SlideShare a Scribd company logo
If I were 22.
REAL ADVICE
FOR GRADUATES
By Edahn Small
www.visuali.se • info@visuali.se
DON’T GIVE IN
TO SELF-DOUBT.
01
Self-doubt is born out of your ability to
recognize great quality. It’s an asset. Use it to
better yourself and the work you do.
TRUST IN YOUR
INSTINCT.
02
Totally cliché, I know, but it’s good advice. You
know yourself better than you think, and when
you get older, you’ll realize that you always knew
your passion, even if you ignored it.
DON’T FORCE
LOVE.
03
Don’t work so hard to make love work. It’s not
supposed to be work, it’s supposed to be natural,
and it’ll feel that way with the right people.
CREATE REASONS
TO LOVE YOURSELF.
04
Don’t just love yourself blindly. Condition your
love on things you can control, like being a good,
honest person who cares about others and be
that person. Don’t condition your love on
success or status.
YOU’LL FIGURE
IT OUT.
05
Things have a way of working out, and you can
probably figure out what you don’t already know.
You may not think so, but you’d be surprised.
CONFIDENCE
COMES WITH
EXPERIENCE.
06
You can fake confidence, but you can’t
manufacture it. Confidence comes with time,
with mistakes, and with seeing what you can do
and offer others.
SHARE THIS
WITH A
GRADUATE
Thanks.

More Related Content

What's hot

Day 6 beliefs
Day 6  beliefsDay 6  beliefs
Day 6 beliefs
Richard Butler
 
Self confidence
Self confidenceSelf confidence
Self confidence
Lisa Michele Fonseca
 
Boost your self esteem
Boost your self esteemBoost your self esteem
Boost your self esteem
mindgroomdmit
 
How do i build self confidence
How do i build self confidenceHow do i build self confidence
How do i build self confidence
Dominic Small
 
Tips for Building Your Self-Confidence
Tips for Building Your Self-ConfidenceTips for Building Your Self-Confidence
Tips for Building Your Self-Confidence
Ruth Helena Bowers
 
Recognize Your Own Worth
Recognize Your Own WorthRecognize Your Own Worth
Recognize Your Own Worth
myturn29
 
It doesn't matter how strong or clever you are in order to survive, but how g...
It doesn't matter how strong or clever you are in order to survive, but how g...It doesn't matter how strong or clever you are in order to survive, but how g...
It doesn't matter how strong or clever you are in order to survive, but how g...
Linda Mata
 
Add valueto yourself
Add valueto yourselfAdd valueto yourself
Add valueto yourself
Linda Mata
 
The gift of questions self discovery journal recovered.
The gift of questions   self discovery journal recovered.The gift of questions   self discovery journal recovered.
The gift of questions self discovery journal recovered.
Rosie Bell
 
Lose weight without hardship
Lose weight without hardshipLose weight without hardship
Lose weight without hardship
MeshalPRO
 
5 life hacks
5 life hacks5 life hacks
5 life hacks
Linda Mata
 
Self Coaching: A Guide to Self Discovery
Self Coaching: A Guide to Self DiscoverySelf Coaching: A Guide to Self Discovery
Self Coaching: A Guide to Self Discovery
Juancho Guerra
 
Shift Workshop
Shift WorkshopShift Workshop
Shift WorkshopJaci Clark
 
25 simple ways to strengthen your confidence
25 simple ways to strengthen your confidence25 simple ways to strengthen your confidence
25 simple ways to strengthen your confidence
Patricia Matsatsa
 
Confidence Building Exercises: 5 Simple Ways To Boost Your Self-Esteem
Confidence Building Exercises: 5 Simple Ways To Boost Your Self-EsteemConfidence Building Exercises: 5 Simple Ways To Boost Your Self-Esteem
Confidence Building Exercises: 5 Simple Ways To Boost Your Self-Esteem
Michael Lee
 
5 Simple ways to form a Growth Mindset
5 Simple ways to form a Growth Mindset5 Simple ways to form a Growth Mindset
5 Simple ways to form a Growth Mindset
Falasha Campbell-Nyanteh
 
