This document discusses various types of sexual bondage and their consequences. It begins by defining destiny and various "killers within" like sin and wickedness. It then explores types of sexual bondage like fornication, adultery, homosexuality, bestiality, pornography, and masturbation. The document outlines how addiction starts and the demographics affected. It discusses why people enter sexual bondage and the consequences, which include destroying one's relationship with God, soul, body, prosperity, marriage/future relationships, and posterity. The overall message is that sexual sin has severe negative repercussions.

1. KILLERS OF MY
DESTINY

2. DESTINY
• Comes from the word destination
• What is meant to happen
• A pre-determined course of events in
ones life
• The pre-ordained path of your future
• A determined ending of your life

3. KILLERS WITHIN
• Proverbs 22:3-5
• The prudent see danger and take
refuge, but the simple keep going and
pay the penalty. Humility is the fear of
the Lord; its wages are riches and
honor and life. In the paths of the
wicked are snares and pitfalls, but
those who would preserve their life stay
far from them.

4. MY MAKE UP WITHIN
BODY
SOUL (Mind, Will, Emotions)
SPIRIT
Eph 4:23 “And be renewed in the spirit of
your mind”

5. • MASTER SIN
– Gen 4:7 “If you do what is right, will
you not be accepted? But if you do
not do what is right, sin is crouching
at your door; it desires to have you,
but you must master (rule over)
it."
• God doesn’t give you an
option

6. • The downward spiral

7. • SEXUAL BONDAGE
• A state of subjection to a force,
power, or influence.
• Being a slave
• The thing whose urge you must
answer, the one whose call you
must take, that is what truly owns
you.

8. TYPES OF SEXUAL
BONDAGE Fornication
Having sex before being married
“friends with benefit”
1Co 6:9 - Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the
kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor
idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites

9. Adultery
• Having sex with someone other than your
spouse.
Ex 20:14 - You shall not commit adultery.
Homosexuality
• Having sex with a person of the same gender
as you
a.Sodomy and Lesbianism
b.Transvestism – Dressing as the opposite sex
out of compulsion or for sexual pleasure.
Le 18:22 - 'You shall not lie with a male as with a woman. It is an
abomination.

10. • Romans 1:24 -27 - Therefore God also gave them
up to uncleanness, in the lusts of their hearts, to
dishonor their bodies among themselves, who
exchanged the truth of God for the lie, and
worshiped and served the creature rather than the
Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen. For this
reason God gave them up to vile passions. For
even their women exchanged the natural use for
what is against nature. Likewise also the men,
leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their
lust for one another, men with men committing what
is shameful, and receiving in themselves the
penalty of their error which was due.
• THIS UNNATURAL SEX HAS SIPPED INTO MANY
MARRIAGES [Anal]

11. Beastiality
o Having sex with an animal
o Le 18:23 - Nor shall you mate with any animal,
to defile yourself with it. Nor shall any woman
stand before an animal to mate with it. It is
perversion.
o Ex 22:19 - Whoever lies with an animal shall
surely be put to death.

12. Pedophilia
• Having sex with a minor (a child)
Mt 18:6 - But whoever causes one of
these little ones who believe in Me to
sin, it would be better for him if a
millstone were hung around his neck,
and he were drowned in the depth of
the sea.

13. Sadomasochism
• Sadist – gives pain
• Masochist – receives pain
• A person who takes pleasure from receiving sexual
pain, and who also takes pleasure out of giving
sexual pain. This type of pain may include, but is
not limited to: biting, scratching, etc. A sado-
masochist enjoys pain, just like any other form of
stimulation.
• Has its roots in demonic worship rituals of gaining
spirituality by receiving or giving pain or humiliation.
• 1Ki 18:28 - So they cried aloud, and cut
themselves, as was their custom, with knives and
lances, until the blood gushed out on them.

14. Lasciviousness
• Lasciviousness is a gross form of wickedness that
has sexual overtones in many cases. It starts in a
sinful heart (Mark 7:21-22), and manifests itself in
fleshly (carnal) actions (Galatians 5:19), and can lead
to a state of being “past feeling” (Ephesians 4:19).
• It embraces the concepts of excess, unbridled lust,
debauchery, and sensuality. It suggests a disregard
for public decency.
• Tendency to be obscene, lewd, indecent, filthy or vile.
In language, in clothing in expression

15. Lasciviousness continued….
• Eph 4:29 - Let no corrupt word proceed out of
your mouth, but what is good for necessary
edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers.
• Col 3:8 - But now you yourselves are to put off all
these: anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy
language out of your mouth.
• 2nd
Timothy 2:9 - In like manner also, that the
women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with
propriety and moderation,
• “My dress my choice”

16. Polyamory
• Sex between many consenting
partners. Can usually manifest as
Group sex in the case of swinging and
orgies

17.  Pornography
• Porne – prostitute
• Graphia - documentation
• Addiction to material created to stimulate sexual desire.
Can be visual or audio
Mt 5:28 - But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman
to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in
his heart.
Job 31:1 – I made a solemn pact with myself, never to
undress a girl with my eyes (msg)?
Mt 5:28 - But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman
to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in
his heart.

