                                     of raising a family.

                      may                                                                     But faith and trust in God run strong in the
                                                                                              Agustin household. Jopay and husband, Marvin,
                                                                                              are active leaders of Bukas-Loob sa Diyos

     vol. 19 no. 228                                                                          Community’s young couples’ group.




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new you
new you
tips for personal development


                                                                                                         TIPS FOR COMMON
                              HOW TO CUT DOWN
     f  inances
                              ON REGULAR BILLS
                                                                                 b    eauty
                                                                                                         SKIN PROBLEMS


W     ant to cut down on regular bills? Before
      you reply with, “How could you ever do that?”
                                                                            N     ever worried about your skiN?
                                                                                                              Then this is not for you. But
                                                                                for those regular gals out there, here are some tips for
                                                                            common skin problems:
check out the suggestions below.                                               ·    Conceal breakouts. Use a concealer that’s specifically
   1. Install compact fluorescent light (CFL)                                       formulated to cover and to treat blemishes. A
       bulbs. They have a longer lifespan and use up                                treatment concealer or an oil-free foundation will
                                                                                    stay on the trouble spot without migrating. You
       less electricity.
                                                                                    should concentrate the pigment right on the pimple
   2. Do you have any electrical devices that you                                   by tapping the product on the blemish. Then follow
       rarely use but have kept plugged in? Unplug                                  this with a light dusting of powder over the entire
       them. Most electrical devices constantly use a                               face to set your makeup.
       small amount of electricity called a phantom                            ·    Even out skin tone. Apply foundation over the whole
       charge. Eliminate this by unplugging the                                     face, then treat the dark patches with a full-coverage
       appliances.                                                                  concealer. These are usually labeled as providing
   3. Look for inexpensive entertainment options.                                   medium, full or heavy coverage. Warm the concealer
       Instead of malling, why not lend your time to                                in the palm of your hand to make it creamier then
       a local volunteer group?                                                     blend it over the trouble zones using a dry sponge.
                                                                               ·    Soften fine lines and wrinkles. Makeup that’s too
   4. Cook and pack your own meals. This will
                                                                                    heavy can build up and cake in fine lines, so apply a
       reduce the cost of your lunch. Going out has                                 light layer of a sheer foundation to prevent this. Add
       a tendency to increase your expenses.                                        concealer, but only on the dark areas under the eyes.
   5. Strongly reduce or eliminate travel. This will                                To increase the sheerness of the concealer, mix it
       significantly cut down your expenses. Be open                                with a pea-size amount of eye cream before gently
       to inviting family and friends over to your                                  tapping it on with either a brush or your fingers.
       place instead.
                                                                            Source: www.realsimple.com
Source: www.thesimpledollar.com



                                                                     QUICK HEALTH TIP:
                                                                 The following foods are
                                                                 excellent sources of di-
                                                                 etary fiber, which help fight
                                                                 constipation: raspberries,
                                                                 mustard greens, cauli-
                                                                 flower, collard greens and
                                                                 broccoli.



      f  aith &
          Doctrine
                                   BEING RICH AND
                                  LOVING THE POOR

      L       oving the poor is incompatible with excessive
           love of riches. When we attend to the needs
      of the poor, we actually give them what is theirs,
      not what is ours. More than performing works of
      mercy, we are paying a debt of justice.
      Source: Catechism of the Catholic Church, nos. 2445-2446




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SURVIVAL TIPS IN
            h        ealth
                             DO-OR-DIE
                             EMERGENCIES (Part 2)
      H     ere’s a continuation of last month’s article on what to do when
            you’re in a do-or-die emergency. Note down these survival
      tips:                                                                        MOISES SU-AMAR:
      ·     Cramps. If you’re in deep water, take a deep breath, lie on your
            back and float. If you have muscle cramp, float face down, grab
                                                                                   Still Adventurous at 77
                                                                                   By Tess V. Atienza
            your toes and pull them toward you, stretching your calf until

                                                                                   “I
            the pain goes away. If it’s a stomach cramp, lie on your back,                                  — just to walk around the town proper
                                                                                        gO Out almOst every day
            spread your arms and legs, and float until you can swim back                and then go home, on foot.” Lolo Moises does that not
            to shore.                                                              only for his regular exercise. At 77, he still loves to walk and
      ·     Poisoning. If you inhaled something (like bleach or ammonia),          explore places. He wants to reach whatever his eyes could see
            get away from the toxic area. If it’s something that got on your       on the horizon.
            skin, like a cleaning product, wash it off, then call a hospital and
            follow the doctor’s advice.                                            Where He Came From
      ·     Severe bleeding. Use your hand or a clean cloth, paper towels,         His mother died when he was two; his father when he was in
            a scarf or any fabric you can grab, and push down on the wound         grade two. He and his siblings grew up far from each other. Lolo
            until the bleeding stops. Don’t use a tourniquet.                      Moises lived with his grandmother in Miag-ao, Iloilo City. His
      ·     Trapped in a burning building. Enclose yourself in a smoke-            siblings lived with their adoptive families.
            free room and place a wet towel underneath the door to                      Very early in life, Lolo Moises learned to fend for himself. In
            prevent any smoke from entering. Then lie low on the floor,            the morning, he went to school; in the afternoon, he tended to
            where you can breathe and see better, until help arrives. If           the store of his aunt.
            you’re in a house, get as low as you can and crawl outside as               Eventually, he moved to Manila, got a college degree and
            fast as possible. Don’t stop until you’re well away from the fire.     then worked in Saudi Arabia for five years. Upon coming back
      Source: www.rd.com
                                                                                   to the Philippines, he was hired as a caretaker in the home of
                                                                                   Mr. Gartland, general manager of US Life Insurance Company.
                                                                                   The Gartlands treated him like family, but they had to leave the
                             SAY “HELLO”                                           Philippines when the company closed.
     r   elation
            ships
                             TO STRANGERS                                          The Path that Led to Anawim
                                                                                   After his employment with the Gartlands, he only had short-
                                                                                   term jobs and depended on friends for help. He remained
                                                                                   single by choice.

T    ake ThekeRYGMa challenge to improve your relationships: Say “hello”
    to strangers daily for at least one month. Set your own quota and then
try to build on that. Here are some reasons why you should practice this.
                                                                                        In his early 70s, a friend of his brought him to a home for
                                                                                   the aged in Manila. In 2006, he was brought to Anawim.

                                                                                   Life at Anawim
·    It is an acknowledgment of existence. Saying hello is a pause,
                                                                                   “It’s funny,” Lolo Moises relates, “the social workers here remind
     however brief, to affirm another person’s worth. In return, you become
                                                                                   me to come back whenever I go out for my morning walk. Why
     a person to them, too.
                                                                                   won’t I come back? Anawim is my home now and probably until
· It can raise productivity. A study on this subject had middle school
                                                                                   death.”
     teachers greet their students
                                                                                        Still, he wants to visit his hometown one last time and see
     individually every month.
                                                                                   his brother Samuel and sister Francisca Su-Amar-Derla.
     The brief interaction
                                                                                        He wishes, too, that well-meaning visitors at Anawim would
     raised the students’
                                                                                   invite him to spend a day or two in their houses. “For a change
     productivity by 27
                                                                                   — and to see other places before I die,” shares Lolo Moises.
     percent.
                                                                                        Indeed, age has not changed Lolo Moises. Adventure is still
· It can save your
                                                                                   in his blood.
     m a r r i a g e .
     C o m m o n
     courtesy isn’t
     that common.                                                                                                            Lolo Moises is one of the 55
     When did you                                                                                                     abandoned elderlies that Anawim
                                                                                                                        cares for. To continue caring for
     last say hello to
                                                                                                                            them, we need your support.
     your spouse?                                                                                                        Contact Anawim at (632) 710-
And don’t forget to say                                                                                                 5273 or visit www.anawim.com.
hello each morning to the person                                                                                         ph for your donations. You may
                                                                                                                       also join the monthly pilgrimage
who needs it most — yourself.
                                                                                                                     to Anawim and make the lolos and
Source: www.rd.com                                                                                                       lolas happy with your presence.
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dear K
dear K

    My Vocation or
        My Family



I  ’m 26, single, have a job and staying
   with my family. Just recently, I had a
sudden feeling of wanting to pursue my
vocation. The truth is, when I was 16
years old, after I graduated high school,       Dear Vhanie,
I entered a convent to become a nun
because that had been my dream since                 What you are experiencing right now was the same thing I went through when
grade school. Unfortunately, I failed           I was discerning whether to enter the religious life or to pursue a career and be
to continue my vocation because my              with my family. Discernment brought me to a “win-win” solution. I finished college,
                                                worked for five years and helped my family before I joined the congregation. I also
homesickness ruled over me and I realized
                                                realized that becoming a nun is more than a childhood dream — not a career to
that I wasn’t totally prepared that time        pursue — but a call to live a different kind of life, one that is devoted to God through
for the religious life.                         prayer and service.
     I went out, pursued a college degree,           Your case is quite unusual because you entered at a very young age and then
graduated and found a job. But all the          left the congregation. It is like getting married early — the chances of broken
time that I was out of the convent, the lure    commitment are prevalent. I can understand your situation.
of the religious life kept coming back. But          You don’t have to choose between your family and the religious life; you can
then again, after I graduated, I felt that I    have both. When I entered the religious life, I never stopped becoming my parents’
had to find a job and help my parents. To       daughter, although I cannot anymore give what I used to give them — material
leave my parents after all their hardship       things. But they appreciate much my presence during special family gatherings and
                                                simple occasional visits. With my community’s permission, I took care of my sick
in sending me to college stopped me from
                                                mother when she was hospitalized. I am also called to facilitate dialogues among
re-entering the convent. I want to provide      family members. And my nieces and nephews express how they look up to me as
for them now that I have a job. But in my       their role model. There is so much that you can do as a daughter and a sister to your
heart, I know and I feel that I still want to   family.
be a nun and offer my life to God.                   Vhanie, you are still young. You still have time to spend and serve your family in
     I am confused. Shall I choose a life       case they really need your assistance. There are congregations who accept candidates
with my family or a life of service and         in their early 30s. I suggest that you get a spiritual guide to journey with you as you
being with God as a religious? I’m really       search for where God is calling you at this time of your life. I can be one.
weighing things out because I want to
make sure that if I chose to re-enter the                                                                            Sr. Gemma Dinglasan, RGS
convent, it would be for good this time.
But I have to consider my parents, too,
because I want to make sure that they’re                                           It took Sr. Gemma Dinglasan, RGS, several years to finally face her true
OK before I leave them.                                                            calling. An accountant by profession, she worked hard to help her parents
                                                                                   send her younger siblings to school. Later, when the one next to her gradu-
     Can you please help me to weigh                                               ated and took on the responsibility of sending the younger ones to school,
things? Thank you.                                                                 she was left with a void: what to do with her life. She searched and she
                                                                                   found what she was looking for: the Pearl of Great Price. Sr. Gemma
                                                                                   is now the vocation directress of the Good Shepherd Community in the
                                                                                   Philippines.
                                    Vhanie



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How Do I Deal
                                                                                with My Atheist
                                                                                        Friends

                                                                it is important that we remember that God is a God of mercy. I
                                                                am sure that He will not expect people to live as though they
                                                                are disciples of Jesus if no one has ever proclaimed the Gospel
                                                                to them. God will judge us fairly and with mercy and love.
                                                                     Secondly, I think we should first focus upon our own salvation
                                                                and ask ourselves whether we are doing everything that we can
                                                                to proclaim the Gospel through our lives and through what we
                                                                say and witness to others. The Vatican II documents remind us
                                                                of this when they talk about our duty to live and proclaim the

      I   am havIng  a hard time dealing with atheists          Gospel.
         in my life. I love them but they don’t believe              Thirdly, we must be sure that we both live and proclaim
                                                                the Gospel to the best of our ability while at the same time
      in Christ. I also have friends who are Buddhists,
                                                                recognizing that each person is free to choose whether or not
      Hindus and Muslims. Will they also be saved?              he or she will respond to the Gospel once it is heard. The critical
      How do I introduce Christ to them without                 point here is that each Christian ensure that the witness of their
      offending them? I love them and so I want them            life is true to the Gospel and that we do not deny any truth of
      to be saved, too.                                         the Gospel for fear of offending someone. The Scriptures are very
                                                                clear that it is the truth that sets us free (John 8:32-36) and thus
                                                    Rosan       we never do anyone a service by denying them the opportunity to
                                                                know the truth about salvation.
      Dear Rosan,                                                    Having said that, it is equally important that we are guided
                                                                by the Holy Spirit in the work of evangelization and wait for the
           Your situation is a common one but not               appropriate time to proclaim the Gospel to those who need to
      necessarily easy to deal with. I think it is important    hear and respond to it.
      for us to realize that no matter how well we might             In summary, I think you should live your Catholic faith to
      think we know and follow God as His disciple, there       the full without any apology for doing so to your friends, while
      is still a great mystery surrounding the nature and       at the same time being watchful for an opportunity to share the
      mechanics of the work of salvation. Ultimately, it is     Gospel when it arises.
      God who will decide who is saved or not and I think            I hope and pray that the Holy Spirit would use you to bring
                                                                your friends into a relationship with Jesus and thus win them
                                                                for the Kingdom of God.

                                                                                                                      Fr. Steve Tynan, MGL


Fr. Steve Tynan, MGL, is the spir-
itual director of the Light of Jesus
and Elim Communities. Fun-lov-                                 Email your questions to editsvp@shepherdsvoice.com.ph. Or if you need to talk to
ing and ever ready for anything,
this Australian cleric is presently
                                                               someone, call 7264709 or 7266728 to contact a Light of Jesus counselor. Telephone
the parish priest of St. Benedict’s                            counseling is 24-hours from Monday to Friday, 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. on Saturdays and 6 a. m.
Parish in Don Enrique Heights in                               to 10 a. m. on Sundays. Face-to-face counseling by appointment. For correspondence
Quezon City.
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    VATICAN NOW ON                                                                                    will make information
    YOUTUBE                                                                                           and news from the
                                                                                                      Holy See more readily
                                                                                                      accessible on the
    w     aNt to be updated on what’s happening in the
          Vatican? You can be updated through video
    now. The Vatican has launched a new channel on
                                                                                                      world wide Web.”
                                                                                                           He added, “It is
                                                                                                      my hope that this
    YouTube.
                                                                 initiative will enrich a wide range of people — including
        The site, which is found at www.youtube.com/
                                                                 those who have yet to find a response to their spiritual
    vatican, was launched in January in time for World
                                                                 yearning — through the knowledge and love of Jesus
    Communications Day.
                                                                 Christ whose message of Good News the Church bears to
        The Pope said, “Undoubtedly, wise use of
                                                                 the ends of the earth.”
    communications technology enables communities
    to be formed in ways that promote the search for             Source: www.zenit.org
    the true, the good and the beautiful, transcending
    geographical boundaries and ethnic divisions. To this
    end, the Vatican has launched a new initiative which
                                                                                     SAINTS AT A GLANCE
                                                                                     WHO: St. Bernardine of Siena
                                                                                     BOrN & DIED: September 8, 1380, Italy – May 20, 1444,
MEDIA AND YOUR CHILDREN                                                              Italy
                                                                                     NOTABLE fACTS: Descended from a noble family, he

I f You’Re a paRenT with young children or adolescents, better                       joined the franciscans after prayer and fasting about
   check this out.                                                                   it. He played a great part in the religious revival of the
     According to the conclusion of a series of 10 short                             early 15th century. A tireless worker, he once preached
papers by the journal Children and Electronic Media, media                           every day for seven weeks in Siena. He became vicar-
can be a positive influence in the lives                                             general of the franciscan Order in Italy in 1438.
of these children. The papers, which
are summaries of research carried
out by The Future of Children, a
collaboration of the Woodrow Wilson
School at Princeton University
and the Brookings Institution that
promotes policies and programs
                                                                                                                    sex scenes are much
regarding children, said that the
                                                                                                                    more likely than
average modern child spends a total
                                                                                                                    their peers to get
of nearly 45 hours a week using
                                                                                                                    pregnant or get a
various forms of media, including the
                                                                                                                    partner pregnant.
television, movies, magazines, music,
                                                                                                                         They also found
Internet and video games.
                                                                                                                    strong connections
     According to the study,advertisers
                                                                                                                    between a negative
are moving to the Internet because
                                                                                                                    health      outcome
marketing to children online is far
                                                                                                                   and media hours or
less regulated than television. Methods include embedding
                                                                    content.
ads in games and using online chat forums to promote
                                                                        “Be aware and be involved” was the paper’s
products.
                                                                    recommendation to parents. Awareness includes
     The paper also concluded that when children view
                                                                    understanding the various forms of media and types of
media violence, they often act aggressively, experience
                                                                    content that their children are using. And involvement
fear, develop unrealistic perceptions concerning the
                                                                    means monitoring the type of media being used by
violence that exists in the real world, or develop less
                                                                    children, and also the amount of time being devoted to
advanced moral strategies.
                                                                    media use.
     Another aspect of media usage is that between television
and sexual activity. The study found that teens who watch           Source: http://www.zenit.org

a lot of television featuring flirting, discussion of sex and
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FOR YOUR
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W                              wreaking havoc on your
          orried about your child
      computer or going to an unsafe site? Then
Kidrocket is for you.
                                                              Bacoor, Cavite
    Kidrocket Kids Browser is a free stand-alone
                                                              Holds Local Feast
Windows application that’s both an activity center as
well as a browser. It can be locked to the desktop to
prevent your kids from unwittingly wreaking havoc on          C   avite may not be that far from Pasig City,
                                                                  where The Feast happens every Sunday
                                                              at the Valle Verde Country Club, but many
your computer. It includes a web browser that operates
off a pre-selected white list of kid-friendly sites like      Caviteños (especially those from Bacoor)
       Crayola, Cartoon Network, Sesame Street and            choose to have their own local Feast and
        others. There are also other activities that your     enjoy a more intimate community gathering.
        kids can do like an interactive math flash cards          Every first and second Friday of the month,
        and a simple paint program.                           from8to10p.m.,theLightofJesusCommunity’s
                 For older kids, you can enable a basic       Bacoor Chapter gather at the Addas Chapel in
            email client and create a safe list for your
                                                              Addas IV Village in Mambog. Of course, they
              child to email to.
                                                              welcome whoever might want to join the
                        Source: lifehacker.com
                                                              worship, Gospel sharing and reflection and to
                        NEW UNIVERSITY FOR                    listen to Bo Sanchez’s video talk.
                                                                  On the average, 40 people regularly attend
                        TOP MINDS                             the Bacoor Feast. Anyone who wants to
                                                              participate may simply go to the venue on the
                W
                hat would
                happenifthe
        world’s top minds
                                                              mentioned schedule or may contact Bro. Peter
                                                              Fariscal at 0929-722-7080.
       came together to
establish a university? Now we have a chance to find
out.
     The National Aeronautics and Space Administration
(NASA) and Google have teamed up with leading science
and technology entrepreneurs to open Singularity
University (SU). Housed on the NASA Ames campus
in Silicon Valley, the university will open this June and
will offer a nine-week graduate level program along
with several executive level programs aimed at helping
current leaders adapt their businesses to up-and-coming
technologies. The university seeks to compliment
existing programs in a variety of subjects including
biotechnology, artificial intelligence (AI), robotics, law,
ethics and finance.
     The university hopes to foster collaboration and
innovation “in order to address humanity’s grand
challenges” and to gather “the next generation of CEOs,
University Deans or Presidents and government leaders”
to begin networking and collaborating. SU’s founders
include Pete Worden, the director of NASA Ames, Dr. Ray
Kurzweil, author and futurist and Dr. Peter Diamandis,
chairman of the X Prize Foundation.
Source: http://www.popsci.com
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From a Fool’s Life
                                                                                              to a Full Life

    I
           was living a double life.
              During the day, I studied
           while working part-time as an
           appraiser in our pawnshop in
                                                                                          A Wayward Son’s
           Ormoc. I earned extra money
    apart from the allowance my parents                                                            Journey
    gave me. Having so much money                                                         By Romeo “Junjun” Ocampo, Jr. as told to Dina Pecaña
    in my hands made it easier for me
    to indulge in my vices again, which
    I wanted to get rid of in the first                                                                     Another most memorable day in Junjun’s journey
                                                                                                                            was the day he married Vannie
    place.