Confidence Presentation
Confidence PresentationConfidence Presentation
Confidence Presentation
WritersDomain
 
Group 2 think big
Group 2 think bigGroup 2 think big
Group 2 think big
Sameer Mathur
 

What's hot (20)

Day 6 beliefs
Day 6  beliefsDay 6  beliefs
Day 6 beliefs
 
Self confidence
Self confidenceSelf confidence
Self confidence
 
Boost your self esteem
Boost your self esteemBoost your self esteem
Boost your self esteem
 
How do i build self confidence
How do i build self confidenceHow do i build self confidence
How do i build self confidence
 
Tips for Building Your Self-Confidence
Tips for Building Your Self-ConfidenceTips for Building Your Self-Confidence
Tips for Building Your Self-Confidence
 
Try a joyful life
Try a joyful lifeTry a joyful life
Try a joyful life
 
Recognize Your Own Worth
Recognize Your Own WorthRecognize Your Own Worth
Recognize Your Own Worth
 
It doesn't matter how strong or clever you are in order to survive, but how g...
It doesn't matter how strong or clever you are in order to survive, but how g...It doesn't matter how strong or clever you are in order to survive, but how g...
It doesn't matter how strong or clever you are in order to survive, but how g...
 
Add valueto yourself
Add valueto yourselfAdd valueto yourself
Add valueto yourself
 
The gift of questions self discovery journal recovered.
The gift of questions   self discovery journal recovered.The gift of questions   self discovery journal recovered.
The gift of questions self discovery journal recovered.
 
Lose weight without hardship
Lose weight without hardshipLose weight without hardship
Lose weight without hardship
 
5 life hacks
5 life hacks5 life hacks
5 life hacks
 
Self Coaching: A Guide to Self Discovery
Self Coaching: A Guide to Self DiscoverySelf Coaching: A Guide to Self Discovery
Self Coaching: A Guide to Self Discovery
 
Shift Workshop
Shift WorkshopShift Workshop
Shift Workshop
 
25 simple ways to strengthen your confidence
25 simple ways to strengthen your confidence25 simple ways to strengthen your confidence
25 simple ways to strengthen your confidence
 
Confidence Building Exercises: 5 Simple Ways To Boost Your Self-Esteem
Confidence Building Exercises: 5 Simple Ways To Boost Your Self-EsteemConfidence Building Exercises: 5 Simple Ways To Boost Your Self-Esteem
Confidence Building Exercises: 5 Simple Ways To Boost Your Self-Esteem
 
5 Simple ways to form a Growth Mindset
5 Simple ways to form a Growth Mindset5 Simple ways to form a Growth Mindset
5 Simple ways to form a Growth Mindset
 
What is success
What is successWhat is success
What is success
 
Confidence Presentation
Confidence PresentationConfidence Presentation
Confidence Presentation
 
Group 2 think big
Group 2 think bigGroup 2 think big
Group 2 think big
 

Similar to Real Advice for Graduates

Narcissistic abuse recovery support: Let go of inferiority and take back your...
Narcissistic abuse recovery support: Let go of inferiority and take back your...Narcissistic abuse recovery support: Let go of inferiority and take back your...
Narcissistic abuse recovery support: Let go of inferiority and take back your...
Angela Atkinson
 
✔ 10 fears you need to overcome starting up your own business
✔ 10 fears you need to overcome starting up your own business✔ 10 fears you need to overcome starting up your own business
✔ 10 fears you need to overcome starting up your own business
York Walker
 
Ebook-Ten Steps to Building Your Confidence
Ebook-Ten Steps to Building Your ConfidenceEbook-Ten Steps to Building Your Confidence
Ebook-Ten Steps to Building Your ConfidenceValerieAnn3500
 
Abused women : 7 keys to reclaiming your life after an abusive relationship |...
Abused women : 7 keys to reclaiming your life after an abusive relationship |...Abused women : 7 keys to reclaiming your life after an abusive relationship |...
Abused women : 7 keys to reclaiming your life after an abusive relationship |...
Hilary Overcash
 