18. The Power of the Internet
• First: Acts as a powerful trigger
• 3 A
• Accessible
• Affordable
• Anonymous
• Second: Leads to more social isolation
• More detachment (a defense used
extensively by children of dysfunctional
families)
• More poverty in social and interpersonal
skills.
• More low self esteem. (The basic core belief)

19. Masturbation
• Having sex with oneself. Self-sexual gratification.
• It’s a violation of the purpose of marriage which is to
have your spouse gratify you sexually and you focus
on gratifying your spouse. Creates selfish lovers.
2Ti 3:2 - For men will be lovers of themselves,

20. 1 Thessalonians 4:2-8 “For you know what
instructions we gave you by the authority of the Lord
Jesus. It is God's will that you should be sanctified:
that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of
you should learn to control his own body in a way
that is holy and honourable, not in passionate lust
like the heathen, who do not know God; and that in
this matter no-one should wrong his brother or take
advantage of him. The Lord will punish men for all
such sins, as we have already told you and warned
you. For God did not call us to be impure, but to live a
holy life. Therefore, he who rejects this instruction
does not reject man but God, who gives you his Holy
Spirit”.(NIV)

21. THE GREATEST KILLER

22. DEMOGRAPHICS OF ADDICTS

23. GIRLS AS VICTIMS

24. BOYS AS VICTIMS

26. Pornography is addictive

27. Oops!!!!!

28. STEPS TO ADDICTION

29. SINKING TO AN ABYSS
Rom 1:24 “So God abandoned them to do whatever
shameful things their hearts desired. As a result, they
did vile and degrading things with each other's bodies.”

30. WHY PEOPLE ENTER INTO
SEXUAL BONDAGE
• Lack of knowledge - Ho 4:6 My people are destroyed for lack of
knowledge.
• False beliefs: Lies popularized by the media, celebrities - Pr 16:25
There is a way that seems right to a man, But its end is the way of death.
• Past sexual abuse - Heb 12:15 looking carefully lest anyone fall short
of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up cause
trouble, and by this many become defiled; Eph 4:27 nor give place to the
devil.
•

31. • Indiscipline - Pr 25:28 Whoever has no rule
over his own spirit Is like a city broken down,
without walls.
• Insecurity - Zec 2:8 for thus says the LORD of
hosts: "He sent me after glory, to the nations
which plunder you; for he who touches you
touches the apple of His eye.

32. Poverty - Ru 1:2 The name of the man was Elimelech,
the name of his wife was Naomi, and the names of his
two sons were Mahlon and Chilion-Ephrathites of
Bethlehem, Judah. And they went to the country of Moab
and remained there.
Never go to Moab [outside of God’s will] no matter what
magnitude of trouble you are in. Elimelech ran to save his
family but died together with his sons in Moab.
Ru 1:6 Then she arose with her daughters-in-law that
she might return from the country of Moab, for she had
heard in the country of Moab that the LORD had visited
His people by giving them bread.

33. Demonic sexual worship rituals
2Ki 23:7 - And he brake down the houses of the
sodomites, that were by the house of the LORD, where
the women wove hangings for the grove.
Choice - Ho 4:6 “My people are destroyed for lack of
knowledge. Because you have rejected knowledge, I
also will reject you from being priest for Me; Because
you have rejected knowledge, I also will forget your
children.

34. CONSEQUENCES OF SEXUAL
BONDAGE
1.DESTROYS YOUR
WALK WITH GOD
Ps 66:18 - If I regard iniquity in my heart, The Lord will not
hear.
Amos 3:3 - Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?

35. 2. DESTROYS YOUR
SOULa. Jeopardize your wisdom
Pr 6:32 - Whoever commits adultery with a woman
lacks understanding; He who does so destroys his own
soul.
Pr 4:7 - Wisdom is the principal thing.
Pr 16:16 - How much better to get wisdom than gold!
And to get understanding is to be chosen rather than
silver.