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My health suffered because I totally gave up          group of friends) that led me astray. Instead of focusing
    exercise and sports. My frequent drinking spree           on my studies and getting good grades, I got entangled
    also affected my sleeping pattern. It came to a point     in a web of endless partying, alcohol and drugs. I picked
    when I could no longer sleep without getting drunk.       up the vices merely out of curiosity and a compelling
    I would drink beer and take shabu simultaneously          need to be accepted by my friends.
    and that kept me awake for two days.                           My freshman year was one of the turbulent times
        Unknown to me, my parents, who were renewed           of my life. But even then I was sensible enough to free
    Christians actively serving in the intercessory team      myself from the vices that enslaved me. I decided to go
    of the Brotherhood of Christian Businessmen and           back to Ormoc after the second semester, thinking that
    Professionals (BCBP) in Ormoc, were fervently             I could start over if I stayed away from my friends.
    praying, in union with their community, for my                 I was wrong.
    conversion.                                                    I only sunk deeper into my vices.
                                           Soon,      the
                                      Lord      answered      Life-Changing Retreat
                                      their prayers for       I wasn’t expecting anything from the retreat — I only
                                      my conversion —         attended it as a requirement for my Theology class. But
                                      but it was also to      during one of the talks, I sensed the Lord telling me,
                                      prepare us for the      “My son, I love you.” Then it dawned on me how my
                                      trials that were        parents cared and prayed for me all these years, how
                                      about to come           they continued to love me even though I was a “bad”
                                      into our lives.         son to them. I realized how deeply the Lord loves me
                                                              through my family. This realization opened my life to
                                         The Good Life        the powerful love of the Lord that would change my life
                                         I have to admit      forever.
                                         I was spoiled. I          God transformed me gradually. First, He separated
                                         got everything I     me from my “vice buddies.” Next, He gave me the
                                         wanted while I       desire to know, love and serve Him. That inner desire
                                         was growing up —     moved me to become part of our parish youth ministry.
                                         be it a TV for my    I sang in the choir and helped organize retreats and
                                         room at the dorm,    other youth activities.
                                         the latest sound          As I immersed myself in service, I still struggled
                                         system, a new        with my vices. Through much prayer and with the help
                 Junjun now works as     tennis racket and    of my Theology professor, Cris Fernandez, who was our
                a financial consultant
                       for Pru-Life UK   rubber shoes, and    speaker and facilitator during my most unforgettable
                                         an allowance that    retreat and the one who invited me to serve in the
                                         was more than        parish youth ministry, my craving for alcohol and drugs
    what kids my age received. I guess that came with         diminished slowly but surely. Indeed, God’s grace is
    being the youngest child, although my parents were        sufficient!
    caring and generous to my siblings as well.                    I finally joined my parents in BCBP during my
         From their humble beginnings, they worked            last year in college. Soon after, our family underwent
    hard to establish our retail store and family’s           another trial.
    pawnshop business in Ormoc. The business grew
    and prospered and enabled my parents to send us to        Financial Crisis
    good schools and give us a comfortable life. I should     In 1995, our country experienced a serious economic
    have been grateful or, at the very least, content with    crisis that affected our family business. We were forced
    having a happy family life. But I was not. I chose to     to close our pawnshops and the proceeds from the sale
    live a wayward life in spite of the love and support of   were used to pay off outstanding debts that ballooned to
    my family.                                                almost P10 million. We had to sell our car and home.
                                                              It was a difficult time — so hard in fact that there were
    Entangled in Vice                                         times when my mom did not know where to get our
    During my freshman year at the University of San          next meal. We went through a test so grueling that the
    Carlos in Cebu, I became part of a barkada (gang or       strength of our family’s faith was challenged.

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My dad, being the head of the family, was hit hardest             City, living among lay brothers who were single-
  by this family crisis. He sunk into depression that lasted             hearted for the Lord.
  for three years. He could not accept what happened                         For three years, I learned to live out the virtues
  to our family and he felt that he failed us miserably.                 of chastity, simplicity and obedience. I was happy
  He withdrew from everyone and confined himself at                      with this life and I truly believed that to live single
  home.                                                                  and dedicate my life to the Lord’s service was my
       This was also the lowest point in my life. It was hard            highest calling.
  to see my idol — my dad — so down, helpless and on
  the brink of giving up. Seeing him this way, a broken                  Meant for Marriage
  man, I felt lost. I questioned my own identity. If my dad              Little did I know that God had a different plan.
  felt he was a “nobody,” then who was I?                                During Lent 2005, on my third year at the Servants
                                                                         of the Word, my
  Simple Living                                                          heart was stirred
  Though difficult to bear, our family crisis taught us                  by a desire          Finding God’s best
                                                                                              for him was one of
  valuable life lessons, starting with having a faithful                 for     marriage     Junjun’s blessings
  relationship with God and living simply. In the midst of               as I prayed. I       in life
  our problems, God called each one of us to a personal                  was confused.
  relationship with Him and led us to actively serve in our              I sought the
  community.                                                             advice of my
       I developed a more loving relationship with my                    mentor       and
  parents and siblings. My mom committed to faithfully                   fellow brother,
  pray for our family and her example encouraged the                     Ken Knoecker,
  rest of us to pray just as she did. Our family prayer time             who      advised
  became our source of hope, strength and unity.                         me to be open
       Though our once carefree and comfortable life                     to it, to pray
  changed drastically to one of hardship, pain and                       more and to
  uncertainty, we gained a new life in Christ. As we                     investigate it.
  surrendered our lives to the Lord, He eventually                            After days of prayer, it became clear to me that
  restored to us what we had lost. He allowed my parents                 God wanted me to get married. I left my brothers
  to reopen our pawnshops; my mom was blessed to                         in Servants of the Word and joyfully anticipated the
  work in an insurance company that enabled us to buy                    unfolding of His plan.
  a new car.                                                                  In due time, God revealed His plans for me. I
       Mom and Dad humbled themselves as they went                       landed a job as a supervisor in a gas station in Ormoc
  to each person to whom they owed money. They asked                     and later as a financial consultant in an insurance
  forgiveness for not being able to pay their debts and the              company. Then in one of Lingkod’s activities, Vannie
  same time gave their commitment to pay no matter how                   Siloterio, my good friend and former co-worker at
  long it takes. The Lord must have touched the hearts                   the Lingkod office, came to Ormoc to be with the
  of the creditors because they only collected from my                   women members of our community. Seeing her
  parents the principal and no longer applied the interest               and being able to spend time with her once again
  that would have compounded significantly over the                      reminded me of the essentials I wanted in a woman
  years.                                                                 who was to be my wife: a deep relationship with the
                                                                         Lord, unconditional love for her family and a heart
  Loving God More Deeply and Following Him More                          for mission. It was then that I decided to pursue
  Closely                                                                her.
  From my service in our parish youth ministry, to                            On December 16, 2006, Vannie and I got
  becoming part of BCBP, the Lord opened opportunities                   married. For over two years now, we have been
  for me to serve Him and His people through Ang                         living a serene and simple life in Ormoc while still
  Lingkod ng Panginoon Community where I served                          happily and actively serving our brothers and sisters
  as the very first and the youngest branch leader of the                in BCBP and Lingkod.
  Ormoc branch. It did not end there, though.                                 It continues to amaze me how God has
      My desire to serve the Lord deepened to the point                  transformed a wayward son to become His faithful
  that I joined the Servants of the Word based in Quezon                 servant.

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PAID!
                            HowtoAchieveFinancialFreedom
                                                                  by bo sanchez




                      R
                                                      when you were taught by your
                                             emembeR the days
                                    parents to drop a coin or two every day in your
                                    piggy bank?
                                       Gone are those days, right?
                                       Today, most people complain that their monthly
                      take-home pay is spent before they receive it.
                         Why?
                         Because they are trapped in the vicious cycle of borrowing for
                      every need and then working to pay for their debts.
                         Why are many people stuck in poverty and in never-ending
                      debt?
                         Because they spiritualize their financial difficulties — they
                      want God to do what they can do themselves.
                         And that’s what ails many people.
                         Now, listen: God won’t do what you can do yourself.
                         Because the essence of human life is growth — and we won’t
                      grow if we won’t take responsibility for our lives.
                         And that includes managing our finances, raising our financial
                      IQ, learning new habits and being totally free from the enslaving
                      power of money — or the lack of it — in our lives.
                         Friends, God wants you to be prosperous but you have to do
                      your part as well.
                         Start now.




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Change Your Money
                             Habits
                    and Work
                   Your Way to
         Financial   Abundance
                                   by bo sanchez




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A
                      long time ago, when I was still single, I led        The answer is, “It depends.”
                      a retreat for a group of college students            Why?
                      from an exclusive girls school. Before the           If you do not do something practical about your
                      start of the retreat, I was alone in my room    finances, such as living simply, nothing will happen. No
                      preparing for my talk.                          matter how much you give to God, if you do not live
           Suddenly a cockroach entered my room and                   within your means, if you do not save, you will not be
      hovered above me. Ziinggg! Zinnggg! I looked at it and          prosperous.
      said, “In Jesus’ name, come down!” And then it hit an                God wants you to prosper but He won’t do for you
      invisible wall and crashed to the floor, dead.                  what you can do for yourself. Because the essence of
           I was amazed!                                              human life is growth. You need to keep on growing and
           Then during my talk, the granddaddy of the                 the only way to do that is to take responsibility over your
      cockroach I killed entered the room with vengeance              life, including your finances.
      and it started zooming and shimmying and zapping                     Many prosperity preachers have spoken and written
      around the room. You can just imagine the reaction of           about steps to prosperity. They’re good — they tell us to
      the students in front of me. They were shrieking and            obey God, be faithful to Him, give tithes and so on — but I
      covering their heads as the cockroach continued to              feel there are some things lacking. They don’t speak about
      zoom up and down the ceiling, the walls and all around          the practical steps one can take on the road to financial
      the room. I didn’t know what to do until I remembered           freedom.
      what I did an hour ago. So I said, “In Jesus’ name, come
      down!” And again the cockroach hit an invisible wall            Six Steps to Financial Freedom
      and crashed to the floor. Bang!
           All the ladies in front of me exclaimed in awe.                “Let Pharaoh proceed to appoint overseers over the land,
           And there I was, cool as a bee, as if it was something         and take the fifth part of the produce of the land of Egypt
      that happens to me every day.                                       during the seven plenteous years. And let them gather
           After the talk, I entered my room. As I was resting,           all the food of these good years that are coming, and lay
                                                                          up grain under the authority of Pharaoh for food in the
      I saw the cousin of the first cockroach crawling up the
                                                                          cities, and let them keep it. That food shall be a reserve
      wall. (By the way, I will not tell you what retreat house           for the land against the seven years of famine which are to
      it was). I sat on my bed, looked at it and said, “In Jesus’         befall the land of Egypt, so that the land may not perish
      name, come down!” It continued to crawl. “In Jesus’                 through the famine.”
      name, come down!” It still kept crawling. For the third                                                   — Genesis 41:34-46
      time, I said, “In Jesus’ name, come down!” It didn’t.
           There’s something wrong, I thought. And then I felt        Step 1: Change Your Internal Money Programs
      God speak to my heart, “Hey, get your slippers and kill         This never fails: If you want to make any improvement in
      the cockroach!”                                                 your life, change your behavior. But if you want to make
           I learned an important lesson there: that there            giant leaps in your life, change your beliefs.
      are times when God will not lift a finger because He                If you’ve always been poor or short of money, your
      wants us to do it ourselves.                                    belief system might be the culprit.
           If you want to be prosperous, He’s not going to                I hear poor people say, “My parents have been poor.
      give you wealth just because you obeyed Him, or just            We’ve always been poor. I think I’ll grow old as poor, too.”
      because you gave tithes.                                            That’s your mental conditioning — and that’s what
           Many do that. They blame God for being poor.               will happen because that’s how you perceive your life to
      They say, “I go to Mass, I serve God, I give tithes, I          be.
      attend prayer meetings — but why am I still poor?”                  Change what you believe in and change will happen
           It’s like asking, “Why can’t I play the violin? I serve    in your life.
      the Lord, give tithes and attend Mass and prayer                    Because what you believe in, you act upon.
      meetings.” The answer is simple: Because you didn’t                 All the other steps to financial freedom will be useless
      study how to play the violin!                                   unless you change your beliefs about money. It won’t
           Don’t over-spiritualize your problems — your               matter how much you save or whether you get into 10
      dilemma may not have a spiritual cause. It might be             businesses. You will not prosper if you do not change
      due to your lack of knowledge.                                  your internal money program or if you don’t expand your
           Will God prosper you if you obey Him and if you            psychological wallet. You have to believe that you can
      are faithful to Him?                                            earn more than you are earning right now — and that’s
           The answer? It’s not yes or no.                            the key: believe that it will happen and it will!

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Step No. 2: Get out of bad debt.                                      We need to invert the whole thing. When you receive
   What is bad debt? What is good debt?                             your salary, give 10 percent to the Lord, save 20 percent,
       Good debt is when you borrow money to buy a                  and then live on the remaining 70 percent.
   thing that will put money in your pocket. For example,                According to the Bible, Joseph told Egypt, you have
   you borrow money to buy an apartment that will earn              to save the fifth part (or 20 percent) — and that’s how
   money for you later.                                             Egypt was spared from drought and famine. So save 20
       Bad debt is the opposite — instead of putting                percent of your income and you, too, will be freed from
   money in your pocket, it takes away money from it, like          lack.
   when you buy a TV set or a pair of shoes or when you                  People would tell me, “Bo, how can we survive with
   use your credit card to buy those things and pay only            70 percent? We can’t!” So I tell them, “That’s why you need
   the minimum each month. That’s bad debt.                         to increase your cash flow, your source of income.”
       Bad debt is detrimental to your financial health
   so get out of it as soon as possible. Here’s what I do to        Step 4: Get Protection.
   avoid it: When I want to buy something, I tell myself I          Tell me if this is true. When you get near an insurance
   will save for the next six months to be able to buy that         agent, your first instinct is to slowly move away from him,
   thing. You know what happens? Before I even reach the            right? We’re allergic to the word insurance. But you know,
   third month, I no longer want to buy the thing.                  whether you like it or not, you need insurance. It’s your
       If you train and discipline yourself, this is what will      protection if something happens to you and you don’t
   happen. The important thing is to get out of bad debt.           have passive income. What will happen to your family
   How?                                                             if you suddenly die of a heart attack or are debilitated
                                                                    by cancer? And even just to protect yourself from estate
   1. Create a strategy and a deadline. For example, your           taxes, you still need to get insurance.
      goal is to get out of bad debt within two years. Make a           The Bible says, “A rich man’s wealth is his strong city,
      plan and a strategy on how to achieve that goal.              like a high wall protecting him” (Proverbs 18:11). This
   2. Face your creditors. Let them know you won’t                  means that the ultimate goal is to be self-insured. You
      renege on your debt. Keep in touch with them.                 have to work so that you can do this until you reach a
      Don’t wait for them to call you; you call them or visit       point when you don’t need insurance anymore. And the
      them. Negotiate for a restructuring of your debt. Be          way to do that is to have multiple income streams.
      persistent. Don’t be intimidated if you are dealing
      with a bank. Remember, people manage banks and                Step 5: Create Emergency and Retirement Funds.
      bank policies are made by people, too — people like           From the 20 percent you save from your salary, aim to
      you and me — so don’t be afraid to appeal to their            build up an emergency fund equivalent to six times your
      good nature. As long as they see that you earnestly           monthly salary. This will serve as your cushion if you have
      want to pay your debt, they can be flexible.                  a sudden need for extra money, like unscheduled repairs,
   3. Pay high-interest loans first. If you have two loans          illness or, worse, if you suddenly lose your job (a common
      where one charges one percent and the other 10                occurrence these days).
      percent interest a month, pay off the latter first. Why?           After the emergency fund, your next goal should be
      Because that equates to 120 percent a year!                   a retirement fund. Strive to save at least 20 percent of
   4. Work for money instead of borrowing money. Here’s             your savings from your income to form your retirement
      a common attitude among poor Filipinos. Let’s say             fund.
      there’s going to be an occasion next week, for example             Where do you put your retirement fund? You have
      the graduation of one’s child. You know what’s the            many options: banks, time deposit, mutual funds, money
      first thing that comes to mind? Where to borrow               market, etc. Improve your financial literacy so that you
      money to spend for the celebration. Instead of this           will not only be able to help yourself but you’ll help
      mental circuitry, why not think of what you can do so         others as well.
      that next week you’d have money to spend? And that
      means doing things you’ve never done before, like             Step 6: Create Multiple Income Streams that Give
      selling something or taking a part-time job. Do you           Passive Income.
      know that the quickest way to earn within a few days          At this time of economic recession, to rely solely on one’s
      is to sell something?                                         employment income is no longer advisable. You need
                                                                    multiple sources of income — sell something or put up a
   Step 3: Apply the “Save First, Spend Later” Principle.           small business on the side; invest in a mutual fund, money
   The common Pinoy’s spending habit once he receives               market and other financial instruments.
   his salary is like this: pay bills, buy that, watch movie, eat        A word of caution, though: learn all you can before
   out and then save whatever’s left.                               getting into any of these. Get a mentor. Read up. Attend
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seminars. And don’t be afraid to fail. (More on this                                    Bo’s Action Steps:
in the next article.)
    Where are you now in your financial life?
                                                                                 1. Assess your financial life. Based on
    Do you still carry in your mind unhealthy
financial beliefs?
                                                                                 the steps mentioned in the article, what
    Are you deep in debt?                                                        do you need to do to achieve financial
    Are you on your way to building your                                         freedom?
emergency fund or retirement fund?
    Or does your money work for you now through                                  2. Set your financial goals for the rest of
your passive income?                                                             the year and for the coming five years.
    Whatever stage you are in now, never forget
that the real purpose of money is to love.                                       3. Create a strategy and define action
                                                                                 plans that you would pursue to achieve
(For comments and reactions, email me at bosanchez@
kerygmafamily.com.)
                                                                                 your goals.




                  Laughingly Yours

Question and Answer from the Bible:

Q. What kind of man was Boaz before he married
   Ruth?
A. Ruthless.

Q. Which servant of God was the most flagrant
   lawbreaker in the Bible?
A. Moses. He broke all 10 commandments at once.

Q. Why didn’t they play cards on the Ark ?
A. Because Noah was standing on the deck.




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                                                                            ord God, I also want to proclaim your goodness to
                                                                            me through a financial breakthrough.”
                                                                             I wasn’t in a financial crisis when I said that
                                                                            prayer but I used to envy people in my community
                                                                    who testified to how God blessed and pulled them out of
                                                                    their financial difficulties. In my heart, I also hoped that
                                                                    I would be able to give such testimony. A few years later,
                                                                    something happened that turned my financial life upside
                                                                    down. Little did I know that this experience would pave
                                                                    the way for the Lord’s answer to my prayer.

                                                                    “Debt” Sentence
                                                                    I worked as a food technologist in a snack and noodle-
                                                                    making group of companies. My salary was enough to
                                                                    provide for my personal as well as my family’s needs and
                                                                    wants. I was just contented in having a job and receiving
                                                                    a reasonable amount of income every month. As long as
                                                                    our needs and wants were met, that was good enough
                                                                    for me. Savings and investments were not part of my
                                                                    vocabulary.
                                                                         As one of the breadwinners in the family, I provided
                                                                    for the groceries every 15th and 30th of the month. All my
                                                                    purchases were on cash basis. I didn’t have a credit card
                                                                    because I feared having debts. But when I transferred to
                                                                    a sister company where everyone had credit cards, I was
                                                                    somehow influenced by the culture and found myself
Irma, no longer enslaved by plastic money,                          getting not only one but two credit cards. And the delay
now pursues her life’s goals peacefully                             in the receipt of our salaries justified my need to have a
                                                                    credit card.
                                                                         I paid only the minimum amount due every billing

            Victory Over
                                                                    statement, unaware of its repercussions. In 2003, our
                                                                    company closed down. Although I received a separation
                                                                    pay, I didn’t prioritize my debts.


               My Debts:
                                                                         I availed of a cash loan promo offered by the card
                                                                    company as a way to pay off my debts and to have
                                                                    extra cash when I was broke and didn’t want to borrow


                How God
                                                                    from people. But this only worsened my situation. My
                                                                    outstanding balance ballooned due to finance charges
                                                                    and interests.
                                                                         When I defaulted on my payments, I received calls

              Raised Me                                             from the credit and collection agent of the card company
                                                                    almost daily. After each call, I felt pressured, harassed and
                                                                    embarrassed. I had no more peace because of the guilt,

              from Debt                                             fear and humiliation I suffered for many months. But it
                                                                    never crossed my mind to run away from my obligation.
                                                                    I applied for an amnesty for both credit cards but my

             to Financial                                           application was denied.

                                                                    Free at Last!


                Freedom
                                                                    On my birthday, I received a gift from my prayer partner
                                                                    — a Bo Sanchez book, Simplify and Live the Good Life. The

                   By Irma Francisco as told to Judith Concepcion
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practical tips given in this book on how to simplify                        partner. I am now serious in saving and investing my
one’s life especially in the area of credit cards led                       earnings.
me to a decision to cut my Visa card, which had a                                I still have credit cards but I use them only for insurance
higher credit limit. It was liberating. I prayed and                        premium payments and when I treat clients or hold
through my journal, God spoke to me: “Be not afraid.                        business meetings over lunch or dinner. Other than that,
I have allowed this crisis in your life to teach you an                     all my transactions are in cash. I now pay the total amount
important lesson. But I will help you pay your debts.                       due in my credit card so there won’t be any charges. I have
Just have faith in me.”                                                     made a commitment never to allow myself to be enslaved
    It took me over a year before I found work. I had                       by debt again. I have not used my credit cards since the
some tutoring jobs and through the help of a sister                         start of 2009.
in Christ, I taught part-time at the Lorenzo Mission                             I also have multiple income streams now. I still teach
Institute (LMI). Then a big opportunity came. Through                       at LMI and work as a real estate agent-broker. I am in the
the sale of a real estate property that I brokered,                         process of discerning what kind of business to put up for
I earned a huge commission that was more than                               my family.
enough to pay for all my debts. In October 2007, I                               The Lord has blessed me abundantly, more than I can
was finally debt-free.                                                      ever imagine. In return, I try to manage wisely whatever
                                                                            He has entrusted me. I am only His steward; all that I
Financial Freedom                                                           have belongs to Him.
The experience was an eye-opener for me. I realized
that I was a financial wreck and financially illiterate.                    An Answered Prayer
Though I wasn’t a credit addict or a shopping addict,                       It amazes me how the Lord answered the prayer I made
I didn’t plan my purchases. I didn’t know a thing                           several years back. I only wanted to witness for Him about
about budgeting, managing of finances, savings and                          His faithfulness and goodness to me in terms of financial
investments.                                                                blessings by sharing my experience with my community.
    I have learned my lesson the hard (and costly)                          But the Lord’s answer was more than I had ever wished
way. I am now prudent in handling my finances.                              for. He made it possible for my story to reach a great
Before entering into any financial transaction, I plan                      number of people through KERYGMA.
ahead, consult people who are knowledgeable in                                   He, indeed, is a God of surprises — and He listens to
a particular venture and pray a lot; I make God my                          every prayer we utter.