20 tips to became better
20 tips to became better20 tips to became better
20 tips to became better
tami_softtech
 
5 Mindset Secrets of the Ultra Successful
5 Mindset Secrets of the Ultra Successful5 Mindset Secrets of the Ultra Successful
5 Mindset Secrets of the Ultra Successful
Heather Pouliot
 
Shifting idealistic expectations
Shifting idealistic expectationsShifting idealistic expectations
Shifting idealistic expectations
unhappilyneverafter
 
UNSERIOUS_PARTNER.PDF
UNSERIOUS_PARTNER.PDFUNSERIOUS_PARTNER.PDF
UNSERIOUS_PARTNER.PDF
JONATHANAKINLAWON
 
How to Improve Self Confidence and Self Respect
How to Improve Self Confidence and Self RespectHow to Improve Self Confidence and Self Respect
How to Improve Self Confidence and Self Respect
Tracey C
 
Unconditional love
Unconditional loveUnconditional love
Unconditional love
RjSudha
 
Self Awareness
Self AwarenessSelf Awareness
Self Awareness
Goldyn Abric Sam
 
How To Build Self Esteem (from www.jobxray.com)
How To Build Self Esteem (from www.jobxray.com)How To Build Self Esteem (from www.jobxray.com)
How To Build Self Esteem (from www.jobxray.com)
Jobxray Jobxray
 
Overcoming self doubt e book
Overcoming self doubt e bookOvercoming self doubt e book
Overcoming self doubt e book
Coastal Consulting Agency
 
Book review your erroneous zones
Book review   your erroneous zonesBook review   your erroneous zones
Book review your erroneous zones
Balasubramanian Kalyanaraman
 
Readitfor.me interview with Laura brown
Readitfor.me interview with Laura brownReaditfor.me interview with Laura brown
Readitfor.me interview with Laura brown
Paul Joyce
 
The ‘10 commandments of dating
The ‘10 commandments of datingThe ‘10 commandments of dating
The ‘10 commandments of dating
jackpot201
 
How to achieve a goal : a blueprint
How to achieve a goal : a blueprintHow to achieve a goal : a blueprint
How to achieve a goal : a blueprint
Trevor Emdon
 
The millionaire mindset
The millionaire mindsetThe millionaire mindset
The millionaire mindset
supreethN9
 

Similar to Real Advice for Graduates (20)

05 strategies to stop doubting yourself
05 strategies to stop doubting yourself05 strategies to stop doubting yourself
05 strategies to stop doubting yourself
 
Narcissistic abuse recovery support: Let go of inferiority and take back your...
Narcissistic abuse recovery support: Let go of inferiority and take back your...Narcissistic abuse recovery support: Let go of inferiority and take back your...
Narcissistic abuse recovery support: Let go of inferiority and take back your...
 
✔ 10 fears you need to overcome starting up your own business
✔ 10 fears you need to overcome starting up your own business✔ 10 fears you need to overcome starting up your own business
✔ 10 fears you need to overcome starting up your own business
 
Ebook-Ten Steps to Building Your Confidence
Ebook-Ten Steps to Building Your ConfidenceEbook-Ten Steps to Building Your Confidence
Ebook-Ten Steps to Building Your Confidence
 
Abused women : 7 keys to reclaiming your life after an abusive relationship |...
Abused women : 7 keys to reclaiming your life after an abusive relationship |...Abused women : 7 keys to reclaiming your life after an abusive relationship |...
Abused women : 7 keys to reclaiming your life after an abusive relationship |...
 