36. b. Soul is your mind, will and emotions. Your
thinking, deciding and feeling capacities get all
warped up, mixed up and messed up:
Entangled emotions, false security, false expectations, trust in the
wrong thing and wrong person, there will be a sense of betrayal,
abandonment and distrust. It will wear out your soul
SEX IS NOT A NECESSARY TEST OF COMPATIBILITY.
YOU ARE NOT A COMMITTED COUPLE ONCE YOU HAVE SEX

37. When you have sex at your age
 The right to be sexually used and
dumped
 The right to get a baby outside of
marriage
 The right to catch an STD
 The right to end up distrusting men
and women
 The right to diminish their ability to
be faithful sexually in marriage.

38. 3. DESTROYS YOUR BODY
• Ec 7:17 - Do not be overly wicked, nor
be foolish: Why should you die before
your time?
• 1950s – Five well known STDS but
today there are over 30 and 30% are
incurable. Once you catch it, you have it
for life. HIV, GENITAL HERPES
[genital and mouth blisters],
HEPATITIS B

39. • SOME CAN CAUSE DANGEROUS
DAMAGE: cervical cancer, other
reproductive system cancers, can
progress into nervous system disorders,
brain disorders, dementia and even
death. It can also be passed on to a
baby and cause blindness in the child

40. • Prov 9:17 - Stolen water
is sweet, And bread eaten
in secret is pleasant. But
he does not know that the
dead are there, That her
guests are in the depths
of hell.

41. 4. DESTROYS YOUR
PROSPERITY
Your prosperity is tied to your obedience
Le 18:24, 25, 28 - 'Do not defile yourselves with
any of these things; for by all these the nations are
defiled, which I am casting out before you. 25
'For the land is defiled; therefore I visit the punishment
of its iniquity upon it, and the land vomits out its
inhabitants. [28]'lest the land vomit you out also
when you defile it, as it vomited out the nations that
were before you.

42.  De 5:33 - "You shall walk in all the ways which the LORD your God
has commanded you, that you may live and that it may be well
with you, and that you may prolong your days in the land which
you shall possess.
 Isa 1:19 - If you are willing and obedient, You shall eat the good
of the land;
Pr 29:3 - Whoever loves wisdom makes his father rejoice, But a
companion of harlots wastes his wealth.
 Job 31:9 - "If my heart has been enticed by a woman, Or if I have
lurked at my neighbor's door, 10 Then let my wife grind for
another, And let others bow down over her. 11 For that would be
wickedness; Yes, it would be iniquity deserving of judgment. 12
For that would be a fire that consumes to destruction, And would
root out all my increase

43.  It is sexual sin that made God destroy Sodom and
Gomorrah
 It is sexual sin that caused God to release s plague when a
young man brought a woman from a heathen land and
slept with her in the tent – Numbers 25:6
 It is sexual sin that caused trouble to enter David’s family
and caused the Kingdom to be divided and 10 out of 12
tribes to be torn from him.
 The one time that Paul advised the church to
excommunicate a brother and hand him over to satan was
because of sexual sin.
 It is sexual sin that caused Samson, God’s mighty servant
to be pulled down to nothing and finally to death.

44. QUOTE: WHEN YOU INSIST TO
TAKE WHAT GOD HAS NOT GIVEN
YOU, YOU RELINQUISH THE RIGHT
TO KEEP WHAT HE HAS GIVEN
YOU

45.  Saul insisted to take the loot of the
Amalekites, God took the leadership from
him and gave it to David.
 David insisted to take Bathsheba, God
allowed the child to die and took the
Kingdom out of the total control of David’s
family
 Achan insisted to take the loot from
Jericho [which was a first fruit offering of
the promised land to the Lord] and God
allowed them to kill him.

46. 5. DESTROYS YOUR MARRIAGE
(CURRENT/FUTURE)
Ga 6:7 Do not be deceived, God is
not mocked; for whatever a man sows,
that he will also reap.
You will reap what you sow.
Everyone that you slept with outside of
marriage is someone else’s spouse.
You sow seed for the same to happen
to your spouse.

47.  Diminished ability to stay faithful and to
form good lasting relationships
Broken covenant and distrust and the
perpetual presence of everyone you’ve
slept with

48. 6. SEXUAL SIN WILL
DESTROY YOUR
POSTERITYPr 13:22 - A good man leaves an inheritance [or moral
stability and goodness] to his children's children. AMPLIFIED
VERSION
What legacy are you leaving for your children? Your actions
[not just your words] train your children. They will emulate
what you are doing and take it even further than you.
Pr 22:6 - Train up a child in the way he should go, And
when he is old he will not depart from it.