                                                         Laughingly Yours
  A new pastor moved into town and went out to visit his community. He came into a closed house, but it was
  obvious that someone was home. He knocked several times but no one answered. He took a card and wrote at the
  back, “‘Behold I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and dine
  with him, and he with Me’ (Revelation 3:20).”
      The next day, he found the card on the offering plate. Written below his message was, “‘I heard Your voice in the
  garden, and I was afraid because I was naked, and I hid myself’ (Genesis 3:10).”


  A little girl was talking to her teacher about whales. She said that Jonah was swallowed by a whale.
       The teacher said it was physically impossible for a whale to swallow a human being because even if it was a
  very large mammal, its throat was very small.
       The little girl said, “When I get to heaven, I will ask Jonah.”
       The teacher asked, What if Jonah went to hell?”
       The little girl replied, “Then you ask him.”

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                                              f you had a mango seed, would you eat It?
                                             Of course you wouldn’t, and you can’t, unless you’re some
                                             weird creature.
                                             But if you plant the mango seed and wait for a few years,
                                             you will have a full-grown tree that will give you about six
                                        thousand fruits in its lifetime.
                                            And if you again plant those 6000 seeds, you will get a
                                        bountiful harvest.
                                            But while waiting for your trees to bear fruit, what happens to
                                        you if you get hungry?
                                            You need something to eat.


   CREATE
                                            You need other sources of income.
                                            The sad thing is, majority of our countrymen are satisfied with
                                        just having something to eat. They do not bother to plant seeds
                                        that will bring them a bountiful harvest in the future.


  MULTIPLE
                                            This is a situation we call “man working for money. “
                                            But there are two stages higher than this.
                                            The next stage is “man works for the money, which in turn,


   INCOME
                                        works for man.”
                                            But the ultimate goal is when “money works for man” —
                                        meaning, a person has multiple income streams that create
                                        passive income.
                                            This is sound financial advice that even the Bible advocates.


STREAMS —                                    Give portions to seven, yes to eight, for you do not know what
                                             disaster may come upon the land. Divide your portion to



       DON’T
                                             seven or even to eight, for you do not know what misfortune
                                             may occur on the earth.
                                                                                        — Ecclesiastes 11:2

                                             In the morning sow your seed, and at evening withhold not


      SETTLE
                                             your hand; for you do not know which will prosper, this or
                                             that, or whether both alike will be good.
                                                                                      — Ecclesiastes 11:6




     FOR ONE
                                        The Miracle of the Passive Income:
                                        Linear versus Exponential Income
                                        The analogy of the mango tree is an example of a source of passive
                                        income. You do something once — plant the seeds — and after a
                                        while, you begin to earn. You continue to earn even while you’re
                                        asleep, doing your regular work or having a vacation.
                        by bo sanchez        Let’s say you were looking for a job. Somebody approaches you
                                        and says, “I am putting up a new business. Can I hire you? I know
                                        you’re honest, faithful, dependable and a person of integrity.”
                                             Because you need a job badly, you’d say, “Yes! But how much
                                        is the salary?”
                                             The man says, “I can give you P30,000 a month for three years.”




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You get excited. “Yes, I’ll take the job.”                           I’m sure many of you would prefer the first option
   But the man makes a second offer. “I can give you one           — the P30,000 monthly salary.
centavo on your first month. But I promise to double it on the          But you know what? The table on the left shows
next month.”                                                       that, over time, the second option would give you a
   “You mean I’ll get only two centavos on the second              higher income than the first.
month?” you ask.                                                        The first option provides you with a linear income
   “Yes, and on the third month it will be four centavos. I’ll     while the second option gives you exponential
double your salary every month. Which do you prefer?” the          income.
man tries to convince you.                                              Linear income is like a piece of bread. When you
                                                                   eat it, your stomach becomes full. But tomorrow,
             First Option                 Second Option
                                                                   you’re hungry again and you don’t have any more
 Year   Monthly                      Monthly       Accumulated     bread. You have to look for bread again.
        Salary                        Salary          Income
                                                                        Exponential income is like the mango seed I
  1     30,000.00     30,000.00             0.01            0.01
                                                                   illustrated to you in the beginning of this article.
  2     30,000.00     60,000.00             0.02            0.03        But to have a healthy financial life, you need to
  3     30,000.00     90,000.00             0.04            0.07   have both linear and exponential income until such
  4     30,000.00    120,000.00             0.08            0.15   time that the latter is big enough to take care of you
                                                                   and your family’s needs, and allows you to share
  5     30,000.00    150,000.00             0.16            0.31
                                                                   more blessings with others.
  6     30,000.00    180,000.00             0.32            0.63
  7     30,000.00    210,000.00             0.64            1.27   Two Sources of Linear Income
  8     30,000.00    240,000.00             1.28            2.55
  9     30,000.00    270,000.00             2.56            5.11   1. Job
  10    30,000.00    300,000.00             5.12           10.23
                                                                       Do you see a man skilled in his work? He will
  11    30,000.00    330,000.00            10.24           20.47
                                                                       serve before kings; he will not serve before
  12    30,000.00    360,000.00            20.48           40.95       obscure men.
  13    30,000.00    390,000.00            40.96           81.91                                  — Proverbs 22:29
  14    30,000.00    420,000.00            81.92          163.83
  15    30,000.00    450,000.00           163.84          327.67
                                                                        Would you like to serve before kings?
                                                                        By that I mean not in the manner that would
  16    30,000.00    480,000.00           327.68          655.35
                                                                   make you a servant or a slave, but in the sense that
  17    30,000.00    510,000.00           655.36        1,310.71   you would be so blessed in your jobs that you’d rise
  18    30,000.00    540,000.00         1,310.72        2,621.43   up and become promoted and get all the bonuses
  19    30,000.00    570,000.00         2,621.44        5,242.87   and commissions.
  20    30,000.00    600,000.00         5,242.88       10,485.75        But that isn’t usually the case. You do not decide
                                                                   when you will get a raise or how big it is. You have a
  21    30,000.00    630,000.00        10,485.76       20,971.51
                                                                   boss who decides on such matters.
  22    30,000.00    660,000.00        20,971.52       41,943.03        What you need to do to be successful in your
  23    30,000.00    690,000.00        41,943.04       83,886.07   job and earn a huge linear income is to have an
  24    30,000.00    720,000.00        83,886.08     167,772.15    entrepreneurial mindset or spirit. You must feel as if
  25    30,000.00    750,000.00       167,772.16     335,544.31    you are a part-owner of the company.
                                                                        How do you do it?
  26    30,000.00    780,000.00       335,544.32     671,088.63
                                                                        Approach your boss and say, “Boss, give me more
  27    30,000.00    810,000.00       671,088.64    1,342,177.27   work.” Create an image of doing things so fast and so
  28    30,000.00    840,000.00     1,342,177.28    2,684,354.55   efficiently so that the higher-ups would notice you
  29    30,000.00    870,000.00     2,684,354.56    5,368,709.11   and trust you with more work and responsibilities.
  30    30,000.00    900,000.00     5,368,709.12   10,737,418.23   As you go up the ladder, you get rewarded.
  31    30,000.00    930,000.00    10,737,418.24   21,474,836.47
                                                                   2. Self-Employment
  32    30,000.00    960,000.00    21,474,836.48   42,949,672.95
  33    30,000.00    990,000.00    42,949,672.96   85,899,345.91       Then the Lord your God will make you most
  34    30,000.00   1,020,000.00   85,899,345.92 171,798,691.83        prosperous in all the work of your hands.
  35    30,000.00   1,050,000.00 171,798,691.84 343,597,383.67                                 — Deuteronomy 30:9
  36    30,000.00   1,080,000.00   343,597,383.68 687,194,767.35
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When you set up your own sari-sari store, you are self-                               b. Business
employed. If you are a doctor and you put up your own                                      When you hear the word“millionaire,”
clinic, you are also self-employed.                                                        who comes to mind? Maybe the
     In both cases, you are your own boss. This is a good step                             likes of Manny Pacquiao, Bill Gates,
but it’s not a real business. It’s what you call a “glorified job.”                        Kris Aquino and other big-name
There is no exponential income.                                                            celebrities, right?
     A real business is where you hire people working under                                     But do you know what the
you such that you multiply yourself. When you open up                                      surveys say? Only one percent of
another store and hire someone to work for you, you earn                                   millionaires are famous people. Five percent are
exponential income.                                                                        salesmen working for companies. Ten percent
     So don’t be content with having a linear income — aim                                 are top doctors and lawyers. Another 10 percent
for exponential income and continue to earn even while                                     are top executives. The rest of the 74 percent are
you’re on vacation.                                                                        entrepreneurs.
                                                                                                Isn’t that amazing?
Some Examples of Exponential Income                                                             You can’t be a Bill Gates or a Kris Aquino, but can
In exponential income, money works for you. This is where                                  you be a businessman and start a small business in
passive income starts.                                                                     your backyard? That’s my challenge to you — even
                                                                                           if you fail!
a. Retirement Fund                                                                              I’ve failed eight times in business and lost a lot
                                                                                           of money. But guess what? Every time I fail, I pick
    And other seeds fell into good soil and brought                                        myself up and say, “It’s tuition month. I’m learning
    forth grain, growing up and increasing and yielding                                    something new.”
    thirtyfold and sixtyfold and a hundredfold.                                                 But you see, when you lose in business, you
                                              — Mark 4:8                                   lose money but you earn in financial wisdom. Now,
                                                                                           I have 11 income streams. I earn a little here, a little
      I asked people who bet on lotto how much they normally                               there but if you collect them all, guess what? It
spend a week in buying tickets. They said around P50.                                      amounts to something substantial. My goal is to
      For many Filipinos, lotto is no longer a game; they look                             have 20 income streams, so I’m halfway there.
at it as an investment. You see them lining up every week,
hoping to win the draw. But do you know the probability of                                 c. Real Estate
winning in the lotto? It’s like being hit by a lightning twice                             Real estate is a good exponential income source.
on the same spot.                                                                          It’s exponential because you can have as many
      What I want and pray for is that every Filipino would have                           lands and properties that you want. Just have the
a retirement fund. Do not depend on what your company                                      knowledge. Buy a property without using your
will give you when you retire at 60. Depend on your own                                    own money.
retirement fund.
      Get a P50-bill from your pocket. Look closely at it. Would                           d. More Aggressive Paper Assets
you believe me when I say that inside the P50 you’re holding                               There’s the stock market, commodities trading, e-
now is P50 million?                                                                        trade (I haven’t tried this. If you don’t know anything
    You want me to prove it to you?                                                        about it, study it — even if it takes one year). You
    If you invest it at zero percent, it will never become P50                             see, the key is not money. The key is knowledge
million.                                                                                   — knowing what you’re going to do.
    If you invest it at three percent a year, it will become P50
million in 468 years; at five percent a year, in 284 years; at 15                          The Next Steps
percent, in 99 years. And so on.                                                           To increase your income you need to increase your
    It might appear absurd — to wait for decades and                                       value. How do you do this?
centuries for your P50 to become P50 million. But hey, you
don’t have only P50 in your wallet, right?                                                 a. Learn about money.
      So start building your retirement fund now while you’re                              Listen. Attend seminars. Read all the books on
still young.                                                                               money that you can find.




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b. Talk and teach about money.
                  Whatever you learn after reading my articles on
                  money, share it with your spouse, kids, friends and
                                                                             Bo’s Action Steps:
                  officemates. Teaching is the best way to learn.
                                                                           1. Assess your present sources of
                  c. Change your regular conversation partners.               income. What kind of income
                  If you constantly talk with people who are                  do you have?
                 interested only in show business, believe me, you         2. Define your goals for your
won’t learn anything about money.
                                                                              income streams. How many
    Why don’t you talk about money and business? Every time
you see a successful businessman and entrepreneur, tell him, “Can             income streams do you want?
we have coffee? I want to know how you made your business a                   What are these?
success.” Pick his brains for the price of a capuccino. Ask questions,     3. Create a strategy and action
take down notes and learn all you can from him about money and                plans, together with a timetable,
business.                                                                     to achieve your multiple income
d. Look for business opportunities.
                                                                              streams.
Keep your eyes open for opportunities. Start by selling anything           4. Work on one income stream at
— yes, just anything.                                                         a time.
     Selling is a very important skill. If you do not know how to sell,
it would be difficult to succeed in your business. You may say, “Bo,
I’m shy. I can’t sell.”
     Hey, I know a lot of people who are shy and soft-spoken,
but they do well in selling. Why? Because the bottomline of any
selling activity is relationship building. It’s not how good you are              Laughingly Yours
as a speaker. What’s important is the sincerity of your heart. And
people smell that a mile away. If you’re someone that they can
trust, they will buy. But you need to have the drive, that goal, that
dream that you’re working for and you’d be able to sell. So sell          A religion teacher announced to her class, “Our
anything.                                                                 lesson for today is liturgy. Can anybody tell me
                                                                          what liturgy is in your own words?”
e. Dream big but start small.                                                    Twelve-year-old Pedro proudly stood up
Start very small. I started by selling butong-pakwan (watermelon          and said confidently, “That’s the letter after F.”
seeds).
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    Do you think I’m a happy person?
    I’m happy not because I have passive income.
    I’m happy not because I have multiple income streams.                 When you lose in
                                                                          business, you lose
    Every morning when I wake up, I say, “Lord, I’m going to bless
people today.”
    Every single morning, I say that.
    And the Lord allows me to do that — and that is why I want to
be truly rich: to be able to bless and help more people.
                                                                          money but you
    Let that be your dream, too.
                                                                          earn in financial
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                                                                          wisdom.
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T
                                                                         about money but let’s just just focus on
                                                    here are loTs of myThs
                                                    the common ones. They can be represented by the acronym
                                                    M-O-N-E-Y M-Y-T-H-S for easy recall. As you read, check
                                                    your own beliefs — do you subscribe to any of these tales?
                                                    You may not be aware of it, but some of these myths may
                                           be hurting your financial life.

                                           M – Money is the root of all evil.
                                           This is one of the oldest myths about money. I Timothy 6:10 says,
                                           “… the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil.” The verse clearly
                                           states that the “love for money” is evil and not money itself. Money


       How                                 is neutral and can be used for either good or bad. Money makes a
                                           terrible master but is a good servant when used by those who serve
                                           God.



         the
                                           O – Only those born rich can have money.
                                           The 40 richest Filipinos included in the October 2008 issue of Forbes
                                           magazine showed almost the same names from the past years’
                                           editions. Except for changes in ranking, it’s easy to anticipate the



      Myths
                                           names of Ayalas, Tans and Sys in the list. Does it mean that money
                                           is restricted to their families only?
                                                If you believe in this myth then the probability of you staying
                                           “poor” increases each day. Mark Zuckerberg (CEO and founder of the
                                           popular social networking site “Facebook”) is only in his mid-20s and


      About
                                           is the youngest member of US Billionaires list. There are a lot of first
                                           generation millionaires who are slowly sneaking into the elite list of
                                           various countries (Philippines included). This just proves a point that
                                           rich people are not always from rich families.


      Money                                N – No money = Holiness
                                           According to Luke 18:22, Jesus told the rich young man, “Sell all
                                           you have and give the money to the poor, and you will have riches



     May Be
                                           in heaven; then come and follow me.”
                                               Does this mean that if you have money you are not holy? Not
                                           exactly. Spirituality or holiness does not equate to poverty. God
                                           cares for the poor out of compassion but you do not get extra points
                                           from God because you remain poor. Your wealth or poverty does not


     Hurting
                                           determine your spirituality, but your service to God and others will
                                           certainly do.

                                           E – Everything you buy in a sale gives you savings



        You
                                           We need to qualify this myth because it depends on the reason
                                           why you are making the purchase. If you need something which
                                           happens to be on next Friday’s mall sale, then it’s worthwhile to
                                           buy it. However, it would be a different scenario if you go to a sale,
                        By Alvin Fabella   buy something because it has a big discount but later realize that
                                           you don’t need the item. As much as possible, avoid going to a sale




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just to window-shop because the discount                                           T – Tithing is the only requirement of God.
tags might just influence you to buy wants                                         Don’t assume that when you tithe regularly you are free to
rather than needs.                                                                 do what you want with whatever is left. We should recognize
                                                                                   that all our blessings come from God and we are accountable
Y – You project God’s blessing with                                                as to how we spend our money until the last centavo. Another
money.                                                                             myth on tithing is when you promise to give more only when
The book of Deuteronomy 8:18 says,                                                 you receive (or make) a bigger income. Some people vow to
“Remember the Lord your God, for it is                                             donate a significant portion of the lotto prize if God allows
He who gives you the ability to produce                                            them to win. You cannot give a bigger amount later if you do
wealth.”                                                                           not practice tithing with what you have now.
     It is good to recognize that all your
blessings (material items included) are                                            H – Having insurance or pension is only for “old” people
from God. However, it is not the best way to                                       who are retiring or sickly.
promote God to others. Max Lucado, in his                                          Young people tend to avoid anyone who sells insurance or
book entitled It’s Not About You, encourages                                       pension because of the above myth. They should always
Christians to be God’s promoter here on                                            consider that premiums for insurance tend to be lower while
earth by showing our triumphs over trials.                                         one is young because there is lesser risk for the provider. It
It’s always better to show off our godliness                                       is always best to get an insurance or pension plan while you
by loving our fellowmen and loving God                                             are young and healthy.
regardless if we own a big house or drive
the latest car.                                                                    S – Saving in the bank is enough.
                                                                                   The answer to this myth is very simple: inflation. Philippine
M – Money makes the world go round.                                                inflation for the past two years has been ranging from six
Sometimes we confuse money with what is                                            to ten percent. This means that our money loses at least six
actually more important. Money is not the                                          percent in purchasing power every year. Majority of banks
most important thing in life but it affects                                        offer saving accounts which pay only two percent interest per
everything that is important in our lives.                                         year (tax deduction of 20 percent on the interest still to be
You need money to give your family both                                            applied). This means that your savings now, no matter how
a comfortable house and food to eat every                                          big, will just continue to decline in value. There is a need for
day. But there is a big difference between                                         one to consider other investment vehicles like bonds, stocks,
being concerned about money so you can                                             mutual funds and others. It should not be a problem looking
be a good provider versus being obsessed                                           for a friend who can help you in this area.
with it.                                                                               How we deal with our money is important. The above
                                                                                   myths will affect your decisions in money management.
Y – You have God’s approval if you have                                            Always make sure to learn the facts and make proper use of
financial prosperity.                                                              your money.
We know that not all rich people acquired
their wealth through lawful means. We                                              (For comments or reactions, email the author at alvinfabella@yahoo.
cannot measure God’s approval by the size                                          com)
of one’s house or bank statement. If you
are blessed with such material wealth then
you should be thankful and find ways you
                                                                                   You cannot give a bigger amount
can help others with it. Your wealth is not                                        later if you do not practice
a sign that God favors you more than a
lesser fortunate brother or sister.                                                tithing with what you have now.




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                                            absolutely love talking to Rex Mendoza.
                                                 Sure, he’s a self-made man and quite successful.
                                            But Rex wants more — he aims for significance. His
                                            purpose is to make a difference in other people’s
                                            lives.
                                           Just doing the interview with him made an impact on
                                       my life. Know why? Listen in on our conversation.

                                       Bo: You’ve been giving talks to people about financial
                                       management. You seem very passionate about it.
                                       Rex: Yes, it has been my advocacy to make people learn
                                       about money management. After my talks, people would
                                       approach me and say, “The money’s really not enough,
                                       Rex. There is nothing to save.” And I ask them, “When
                                       will it ever be enough?” The point is for you to really take
                                       something out of your take-home pay and then, whatever
                                       is left, you try and make it enough. As your income grows,
                                       continue setting aside a part of it and then before you
                                       know it, what you’ve set aside can already work for you.
                                            I think I remember telling you about “man at work, man
                                       and money at work, money at work” — the three stages
                                       of money consciousness. Maybe 95 percent of Filipinoas
                                       are in the first stage of money consciousness. They study,
                                       grow up, get a job, have a family, get that car, try to get
                                       that house and then they retire — that’s it! But if you have
                                       this consciousness to save and invest, you can have man
                                       and money at work at a certain stage and you can enjoy

             REX                       life because you’re not hard-pressed to earn money all the
                                       time. You can enjoy your work without having to look at
                                       the money side.

        MENDOZA:
                                            What I’d like to happen is for people to be conscious
                                       of those three stages because the dream should be to
                                       get into the money-at-work stage so that you can stop
The Good Influencer                    working or just do the things you love to do. That’s the
                                       reason why I admire people who, at a certain stage in
                                       their lives, just become philanthropic. From success, they
                                       switch to significance.
                                            For now, at my age, I’m still looking at more success but
             His Purpose Is to Make    I see that side of me that says there has to be significance
                                       later. You don’t become a person of legacy with only
                       a Difference    success. There has to be significance.