Self Motivation
 Self Motivation Self Motivation
Self Motivation
 
20 tips to became better
20 tips to became better20 tips to became better
20 tips to became better
 
5 Mindset Secrets of the Ultra Successful
5 Mindset Secrets of the Ultra Successful5 Mindset Secrets of the Ultra Successful
5 Mindset Secrets of the Ultra Successful
 
Shifting idealistic expectations
Shifting idealistic expectationsShifting idealistic expectations
Shifting idealistic expectations
 
UNSERIOUS_PARTNER.PDF
UNSERIOUS_PARTNER.PDFUNSERIOUS_PARTNER.PDF
UNSERIOUS_PARTNER.PDF
 
How to Improve Self Confidence and Self Respect
How to Improve Self Confidence and Self RespectHow to Improve Self Confidence and Self Respect
How to Improve Self Confidence and Self Respect
 
Unconditional love
Unconditional loveUnconditional love
Unconditional love
 
Self Awareness
Self AwarenessSelf Awareness
Self Awareness
 
How To Build Self Esteem (from www.jobxray.com)
How To Build Self Esteem (from www.jobxray.com)How To Build Self Esteem (from www.jobxray.com)
How To Build Self Esteem (from www.jobxray.com)
 
Overcoming self doubt e book
Overcoming self doubt e bookOvercoming self doubt e book
Overcoming self doubt e book
 
Book review your erroneous zones
Book review   your erroneous zonesBook review   your erroneous zones
Book review your erroneous zones
 
Readitfor.me interview with Laura brown
Readitfor.me interview with Laura brownReaditfor.me interview with Laura brown
Readitfor.me interview with Laura brown
 
The ‘10 commandments of dating
The ‘10 commandments of datingThe ‘10 commandments of dating
The ‘10 commandments of dating
 
How to achieve a goal : a blueprint
How to achieve a goal : a blueprintHow to achieve a goal : a blueprint
How to achieve a goal : a blueprint
 
The millionaire mindset
The millionaire mindsetThe millionaire mindset
The millionaire mindset
 

More from Edahn Small

18 Tips for Creating Beautiful Infographics
18 Tips for Creating Beautiful Infographics18 Tips for Creating Beautiful Infographics
18 Tips for Creating Beautiful Infographics
Edahn Small
 
24 Design Tips from Real Designers
24 Design Tips from Real Designers24 Design Tips from Real Designers
24 Design Tips from Real Designers
Edahn Small
 
4 Pillars of Retail Engagement
4 Pillars of Retail Engagement4 Pillars of Retail Engagement
4 Pillars of Retail Engagement
Edahn Small
 
The Quotable Pope - 12 Inspiring Quotes from 2013
The Quotable Pope - 12 Inspiring Quotes from 2013The Quotable Pope - 12 Inspiring Quotes from 2013
The Quotable Pope - 12 Inspiring Quotes from 2013
Edahn Small
 
How Our Presentations Can Change the World
How Our Presentations Can Change the WorldHow Our Presentations Can Change the World
How Our Presentations Can Change the World
Edahn Small
 
A Tribute to Alan Watts
A Tribute to Alan WattsA Tribute to Alan Watts
A Tribute to Alan Watts
Edahn Small
 
12 Questions to Evaluate Any Relationship
12 Questions to Evaluate Any Relationship12 Questions to Evaluate Any Relationship
12 Questions to Evaluate Any Relationship
Edahn Small
 
Anxiety, Zen, and Enlightenment
Anxiety, Zen, and EnlightenmentAnxiety, Zen, and Enlightenment
Anxiety, Zen, and Enlightenment
Edahn Small
 
10 Tips for Making Beautiful Slideshow Presentations by www.visuali.se
10 Tips for Making Beautiful Slideshow Presentations by www.visuali.se10 Tips for Making Beautiful Slideshow Presentations by www.visuali.se
10 Tips for Making Beautiful Slideshow Presentations by www.visuali.se
Edahn Small
 

More from Edahn Small (9)

18 Tips for Creating Beautiful Infographics
18 Tips for Creating Beautiful Infographics18 Tips for Creating Beautiful Infographics
18 Tips for Creating Beautiful Infographics
 
24 Design Tips from Real Designers
24 Design Tips from Real Designers24 Design Tips from Real Designers
24 Design Tips from Real Designers
 
