1. The Resilient EntrepreneurThe Resilient Entrepreneur
5 key strategies for thriving on the challenges5 key strategies for thriving on the challenges
of a growing and changing business.of a growing and changing business.
Jen Tiller MBIH, NLP Trainer, Reiki Master Teacher, EFT Practitioner,Jen Tiller MBIH, NLP Trainer, Reiki Master Teacher, EFT Practitioner,
Buteyko Breathing Therapist, Golden Grid Energy Master Practitioner,Buteyko Breathing Therapist, Golden Grid Energy Master Practitioner,
Winner BEW Innovation Award, authorWinner BEW Innovation Award, author
Presentation at E2 copyright Jen Tiller 2010Presentation at E2 copyright Jen Tiller 2010
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3. In a business, you need more money coming in thanIn a business, you need more money coming in than
going out to stay solvent, and extra resources forgoing out to stay solvent, and extra resources for
hard times.hard times.
In order to stay solvent at a personal energy level,In order to stay solvent at a personal energy level,
you also have to have more coming in than goingyou also have to have more coming in than going
out, plus extra resources for hard times:out, plus extra resources for hard times:
PhysicallyPhysically
MentallyMentally
EmotionallyEmotionally
because you can’t give what you don’t have!because you can’t give what you don’t have!
4. PRACTICAL DEFINITION OFPRACTICAL DEFINITION OF STRESSSTRESS
StressStress occurs when the demands on your resourcesoccurs when the demands on your resources
– personal or external - are greater than you can– personal or external - are greater than you can
give at a particular time.give at a particular time.
PRACTICAL DEFINITION OFPRACTICAL DEFINITION OF BURNOUTBURNOUT
BURNOUTBURNOUT occurs when the demands on youroccurs when the demands on your
resources – personal or external - are greater thanresources – personal or external - are greater than
you can give over an EXTENDED period of time.you can give over an EXTENDED period of time.
5. 5 keys to resilience5 keys to resilience
1.1. Create balance and a strong centreCreate balance and a strong centre
2.2. Live with passion and purposeLive with passion and purpose
3.3. Nurture yourselfNurture yourself
4.4. Surround yourself with great peopleSurround yourself with great people
5.5. Live your life with awareness!Live your life with awareness!
6. Where are you now? Do a personal MOT:Where are you now? Do a personal MOT:
what drains you, what sustains you?what drains you, what sustains you?
-10 0 +10-10 0 +10
ClientsClients
FriendsFriends
ExerciseExercise
FoodFood
AdminAdmin
HobbiesHobbies
TechnologyTechnology
FamilyFamily
Home env.Home env.
Office env.Office env.
ColleaguesColleagues
CommutingCommuting
Financial mgtFinancial mgt
??
7. Your personal MOTYour personal MOT
What drains you, what sustains you?What drains you, what sustains you?
-10 0 +10-10 0 +10
ClientsClients
FriendsFriends
ExerciseExercise
FoodFood
AdminAdmin
HobbiesHobbies
TechnologyTechnology
FamilyFamily
Home env.Home env.
Office env.Office env.
ColleaguesColleagues
CommutingCommuting
Financial mgtFinancial mgt
??
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9. SYMPTOMS OF STRESSSYMPTOMS OF STRESS
Poor sleep patternsPoor sleep patterns
IndigestionIndigestion
Bouts of illnessBouts of illness
Muscle tension – headMuscle tension – head
and back achesand back aches
Lower energy levelsLower energy levels
Shallow breathing/lots ofShallow breathing/lots of
yawning and sighingyawning and sighing
Performance anxiety –Performance anxiety –
exams, music, sportexams, music, sport
Temper or tearsTemper or tears
Increased conflictIncreased conflict
Withdrawal/avoidanceWithdrawal/avoidance
Anxiety/easily startledAnxiety/easily startled
Panic attacksPanic attacks
Lack of organisationLack of organisation
Less ability toLess ability to
concentrateconcentrate
Poor memoryPoor memory
Diet/Weight issuesDiet/Weight issues
10. PAY ATTENTION!PAY ATTENTION!
What changes FIRST as you get more stressed?What changes FIRST as you get more stressed?