                                       Bo: You have a very good theory about the lotto. Can
                                       you share on that a bit?
          An Interview By Bo Sanchez   Rex: Do you notice that wherever there’s a lotto terminal,
                                       there’s a queue? Those guys are probably thinking, “It’s
                                       time to hit that jackpot.” Many of them are already thinking
                                       about what they’d do in case they win. They’re already
                                       planning for something that’s not bound to happen. Why?
                                       Do the math. In lotto, your chances of hitting that jackpot
                                       is 1 out of 14 million. If that doesn’t sound so absurd, let
                                       me describe it to you in a picturesque way. It is like getting
                                       hit by lightning twice on the same spot. interview By
                                                                             An That’s how odd it
                                       is.                                          Bo Sanchez
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At your age, Bo, have you been hit by lightning? Not
     yet. But supposing you were struck once, then you have to
     stay there and get hit a second time. That is your chance
     of hitting the jackpot. Now, look at our countrymen —
     instead of setting aside the money, they bet on chance.

     Bo: That’s right.
     Rex: They’re actually projecting their future based on
     chance. It’s largely culture-based. A lot of poor people                      One thing Rex is passionate
     say, “That probably is what God wants for me.” That’s a                       about is teaching people to be
                                                                                   responsible for their financial
     defeatist way of looking at things. As far as I’m concerned,                  lives.
     God gave you the freedom to decide. He probably knows
     what will happen, yes, but you still have the freedom
     to decide. So would you like to live your life based on                     easier for a camel to get through the eye of the needle
     chance? Or would you like to put up the building blocks                     than for a rich man to enter the Kingdom of God.” I think
     that will be the foundation of real wealth? As I was telling                it’s OK to get rich as long as you have the right purpose.
     my driver, P20 in my pocket is more secure than putting                          So, in my case, clearly it’s not only getting rich but also
     P20 into that lotto. (I haven’t bet my money on the lotto                   providing a template for people that says, “Hey, follow this
     and I take pride in saying that.) Others would rationalize                  track because it works.” I’m still young, my dad’s still alive
     that if they don’t win in the lotto, at least they’ve given                 (my mom just died a few years ago), but they lived in my
     something to charity. Well, if you want to give, you have                   house for the past 12 years because my mom had a stroke
     to do it as charity itself, not through lotto.                              and I asked them to move to my place where it’s safer.
         When you try to win a jackpot on a regular basis, that’s                What am I trying to say here? I’m pushing the idea that,
     investing. You just chose a bad instrument. Why? People                     “Hey, I’m not getting any inheritance. I’ve worked for the
     line up with a small sheet of paper with the numbers                        money I have. I never really got anything from anybody
     they regularly bet on. Some people even bet on the same                     that says, ‘OK, Rex, this is your capital.’” I started working
     numbers for years! If you set aside P10 to P20 a week                       with a company that paid me P1800 a month. Everybody
     for lotto, hoping to make a withdrawal one day, that’s                      started off that way. The reason why I’m energized to share
     investing. But obviously, 99.99 percent are not going to                    this story is to tell people they can do it, too. Anybody can
     have that payback.                                                          do it. You just need discipline and you have to be really
                                                                                 grounded with your purpose. If you’re just looking for
     Bo: And then they hear stories of really poor people                        money, not purpose, you can be successful but it’s going
     winning the jackpot — a farmer, for instance — so the                       to be short-lived. Because as long as you don’t have a
     more they put their hope in the lotto.                                      sense of purpose, you’re not going to be grounded. And if
     Rex: They want to be emancipated from their lot. But                        you’re not grounded, you’re going to do the wrong things.
     that’s not what they need. What is necessary is a mindset                   That is very crucial.
     shift — that their future, their life, their destiny is in their
     hands. If you have the talent and you can harness it, why                   Bo: What is your purpose, Rex?
     not use it to improve your situation?                                       Rex: To make a difference. I feel that I have a way of linking
         But some poor people even spiritualize their poverty                    up with people that can move them. I have the gift of gab.
     and point to that verse in the Bible that says, “It will be                 I will not be humble about it. But I use that not to con
                                                                                 people into something but to teach and educate well. I
                                                                                 have taught in the graduate school of business of a big
                                                                                 university for a long period. It’s a matter of throwing back,
                                                                                 breeding a kind of idealism into the young guys. Making
                                                                                 a difference for me is on the influence side. I know I’m a
                                                                                 good influencer.
                                                                                     Somebody did a psychological exam on me and it’s
                                                                                 very enlightening. It revealed that I’d rather believe the
                                                                                 purpose of a task than the money it’d bring in. You know
                                                                                 what I told them? “Hey, that’s what brings in the real
                                                                                 money.”

His family is the reason why Rex does what he does and why having a secure
                                                                                 (Email the author at bosanchez@kerygmafamily.com.)
financial future is a must for him. They deserve nothing but the best in life.
Above photo shows his real treasures in life: eldest daughter Peevee, wife
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T
          he village of gK Baseco has in recent
          years been renowned both in the
          Philippines and around the world for its
          transformation from hopelessness to
          hope, from despair to dignity. Visitors
                                                                                                                                New life emerges for Baseco residents
from diverse backgrounds have graced the village
— from the president of Singapore, to students from
Manila’s universities, to employees and executives
from multinational corporations
and government departments.
    In turn, residents of Baseco                              Baseco GK                                     Caretaker Team’s Presence
are often found building houses
for others in remote areas of the
Philippines as part of GK’s Bayani
                                                              Caretakers                                    When asked what makes the biggest difference
                                                                                                            in Baseco’s ongoing transformation, Jun has no
                                                                                                            hesitation in crediting his caretaker team.
Challenges.
                                                             Giving Care                                        “It’s the presence of caretakers!” Jun exclaims
                                                                                                            unreservedly. GK’s strength over the years has
A Difficult Transformation                                                                                  been the presence of couples, singles and youth
Such are the manifold success                                                                               from Couples for Christ, working alongside the
stories of Baseco that it’s easy to forget how difficult it is to                             residents and witnessing to them with their hands, not just
achieve transformation. For Project Director Jun Valbuena                                     their words.
and his Caretaker Team, the struggle has been a labor of love                                      “It is showing them the love that we share with them,” Jun
forged over the last four or so years of their lives. Many of                                 notes, sounding a word of caution. “I would say that whenever
them have worked alongside the villagers in Baseco since the                                  we see a site that is deteriorating in any way, it’s because of
start — when GK Baseco was resurrected from the ashes of a                                    an absence of caretakers.”
fire in the slum area in 2004.                                                                     Conversely, the most significant transformations have
     And given the many obvious changes, Jun Valbuena is                                      come about as a result of doors opened by the work of addressing
startlingly circumspect.                                                                      poverty. “We’re able to invite people into our community — to
     “After four years we’ve seen a little change,” Jun                                       witness to them — because they see something good in us.”
says, surprising those who see the incredible before-after                                         “We run the Christian Life Program (a Catholic renewal
contrasts. “You cannot change the people overnight. But                                       seminar) here because we want the GK residents to be
we’re experiencing some changes, some transformation in                                       protected. If there is no one to take care of them, to mentor
the people.”                                                                                  them, they will go back to being in a slum again. The survival
     “Habits of a lifetime can be hard to change,” Jun says,                                  mode is very hard to leave.”
especially for adults who have lived most of their lives in                                        For Jun Valbuena and his team, commitment to the
a slum. And GK works hard to prevent their villages from                                      residents of Baseco arose from positive change in their own
slipping back into the slums. Still, over four years, things                                  lives. “For me, I’ve been in our community for the last 24
have progressed significantly.                                                                years. There was a big change in my life since I joined and I
                                                                                              want to share it with the people, with the couples here. I am
Renewal of Minds and Spirit                                                                   encouraged to do even more to show them our love when I see
“Little by little we’re transforming the people,” Jun says.                                   transformation in the lives of the residents.”
“Each Monday for the last four years, we have a prayer and                                         He smiles and says, “I think for every GK worker it is like
worship session at 8 a.m. We pray together and talk about                                     this. That’s why we stay — it’s because of love! We want to
their problems and challenges.”                                                               share the love that we’re experiencing in every GK site.”
     Where in the past, GK provided leadership to a community                                      “It’s bringing glad tidings to the poor,” he affirms. And
struggling to face life’s trials, many residents are now forging                              walking around Baseco meeting children with a future brighter
their own way forward. “They’re the ones bringing the                                         than ever before, visitors can see the legacy of the caretakers’
solutions (to problems),” Jun relates. “We just talk it over                                  love taking shape day after day, step by persevering step.
with them.”
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                           T
                                      his is going To be  another one of those articles


      scribbles
                                       about little things we take for granted. I’ve
                                       already written similar articles in past issues,
                                       so if you’re sick of it, email the KERYGMA editor
                                       two polite words — “Point taken.” Or write
       by rosanne romero   me two words (“Quit it”) on my blog (rosanneromero.
                           wordpress.com).
                                I want to focus on that small, fat and short finger we
                           call the thumb. You’re thinking, “What’s the big deal?”


       Disdain
                                Some months back, I lost the use of my right thumb.
                           At first, it just started getting weaker. Later, it became
                           stiff, inflexible and painful. It was hard for me to make
                           people see why this was upsetting me. After all, I still


Not Thy Thumb              had four fingers left, right?
                                Without a thumb, there would still be four fingers
                           functioning and with four fingers there are many things
                           you still can do. Like? Flush the toilet. Switch off a light.
                           Pat your dog. Scratch your head. Put your hair back
                           in place. True. But listen to this — when Julius Ceasar
                           waged war over Gaul, he ordered his men to amputate
                           the thumbs of all the captured warriors so that they
                           would go back to their homeland and never be able to
                           bear arms again.
                                See that? So, verily I say unto you: “Disdain not
                           thy thumb.” (That’s in Fake-lesiastes 78:19.)
                                Other than bearing arms for war, there are
                           unpolitical, everyday tasks that become maddeningly
                           difficult without the thumb. Try frying anything with
                           just your four fingers — hmmm. Try buttoning a shirt
                           — tsk! Try pulling a zipper up or down — double tsk!
                           Use a nail clipper — sigh! Get bills from your wallet or
                           get a coin from your coin purse — darn! Hold a bar of
                           soap? What the…! Turn a doorknob? Grrrrr. Tie your
                           shoelaces? Double grrrr. Try holding a toothbrush.
                           Arrrgh. Try flossing your teeth! Double arrrrgh! You can
                           drive without your thumb… if you can get the key in
                           and start it with four fingers — qwjd!!#nchfgiuhvj@#!
                                The thumb is quite a big deal. It’s not an insignificant
                           body part. It only seems insignificant because yours
                           functions normally. Go over all the things you do in
                           one day that requires using your thumb. If you suddenly
                           lost it, you would have a better appreciation of it.
                                This is why I write about these little things I suffer
                           on account of my multiple sclerosis (MS). I want my
                           life to honor God — this life now — the one that has
                           a problematic thumb, wobbly legs, slightly deteriorated
                           vision, etc. I want this life of mine to honor God. And
                           I honor Him by bringing to fore the little blessed things
                           we rarely thank Him for.
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                     seasoned financial analysts. They can        learn about how to spot opportunities in      author, Bro. Bo Sanchez was one of
                     schedule their investments by setting up     the stock market. Until recently, investors   those who took up COL’s challenge to
                     a fixed amount to be invested at regular     like Billie Syling, who with her husband      learn more about online stock trading
                     intervals through COL’s online platform.     runs a family business supplying industry     even if he did not have any financial
                     Customers will be reminded through           mills and heads the Alumnae Association       training. He attended a COL seminar in
                     email prior to their scheduled investment    of Immaculate Concepcion Academy,             March 2007 and since then has been
                     dates and they will be able to track their   used to rely on a broker for advice and to    buying selected shares from what he
                     portfolio over the internet anytime and      execute trades. She found it frustrating      believes are solid, enduring and growing
                     see how their investments are                when her conversation with the broker         companies.


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                                                                         y one-year-old daughter,Helene, is a math genius.
                                                                              When you ask her, “One plus one?” She will answer,


                                 preacher
                                                                          “Two!”
                                                                              But you may say that there are a lot of one-year-
                                                                          olds who can answer that simple question. However,
                                                           when you continue to ask her a series of math questions, you will
                                                           agree with me that she is really a whiz kid.
                                                                We tried to do that and it blew our minds away.
                                           by arun gogna                              “Helene, four minus two?”



                                                     One
                                                                                      She blurts out, in her same high-pitched
                                                                                 tone, “Two!”
                                                                                      “How about ten minus eight?”



                                                     Plus
                                                                                      She answers, “Two!”
                                                                                      So we continued. “One hundred divided by
                                                                                 fifty?”
                                                                                      “Two!”


                                                     One
                                                                                      And now we ask the hardest one, “Square
                                                                                 root of four?”
                                                                                      Without batting an eyelash she answers,



                                                   Equals
                                                                                 “Two!”
                                                                                      She’s a genius (like Daddy)!
                                                                                      Seriously, let’s get to my point. I was thinking



                                                    Two!
                                                                                 about this one day — how it is so amusing that
                                                                                 she can answer every single math equation we
                                                                                 ask her with just one number. Then it dawned on
                                                                                 me: Life could be as simple as that.
                                                                                      We may have a host of questions about
                                                                                 the cards life deals us, but to it all we can only
                                                                                 supply one answer in order to live serenely.
                                                                The answer? “Jesus, I trust in You!”
                                                                Living day to day could be a great challenge, especially
                                                           nowadays, but there is only one key answer: trust.
                                                                Did you just lose your job? Say, “Jesus, I trust in You.”
                                                                In times of sickness or confusion, find the strength to utter,
                                                           “Jesus, I trust in You.”
                                                                If friends or family abandon you, just pray, “Jesus, I trust in
                                                           You.”
                                                                Always remember the phrase, “Jesus, I trust in You,” when you
                                                           are in pain.
                                                                When you are questioning everything that is happening to you,
                                                           just believe in this one mantra — “Jesus, I trust in You.”
                                                                Even when (and especially if) God seems to be silent, cry out,
                                                           “Jesus, I trust in You!”
                                                                This simple prayer was prayed by our great saints in their deepest
                                                           time of tribulation. That is why they were victorious. That is why they
                                                           are holy.
                                                                If it is prayed from the heart, the phrase will give us enough
                                                           faith to face not just your day but your lifetime.
                                                                “Jesus, I trust in You!”
                                                                Let’s make it a habit.
                                                                It doesn’t only answer the “math problems” of life, but every
                                                           possible life subject we can think of.
                                                                So, what is our answer if we want to be a genius in this course
                                                           called life?
                                                                Yup, you got it, “Jesus, I trust in You!”
                                                                It’s simple really! Take it from my Helene.
                                                                One trusting heart and one all-loving God equal two.

                                                           To invite Arun in your events, contact Creative House at 401-8238. Also check
Helene’s a real beauty like her mom, Lallaine              his website at www.arungogna.com.

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one last                                   I Was Prepared for
                                 story                                              My Death
                                  By Raymond C. Eli
                                                   caño                    But God Had Other
                                                                                 Plans for Me
                 ly
 The Elicaño Fami




A
              s I prepared my farewell            The Sweet Scent of Roses                      rare condition called cystic nephroma
              letters to my wife and children,    My brother Mike, a devotee of Our Lady,       — and that means my cyst was benign.
              I recalled a prayer I said almost   Mediatrix of All Graces, encouraged           Only around 200 such cases were
              20 years ago when a senior          me to make a pilgrimage to the Carmel         documented in the United States since it
              executive in the company I          Monastery in Lipa, where our Blessed          was first identified in 1890. A pathologist
worked for died of cancer.                        Mother Mary appeared in 1948,                 said that my condition was so statistically
     “Lord, I pray that when I die, it would      accompanied by showers of rose petals.        improbable that it was like I had won first
be of cancer so I can prepare myself              The shower recurred in 1991 and my            prize in lotteries and sweepstakes several
spiritually.”                                     brother got one petal with an image of        times over!
     Convinced that God was granting              Jesus. He lost his petal a few years ago.          Deep in my heart, I firmly believe
me one final blessing by allowing me to           Miraculously, my brother’s wife found         that through intense prayers and the
contract cancer, I started preparing myself       it the day before my operation and she        intercession of
spiritually before I went under the knife to      immediately brought it to me.                 Our Lady, Mary
remove a 7.6-inch cyst (19 centimeters)                On August 19, weak and in pain,          Mediatrix       of
in my left kidney. Despite my wife’s              I made a pilgrimage to the Carmel             All Grace, my
reluctance, we made legal preparations in         Monastery. While praying in the vigil         operation went
case I didn’t survive the operation.              room, I smelled a very strong scent of        successfully
     What I wasn’t prepared for was how           roses, which I attributed to what I thought   and the cyst
God, through Our Lady’s intercession,             were real roses adorning the walls of the     was rendered
would answer my prayer.                           prayer room. I felt being embraced by so      benign.      The
                                                  much love that it moved me to tears.          scent of roses
Falling Ill                                                                                     that she sent
Around February 2008, I started                   Comfort During Surgery                        my way gave
experiencing pain in my left rib area and         On August 26, 2008, I went through a          me       strength
lost more than 20 pounds. On August 14,           radical nephrectomy, lasting for 8-1/2        to survive the
2008, during my annual executive checkup,         hours, to remove my cyst, left kidney and     operation and
a cyst almost the size of a small watermelon      adrenal gland. Just before I was brought      quickly recover
was found in my kidney. It was so big that        into the operating room, I smelled a faint    from it.
it completely engulfed my left kidney so          scent of roses although there were no
that the kidney was barely functioning. It        flowers in the room. This comforted me        The        Best
pushed aside the organs in my abdominal           greatly and I felt peace.                     Preparation
cavity and compressed my left lung so that it          Anticipating heavy blood loss, the       But more than
couldn’t expand fully. In addition, the cyst      doctor advised us to prepare seven blood      the     physical
was beside the aorta, making the operation        donors. Everything went smoothly during       healing,     the
to remove it somewhat risky, giving me            the operation. I recovered quickly and        miraculous occurrences before, during
only a 50 percent chance of survival. The         this surprised my doctors. Two days after     and after my surgery led my family and
urologist said that 90 percent of all cysts       the operation I could walk around the         me to the path of spiritual renewal.
larger than 10 centimeters are malignant.         hospital room.                                We have become more prayerful and
An oncologist said that treatment for kidney                                                    cognizant of the many blessings that
cancer is long and painful and, again, the        Rare Finding                                  God has given us. My wife and I have
survival rate is only 50 percent.                 A team of six pathologists from the           committed to contribute to church and
     All these prognoses led me to prepare        National Kidney Institute and Asian           other worthwhile activities to help the
myself for death but not without losing           Hospital examined the cyst. After more        poor and the needy.
hope in God’s love for me and in our              than a week of careful examination and            And that, I guess, is the best
Blessed Mother’s intercession.                    research, they concluded that I had a very    preparation of all!



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point of of contact
   pointcontact
   bo sanchez


  I pray that you receive your
     miracles in Jesus’ name!
I PRAY THAT GOD LIFT YOUR TRIALS, heal your
    diseases, bless your problems and direct
    you to the path He wants you to take. I pray
    that God remove your fears and give you the
    courage to surrender your burdens to Him.
         So place your hand over my hand, and
    let’s pray with trust, together with our
    prayer team of intercessors praying for you
    right now…

        This page is our Point of Contact, our
    spiritual connection.
        Say after me…

        In the Name of the Father, the Son, and
   the Holy Spirit.
        Lord, I surrender to You my worries and
   anxieties. I surrender to You my needs, my
   problems, my trials. I place them all in Your
   big hands! And I open myself to all that You
   want to give to me! On this day, I say yes to
   Your love, to Your blessings, to Your healing,
   to Your miracles! And Lord, specifically, I
   ask You for the following miracles for my
   life...
        I believe that You answer my prayer
   in the best way possible! And I thank You
   in advance for the perfect answers to my
   prayers. I also ask for the special intercession
   of Mama Mary. I pray all this in the Name
   of the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit,
   Amen!


   SPECIAL INTENTION FOR THIS MONTH:
   Bless the readers of KERYGMA, Lord. Plant in their hearts the desire to be truly rich in all areas of their lives —
   spiritual, emotional, social and financial. Inspire them to study and learn all they can so they would grow and be fully
   alive. Purify their hearts of any wrong motivation for desiring wealth. Let loving You and blessing Your people be their
   ultimate goals. Grant them courage to stand up again when they fail or lose in their endeavors. May they find their
   true blessing in a rich relationship with You. Amen.

   Praying for you,
                                               Email your prayer requests to me at bosanchez@kerygmafamily.com or write to me at
                                               Shepherd’s Voice Publications, #60 Chicago St., Cubao, Quezon City, Philippines 1109.
                                               Let me know, too, if your prayers have been answered.