4 Pillars of Retail Engagement
4 Pillars of Retail Engagement4 Pillars of Retail Engagement
4 Pillars of Retail Engagement
 
The Quotable Pope - 12 Inspiring Quotes from 2013
The Quotable Pope - 12 Inspiring Quotes from 2013The Quotable Pope - 12 Inspiring Quotes from 2013
The Quotable Pope - 12 Inspiring Quotes from 2013
 
How Our Presentations Can Change the World
How Our Presentations Can Change the WorldHow Our Presentations Can Change the World
How Our Presentations Can Change the World
 
A Tribute to Alan Watts
A Tribute to Alan WattsA Tribute to Alan Watts
A Tribute to Alan Watts
 
12 Questions to Evaluate Any Relationship
12 Questions to Evaluate Any Relationship12 Questions to Evaluate Any Relationship
12 Questions to Evaluate Any Relationship
 
Anxiety, Zen, and Enlightenment
Anxiety, Zen, and EnlightenmentAnxiety, Zen, and Enlightenment
Anxiety, Zen, and Enlightenment
 
10 Tips for Making Beautiful Slideshow Presentations by www.visuali.se
10 Tips for Making Beautiful Slideshow Presentations by www.visuali.se10 Tips for Making Beautiful Slideshow Presentations by www.visuali.se
10 Tips for Making Beautiful Slideshow Presentations by www.visuali.se
 

Recently uploaded

From Stress to Success How Oakland's Corporate Wellness Programs are Cultivat...
From Stress to Success How Oakland's Corporate Wellness Programs are Cultivat...From Stress to Success How Oakland's Corporate Wellness Programs are Cultivat...
From Stress to Success How Oakland's Corporate Wellness Programs are Cultivat...
Kitchen on Fire
 
EXPERIENCE MONSTER BITES STREETWEAR APPAREL
EXPERIENCE MONSTER BITES STREETWEAR APPARELEXPERIENCE MONSTER BITES STREETWEAR APPAREL
EXPERIENCE MONSTER BITES STREETWEAR APPAREL
6ctbkfpdxz
 
erevna-influencers-social-media-stin-ellada
erevna-influencers-social-media-stin-elladaerevna-influencers-social-media-stin-ellada
erevna-influencers-social-media-stin-ellada
rvlassopoulou
 
Unique Wedding Bands For Women Who Want To Stand Out.pptx
Unique Wedding Bands For Women Who Want To Stand Out.pptxUnique Wedding Bands For Women Who Want To Stand Out.pptx
Unique Wedding Bands For Women Who Want To Stand Out.pptx
Andrews Jewelers
 
What To Do If Your Ring Is Too Big? Must Read
What To Do If Your Ring Is Too Big? Must ReadWhat To Do If Your Ring Is Too Big? Must Read
What To Do If Your Ring Is Too Big? Must Read
Andrews Jewelers
 
Johnny Depp Long Hair: A Signature Look Through the Years
Johnny Depp Long Hair: A Signature Look Through the YearsJohnny Depp Long Hair: A Signature Look Through the Years
Johnny Depp Long Hair: A Signature Look Through the Years
greendigital
 
What Makes Candle Making The Ultimate Bachelorette Celebration
What Makes Candle Making The Ultimate Bachelorette CelebrationWhat Makes Candle Making The Ultimate Bachelorette Celebration
What Makes Candle Making The Ultimate Bachelorette Celebration
Wick & Pour
 
30 Manipulation Techniques to be a smart person in society (1).pdf
30 Manipulation Techniques to be a smart person in society (1).pdf30 Manipulation Techniques to be a smart person in society (1).pdf
30 Manipulation Techniques to be a smart person in society (1).pdf
minaserver6679
 
La transidentité, un sujet qui fractionne les Français
La transidentité, un sujet qui fractionne les FrançaisLa transidentité, un sujet qui fractionne les Français
La transidentité, un sujet qui fractionne les Français
Ipsos France
 
Gujarat Details in Hindi for children's for presentation in school
Gujarat Details in Hindi for children's for presentation in schoolGujarat Details in Hindi for children's for presentation in school
Gujarat Details in Hindi for children's for presentation in school
shouryajoshi5
 

Recently uploaded (10)

From Stress to Success How Oakland's Corporate Wellness Programs are Cultivat...
From Stress to Success How Oakland's Corporate Wellness Programs are Cultivat...From Stress to Success How Oakland's Corporate Wellness Programs are Cultivat...
From Stress to Success How Oakland's Corporate Wellness Programs are Cultivat...
 