Breathing speed orBreathing speed or
depthdepth
Sighing or yawningSighing or yawning
Heart beat speedHeart beat speed
Muscle tensionMuscle tension
Voice tone or pitchVoice tone or pitch
Digestive symptomsDigestive symptoms
OrganisationOrganisation
Voice speedVoice speed
Language patternsLanguage patterns
Gestures and bodyGestures and body
movementsmovements
Facial expressionFacial expression
Thought speed/qualityThought speed/quality
Energy levelsEnergy levels
Habits – food etcHabits – food etc
11. PURPOSE AND PASSIONPURPOSE AND PASSION
When your purpose, values, thoughts andWhen your purpose, values, thoughts and
actions match it will bring you into a stateactions match it will bring you into a state
of absolute integrity. You will feel great!of absolute integrity. You will feel great!
Do your highest values match how youDo your highest values match how you
live you life and run your business?live you life and run your business?
12. What makes you feel great –What makes you feel great –
and most importantly, are you doing it?and most importantly, are you doing it?
Sufficient sleepSufficient sleep
Healthy foodHealthy food
Favourite exerciseFavourite exercise
Vitamins/mineralsVitamins/minerals
Good postureGood posture
LaughterLaughter
Good breathingGood breathing
Making a differenceMaking a difference
Holidays and hobbiesHolidays and hobbies
Massage/physicalMassage/physical
therapytherapy
Space and timeSpace and time
Keeping a journalKeeping a journal
Nature, music, artNature, music, art
A little luxuryA little luxury
Spiritual practicesSpiritual practices
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14. Supportive peopleSupportive people
What sort of support networks have you created?What sort of support networks have you created?
Are they mutual or one way?Are they mutual or one way?
FriendsFriends Mentors ClientsMentors Clients
CoachesCoaches Peers ConsultantsPeers Consultants
FamilyFamily Trainers FinancialTrainers Financial
Tech support StaffTech support Staff ColleaguesColleagues
Who are you spending time on?Who are you spending time on?
15. Decide your priorities and put them inDecide your priorities and put them in
the diary: exercise, fun stuff, family…?the diary: exercise, fun stuff, family…?
How good do you want to feel – thisHow good do you want to feel – this
year, next year, in 10 years?year, next year, in 10 years?
Measure your progressMeasure your progress
Smile, laugh, get a bit of perspectiveSmile, laugh, get a bit of perspective
Celebrate every success!Celebrate every success!
PLAN TO FEEL WONDERFUL!PLAN TO FEEL WONDERFUL!
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17. What next?What next?
Consider:Consider:
Relaxation CDsRelaxation CDs
Books, journals, postersBooks, journals, posters
Full MOT sessionFull MOT session
WorkshopsWorkshops
Individual programmesIndividual programmes
20% off anything booked or ordered today!20% off anything booked or ordered today!
Please connect with me!Please connect with me!
Editor's Notes
Welcome.
Let’s just take 30 seconds to get comfy, and to be still, and to be silent. Let your breathing slow down. Give yourself the space to just BE before we begin.
As entrepreneurs we want resilient businesses because “more out than in” can rapidly become a crisis in a volatile market.THE SAME IS TRUE FOR YOU!
When did you last do an MOT on your personal resilience? In this essential seminar we’ll take a look at where you are now, and – more importantly – make sure you’re headed in the right direction on the energy scale:
VIBRANT COPING STRESSED BURNT OUT!
We’ll take a look at the warning signs of someone heading into the red zone – physically, emotionally, spiritually or mentally. The earlier you spot the signs, the quicker you can take action! As you recognise what drains you and what sustains you, you’ll discover the value of planning to feel great long term, building in practical ways to recharge your battery day by day.
Although we’ll look at some of these as separate exercises, you can’t create true balance without the other aspects, living on purpose requires that you be aware, and so on. We’ll be going back and forth between these elements during the talk.
You can use this approach for breaking down anything! Do a few examples on the chart – add notes/symbols pound signs, clocks, hearts etc
At the end, Ask about symptoms of burnout – put on chart if there’s time, otherwise go to next slide
Do you turn into a cranky beast when you’re over tired? This is Kai, the Clouded Leopard. He has a very low tolerance for being disturbed! What signs of stress do you notice in other people or yourself?
Notice signs of stress early so it’s easy to reverse – self-nurturing is healthy! Breathing exercise, squeeze and release.
Use your purpose as a map and your values as a compass!
Supportive connections you can trust and rely on are vital in business!