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    mailroom Thank you for your great magazine. People coming to our house, including our mission rector, can hardly leave because they read and read the accumulated issues we love to display. Do continue to inspire us. C. Valera KERYGMA serves as an inspiration Kalinga Province every day of my life. I feel the presence of God and I look forward I consider KERYGMA a blessing to me and my family because to reading the monthly issue.Thanks, you help us to realize that God is everywhere, even in the simple KERYGMA, for shining through my things, and to learn how to appreciate Him more! God bless dark nights. you! Ace Galileo Gervacio Polomolok, South Cotabato Binangonan, Rizal Thanks to KERYGMA magazine because when I read it, it gives enlightenment to both my mind and my heart. More power and God From Members: bless! Donna I love reading KERYGMA magazine. It’s so inspiring and Davao it adds to my knowledge, especially that I give Pre-Cana seminars in our parish. More power! Hallelujah! I really want to thank KERYGMA for changing my life, for Naomie R. Labalan helping me have a close relationship with God, and helping hopeless people I am really inspired by reading KERYGMA magazine. I am to realize how much they are needed blessed to be one of the KERYGMA Shepherds spreading in this world for God. God bless you! the goodness of God. Keziah Agura Corazon S. Reyes Dipolog City You’re such a great speaker, Bro. Bo, and I most especially I always make it a point to buy this like your illustrations and stories. They touch the inner core super magazine. I just hope Bo and of my being. Thank you so much. company can visit Cotabato City. Ruben Ding Estaniel Cotabato We want to hear from you! email us at editsvp@shepherdsvoice.com.ph, text at 0917-800-5535, or write to The editor at 60 Chicago St., Cubao, Quezon City. you can also reach us by becoming members of KeryGMa Family (www.kerygmafamily.com). { 2 } KerygmaMay2009
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    just L breathe ong before Patrick Dempsey landed his role in the movie, Made living by grace of Honor, I had my very own. It was there printed on my wedding invitation for rissa singson-ka wpeng all to see. I had a matron of honor and a man of honor. The latter was Randy Borromeo, the big guy — literally and figuratively — behind the TV shows of (L-R) Rissa, Thessa Barj Randy Borromeo and a-Borromeo, Chris Kawpeng MY BEST FRIEND’S Shepherd’s Voice. He’s also the director of all those cameras at The Feast, our Sunday gathering WEDDING at the Valle Verde Country Club Ballroom. I’ve known Randy since we were teenagers. I was already serving in our Catholic community when he attended one of our prayer meetings. Many years later, God provides. Always. he would confess that the reason he was enticed to keep going back to the prayer meetings was because he saw many pretty tisays there. his dreams. It was so cool that evening — it felt like the Rissa’s clothes courtesy of Limited Couture. Available at Greenhills Shopping Center; HP at Power Plant Mall, Rockwell; Festival Mall, Alabang and SM City, Bicutan. But no matter how hard we tried, we couldn’t remember whole garden was air-conditioned. any tisays attending the prayer meetings. Pretty girls, yes. KERYGMA preachers George Gabriel, Alvin Barcelona, (Ahem.) Obet Cabrillas, Jon Escoto, Arun Gogna and Adrian We could only conclude that it was the Lord at work. Panganiban were there to lend good music and humor to Knowing Randy’s weakness for tisays, God tweaked his the occasion. eyesight to bait him to attend the community gatherings. It was a memorable, fun wedding. While our friendship goes way back, Randy and I Weeks later, Randy told me how much they had spent became close when I experienced a major life crisis. At a for their wedding and marveled at how he was able to time when I desperately needed friends and all my closest earn all that money. ones severed ties with me, Randy was the only one who’d What can I say? call and listen. God provides. Always. We’d talk through the wee hours, sometimes hanging Whether it’s a friend in time of need, a woman of your up only because the sun was about to shine. dreams, a rainless day, or money to pay for your perfect One Christmas, he was hired to direct a presentation at wedding. an office party. There, he saw a pretty tisay dancing with a friend. This time, God played no tricks. She was a gift from The works of God are all of them good; every need when it comes heaven named Thessa Barja. he fills. (Sirach 39:33) Last January 10, the day Randy married Thessa, time Email me your reactions/comments at justbreatherissa@gmail.com. stopped — literally. (To match my gown and shoes, I had to wear a gold watch and the only one I had wasn’t working. I wore it anyway.) All of creation cooperated to give the WHAT TO EXPECT TH couple the most beautiful wedding possible. IS MONTH: The day before the wedding, it was raining. A worried If you can’t wait to find out what life has in sto Randy called me to ask for prayers. The reception was you, grab my hot-off-the re for -press book, Confession Impatient Bride. Yes, thi s of an going to be in a garden and he had no more budget for a s is my first book ever published and it’s alrea to be giant tent. “Lord, take over,” we prayed. dy a bestseller — as so on as all KErYGMA readers buy The next day, the sun was out. The newspaper also their own copy! It’s the read for women waitin perfect announced that the biggest and brightest moon of the year g to find their one true young wives starting on love and would be out that evening. the family way. Laugh, inspired by life lessons cry and be from one woman’s heart So under the canopy of stars and a large, radiant moon, Available in bookstores to yours. nationwide or call (02 we celebrated the union of my best friend and the girl of 9999. )725- Listen to Bo Sanchez’s PODCAST! Audio and Video available! www.preacherinbluejeans.com KerygmaMay2009 { 3 }
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    publisher columns the bo files special section BO SANCHEZ editor-in-chief 03 Just Breathe 01 The Boss 17 {Paid! How to Achieve RISSA SINGSON-KAWPENG Financial Freedom} {My Best Friend’s Wedding} {How to Live a managing editor TESS ATIENZA 35 Kitchen Scribbles Wonderful Life} 18 {Change Your Money staff writers {Disdain Not Thy Thumb} 30 Heroes of Faith Habits} NOVA ARIAS 37 K Preacher {Rex Mendoza: 24 {Create Multiple JOY SOSOBAN creative director {One Plus One Equals Two} The Good Influencer} Income Streams} STIMPY CORTES 40 Point of Contact testimonies graphics director REY DE GUZMAN contributing writers 22 {Victory Over My ALVIN FABELLA Debts} JUDITH CONCEPCION 28 {Money Myths} JANE GONZALES CECILLE LIM DINA PECAñA departments photographers ED SANTIAGO 02 Mailroom DANIEL SORIANO 06 New You columnists 07 Anawim ROSANNE ROMERO 08 Dear Kerygma ARUN GOGNA chairman of the board 10 Real Stuff BO SANCHEZ 11 Feast Snapshots marketing director 13 It Happened: JOSEPH MARTINEZ {From a Fool’s Life to a Full Life} KERYGMA. A Greek word meaning 33 Gawad Kalinga Proclamation of the Gospel. It is a 39 {I Was Prepared for Catholic inspirational magazine. It aims My Death, But God to be an evangelistic tool to all nations, Had Other Plans for providing Scriptural, practical and orthodox Me} teachings to Catholics, particularly those in the Catholic Renewal, as an alternative to present-day magazines. It is also committed to fostering the renewal and unity of the whole Christian people. Philippine copyright Shepherd’s Voice Publications, Inc. 2009 No part of this magazine may be reproduced without permission. KERYGMA is published monthly {18} J by Shepherd’s Voice Publications, Inc., osephine Anne M. whose editorial and business offices are Agustin isn’t immune located at 60 Chicago St., Cubao, 1109 to money problems. Quezon City. Tels: 725-9999, 725-1115, 725-1190, 411-7874 Fax: 725-1230, 727- Recently blessed 5615 Email: editsvp@shepherdsvoice.com. with a baby, Jopay is ph Website: www.shepherdsvoice.com.ph getting accustomed to the financial demands of raising a family. may But faith and trust in God run strong in the Agustin household. Jopay and husband, Marvin, are active leaders of Bukas-Loob sa Diyos vol. 19 no. 228 Community’s young couples’ group. KerygmaMay2009 { 5 }
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    new you new you tipsfor personal development TIPS FOR COMMON HOW TO CUT DOWN f inances ON REGULAR BILLS b eauty SKIN PROBLEMS W ant to cut down on regular bills? Before you reply with, “How could you ever do that?” N ever worried about your skiN? Then this is not for you. But for those regular gals out there, here are some tips for common skin problems: check out the suggestions below. · Conceal breakouts. Use a concealer that’s specifically 1. Install compact fluorescent light (CFL) formulated to cover and to treat blemishes. A bulbs. They have a longer lifespan and use up treatment concealer or an oil-free foundation will stay on the trouble spot without migrating. You less electricity. should concentrate the pigment right on the pimple 2. Do you have any electrical devices that you by tapping the product on the blemish. Then follow rarely use but have kept plugged in? Unplug this with a light dusting of powder over the entire them. Most electrical devices constantly use a face to set your makeup. small amount of electricity called a phantom · Even out skin tone. Apply foundation over the whole charge. Eliminate this by unplugging the face, then treat the dark patches with a full-coverage appliances. concealer. These are usually labeled as providing 3. Look for inexpensive entertainment options. medium, full or heavy coverage. Warm the concealer Instead of malling, why not lend your time to in the palm of your hand to make it creamier then a local volunteer group? blend it over the trouble zones using a dry sponge. · Soften fine lines and wrinkles. Makeup that’s too 4. Cook and pack your own meals. This will heavy can build up and cake in fine lines, so apply a reduce the cost of your lunch. Going out has light layer of a sheer foundation to prevent this. Add a tendency to increase your expenses. concealer, but only on the dark areas under the eyes. 5. Strongly reduce or eliminate travel. This will To increase the sheerness of the concealer, mix it significantly cut down your expenses. Be open with a pea-size amount of eye cream before gently to inviting family and friends over to your tapping it on with either a brush or your fingers. place instead. Source: www.realsimple.com Source: www.thesimpledollar.com QUICK HEALTH TIP: The following foods are excellent sources of di- etary fiber, which help fight constipation: raspberries, mustard greens, cauli- flower, collard greens and broccoli. f aith & Doctrine BEING RICH AND LOVING THE POOR L oving the poor is incompatible with excessive love of riches. When we attend to the needs of the poor, we actually give them what is theirs, not what is ours. More than performing works of mercy, we are paying a debt of justice. Source: Catechism of the Catholic Church, nos. 2445-2446 { 6 } KerygmaMay2009
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    SURVIVAL TIPS IN h ealth DO-OR-DIE EMERGENCIES (Part 2) H ere’s a continuation of last month’s article on what to do when you’re in a do-or-die emergency. Note down these survival tips: MOISES SU-AMAR: · Cramps. If you’re in deep water, take a deep breath, lie on your back and float. If you have muscle cramp, float face down, grab Still Adventurous at 77 By Tess V. Atienza your toes and pull them toward you, stretching your calf until “I the pain goes away. If it’s a stomach cramp, lie on your back, — just to walk around the town proper gO Out almOst every day spread your arms and legs, and float until you can swim back and then go home, on foot.” Lolo Moises does that not to shore. only for his regular exercise. At 77, he still loves to walk and · Poisoning. If you inhaled something (like bleach or ammonia), explore places. He wants to reach whatever his eyes could see get away from the toxic area. If it’s something that got on your on the horizon. skin, like a cleaning product, wash it off, then call a hospital and follow the doctor’s advice. Where He Came From · Severe bleeding. Use your hand or a clean cloth, paper towels, His mother died when he was two; his father when he was in a scarf or any fabric you can grab, and push down on the wound grade two. He and his siblings grew up far from each other. Lolo until the bleeding stops. Don’t use a tourniquet. Moises lived with his grandmother in Miag-ao, Iloilo City. His · Trapped in a burning building. Enclose yourself in a smoke- siblings lived with their adoptive families. free room and place a wet towel underneath the door to Very early in life, Lolo Moises learned to fend for himself. In prevent any smoke from entering. Then lie low on the floor, the morning, he went to school; in the afternoon, he tended to where you can breathe and see better, until help arrives. If the store of his aunt. you’re in a house, get as low as you can and crawl outside as Eventually, he moved to Manila, got a college degree and fast as possible. Don’t stop until you’re well away from the fire. then worked in Saudi Arabia for five years. Upon coming back Source: www.rd.com to the Philippines, he was hired as a caretaker in the home of Mr. Gartland, general manager of US Life Insurance Company. The Gartlands treated him like family, but they had to leave the SAY “HELLO” Philippines when the company closed. r elation ships TO STRANGERS The Path that Led to Anawim After his employment with the Gartlands, he only had short- term jobs and depended on friends for help. He remained single by choice. T ake ThekeRYGMa challenge to improve your relationships: Say “hello” to strangers daily for at least one month. Set your own quota and then try to build on that. Here are some reasons why you should practice this. In his early 70s, a friend of his brought him to a home for the aged in Manila. In 2006, he was brought to Anawim. Life at Anawim · It is an acknowledgment of existence. Saying hello is a pause, “It’s funny,” Lolo Moises relates, “the social workers here remind however brief, to affirm another person’s worth. In return, you become me to come back whenever I go out for my morning walk. Why a person to them, too. won’t I come back? Anawim is my home now and probably until · It can raise productivity. A study on this subject had middle school death.” teachers greet their students Still, he wants to visit his hometown one last time and see individually every month. his brother Samuel and sister Francisca Su-Amar-Derla. The brief interaction He wishes, too, that well-meaning visitors at Anawim would raised the students’ invite him to spend a day or two in their houses. “For a change productivity by 27 — and to see other places before I die,” shares Lolo Moises. percent. Indeed, age has not changed Lolo Moises. Adventure is still · It can save your in his blood. m a r r i a g e . C o m m o n courtesy isn’t that common. Lolo Moises is one of the 55 When did you abandoned elderlies that Anawim cares for. To continue caring for last say hello to them, we need your support. your spouse? Contact Anawim at (632) 710- And don’t forget to say 5273 or visit www.anawim.com. hello each morning to the person ph for your donations. You may also join the monthly pilgrimage who needs it most — yourself. to Anawim and make the lolos and Source: www.rd.com lolas happy with your presence. KerygmaMay2009 { 7 }
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    dear K dear K My Vocation or My Family I ’m 26, single, have a job and staying with my family. Just recently, I had a sudden feeling of wanting to pursue my vocation. The truth is, when I was 16 years old, after I graduated high school, Dear Vhanie, I entered a convent to become a nun because that had been my dream since What you are experiencing right now was the same thing I went through when grade school. Unfortunately, I failed I was discerning whether to enter the religious life or to pursue a career and be to continue my vocation because my with my family. Discernment brought me to a “win-win” solution. I finished college, worked for five years and helped my family before I joined the congregation. I also homesickness ruled over me and I realized realized that becoming a nun is more than a childhood dream — not a career to that I wasn’t totally prepared that time pursue — but a call to live a different kind of life, one that is devoted to God through for the religious life. prayer and service. I went out, pursued a college degree, Your case is quite unusual because you entered at a very young age and then graduated and found a job. But all the left the congregation. It is like getting married early — the chances of broken time that I was out of the convent, the lure commitment are prevalent. I can understand your situation. of the religious life kept coming back. But You don’t have to choose between your family and the religious life; you can then again, after I graduated, I felt that I have both. When I entered the religious life, I never stopped becoming my parents’ had to find a job and help my parents. To daughter, although I cannot anymore give what I used to give them — material leave my parents after all their hardship things. But they appreciate much my presence during special family gatherings and simple occasional visits. With my community’s permission, I took care of my sick in sending me to college stopped me from mother when she was hospitalized. I am also called to facilitate dialogues among re-entering the convent. I want to provide family members. And my nieces and nephews express how they look up to me as for them now that I have a job. But in my their role model. There is so much that you can do as a daughter and a sister to your heart, I know and I feel that I still want to family. be a nun and offer my life to God. Vhanie, you are still young. You still have time to spend and serve your family in I am confused. Shall I choose a life case they really need your assistance. There are congregations who accept candidates with my family or a life of service and in their early 30s. I suggest that you get a spiritual guide to journey with you as you being with God as a religious? I’m really search for where God is calling you at this time of your life. I can be one. weighing things out because I want to make sure that if I chose to re-enter the Sr. Gemma Dinglasan, RGS convent, it would be for good this time. But I have to consider my parents, too, because I want to make sure that they’re It took Sr. Gemma Dinglasan, RGS, several years to finally face her true OK before I leave them. calling. An accountant by profession, she worked hard to help her parents send her younger siblings to school. Later, when the one next to her gradu- Can you please help me to weigh ated and took on the responsibility of sending the younger ones to school, things? Thank you. she was left with a void: what to do with her life. She searched and she found what she was looking for: the Pearl of Great Price. Sr. Gemma is now the vocation directress of the Good Shepherd Community in the Philippines. Vhanie { 8 } KerygmaMay2009
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    How Do IDeal with My Atheist Friends it is important that we remember that God is a God of mercy. I am sure that He will not expect people to live as though they are disciples of Jesus if no one has ever proclaimed the Gospel to them. God will judge us fairly and with mercy and love. Secondly, I think we should first focus upon our own salvation and ask ourselves whether we are doing everything that we can to proclaim the Gospel through our lives and through what we say and witness to others. The Vatican II documents remind us of this when they talk about our duty to live and proclaim the I am havIng a hard time dealing with atheists Gospel. in my life. I love them but they don’t believe Thirdly, we must be sure that we both live and proclaim the Gospel to the best of our ability while at the same time in Christ. I also have friends who are Buddhists, recognizing that each person is free to choose whether or not Hindus and Muslims. Will they also be saved? he or she will respond to the Gospel once it is heard. The critical How do I introduce Christ to them without point here is that each Christian ensure that the witness of their offending them? I love them and so I want them life is true to the Gospel and that we do not deny any truth of to be saved, too. the Gospel for fear of offending someone. The Scriptures are very clear that it is the truth that sets us free (John 8:32-36) and thus Rosan we never do anyone a service by denying them the opportunity to know the truth about salvation. Dear Rosan, Having said that, it is equally important that we are guided by the Holy Spirit in the work of evangelization and wait for the Your situation is a common one but not appropriate time to proclaim the Gospel to those who need to necessarily easy to deal with. I think it is important hear and respond to it. for us to realize that no matter how well we might In summary, I think you should live your Catholic faith to think we know and follow God as His disciple, there the full without any apology for doing so to your friends, while is still a great mystery surrounding the nature and at the same time being watchful for an opportunity to share the mechanics of the work of salvation. Ultimately, it is Gospel when it arises. God who will decide who is saved or not and I think I hope and pray that the Holy Spirit would use you to bring your friends into a relationship with Jesus and thus win them for the Kingdom of God. Fr. Steve Tynan, MGL Fr. Steve Tynan, MGL, is the spir- itual director of the Light of Jesus and Elim Communities. Fun-lov- Email your questions to editsvp@shepherdsvoice.com.ph. Or if you need to talk to ing and ever ready for anything, this Australian cleric is presently someone, call 7264709 or 7266728 to contact a Light of Jesus counselor. Telephone the parish priest of St. Benedict’s counseling is 24-hours from Monday to Friday, 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. on Saturdays and 6 a. m. Parish in Don Enrique Heights in to 10 a. m. on Sundays. Face-to-face counseling by appointment. For correspondence Quezon City. counseling, email lojcounseling@yahoo.com or go to http://supportskerygmafamily. com. Or Call725-9999 Pregnant? Confused? Abortion is not the answer. Contact Sr. Pilar at Pro-life. KerygmaMay2009 { 9 } Call 422-8877 or email pilar.verzosa@gmail.com.
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    real staff real stuff VATICAN NOW ON will make information YOUTUBE and news from the Holy See more readily accessible on the w aNt to be updated on what’s happening in the Vatican? You can be updated through video now. The Vatican has launched a new channel on world wide Web.” He added, “It is my hope that this YouTube. initiative will enrich a wide range of people — including The site, which is found at www.youtube.com/ those who have yet to find a response to their spiritual vatican, was launched in January in time for World yearning — through the knowledge and love of Jesus Communications Day. Christ whose message of Good News the Church bears to The Pope said, “Undoubtedly, wise use of the ends of the earth.” communications technology enables communities to be formed in ways that promote the search for Source: www.zenit.org the true, the good and the beautiful, transcending geographical boundaries and ethnic divisions. To this end, the Vatican has launched a new initiative which SAINTS AT A GLANCE WHO: St. Bernardine of Siena BOrN & DIED: September 8, 1380, Italy – May 20, 1444, MEDIA AND YOUR CHILDREN Italy NOTABLE fACTS: Descended from a noble family, he I f You’Re a paRenT with young children or adolescents, better joined the franciscans after prayer and fasting about check this out. it. He played a great part in the religious revival of the According to the conclusion of a series of 10 short early 15th century. A tireless worker, he once preached papers by the journal Children and Electronic Media, media every day for seven weeks in Siena. He became vicar- can be a positive influence in the lives general of the franciscan Order in Italy in 1438. of these children. The papers, which are summaries of research carried out by The Future of Children, a collaboration of the Woodrow Wilson School at Princeton University and the Brookings Institution that promotes policies and programs sex scenes are much regarding children, said that the more likely than average modern child spends a total their peers to get of nearly 45 hours a week using pregnant or get a various forms of media, including the partner pregnant. television, movies, magazines, music, They also found Internet and video games. strong connections According to the study,advertisers between a negative are moving to the Internet because health outcome marketing to children online is far and media hours or less regulated than television. Methods include embedding content. ads in games and using online chat forums to promote “Be aware and be involved” was the paper’s products. recommendation to parents. Awareness includes The paper also concluded that when children view understanding the various forms of media and types of media violence, they often act aggressively, experience content that their children are using. And involvement fear, develop unrealistic perceptions concerning the means monitoring the type of media being used by violence that exists in the real world, or develop less children, and also the amount of time being devoted to advanced moral strategies. media use. Another aspect of media usage is that between television and sexual activity. The study found that teens who watch Source: http://www.zenit.org a lot of television featuring flirting, discussion of sex and { 10 } KerygmaMay2009