EXPERIENCE MONSTER BITES STREETWEAR APPAREL
EXPERIENCE MONSTER BITES STREETWEAR APPARELEXPERIENCE MONSTER BITES STREETWEAR APPAREL
EXPERIENCE MONSTER BITES STREETWEAR APPAREL
 
erevna-influencers-social-media-stin-ellada
erevna-influencers-social-media-stin-elladaerevna-influencers-social-media-stin-ellada
erevna-influencers-social-media-stin-ellada
 
Unique Wedding Bands For Women Who Want To Stand Out.pptx
Unique Wedding Bands For Women Who Want To Stand Out.pptxUnique Wedding Bands For Women Who Want To Stand Out.pptx
Unique Wedding Bands For Women Who Want To Stand Out.pptx
 
What To Do If Your Ring Is Too Big? Must Read
What To Do If Your Ring Is Too Big? Must ReadWhat To Do If Your Ring Is Too Big? Must Read
What To Do If Your Ring Is Too Big? Must Read
 
Johnny Depp Long Hair: A Signature Look Through the Years
Johnny Depp Long Hair: A Signature Look Through the YearsJohnny Depp Long Hair: A Signature Look Through the Years
Johnny Depp Long Hair: A Signature Look Through the Years
 
What Makes Candle Making The Ultimate Bachelorette Celebration
What Makes Candle Making The Ultimate Bachelorette CelebrationWhat Makes Candle Making The Ultimate Bachelorette Celebration
What Makes Candle Making The Ultimate Bachelorette Celebration
 
30 Manipulation Techniques to be a smart person in society (1).pdf
30 Manipulation Techniques to be a smart person in society (1).pdf30 Manipulation Techniques to be a smart person in society (1).pdf
30 Manipulation Techniques to be a smart person in society (1).pdf
 
La transidentité, un sujet qui fractionne les Français
La transidentité, un sujet qui fractionne les FrançaisLa transidentité, un sujet qui fractionne les Français
La transidentité, un sujet qui fractionne les Français
 
Gujarat Details in Hindi for children's for presentation in school
Gujarat Details in Hindi for children's for presentation in schoolGujarat Details in Hindi for children's for presentation in school
Gujarat Details in Hindi for children's for presentation in school
 

Real Advice for Graduates

  • 1. If I were 22. REAL ADVICE FOR GRADUATES By Edahn Small www.visuali.se • info@visuali.se
  • 2. DON’T GIVE IN TO SELF-DOUBT. 01 Self-doubt is born out of your ability to recognize great quality. It’s an asset. Use it to better yourself and the work you do.
  • 3. TRUST IN YOUR INSTINCT. 02 Totally cliché, I know, but it’s good advice. You know yourself better than you think, and when you get older, you’ll realize that you always knew your passion, even if you ignored it.
  • 4. DON’T FORCE LOVE. 03 Don’t work so hard to make love work. It’s not supposed to be work, it’s supposed to be natural, and it’ll feel that way with the right people.
  • 5. CREATE REASONS TO LOVE YOURSELF. 04 Don’t just love yourself blindly. Condition your love on things you can control, like being a good, honest person who cares about others and be that person. Don’t condition your love on success or status.
  • 6. YOU’LL FIGURE IT OUT. 05 Things have a way of working out, and you can probably figure out what you don’t already know. You may not think so, but you’d be surprised.
  • 7. CONFIDENCE COMES WITH EXPERIENCE. 06 You can fake confidence, but you can’t manufacture it. Confidence comes with time, with mistakes, and with seeing what you can do and offer others.