Single-parent families are more common that ever, but that does not make the situation any easier or less stressful. Being both a father figure and a mother figure to a parent is nearly impossible, and having only 1 set of hands to have everything doesn't help.
As a single parent, you may be responsible for all aspects
of day-to-day child care, which can result in added pressure, stress and
fatigue. If you're too tired or distracted to be supportive
or discipline your child, behavioral problems might arise.
In addition, single-parent families generally have lower incomes and
less access to health care than those with 2 parents. Juggling work and children can be
financially difficult and socially isolating. You might also worry about
the lack of a male or female parental role model for your child.
K101.3 C.E.O PLATINUM is committed to community service. For more than 5 years
K101.3 has been working to improve the lives of low income single parent homes
through food and clothing drives, to spirtual, financial and relationship counseling and career development.
Single-parent families are more common that ever, but that does not make the situation any easier or less stressful. Being both a father figure and a mother figure to a parent is nearly impossible, and having only 1 set of hands to have everything doesn't help.
As a single parent, you may be responsible for all aspects
of day-to-day child care, which can result in added pressure, stress and
fatigue. If you're too tired or distracted to be supportive
or discipline your child, behavioral problems might arise.
In addition, single-parent families generally have lower incomes and
less access to health care than those with 2 parents. Juggling work and children can be
financially difficult and socially isolating. You might also worry about
the lack of a male or female parental role model for your child.
K101.3 C.E.O PLATINUM is committed to community service. For more than 5 years
K101.3 has been working to improve the lives of low income single parent homes
through food and clothing drives, to spirtual, financial and relationship counseling and career development.
LICCs are local planning and advisory bodies for the local Early On system, established through the 56 ISDs in Michigan. LICCs mirror the mandated MICC in concept and allow for involvement of parents, agencies, organizations, and individuals necessary to develop and maintain a coordinated early intervention service system. The role of an LICC is to advise and assist the intermediate school district in matters related to Part C of the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA), Early Intervention Program for Infants and Toddlers with Disabilities: Final Regulations. In Michigan we call this program Early On. LICC activities include: fostering interagency collaboration and information sharing, disseminating public awareness and other materials that help caregivers identify potential developmental delays and disabilities, promoting parent and family involvement in all community activities, and encouraging community efforts supporting inclusion of children with special needs and their families.
Infant mortality is an issue that plagues the world. With the development of social media, many advocates for ending infant mortality are being labelled as "mom-shamers."
Children are placed in foster care every day. There is a need for people to learn more about foster care and the needs of the children, youth and families impacted by the child welfare system.
LICCs are local planning and advisory bodies for the local Early On system, established through the 56 ISDs in Michigan. LICCs mirror the mandated MICC in concept and allow for involvement of parents, agencies, organizations, and individuals necessary to develop and maintain a coordinated early intervention service system. The role of an LICC is to advise and assist the intermediate school district in matters related to Part C of the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA), Early Intervention Program for Infants and Toddlers with Disabilities: Final Regulations. In Michigan we call this program Early On. LICC activities include: fostering interagency collaboration and information sharing, disseminating public awareness and other materials that help caregivers identify potential developmental delays and disabilities, promoting parent and family involvement in all community activities, and encouraging community efforts supporting inclusion of children with special needs and their families.
Infant mortality is an issue that plagues the world. With the development of social media, many advocates for ending infant mortality are being labelled as "mom-shamers."
Children are placed in foster care every day. There is a need for people to learn more about foster care and the needs of the children, youth and families impacted by the child welfare system.
ReadySetPresent (Assertiveness PowerPoint Presentation Content): 100+ PowerPoint presentation content slides. Assertiveness allows individuals to be aware of their aggressive, passive positive behaviors and develop confidence being assertive in today’s workplace. Assertiveness PowerPoint Presentation Content slides include topics such as: 16 slides helping you recognize and test and evaluate your own assertiveness, I statements, and assertive rights. 20 slides comparing passive, aggressive and assertive behaviors, 8 slides on the 6 personality types, 10 slides on assertive do's and don'ts, body language, and eye contact. Learn 9 types of assertive responses, 10 slides on dealing with conflict, overcoming fear, 4 steps to saying no, 20+ slides with tips on becoming more assertive, how to's and more
How has the meaning of friendship changed with the huge advancements in technology and social media? This presentation looks deeper into this idea and some of the dangers associated with it.
2. Today more than ever the choice to become a parent exists because of access to birth control, legal abortion and reproductive technology.
3. Changing Times Changing laws and social mores have led to greater acceptance of women who decide not to have children. As well as: Single mothers Same sex couples Other nontraditional families
4. Decisions…. The decision weather to have a child is influenced by: Our Families… Our Culture… The society in which we live…
5. Government Support US Society presumes that motherhood is central to women’s identity and fulfillment, yet our government provides little concrete support for children and families. The US unlike other industrialized countries has: No paid family leave No guaranteed health care Little affordable high quality child care
6. MEDIA The media has created “Mommy War” stories. A competition of women who “choose” to be “full time” mothers (stay home) and mothers who “choose” paid employment (working mothers).
7. Statistics US Census reports in 2002 over 50% of women with infants and 72% of other mothers were in the work force. Currently there are 10 million single mothers in the United States.
8. The PLUS side Children are engaging, inventive, interesting and funny. Teach us as they grow and change. We change and grow with them. Challenge and inspire us to make the world better. Give us a way to be part of the continuity of life. Tremendously moving and satisfying adventure.
9. The NOT so PLUS side Parenting involves exchanging spontaneity and relative control of everyday life for huge responsibility. Complicated schedules, relative chaos. May not enjoy the day to day reality of being with children. Fear bringing up children in a troubled world. Want to pursue dreams incompatible with child rearing. More personal freedom, time, money, work, interests and passions.
10. Questions to ask yourself…. How will children affect my relationship? How will children affect my economic security? Do I have a stable household? Are there any family medical problems that could be passed on genetically? Do I have parenting skills ? Am I eager to learn them? How will I juggle work and child care? Do I have adequate health care? What would I do if my child developed disabilities? What values would I encourage in my child? What kind of community would I raise my child in? Am I ready to prepare a child for the difficulties of life?
11. Support Systems Talk to your partner. What is your plan? Would someone be a stay at home parent? Who would provide childcare? How will you both balance work and parenting? Evaluate other emotional support systems: Friends Co-workers Church Family Neighbors
12. Common Challenges 1- Avoiding a conscious decision. 2- Letting your partner decide for you. 3- Thinking your partner will change. 4- Thinking it’s a decision between no children and two children. 5- Making the decision without knowing what children are really like. 6- Worrying that you won’t be a good parent.
13. Dividing Your Time One way to help make the decision is for you and your partner consider how your life would change. On a sheet of paper make 2 columns. Column one write down the amount of time you spend now, column two the amount of time you would spend after you have a child at: Work Recreation & Socializing Hobbies Relaxation (yoga/meditation) Sports Political Activities Religious activities Time alone with your partner SLEEP Are you willing to change your schedule in these and other ways?
14. Now to become a mother….. Become aware of fertility and chart your menstrual cycle. Take care of yourself as you try to conceive. Depending on your situation you may consider insemination to conceive. Adoption
15. Types of Adoptions Kinship or relative adoption Public adoption (state agency) Private adoption (charity organization) Independent adoption (Dr’s, Attorney’s) Domestic adoptions (within the states) International adoptions (foreign countries)