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    SAFE BROWSER FEAST FOR YOUR FEAST SNAPSHOTS SNAPSHOTS LITTLE ONES W wreaking havoc on your orried about your child computer or going to an unsafe site? Then Kidrocket is for you. Bacoor, Cavite Kidrocket Kids Browser is a free stand-alone Holds Local Feast Windows application that’s both an activity center as well as a browser. It can be locked to the desktop to prevent your kids from unwittingly wreaking havoc on C avite may not be that far from Pasig City, where The Feast happens every Sunday at the Valle Verde Country Club, but many your computer. It includes a web browser that operates off a pre-selected white list of kid-friendly sites like Caviteños (especially those from Bacoor) Crayola, Cartoon Network, Sesame Street and choose to have their own local Feast and others. There are also other activities that your enjoy a more intimate community gathering. kids can do like an interactive math flash cards Every first and second Friday of the month, and a simple paint program. from8to10p.m.,theLightofJesusCommunity’s For older kids, you can enable a basic Bacoor Chapter gather at the Addas Chapel in email client and create a safe list for your Addas IV Village in Mambog. Of course, they child to email to. welcome whoever might want to join the Source: lifehacker.com worship, Gospel sharing and reflection and to NEW UNIVERSITY FOR listen to Bo Sanchez’s video talk. On the average, 40 people regularly attend TOP MINDS the Bacoor Feast. Anyone who wants to participate may simply go to the venue on the W hat would happenifthe world’s top minds mentioned schedule or may contact Bro. Peter Fariscal at 0929-722-7080. came together to establish a university? Now we have a chance to find out. The National Aeronautics and Space Administration (NASA) and Google have teamed up with leading science and technology entrepreneurs to open Singularity University (SU). Housed on the NASA Ames campus in Silicon Valley, the university will open this June and will offer a nine-week graduate level program along with several executive level programs aimed at helping current leaders adapt their businesses to up-and-coming technologies. The university seeks to compliment existing programs in a variety of subjects including biotechnology, artificial intelligence (AI), robotics, law, ethics and finance. The university hopes to foster collaboration and innovation “in order to address humanity’s grand challenges” and to gather “the next generation of CEOs, University Deans or Presidents and government leaders” to begin networking and collaborating. SU’s founders include Pete Worden, the director of NASA Ames, Dr. Ray Kurzweil, author and futurist and Dr. Peter Diamandis, chairman of the X Prize Foundation. Source: http://www.popsci.com KerygmaMay2009 { 11 }
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    From a Fool’sLife to a Full Life I was living a double life. During the day, I studied while working part-time as an appraiser in our pawnshop in A Wayward Son’s Ormoc. I earned extra money apart from the allowance my parents Journey gave me. Having so much money By Romeo “Junjun” Ocampo, Jr. as told to Dina Pecaña in my hands made it easier for me to indulge in my vices again, which I wanted to get rid of in the first Another most memorable day in Junjun’s journey was the day he married Vannie place. Listen to Bo Sanchez’s PODCAST! Audio and Video available! www.preacherinbluejeans.com KerygmaMay2009 { 13 }
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    My health sufferedbecause I totally gave up group of friends) that led me astray. Instead of focusing exercise and sports. My frequent drinking spree on my studies and getting good grades, I got entangled also affected my sleeping pattern. It came to a point in a web of endless partying, alcohol and drugs. I picked when I could no longer sleep without getting drunk. up the vices merely out of curiosity and a compelling I would drink beer and take shabu simultaneously need to be accepted by my friends. and that kept me awake for two days. My freshman year was one of the turbulent times Unknown to me, my parents, who were renewed of my life. But even then I was sensible enough to free Christians actively serving in the intercessory team myself from the vices that enslaved me. I decided to go of the Brotherhood of Christian Businessmen and back to Ormoc after the second semester, thinking that Professionals (BCBP) in Ormoc, were fervently I could start over if I stayed away from my friends. praying, in union with their community, for my I was wrong. conversion. I only sunk deeper into my vices. Soon, the Lord answered Life-Changing Retreat their prayers for I wasn’t expecting anything from the retreat — I only my conversion — attended it as a requirement for my Theology class. But but it was also to during one of the talks, I sensed the Lord telling me, prepare us for the “My son, I love you.” Then it dawned on me how my trials that were parents cared and prayed for me all these years, how about to come they continued to love me even though I was a “bad” into our lives. son to them. I realized how deeply the Lord loves me through my family. This realization opened my life to The Good Life the powerful love of the Lord that would change my life I have to admit forever. I was spoiled. I God transformed me gradually. First, He separated got everything I me from my “vice buddies.” Next, He gave me the wanted while I desire to know, love and serve Him. That inner desire was growing up — moved me to become part of our parish youth ministry. be it a TV for my I sang in the choir and helped organize retreats and room at the dorm, other youth activities. the latest sound As I immersed myself in service, I still struggled system, a new with my vices. Through much prayer and with the help Junjun now works as tennis racket and of my Theology professor, Cris Fernandez, who was our a financial consultant for Pru-Life UK rubber shoes, and speaker and facilitator during my most unforgettable an allowance that retreat and the one who invited me to serve in the was more than parish youth ministry, my craving for alcohol and drugs what kids my age received. I guess that came with diminished slowly but surely. Indeed, God’s grace is being the youngest child, although my parents were sufficient! caring and generous to my siblings as well. I finally joined my parents in BCBP during my From their humble beginnings, they worked last year in college. Soon after, our family underwent hard to establish our retail store and family’s another trial. pawnshop business in Ormoc. The business grew and prospered and enabled my parents to send us to Financial Crisis good schools and give us a comfortable life. I should In 1995, our country experienced a serious economic have been grateful or, at the very least, content with crisis that affected our family business. We were forced having a happy family life. But I was not. I chose to to close our pawnshops and the proceeds from the sale live a wayward life in spite of the love and support of were used to pay off outstanding debts that ballooned to my family. almost P10 million. We had to sell our car and home. It was a difficult time — so hard in fact that there were Entangled in Vice times when my mom did not know where to get our During my freshman year at the University of San next meal. We went through a test so grueling that the Carlos in Cebu, I became part of a barkada (gang or strength of our family’s faith was challenged. { 14 } KerygmaMay2009 Want more Frappr.com friends? Add us! www.frappr.com/kerygmafamily.com
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    My dad, beingthe head of the family, was hit hardest City, living among lay brothers who were single- by this family crisis. He sunk into depression that lasted hearted for the Lord. for three years. He could not accept what happened For three years, I learned to live out the virtues to our family and he felt that he failed us miserably. of chastity, simplicity and obedience. I was happy He withdrew from everyone and confined himself at with this life and I truly believed that to live single home. and dedicate my life to the Lord’s service was my This was also the lowest point in my life. It was hard highest calling. to see my idol — my dad — so down, helpless and on the brink of giving up. Seeing him this way, a broken Meant for Marriage man, I felt lost. I questioned my own identity. If my dad Little did I know that God had a different plan. felt he was a “nobody,” then who was I? During Lent 2005, on my third year at the Servants of the Word, my Simple Living heart was stirred Though difficult to bear, our family crisis taught us by a desire Finding God’s best for him was one of valuable life lessons, starting with having a faithful for marriage Junjun’s blessings relationship with God and living simply. In the midst of as I prayed. I in life our problems, God called each one of us to a personal was confused. relationship with Him and led us to actively serve in our I sought the community. advice of my I developed a more loving relationship with my mentor and parents and siblings. My mom committed to faithfully fellow brother, pray for our family and her example encouraged the Ken Knoecker, rest of us to pray just as she did. Our family prayer time who advised became our source of hope, strength and unity. me to be open Though our once carefree and comfortable life to it, to pray changed drastically to one of hardship, pain and more and to uncertainty, we gained a new life in Christ. As we investigate it. surrendered our lives to the Lord, He eventually After days of prayer, it became clear to me that restored to us what we had lost. He allowed my parents God wanted me to get married. I left my brothers to reopen our pawnshops; my mom was blessed to in Servants of the Word and joyfully anticipated the work in an insurance company that enabled us to buy unfolding of His plan. a new car. In due time, God revealed His plans for me. I Mom and Dad humbled themselves as they went landed a job as a supervisor in a gas station in Ormoc to each person to whom they owed money. They asked and later as a financial consultant in an insurance forgiveness for not being able to pay their debts and the company. Then in one of Lingkod’s activities, Vannie same time gave their commitment to pay no matter how Siloterio, my good friend and former co-worker at long it takes. The Lord must have touched the hearts the Lingkod office, came to Ormoc to be with the of the creditors because they only collected from my women members of our community. Seeing her parents the principal and no longer applied the interest and being able to spend time with her once again that would have compounded significantly over the reminded me of the essentials I wanted in a woman years. who was to be my wife: a deep relationship with the Lord, unconditional love for her family and a heart Loving God More Deeply and Following Him More for mission. It was then that I decided to pursue Closely her. From my service in our parish youth ministry, to On December 16, 2006, Vannie and I got becoming part of BCBP, the Lord opened opportunities married. For over two years now, we have been for me to serve Him and His people through Ang living a serene and simple life in Ormoc while still Lingkod ng Panginoon Community where I served happily and actively serving our brothers and sisters as the very first and the youngest branch leader of the in BCBP and Lingkod. Ormoc branch. It did not end there, though. It continues to amaze me how God has My desire to serve the Lord deepened to the point transformed a wayward son to become His faithful that I joined the Servants of the Word based in Quezon servant. Want more Frappr.com friends? Add us! www.frappr.com/kerygmafamily.com KerygmaMay2009 { 15 }
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    By Bo Sanchez {16 } KerygmaMay2009
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    PAID! HowtoAchieveFinancialFreedom by bo sanchez R when you were taught by your emembeR the days parents to drop a coin or two every day in your piggy bank? Gone are those days, right? Today, most people complain that their monthly take-home pay is spent before they receive it. Why? Because they are trapped in the vicious cycle of borrowing for every need and then working to pay for their debts. Why are many people stuck in poverty and in never-ending debt? Because they spiritualize their financial difficulties — they want God to do what they can do themselves. And that’s what ails many people. Now, listen: God won’t do what you can do yourself. Because the essence of human life is growth — and we won’t grow if we won’t take responsibility for our lives. And that includes managing our finances, raising our financial IQ, learning new habits and being totally free from the enslaving power of money — or the lack of it — in our lives. Friends, God wants you to be prosperous but you have to do your part as well. Start now. Want daily Bible readings and Didache reflections in your email? Join www.kerygmafamily.com KerygmaMay2009 { 17 }
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    Change Your Money Habits and Work Your Way to Financial Abundance by bo sanchez { 18 } KerygmaMay2009
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    A long time ago, when I was still single, I led The answer is, “It depends.” a retreat for a group of college students Why? from an exclusive girls school. Before the If you do not do something practical about your start of the retreat, I was alone in my room finances, such as living simply, nothing will happen. No preparing for my talk. matter how much you give to God, if you do not live Suddenly a cockroach entered my room and within your means, if you do not save, you will not be hovered above me. Ziinggg! Zinnggg! I looked at it and prosperous. said, “In Jesus’ name, come down!” And then it hit an God wants you to prosper but He won’t do for you invisible wall and crashed to the floor, dead. what you can do for yourself. Because the essence of I was amazed! human life is growth. You need to keep on growing and Then during my talk, the granddaddy of the the only way to do that is to take responsibility over your cockroach I killed entered the room with vengeance life, including your finances. and it started zooming and shimmying and zapping Many prosperity preachers have spoken and written around the room. You can just imagine the reaction of about steps to prosperity. They’re good — they tell us to the students in front of me. They were shrieking and obey God, be faithful to Him, give tithes and so on — but I covering their heads as the cockroach continued to feel there are some things lacking. They don’t speak about zoom up and down the ceiling, the walls and all around the practical steps one can take on the road to financial the room. I didn’t know what to do until I remembered freedom. what I did an hour ago. So I said, “In Jesus’ name, come down!” And again the cockroach hit an invisible wall Six Steps to Financial Freedom and crashed to the floor. Bang! All the ladies in front of me exclaimed in awe. “Let Pharaoh proceed to appoint overseers over the land, And there I was, cool as a bee, as if it was something and take the fifth part of the produce of the land of Egypt that happens to me every day. during the seven plenteous years. And let them gather After the talk, I entered my room. As I was resting, all the food of these good years that are coming, and lay up grain under the authority of Pharaoh for food in the I saw the cousin of the first cockroach crawling up the cities, and let them keep it. That food shall be a reserve wall. (By the way, I will not tell you what retreat house for the land against the seven years of famine which are to it was). I sat on my bed, looked at it and said, “In Jesus’ befall the land of Egypt, so that the land may not perish name, come down!” It continued to crawl. “In Jesus’ through the famine.” name, come down!” It still kept crawling. For the third — Genesis 41:34-46 time, I said, “In Jesus’ name, come down!” It didn’t. There’s something wrong, I thought. And then I felt Step 1: Change Your Internal Money Programs God speak to my heart, “Hey, get your slippers and kill This never fails: If you want to make any improvement in the cockroach!” your life, change your behavior. But if you want to make I learned an important lesson there: that there giant leaps in your life, change your beliefs. are times when God will not lift a finger because He If you’ve always been poor or short of money, your wants us to do it ourselves. belief system might be the culprit. If you want to be prosperous, He’s not going to I hear poor people say, “My parents have been poor. give you wealth just because you obeyed Him, or just We’ve always been poor. I think I’ll grow old as poor, too.” because you gave tithes. That’s your mental conditioning — and that’s what Many do that. They blame God for being poor. will happen because that’s how you perceive your life to They say, “I go to Mass, I serve God, I give tithes, I be. attend prayer meetings — but why am I still poor?” Change what you believe in and change will happen It’s like asking, “Why can’t I play the violin? I serve in your life. the Lord, give tithes and attend Mass and prayer Because what you believe in, you act upon. meetings.” The answer is simple: Because you didn’t All the other steps to financial freedom will be useless study how to play the violin! unless you change your beliefs about money. It won’t Don’t over-spiritualize your problems — your matter how much you save or whether you get into 10 dilemma may not have a spiritual cause. It might be businesses. You will not prosper if you do not change due to your lack of knowledge. your internal money program or if you don’t expand your Will God prosper you if you obey Him and if you psychological wallet. You have to believe that you can are faithful to Him? earn more than you are earning right now — and that’s The answer? It’s not yes or no. the key: believe that it will happen and it will! Looking for NEW FRIENDS? Go to www.kerygmafamily.com KerygmaMay2009 { 19 }
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    Step No. 2:Get out of bad debt. We need to invert the whole thing. When you receive What is bad debt? What is good debt? your salary, give 10 percent to the Lord, save 20 percent, Good debt is when you borrow money to buy a and then live on the remaining 70 percent. thing that will put money in your pocket. For example, According to the Bible, Joseph told Egypt, you have you borrow money to buy an apartment that will earn to save the fifth part (or 20 percent) — and that’s how money for you later. Egypt was spared from drought and famine. So save 20 Bad debt is the opposite — instead of putting percent of your income and you, too, will be freed from money in your pocket, it takes away money from it, like lack. when you buy a TV set or a pair of shoes or when you People would tell me, “Bo, how can we survive with use your credit card to buy those things and pay only 70 percent? We can’t!” So I tell them, “That’s why you need the minimum each month. That’s bad debt. to increase your cash flow, your source of income.” Bad debt is detrimental to your financial health so get out of it as soon as possible. Here’s what I do to Step 4: Get Protection. avoid it: When I want to buy something, I tell myself I Tell me if this is true. When you get near an insurance will save for the next six months to be able to buy that agent, your first instinct is to slowly move away from him, thing. You know what happens? Before I even reach the right? We’re allergic to the word insurance. But you know, third month, I no longer want to buy the thing. whether you like it or not, you need insurance. It’s your If you train and discipline yourself, this is what will protection if something happens to you and you don’t happen. The important thing is to get out of bad debt. have passive income. What will happen to your family How? if you suddenly die of a heart attack or are debilitated by cancer? And even just to protect yourself from estate 1. Create a strategy and a deadline. For example, your taxes, you still need to get insurance. goal is to get out of bad debt within two years. Make a The Bible says, “A rich man’s wealth is his strong city, plan and a strategy on how to achieve that goal. like a high wall protecting him” (Proverbs 18:11). This 2. Face your creditors. Let them know you won’t means that the ultimate goal is to be self-insured. You renege on your debt. Keep in touch with them. have to work so that you can do this until you reach a Don’t wait for them to call you; you call them or visit point when you don’t need insurance anymore. And the them. Negotiate for a restructuring of your debt. Be way to do that is to have multiple income streams. persistent. Don’t be intimidated if you are dealing with a bank. Remember, people manage banks and Step 5: Create Emergency and Retirement Funds. bank policies are made by people, too — people like From the 20 percent you save from your salary, aim to you and me — so don’t be afraid to appeal to their build up an emergency fund equivalent to six times your good nature. As long as they see that you earnestly monthly salary. This will serve as your cushion if you have want to pay your debt, they can be flexible. a sudden need for extra money, like unscheduled repairs, 3. Pay high-interest loans first. If you have two loans illness or, worse, if you suddenly lose your job (a common where one charges one percent and the other 10 occurrence these days). percent interest a month, pay off the latter first. Why? After the emergency fund, your next goal should be Because that equates to 120 percent a year! a retirement fund. Strive to save at least 20 percent of 4. Work for money instead of borrowing money. Here’s your savings from your income to form your retirement a common attitude among poor Filipinos. Let’s say fund. there’s going to be an occasion next week, for example Where do you put your retirement fund? You have the graduation of one’s child. You know what’s the many options: banks, time deposit, mutual funds, money first thing that comes to mind? Where to borrow market, etc. Improve your financial literacy so that you money to spend for the celebration. Instead of this will not only be able to help yourself but you’ll help mental circuitry, why not think of what you can do so others as well. that next week you’d have money to spend? And that means doing things you’ve never done before, like Step 6: Create Multiple Income Streams that Give selling something or taking a part-time job. Do you Passive Income. know that the quickest way to earn within a few days At this time of economic recession, to rely solely on one’s is to sell something? employment income is no longer advisable. You need multiple sources of income — sell something or put up a Step 3: Apply the “Save First, Spend Later” Principle. small business on the side; invest in a mutual fund, money The common Pinoy’s spending habit once he receives market and other financial instruments. his salary is like this: pay bills, buy that, watch movie, eat A word of caution, though: learn all you can before out and then save whatever’s left. getting into any of these. Get a mentor. Read up. Attend { 20 } KerygmaMay2009
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    seminars. And don’tbe afraid to fail. (More on this Bo’s Action Steps: in the next article.) Where are you now in your financial life? 1. Assess your financial life. Based on Do you still carry in your mind unhealthy financial beliefs? the steps mentioned in the article, what Are you deep in debt? do you need to do to achieve financial Are you on your way to building your freedom? emergency fund or retirement fund? Or does your money work for you now through 2. Set your financial goals for the rest of your passive income? the year and for the coming five years. Whatever stage you are in now, never forget that the real purpose of money is to love. 3. Create a strategy and define action plans that you would pursue to achieve (For comments and reactions, email me at bosanchez@ kerygmafamily.com.) your goals. Laughingly Yours Question and Answer from the Bible: Q. What kind of man was Boaz before he married Ruth? A. Ruthless. Q. Which servant of God was the most flagrant lawbreaker in the Bible? A. Moses. He broke all 10 commandments at once. Q. Why didn’t they play cards on the Ark ? A. Because Noah was standing on the deck. Want your own PDF/Digital Copy of Kerygma Magazine? Join www.kerygmafamily.com KerygmaMay2009 { 21 }
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    L ord God, I also want to proclaim your goodness to me through a financial breakthrough.” I wasn’t in a financial crisis when I said that prayer but I used to envy people in my community who testified to how God blessed and pulled them out of their financial difficulties. In my heart, I also hoped that I would be able to give such testimony. A few years later, something happened that turned my financial life upside down. Little did I know that this experience would pave the way for the Lord’s answer to my prayer. “Debt” Sentence I worked as a food technologist in a snack and noodle- making group of companies. My salary was enough to provide for my personal as well as my family’s needs and wants. I was just contented in having a job and receiving a reasonable amount of income every month. As long as our needs and wants were met, that was good enough for me. Savings and investments were not part of my vocabulary. As one of the breadwinners in the family, I provided for the groceries every 15th and 30th of the month. All my purchases were on cash basis. I didn’t have a credit card because I feared having debts. But when I transferred to a sister company where everyone had credit cards, I was somehow influenced by the culture and found myself Irma, no longer enslaved by plastic money, getting not only one but two credit cards. And the delay now pursues her life’s goals peacefully in the receipt of our salaries justified my need to have a credit card. I paid only the minimum amount due every billing Victory Over statement, unaware of its repercussions. In 2003, our company closed down. Although I received a separation pay, I didn’t prioritize my debts. My Debts: I availed of a cash loan promo offered by the card company as a way to pay off my debts and to have extra cash when I was broke and didn’t want to borrow How God from people. But this only worsened my situation. My outstanding balance ballooned due to finance charges and interests. When I defaulted on my payments, I received calls Raised Me from the credit and collection agent of the card company almost daily. After each call, I felt pressured, harassed and embarrassed. I had no more peace because of the guilt, from Debt fear and humiliation I suffered for many months. But it never crossed my mind to run away from my obligation. I applied for an amnesty for both credit cards but my to Financial application was denied. Free at Last! Freedom On my birthday, I received a gift from my prayer partner — a Bo Sanchez book, Simplify and Live the Good Life. The By Irma Francisco as told to Judith Concepcion { 22 } KerygmaMay2009
