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- 1. How human intimacy will shape our future Kylie Savage
- 2. Intimacy?
- 3. How is intimacy defined?
- 4. What does intimacy mean to people?
- 5. What does intimacy mean to people? Love, Sex, Connection, Closeness
- 6. How does intimacy show up for you? Where does intimacy show up? With whom? What are the qualities present in intimacy for you? What are the conditions you need that enable you to be intimate?
- 7. This is how we think about creating intimacy AGREEMENT ENVIRONMENT ACTION
- 8. This is how we think about creating intimacy AGREEMENT ENVIRONMENT ACTION Do we have understanding? Trust & consent
- 9. This is how we think about creating intimacy AGREEMENT ENVIRONMENT ACTION Do we have understanding? Trust & consent How am I being? Present & vulnerable
- 10. This is how we think about creating intimacy AGREEMENT ENVIRONMENT ACTION Do we have understanding? Trust & consent Is this context appropriate? Physical & emotional How am I being? Present & vulnerable
- 11. Applying the intimacy framework AGREEMENT ENVIRONMENT ACTION Do we have understanding? Trust & consent Is this context appropriate? Physical & emotional How am I being? Present & vulnerable
- 12. Why do we care about intimacy? “The opposite of Loneliness is not Togetherness, It’s intimacy” – Richard Bach
- 13. Why do we care about intimacy? From current paradigm Scientific materialism Hierarchical Competitive Individual
- 14. To emerging paradigm Humanistic sociocentric Network-centric Collaborative Collective Why do we care about intimacy? From current paradigm Scientific materialism Hierarchical Competitive Individual
- 15. Trigger for change Loneliness, isolation Material wealth ≠ happiness Why do we care about intimacy? From current paradigm Scientific materialism Hierarchical Competitive Individual To emerging paradigm Humanistic sociocentric Network-centric Collaborative Collective
- 16. Why do we care about intimacy? Trigger for change Loneliness, isolation Material wealth ≠ happiness From current paradigm Scientific materialism Hierarchical Competitive Individual To emerging paradigm Humanistic sociocentric Network-centric Collaborative Collective Connection
- 17. ….intimacy creates connection.Connection Why do we care about intimacy? Trigger for change Loneliness, isolation Material wealth ≠ happiness From current paradigm Scientific materialism Hierarchical Competitive Individual To emerging paradigm Humanistic sociocentric Network-centric Collaborative Collective
- 18. Intimacy framework “There’s nothing more intimate in life than simply being understood. And understanding someone else.” – Brad Meltzer
- 19. Intimacy framework AGREEMENT ENVIRONMENT ACTION Worry “There’s nothing more intimate in life than simply being understood. And understanding someone else.” – Brad Meltzer
- 20. Intimacy framework AGREEMENT ENVIRONMENT ACTION Worry Violated AGREEMENT ENVIRONMENT ACTION “There’s nothing more intimate in life than simply being understood. And understanding someone else.” – Brad Meltzer
- 21. Intimacy framework AGREEMENT ENVIRONMENT ACTION Worry AGREEMENT ENVIRONMENT ACTION DisappointedViolated AGREEMENT ENVIRONMENT ACTION “There’s nothing more intimate in life than simply being understood. And understanding someone else.” – Brad Meltzer
- 22. Intimacy framework “There’s nothing more intimate in life than simply being understood. And understanding someone else.” – Brad Meltzer AGREEMENT ENVIRONMENT ACTION Worry AGREEMENT ENVIRONMENT ACTION DisappointedViolated AGREEMENT ENVIRONMENT ACTION Break any one of these and people shift from OPEN to CLOSED and a level of intimacy is lost.
- 23. Intimacy framework “It is not time or opportunity that is to determine intimacy; it is disposition alone. Seven years would be insufficient to make some people acquainted with each other, and seven days are more than enough for others.” – Jane Austen
- 24. Intimacy framework MUTUAL AGREEMENT APPROPRIATE ENVIRONMENT ALIGNED ACTION “It is not time or opportunity that is to determine intimacy; it is disposition alone. Seven years would be insufficient to make some people acquainted with each other, and seven days are more than enough for others.” – Jane Austen All three are required as the foundation of intimacy. An intimate relationship is developed through cadence and proximity. Intimate relationship Proximity & cadence
- 25. Example: Apple retail “I don't care how advanced technology gets. I don't think that there's anything that can replace looking someone in the eyes, touching their hand, you know?” – Angela Ahrendts
- 27. Intimacy
- 28. What sort of future do we want? MUTUAL AGREEMENT APPROPRIATE ENVIRONMENT ALIGNED ACTION Intimate relationship Proximity & cadence Physical & emotional Trust & consent Present & vulnerable