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    practical tips givenin this book on how to simplify partner. I am now serious in saving and investing my one’s life especially in the area of credit cards led earnings. me to a decision to cut my Visa card, which had a I still have credit cards but I use them only for insurance higher credit limit. It was liberating. I prayed and premium payments and when I treat clients or hold through my journal, God spoke to me: “Be not afraid. business meetings over lunch or dinner. Other than that, I have allowed this crisis in your life to teach you an all my transactions are in cash. I now pay the total amount important lesson. But I will help you pay your debts. due in my credit card so there won’t be any charges. I have Just have faith in me.” made a commitment never to allow myself to be enslaved It took me over a year before I found work. I had by debt again. I have not used my credit cards since the some tutoring jobs and through the help of a sister start of 2009. in Christ, I taught part-time at the Lorenzo Mission I also have multiple income streams now. I still teach Institute (LMI). Then a big opportunity came. Through at LMI and work as a real estate agent-broker. I am in the the sale of a real estate property that I brokered, process of discerning what kind of business to put up for I earned a huge commission that was more than my family. enough to pay for all my debts. In October 2007, I The Lord has blessed me abundantly, more than I can was finally debt-free. ever imagine. In return, I try to manage wisely whatever He has entrusted me. I am only His steward; all that I Financial Freedom have belongs to Him. The experience was an eye-opener for me. I realized that I was a financial wreck and financially illiterate. An Answered Prayer Though I wasn’t a credit addict or a shopping addict, It amazes me how the Lord answered the prayer I made I didn’t plan my purchases. I didn’t know a thing several years back. I only wanted to witness for Him about about budgeting, managing of finances, savings and His faithfulness and goodness to me in terms of financial investments. blessings by sharing my experience with my community. I have learned my lesson the hard (and costly) But the Lord’s answer was more than I had ever wished way. I am now prudent in handling my finances. for. He made it possible for my story to reach a great Before entering into any financial transaction, I plan number of people through KERYGMA. ahead, consult people who are knowledgeable in He, indeed, is a God of surprises — and He listens to a particular venture and pray a lot; I make God my every prayer we utter. Laughingly Yours A new pastor moved into town and went out to visit his community. He came into a closed house, but it was obvious that someone was home. He knocked several times but no one answered. He took a card and wrote at the back, “‘Behold I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and dine with him, and he with Me’ (Revelation 3:20).” The next day, he found the card on the offering plate. Written below his message was, “‘I heard Your voice in the garden, and I was afraid because I was naked, and I hid myself’ (Genesis 3:10).” A little girl was talking to her teacher about whales. She said that Jonah was swallowed by a whale. The teacher said it was physically impossible for a whale to swallow a human being because even if it was a very large mammal, its throat was very small. The little girl said, “When I get to heaven, I will ask Jonah.” The teacher asked, What if Jonah went to hell?” The little girl replied, “Then you ask him.” SEND US YOUR JOKES! Text 0917-800-5535; Email: svp_tvatienza@yahoo.com Want daily Bible readings and Didache reflections in your email? Join www.kerygmafamily.com KerygmaMay2009 { 23 }
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    I f you had a mango seed, would you eat It? Of course you wouldn’t, and you can’t, unless you’re some weird creature. But if you plant the mango seed and wait for a few years, you will have a full-grown tree that will give you about six thousand fruits in its lifetime. And if you again plant those 6000 seeds, you will get a bountiful harvest. But while waiting for your trees to bear fruit, what happens to you if you get hungry? You need something to eat. CREATE You need other sources of income. The sad thing is, majority of our countrymen are satisfied with just having something to eat. They do not bother to plant seeds that will bring them a bountiful harvest in the future. MULTIPLE This is a situation we call “man working for money. “ But there are two stages higher than this. The next stage is “man works for the money, which in turn, INCOME works for man.” But the ultimate goal is when “money works for man” — meaning, a person has multiple income streams that create passive income. This is sound financial advice that even the Bible advocates. STREAMS — Give portions to seven, yes to eight, for you do not know what disaster may come upon the land. Divide your portion to DON’T seven or even to eight, for you do not know what misfortune may occur on the earth. — Ecclesiastes 11:2 In the morning sow your seed, and at evening withhold not SETTLE your hand; for you do not know which will prosper, this or that, or whether both alike will be good. — Ecclesiastes 11:6 FOR ONE The Miracle of the Passive Income: Linear versus Exponential Income The analogy of the mango tree is an example of a source of passive income. You do something once — plant the seeds — and after a while, you begin to earn. You continue to earn even while you’re asleep, doing your regular work or having a vacation. by bo sanchez Let’s say you were looking for a job. Somebody approaches you and says, “I am putting up a new business. Can I hire you? I know you’re honest, faithful, dependable and a person of integrity.” Because you need a job badly, you’d say, “Yes! But how much is the salary?” The man says, “I can give you P30,000 a month for three years.” { 24 } KerygmaMay2009 Want daily Bible readings and Didache reflections in your email? Join www.kerygmafamily.com
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    You get excited.“Yes, I’ll take the job.” I’m sure many of you would prefer the first option But the man makes a second offer. “I can give you one — the P30,000 monthly salary. centavo on your first month. But I promise to double it on the But you know what? The table on the left shows next month.” that, over time, the second option would give you a “You mean I’ll get only two centavos on the second higher income than the first. month?” you ask. The first option provides you with a linear income “Yes, and on the third month it will be four centavos. I’ll while the second option gives you exponential double your salary every month. Which do you prefer?” the income. man tries to convince you. Linear income is like a piece of bread. When you eat it, your stomach becomes full. But tomorrow, First Option Second Option you’re hungry again and you don’t have any more Year Monthly Monthly Accumulated bread. You have to look for bread again. Salary Salary Income Exponential income is like the mango seed I 1 30,000.00 30,000.00 0.01 0.01 illustrated to you in the beginning of this article. 2 30,000.00 60,000.00 0.02 0.03 But to have a healthy financial life, you need to 3 30,000.00 90,000.00 0.04 0.07 have both linear and exponential income until such 4 30,000.00 120,000.00 0.08 0.15 time that the latter is big enough to take care of you and your family’s needs, and allows you to share 5 30,000.00 150,000.00 0.16 0.31 more blessings with others. 6 30,000.00 180,000.00 0.32 0.63 7 30,000.00 210,000.00 0.64 1.27 Two Sources of Linear Income 8 30,000.00 240,000.00 1.28 2.55 9 30,000.00 270,000.00 2.56 5.11 1. Job 10 30,000.00 300,000.00 5.12 10.23 Do you see a man skilled in his work? He will 11 30,000.00 330,000.00 10.24 20.47 serve before kings; he will not serve before 12 30,000.00 360,000.00 20.48 40.95 obscure men. 13 30,000.00 390,000.00 40.96 81.91 — Proverbs 22:29 14 30,000.00 420,000.00 81.92 163.83 15 30,000.00 450,000.00 163.84 327.67 Would you like to serve before kings? By that I mean not in the manner that would 16 30,000.00 480,000.00 327.68 655.35 make you a servant or a slave, but in the sense that 17 30,000.00 510,000.00 655.36 1,310.71 you would be so blessed in your jobs that you’d rise 18 30,000.00 540,000.00 1,310.72 2,621.43 up and become promoted and get all the bonuses 19 30,000.00 570,000.00 2,621.44 5,242.87 and commissions. 20 30,000.00 600,000.00 5,242.88 10,485.75 But that isn’t usually the case. You do not decide when you will get a raise or how big it is. You have a 21 30,000.00 630,000.00 10,485.76 20,971.51 boss who decides on such matters. 22 30,000.00 660,000.00 20,971.52 41,943.03 What you need to do to be successful in your 23 30,000.00 690,000.00 41,943.04 83,886.07 job and earn a huge linear income is to have an 24 30,000.00 720,000.00 83,886.08 167,772.15 entrepreneurial mindset or spirit. You must feel as if 25 30,000.00 750,000.00 167,772.16 335,544.31 you are a part-owner of the company. How do you do it? 26 30,000.00 780,000.00 335,544.32 671,088.63 Approach your boss and say, “Boss, give me more 27 30,000.00 810,000.00 671,088.64 1,342,177.27 work.” Create an image of doing things so fast and so 28 30,000.00 840,000.00 1,342,177.28 2,684,354.55 efficiently so that the higher-ups would notice you 29 30,000.00 870,000.00 2,684,354.56 5,368,709.11 and trust you with more work and responsibilities. 30 30,000.00 900,000.00 5,368,709.12 10,737,418.23 As you go up the ladder, you get rewarded. 31 30,000.00 930,000.00 10,737,418.24 21,474,836.47 2. Self-Employment 32 30,000.00 960,000.00 21,474,836.48 42,949,672.95 33 30,000.00 990,000.00 42,949,672.96 85,899,345.91 Then the Lord your God will make you most 34 30,000.00 1,020,000.00 85,899,345.92 171,798,691.83 prosperous in all the work of your hands. 35 30,000.00 1,050,000.00 171,798,691.84 343,597,383.67 — Deuteronomy 30:9 36 30,000.00 1,080,000.00 343,597,383.68 687,194,767.35 KerygmaMay2009 { 25 }
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    When you setup your own sari-sari store, you are self- b. Business employed. If you are a doctor and you put up your own When you hear the word“millionaire,” clinic, you are also self-employed. who comes to mind? Maybe the In both cases, you are your own boss. This is a good step likes of Manny Pacquiao, Bill Gates, but it’s not a real business. It’s what you call a “glorified job.” Kris Aquino and other big-name There is no exponential income. celebrities, right? A real business is where you hire people working under But do you know what the you such that you multiply yourself. When you open up surveys say? Only one percent of another store and hire someone to work for you, you earn millionaires are famous people. Five percent are exponential income. salesmen working for companies. Ten percent So don’t be content with having a linear income — aim are top doctors and lawyers. Another 10 percent for exponential income and continue to earn even while are top executives. The rest of the 74 percent are you’re on vacation. entrepreneurs. Isn’t that amazing? Some Examples of Exponential Income You can’t be a Bill Gates or a Kris Aquino, but can In exponential income, money works for you. This is where you be a businessman and start a small business in passive income starts. your backyard? That’s my challenge to you — even if you fail! a. Retirement Fund I’ve failed eight times in business and lost a lot of money. But guess what? Every time I fail, I pick And other seeds fell into good soil and brought myself up and say, “It’s tuition month. I’m learning forth grain, growing up and increasing and yielding something new.” thirtyfold and sixtyfold and a hundredfold. But you see, when you lose in business, you — Mark 4:8 lose money but you earn in financial wisdom. Now, I have 11 income streams. I earn a little here, a little I asked people who bet on lotto how much they normally there but if you collect them all, guess what? It spend a week in buying tickets. They said around P50. amounts to something substantial. My goal is to For many Filipinos, lotto is no longer a game; they look have 20 income streams, so I’m halfway there. at it as an investment. You see them lining up every week, hoping to win the draw. But do you know the probability of c. Real Estate winning in the lotto? It’s like being hit by a lightning twice Real estate is a good exponential income source. on the same spot. It’s exponential because you can have as many What I want and pray for is that every Filipino would have lands and properties that you want. Just have the a retirement fund. Do not depend on what your company knowledge. Buy a property without using your will give you when you retire at 60. Depend on your own own money. retirement fund. Get a P50-bill from your pocket. Look closely at it. Would d. More Aggressive Paper Assets you believe me when I say that inside the P50 you’re holding There’s the stock market, commodities trading, e- now is P50 million? trade (I haven’t tried this. If you don’t know anything You want me to prove it to you? about it, study it — even if it takes one year). You If you invest it at zero percent, it will never become P50 see, the key is not money. The key is knowledge million. — knowing what you’re going to do. If you invest it at three percent a year, it will become P50 million in 468 years; at five percent a year, in 284 years; at 15 The Next Steps percent, in 99 years. And so on. To increase your income you need to increase your It might appear absurd — to wait for decades and value. How do you do this? centuries for your P50 to become P50 million. But hey, you don’t have only P50 in your wallet, right? a. Learn about money. So start building your retirement fund now while you’re Listen. Attend seminars. Read all the books on still young. money that you can find. { 26 } KerygmaMay2009 Want to receive daily nourishment for your soul in your cell phone? For Smart and Talk ‘n Text subscribers, text GEMS ON to 4636. Only P2.50/text.
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    b. Talk andteach about money. Whatever you learn after reading my articles on money, share it with your spouse, kids, friends and Bo’s Action Steps: officemates. Teaching is the best way to learn. 1. Assess your present sources of c. Change your regular conversation partners. income. What kind of income If you constantly talk with people who are do you have? interested only in show business, believe me, you 2. Define your goals for your won’t learn anything about money. income streams. How many Why don’t you talk about money and business? Every time you see a successful businessman and entrepreneur, tell him, “Can income streams do you want? we have coffee? I want to know how you made your business a What are these? success.” Pick his brains for the price of a capuccino. Ask questions, 3. Create a strategy and action take down notes and learn all you can from him about money and plans, together with a timetable, business. to achieve your multiple income d. Look for business opportunities. streams. Keep your eyes open for opportunities. Start by selling anything 4. Work on one income stream at — yes, just anything. a time. Selling is a very important skill. If you do not know how to sell, it would be difficult to succeed in your business. You may say, “Bo, I’m shy. I can’t sell.” Hey, I know a lot of people who are shy and soft-spoken, but they do well in selling. Why? Because the bottomline of any selling activity is relationship building. It’s not how good you are Laughingly Yours as a speaker. What’s important is the sincerity of your heart. And people smell that a mile away. If you’re someone that they can trust, they will buy. But you need to have the drive, that goal, that dream that you’re working for and you’d be able to sell. So sell A religion teacher announced to her class, “Our anything. lesson for today is liturgy. Can anybody tell me what liturgy is in your own words?” e. Dream big but start small. Twelve-year-old Pedro proudly stood up Start very small. I started by selling butong-pakwan (watermelon and said confidently, “That’s the letter after F.” seeds). And then learn along the way. After a while, you’ll be selling jewelry. Maybe you’ll be able to sell something on the Internet. SEND US YOUR JOKES! Text 0917-800-5535; Sell all sorts of products for the experience. Email: svp_tvatienza@yahoo.com Start small but dream big. Do you think I’m a happy person? I’m happy not because I have passive income. I’m happy not because I have multiple income streams. When you lose in business, you lose Every morning when I wake up, I say, “Lord, I’m going to bless people today.” Every single morning, I say that. And the Lord allows me to do that — and that is why I want to be truly rich: to be able to bless and help more people. money but you Let that be your dream, too. earn in financial (For comments or reactions, email me at bosanchez@kerygmafamily.com.) wisdom. KerygmaMay2009 { 27 }
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    T about money but let’s just just focus on here are loTs of myThs the common ones. They can be represented by the acronym M-O-N-E-Y M-Y-T-H-S for easy recall. As you read, check your own beliefs — do you subscribe to any of these tales? You may not be aware of it, but some of these myths may be hurting your financial life. M – Money is the root of all evil. This is one of the oldest myths about money. I Timothy 6:10 says, “… the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil.” The verse clearly states that the “love for money” is evil and not money itself. Money How is neutral and can be used for either good or bad. Money makes a terrible master but is a good servant when used by those who serve God. the O – Only those born rich can have money. The 40 richest Filipinos included in the October 2008 issue of Forbes magazine showed almost the same names from the past years’ editions. Except for changes in ranking, it’s easy to anticipate the Myths names of Ayalas, Tans and Sys in the list. Does it mean that money is restricted to their families only? If you believe in this myth then the probability of you staying “poor” increases each day. Mark Zuckerberg (CEO and founder of the popular social networking site “Facebook”) is only in his mid-20s and About is the youngest member of US Billionaires list. There are a lot of first generation millionaires who are slowly sneaking into the elite list of various countries (Philippines included). This just proves a point that rich people are not always from rich families. Money N – No money = Holiness According to Luke 18:22, Jesus told the rich young man, “Sell all you have and give the money to the poor, and you will have riches May Be in heaven; then come and follow me.” Does this mean that if you have money you are not holy? Not exactly. Spirituality or holiness does not equate to poverty. God cares for the poor out of compassion but you do not get extra points from God because you remain poor. Your wealth or poverty does not Hurting determine your spirituality, but your service to God and others will certainly do. E – Everything you buy in a sale gives you savings You We need to qualify this myth because it depends on the reason why you are making the purchase. If you need something which happens to be on next Friday’s mall sale, then it’s worthwhile to buy it. However, it would be a different scenario if you go to a sale, By Alvin Fabella buy something because it has a big discount but later realize that you don’t need the item. As much as possible, avoid going to a sale { 28 } KerygmaMay2009
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    just to window-shopbecause the discount T – Tithing is the only requirement of God. tags might just influence you to buy wants Don’t assume that when you tithe regularly you are free to rather than needs. do what you want with whatever is left. We should recognize that all our blessings come from God and we are accountable Y – You project God’s blessing with as to how we spend our money until the last centavo. Another money. myth on tithing is when you promise to give more only when The book of Deuteronomy 8:18 says, you receive (or make) a bigger income. Some people vow to “Remember the Lord your God, for it is donate a significant portion of the lotto prize if God allows He who gives you the ability to produce them to win. You cannot give a bigger amount later if you do wealth.” not practice tithing with what you have now. It is good to recognize that all your blessings (material items included) are H – Having insurance or pension is only for “old” people from God. However, it is not the best way to who are retiring or sickly. promote God to others. Max Lucado, in his Young people tend to avoid anyone who sells insurance or book entitled It’s Not About You, encourages pension because of the above myth. They should always Christians to be God’s promoter here on consider that premiums for insurance tend to be lower while earth by showing our triumphs over trials. one is young because there is lesser risk for the provider. It It’s always better to show off our godliness is always best to get an insurance or pension plan while you by loving our fellowmen and loving God are young and healthy. regardless if we own a big house or drive the latest car. S – Saving in the bank is enough. The answer to this myth is very simple: inflation. Philippine M – Money makes the world go round. inflation for the past two years has been ranging from six Sometimes we confuse money with what is to ten percent. This means that our money loses at least six actually more important. Money is not the percent in purchasing power every year. Majority of banks most important thing in life but it affects offer saving accounts which pay only two percent interest per everything that is important in our lives. year (tax deduction of 20 percent on the interest still to be You need money to give your family both applied). This means that your savings now, no matter how a comfortable house and food to eat every big, will just continue to decline in value. There is a need for day. But there is a big difference between one to consider other investment vehicles like bonds, stocks, being concerned about money so you can mutual funds and others. It should not be a problem looking be a good provider versus being obsessed for a friend who can help you in this area. with it. How we deal with our money is important. The above myths will affect your decisions in money management. Y – You have God’s approval if you have Always make sure to learn the facts and make proper use of financial prosperity. your money. We know that not all rich people acquired their wealth through lawful means. We (For comments or reactions, email the author at alvinfabella@yahoo. cannot measure God’s approval by the size com) of one’s house or bank statement. If you are blessed with such material wealth then you should be thankful and find ways you You cannot give a bigger amount can help others with it. Your wealth is not later if you do not practice a sign that God favors you more than a lesser fortunate brother or sister. tithing with what you have now. Want daily Bible readings and Didache reflections in your email? Join www.kerygmafamily.com KerygmaMay2009 { 29 }
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    I absolutely love talking to Rex Mendoza. Sure, he’s a self-made man and quite successful. But Rex wants more — he aims for significance. His purpose is to make a difference in other people’s lives. Just doing the interview with him made an impact on my life. Know why? Listen in on our conversation. Bo: You’ve been giving talks to people about financial management. You seem very passionate about it. Rex: Yes, it has been my advocacy to make people learn about money management. After my talks, people would approach me and say, “The money’s really not enough, Rex. There is nothing to save.” And I ask them, “When will it ever be enough?” The point is for you to really take something out of your take-home pay and then, whatever is left, you try and make it enough. As your income grows, continue setting aside a part of it and then before you know it, what you’ve set aside can already work for you. I think I remember telling you about “man at work, man and money at work, money at work” — the three stages of money consciousness. Maybe 95 percent of Filipinoas are in the first stage of money consciousness. They study, grow up, get a job, have a family, get that car, try to get that house and then they retire — that’s it! But if you have this consciousness to save and invest, you can have man and money at work at a certain stage and you can enjoy REX life because you’re not hard-pressed to earn money all the time. You can enjoy your work without having to look at the money side. MENDOZA: What I’d like to happen is for people to be conscious of those three stages because the dream should be to get into the money-at-work stage so that you can stop The Good Influencer working or just do the things you love to do. That’s the reason why I admire people who, at a certain stage in their lives, just become philanthropic. From success, they switch to significance. For now, at my age, I’m still looking at more success but His Purpose Is to Make I see that side of me that says there has to be significance later. You don’t become a person of legacy with only a Difference success. There has to be significance. Bo: You have a very good theory about the lotto. Can you share on that a bit? An Interview By Bo Sanchez Rex: Do you notice that wherever there’s a lotto terminal, there’s a queue? Those guys are probably thinking, “It’s time to hit that jackpot.” Many of them are already thinking about what they’d do in case they win. They’re already planning for something that’s not bound to happen. Why? Do the math. In lotto, your chances of hitting that jackpot is 1 out of 14 million. If that doesn’t sound so absurd, let me describe it to you in a picturesque way. It is like getting hit by lightning twice on the same spot. interview By An That’s how odd it is. Bo Sanchez { 30 } KerygmaMay2009
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    At your age,Bo, have you been hit by lightning? Not yet. But supposing you were struck once, then you have to stay there and get hit a second time. That is your chance of hitting the jackpot. Now, look at our countrymen — instead of setting aside the money, they bet on chance. Bo: That’s right. Rex: They’re actually projecting their future based on chance. It’s largely culture-based. A lot of poor people One thing Rex is passionate say, “That probably is what God wants for me.” That’s a about is teaching people to be responsible for their financial defeatist way of looking at things. As far as I’m concerned, lives. God gave you the freedom to decide. He probably knows what will happen, yes, but you still have the freedom to decide. So would you like to live your life based on easier for a camel to get through the eye of the needle chance? Or would you like to put up the building blocks than for a rich man to enter the Kingdom of God.” I think that will be the foundation of real wealth? As I was telling it’s OK to get rich as long as you have the right purpose. my driver, P20 in my pocket is more secure than putting So, in my case, clearly it’s not only getting rich but also P20 into that lotto. (I haven’t bet my money on the lotto providing a template for people that says, “Hey, follow this and I take pride in saying that.) Others would rationalize track because it works.” I’m still young, my dad’s still alive that if they don’t win in the lotto, at least they’ve given (my mom just died a few years ago), but they lived in my something to charity. Well, if you want to give, you have house for the past 12 years because my mom had a stroke to do it as charity itself, not through lotto. and I asked them to move to my place where it’s safer. When you try to win a jackpot on a regular basis, that’s What am I trying to say here? I’m pushing the idea that, investing. You just chose a bad instrument. Why? People “Hey, I’m not getting any inheritance. I’ve worked for the line up with a small sheet of paper with the numbers money I have. I never really got anything from anybody they regularly bet on. Some people even bet on the same that says, ‘OK, Rex, this is your capital.’” I started working numbers for years! If you set aside P10 to P20 a week with a company that paid me P1800 a month. Everybody for lotto, hoping to make a withdrawal one day, that’s started off that way. The reason why I’m energized to share investing. But obviously, 99.99 percent are not going to this story is to tell people they can do it, too. Anybody can have that payback. do it. You just need discipline and you have to be really grounded with your purpose. If you’re just looking for Bo: And then they hear stories of really poor people money, not purpose, you can be successful but it’s going winning the jackpot — a farmer, for instance — so the to be short-lived. Because as long as you don’t have a more they put their hope in the lotto. sense of purpose, you’re not going to be grounded. And if Rex: They want to be emancipated from their lot. But you’re not grounded, you’re going to do the wrong things. that’s not what they need. What is necessary is a mindset That is very crucial. shift — that their future, their life, their destiny is in their hands. If you have the talent and you can harness it, why Bo: What is your purpose, Rex? not use it to improve your situation? Rex: To make a difference. I feel that I have a way of linking But some poor people even spiritualize their poverty up with people that can move them. I have the gift of gab. and point to that verse in the Bible that says, “It will be I will not be humble about it. But I use that not to con people into something but to teach and educate well. I have taught in the graduate school of business of a big university for a long period. It’s a matter of throwing back, breeding a kind of idealism into the young guys. Making a difference for me is on the influence side. I know I’m a good influencer. Somebody did a psychological exam on me and it’s very enlightening. It revealed that I’d rather believe the purpose of a task than the money it’d bring in. You know what I told them? “Hey, that’s what brings in the real money.” His family is the reason why Rex does what he does and why having a secure (Email the author at bosanchez@kerygmafamily.com.) financial future is a must for him. They deserve nothing but the best in life. Above photo shows his real treasures in life: eldest daughter Peevee, wife Anna, youngest child Reanna (front) and only boy Enro. KerygmaMay2009 { 31 }
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    Receive Bo’s INVITING!!! All Catholic Charismatic communities, prayer groups and weekly email ministries throughout the Philippines letter for 5th National Catholic “Spirit-Filled Communities Growing Together as the Body of Christ” FREE! Charismatic Congress If you want to grow in your Date: Venue: May 28-31, 2009 Cebu International Convention Center spiritual, family, emotional, Cebu, Philippines Spiritual Directors, formators and key leaders are specially and financial lives, each week exhorted to attend. REGISTRATION FEE (includes meals, kit and handouts) Bo Sanchez writes On or before February 15, 2009 – P 800.00 February 16 to April 30, 2009 – P 900.00 The Bo Sanchez May 2009 & On-site Registration – P 1,000.00 For information, contact the Congress Secretariat: Soulfood Letter. Nacing Gonzaga: Telafax No. (032) 256-0659 Cell. No. 0917-752-3244 Rhea Mantuhac: Tel. No. (032) 516-4749 Cell. No. 0927-631-5865 It’s consistently powerful, often funny, and always Log on to: www.catholiccharismaticcongressphil.org inspiring. Join the Force. By the way, it’s absolutely free. Change the World. Log onto www.bosanchez.ph now and click on SOULFOOD. We’re looking for volunteers who want to bless others with God’s love. Be a Shepherd today. Bo Sanchez Catholic Lay Preacher Call and Bestselling Author { 32 } KerygmaMay2009 725-9999
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    By Jonathan Rickard T he village of gK Baseco has in recent years been renowned both in the Philippines and around the world for its transformation from hopelessness to hope, from despair to dignity. Visitors New life emerges for Baseco residents from diverse backgrounds have graced the village — from the president of Singapore, to students from Manila’s universities, to employees and executives from multinational corporations and government departments. In turn, residents of Baseco Baseco GK Caretaker Team’s Presence are often found building houses for others in remote areas of the Philippines as part of GK’s Bayani Caretakers When asked what makes the biggest difference in Baseco’s ongoing transformation, Jun has no hesitation in crediting his caretaker team. Challenges. Giving Care “It’s the presence of caretakers!” Jun exclaims unreservedly. GK’s strength over the years has A Difficult Transformation been the presence of couples, singles and youth Such are the manifold success from Couples for Christ, working alongside the stories of Baseco that it’s easy to forget how difficult it is to residents and witnessing to them with their hands, not just achieve transformation. For Project Director Jun Valbuena their words. and his Caretaker Team, the struggle has been a labor of love “It is showing them the love that we share with them,” Jun forged over the last four or so years of their lives. Many of notes, sounding a word of caution. “I would say that whenever them have worked alongside the villagers in Baseco since the we see a site that is deteriorating in any way, it’s because of start — when GK Baseco was resurrected from the ashes of a an absence of caretakers.” fire in the slum area in 2004. Conversely, the most significant transformations have And given the many obvious changes, Jun Valbuena is come about as a result of doors opened by the work of addressing startlingly circumspect. poverty. “We’re able to invite people into our community — to “After four years we’ve seen a little change,” Jun witness to them — because they see something good in us.” says, surprising those who see the incredible before-after “We run the Christian Life Program (a Catholic renewal contrasts. “You cannot change the people overnight. But seminar) here because we want the GK residents to be we’re experiencing some changes, some transformation in protected. If there is no one to take care of them, to mentor the people.” them, they will go back to being in a slum again. The survival “Habits of a lifetime can be hard to change,” Jun says, mode is very hard to leave.” especially for adults who have lived most of their lives in For Jun Valbuena and his team, commitment to the a slum. And GK works hard to prevent their villages from residents of Baseco arose from positive change in their own slipping back into the slums. Still, over four years, things lives. “For me, I’ve been in our community for the last 24 have progressed significantly. years. There was a big change in my life since I joined and I want to share it with the people, with the couples here. I am Renewal of Minds and Spirit encouraged to do even more to show them our love when I see “Little by little we’re transforming the people,” Jun says. transformation in the lives of the residents.” “Each Monday for the last four years, we have a prayer and He smiles and says, “I think for every GK worker it is like worship session at 8 a.m. We pray together and talk about this. That’s why we stay — it’s because of love! We want to their problems and challenges.” share the love that we’re experiencing in every GK site.” Where in the past, GK provided leadership to a community “It’s bringing glad tidings to the poor,” he affirms. And struggling to face life’s trials, many residents are now forging walking around Baseco meeting children with a future brighter their own way forward. “They’re the ones bringing the than ever before, visitors can see the legacy of the caretakers’ solutions (to problems),” Jun relates. “We just talk it over love taking shape day after day, step by persevering step. with them.” Looking for a friendly Internet forum for advice and fun? Go to www.kerygmafamily.com/forum KerygmaMay2009 { 33 }
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    kitchen T his is going To be another one of those articles scribbles about little things we take for granted. I’ve already written similar articles in past issues, so if you’re sick of it, email the KERYGMA editor two polite words — “Point taken.” Or write by rosanne romero me two words (“Quit it”) on my blog (rosanneromero. wordpress.com). I want to focus on that small, fat and short finger we call the thumb. You’re thinking, “What’s the big deal?” Disdain Some months back, I lost the use of my right thumb. At first, it just started getting weaker. Later, it became stiff, inflexible and painful. It was hard for me to make people see why this was upsetting me. After all, I still Not Thy Thumb had four fingers left, right? Without a thumb, there would still be four fingers functioning and with four fingers there are many things you still can do. Like? Flush the toilet. Switch off a light. Pat your dog. Scratch your head. Put your hair back in place. True. But listen to this — when Julius Ceasar waged war over Gaul, he ordered his men to amputate the thumbs of all the captured warriors so that they would go back to their homeland and never be able to bear arms again. See that? So, verily I say unto you: “Disdain not thy thumb.” (That’s in Fake-lesiastes 78:19.) Other than bearing arms for war, there are unpolitical, everyday tasks that become maddeningly difficult without the thumb. Try frying anything with just your four fingers — hmmm. Try buttoning a shirt — tsk! Try pulling a zipper up or down — double tsk! Use a nail clipper — sigh! Get bills from your wallet or get a coin from your coin purse — darn! Hold a bar of soap? What the…! Turn a doorknob? Grrrrr. Tie your shoelaces? Double grrrr. Try holding a toothbrush. Arrrgh. Try flossing your teeth! Double arrrrgh! You can drive without your thumb… if you can get the key in and start it with four fingers — qwjd!!#nchfgiuhvj@#! The thumb is quite a big deal. It’s not an insignificant body part. It only seems insignificant because yours functions normally. Go over all the things you do in one day that requires using your thumb. If you suddenly lost it, you would have a better appreciation of it. This is why I write about these little things I suffer on account of my multiple sclerosis (MS). I want my life to honor God — this life now — the one that has a problematic thumb, wobbly legs, slightly deteriorated vision, etc. I want this life of mine to honor God. And I honor Him by bringing to fore the little blessed things we rarely thank Him for. (Email the author at kitchenscribbles@gmail.com) KerygmaMay2009 { 35 }
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    BUILDING PERSONAL WEALTH - THE EASY WAY Learn to invest successfully through online stock trading. Leading online stock brokerage firm performing. “The beauty of this program would often be interrupted by telephone CitisecOnline (COL) is helping raise up a is that customers direct and control their calls from his other clients. Moreover, it new breed of investors ready to make own investments by deciding on the would take a while for her broker to buy the most of opportunities offered by the amount of money you want to invest and and sell stocks for her so she would stock market. As part of its commitment for how long with the help of COL’s often not be able to trade at the prices to help Filipinos achieve their financial platform and stock selection”, Bate adds. she wanted. goals, COL has launched a simple yet effective investment program that has Through COL’s EIP, customers need “I can trade on generated a stream of inquiries, many of not have determine when to buy or sell hard data, not which were from investors who have little and what stocks to invest in. COL Vice- on speculation.“ or no knowledge of the stock market and President and Head of Investor at the same time, may have minimal Education Juanis Barredo explains that BILLIE SYLING BUSINESSWOMAN & funds to invest initially. online trading has made it a lot more HOUSEWIFE convenient for customers to enjoy the The COL Easy Investment Program benefits of cost averaging. "We have (EIP) employs an effective and proven simplified the process so that even first- investment method called cost-averaging time investors can profit from it." The that minimizes risks in the stock market COL Easy Investment Program pares while offering the benefits of wealth down the choices of investors to a pre- generation through investments in any of selected list of Premium Growth Stocks. the pre-selected list of Premium Growth These companies with a proven track Stocks. The cost averaging method is an record and posse’s qualities that will established wealth-building tool continue drive shareholder value in the The internet which provides employed by many individuals as well as long-term. information and automated access to the some financial institutions worldwide. stock market changed all that for her. According to Dino Bate, President of To help first-time investors learn Through COL, she now gets company CitisecOnline, "We’ve simplified and about the stock market and to get started and stock market information real-time. aided the investment process by trading online, CitisecOnline launched She appreciates that she can check automating the cost averaging method the COL Investor Seminar Series, which issues traded, volume of transactions and providing additional features in our offers various seminars and briefings, and ever find out who are buying and PAID ADVERTISEMENT online platform to make it convenient for free-of-charge to all interested investors. selling. She says, “I can trade on hard all investors to access and invest in the Over the past two years, over 10,000 data, not on speculation. When I hear of stock market”. Filipinos nationwide have attended the good buys from my friends, I can check COL Investor Seminar Series. People the hard data myself and use that to COL customers simply have to from all walks of life, including back my decisions.” choose from a list of pre-selected employees, students, entrepreneurs, companies carefully qualified by COL’s overseas Filipino workers and policemen Catholic lay preacher and best-selling seasoned financial analysts. They can learn about how to spot opportunities in author, Bro. Bo Sanchez was one of schedule their investments by setting up the stock market. Until recently, investors those who took up COL’s challenge to a fixed amount to be invested at regular like Billie Syling, who with her husband learn more about online stock trading intervals through COL’s online platform. runs a family business supplying industry even if he did not have any financial Customers will be reminded through mills and heads the Alumnae Association training. He attended a COL seminar in email prior to their scheduled investment of Immaculate Concepcion Academy, March 2007 and since then has been dates and they will be able to track their used to rely on a broker for advice and to buying selected shares from what he portfolio over the internet anytime and execute trades. She found it frustrating believes are solid, enduring and growing see how their investments are when her conversation with the broker companies. Continued on page 38. 136 } KerygmaMay2009 {
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    k M y one-year-old daughter,Helene, is a math genius. When you ask her, “One plus one?” She will answer, preacher “Two!” But you may say that there are a lot of one-year- olds who can answer that simple question. However, when you continue to ask her a series of math questions, you will agree with me that she is really a whiz kid. We tried to do that and it blew our minds away. by arun gogna “Helene, four minus two?” One She blurts out, in her same high-pitched tone, “Two!” “How about ten minus eight?” Plus She answers, “Two!” So we continued. “One hundred divided by fifty?” “Two!” One And now we ask the hardest one, “Square root of four?” Without batting an eyelash she answers, Equals “Two!” She’s a genius (like Daddy)! Seriously, let’s get to my point. I was thinking Two! about this one day — how it is so amusing that she can answer every single math equation we ask her with just one number. Then it dawned on me: Life could be as simple as that. We may have a host of questions about the cards life deals us, but to it all we can only supply one answer in order to live serenely. The answer? “Jesus, I trust in You!” Living day to day could be a great challenge, especially nowadays, but there is only one key answer: trust. Did you just lose your job? Say, “Jesus, I trust in You.” In times of sickness or confusion, find the strength to utter, “Jesus, I trust in You.” If friends or family abandon you, just pray, “Jesus, I trust in You.” Always remember the phrase, “Jesus, I trust in You,” when you are in pain. When you are questioning everything that is happening to you, just believe in this one mantra — “Jesus, I trust in You.” Even when (and especially if) God seems to be silent, cry out, “Jesus, I trust in You!” This simple prayer was prayed by our great saints in their deepest time of tribulation. That is why they were victorious. That is why they are holy. If it is prayed from the heart, the phrase will give us enough faith to face not just your day but your lifetime. “Jesus, I trust in You!” Let’s make it a habit. It doesn’t only answer the “math problems” of life, but every possible life subject we can think of. So, what is our answer if we want to be a genius in this course called life? Yup, you got it, “Jesus, I trust in You!” It’s simple really! Take it from my Helene. One trusting heart and one all-loving God equal two. To invite Arun in your events, contact Creative House at 401-8238. Also check Helene’s a real beauty like her mom, Lallaine his website at www.arungogna.com. KerygmaMay2009 { 37 }
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    one last I Was Prepared for story My Death By Raymond C. Eli caño But God Had Other Plans for Me ly The Elicaño Fami A s I prepared my farewell The Sweet Scent of Roses rare condition called cystic nephroma letters to my wife and children, My brother Mike, a devotee of Our Lady, — and that means my cyst was benign. I recalled a prayer I said almost Mediatrix of All Graces, encouraged Only around 200 such cases were 20 years ago when a senior me to make a pilgrimage to the Carmel documented in the United States since it executive in the company I Monastery in Lipa, where our Blessed was first identified in 1890. A pathologist worked for died of cancer. Mother Mary appeared in 1948, said that my condition was so statistically “Lord, I pray that when I die, it would accompanied by showers of rose petals. improbable that it was like I had won first be of cancer so I can prepare myself The shower recurred in 1991 and my prize in lotteries and sweepstakes several spiritually.” brother got one petal with an image of times over! Convinced that God was granting Jesus. He lost his petal a few years ago. Deep in my heart, I firmly believe me one final blessing by allowing me to Miraculously, my brother’s wife found that through intense prayers and the contract cancer, I started preparing myself it the day before my operation and she intercession of spiritually before I went under the knife to immediately brought it to me. Our Lady, Mary remove a 7.6-inch cyst (19 centimeters) On August 19, weak and in pain, Mediatrix of in my left kidney. Despite my wife’s I made a pilgrimage to the Carmel All Grace, my reluctance, we made legal preparations in Monastery. While praying in the vigil operation went case I didn’t survive the operation. room, I smelled a very strong scent of successfully What I wasn’t prepared for was how roses, which I attributed to what I thought and the cyst God, through Our Lady’s intercession, were real roses adorning the walls of the was rendered would answer my prayer. prayer room. I felt being embraced by so benign. The much love that it moved me to tears. scent of roses Falling Ill that she sent Around February 2008, I started Comfort During Surgery my way gave experiencing pain in my left rib area and On August 26, 2008, I went through a me strength lost more than 20 pounds. On August 14, radical nephrectomy, lasting for 8-1/2 to survive the 2008, during my annual executive checkup, hours, to remove my cyst, left kidney and operation and a cyst almost the size of a small watermelon adrenal gland. Just before I was brought quickly recover was found in my kidney. It was so big that into the operating room, I smelled a faint from it. it completely engulfed my left kidney so scent of roses although there were no that the kidney was barely functioning. It flowers in the room. This comforted me The Best pushed aside the organs in my abdominal greatly and I felt peace. Preparation cavity and compressed my left lung so that it Anticipating heavy blood loss, the But more than couldn’t expand fully. In addition, the cyst doctor advised us to prepare seven blood the physical was beside the aorta, making the operation donors. Everything went smoothly during healing, the to remove it somewhat risky, giving me the operation. I recovered quickly and miraculous occurrences before, during only a 50 percent chance of survival. The this surprised my doctors. Two days after and after my surgery led my family and urologist said that 90 percent of all cysts the operation I could walk around the me to the path of spiritual renewal. larger than 10 centimeters are malignant. hospital room. We have become more prayerful and An oncologist said that treatment for kidney cognizant of the many blessings that cancer is long and painful and, again, the Rare Finding God has given us. My wife and I have survival rate is only 50 percent. A team of six pathologists from the committed to contribute to church and All these prognoses led me to prepare National Kidney Institute and Asian other worthwhile activities to help the myself for death but not without losing Hospital examined the cyst. After more poor and the needy. hope in God’s love for me and in our than a week of careful examination and And that, I guess, is the best Blessed Mother’s intercession. research, they concluded that I had a very preparation of all! KerygmaMay2009 { 39 }
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    point of ofcontact pointcontact bo sanchez I pray that you receive your miracles in Jesus’ name! I PRAY THAT GOD LIFT YOUR TRIALS, heal your diseases, bless your problems and direct you to the path He wants you to take. I pray that God remove your fears and give you the courage to surrender your burdens to Him. So place your hand over my hand, and let’s pray with trust, together with our prayer team of intercessors praying for you right now… This page is our Point of Contact, our spiritual connection. Say after me… In the Name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Lord, I surrender to You my worries and anxieties. I surrender to You my needs, my problems, my trials. I place them all in Your big hands! And I open myself to all that You want to give to me! On this day, I say yes to Your love, to Your blessings, to Your healing, to Your miracles! And Lord, specifically, I ask You for the following miracles for my life... I believe that You answer my prayer in the best way possible! And I thank You in advance for the perfect answers to my prayers. I also ask for the special intercession of Mama Mary. I pray all this in the Name of the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit, Amen! SPECIAL INTENTION FOR THIS MONTH: Bless the readers of KERYGMA, Lord. Plant in their hearts the desire to be truly rich in all areas of their lives — spiritual, emotional, social and financial. Inspire them to study and learn all they can so they would grow and be fully alive. Purify their hearts of any wrong motivation for desiring wealth. Let loving You and blessing Your people be their ultimate goals. Grant them courage to stand up again when they fail or lose in their endeavors. May they find their true blessing in a rich relationship with You. Amen. Praying for you, Email your prayer requests to me at bosanchez@kerygmafamily.com or write to me at Shepherd’s Voice Publications, #60 Chicago St., Cubao, Quezon City, Philippines 1109. Let me know, too, if your prayers have been answered. { 40 } KerygmaMay2009