49. Even if your children don’t see you, you open the
door to spirits of immorality into your family. Even
though David repented about taking Bathsheba,
the sin of immorality followed his children. He set
a stumbling block on their path.
David takes Bathsheba.
Ammon rapes his sister Tamar.
Absalom sleeps with his father’s concubines [in
public view].
Solomon walks away from God to worship the
God’s of foreign women.
Adonijah wanted his father’s woman after David
was dead

50. HOW TO GET FREE
 If not born again, get born again
 If born again, repent: asking God for
forgiveness
 Submit yourself to the authority of
God’s word

51. HOW TO STAY FREE FROM
SEXUAL BONDAGE
• CREATE A NO FAIL ENVIRONMENT
Access is the seed for opportunity. Destroy the access
to everything that tempts you. Get it out of your house, your
office, your life. Burn it up.
2Sa 11:1 It happened in the spring of the year, at the time
when kings go out to battle, that David sent Joab and his
servants with him, and all Israel; and they destroyed the people
of Ammon and besieged Rabbah. But David remained at
Jerusalem.

52. GET OUT OF WRONG
COMPANY• 2Ti 2:22 Flee also youthful lusts; but pursue
righteousness, faith, love, peace with those who call
on the Lord out of a pure heart.
1Co 15:33 Do not be deceived: "Evil company
corrupts good habits."
Mt 18:8 "If your hand or foot causes you to sin, cut it
off and cast it from you. It is better for you to enter
into life lame or maimed, rather than having two
hands or two feet, to be cast into the everlasting fire.

53. STAY ACCOUNTABLE TO A
MATURE
• Integrity does not hide from scrutiny. Sin loves darkness
and isolation
Have someone who can ask you the HARD
QUESTIONS, PRAY WITH YOU AND WALK WITH
YOU.
Ga 6:1 Brethren, if a man is overtaken in any trespass, you
who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness,
considering yourself lest you also be tempted.
Pr 13:20 He who walks with wise men will be wise, But the
companion of fools will be destroyed.

54. HAVE A CLOSE WALK WITH
GOD & PURPOSE TO STAY
PURE.• Psalm 119:9-11 How can a young man cleanse his way? By
taking heed according to Your word. 10 With my whole heart I
have sought You; Oh, let me not wander from Your
commandments! 11 Your word I have hidden in my heart, That
I might not sin against You!
• Jude 1:24 - Now to Him who is able to keep you from
stumbling, And to present you faultless Before the presence of
His glory with exceeding joy,
• 1Th 5:23 - Now may the God of peace Himself sanctify you
completely; and may your whole spirit, soul, and body be
preserved blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus

55. • Ps 146:7 - Who executes justice for the oppressed, Who
gives food to the hungry. The LORD gives freedom to
the prisoners.
• 1Jo 4:4 - You are of God, little children, and have
overcome them, because He who is in you is greater
than he who is in the world
• Ps 139:23-24 - Search me, O God, and know my heart;
Try me, and know my anxieties; 24 And see if there is
any wicked way in me, And lead me in the way

56. BE DETERMINED TO OFFER YOUR BODY TO
GOD AS A LIVING SACRIFICE – PAY THE
PRICE
 Ro 12:1 - I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the
mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living
sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your
reasonable service.
 Rom 6:12 -Therefore do not let sin reign in your
mortal body, that you should obey it in its lusts.
 1st Cor 6:13b - Now the body is not for sexual
immorality but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body.

57.  Daniel 1:8 - But Daniel purposed in his heart that
he would not defile himself
 Rom 6:12 - Therefore do not let sin reign in your
mortal body, that you should obey it in its lusts
 Rom 2:11-12 - For the grace of God that brings
salvation has appeared to all men, teaching us
that, denying ungodliness and worldly lusts, we
should live soberly, righteously, and godly in the
present age,
God’s grace teaches and enables us to say NO to
sin.

58. DON’T MISTAKE GOD’S MERCY FOR
COMPLIANCE WITH YOUR SIN
 Pr 29:1 He who is often rebuked, and hardens his
neck, Will suddenly be destroyed, and that without
remedy.
 As the Lord convicts and corrects you. Take it seriously
and repent.
 John 5:14 - Jesus found him in the temple, and said to
him, "See, you have been made well. Sin no more, lest a
worse thing come upon you.“
 Proverbs 13:18 - Poverty and shame will come to him
who disdains correction, But he who regards a rebuke
will be honored.

59. When God convicts you, you don’t
need to look for anyone to deliver
you. You can pray with someone for
support purposes but you can also
pray by yourself. Ask God for
forgiveness and receive it by faith.
That is all it takes to be free. Then
take the steps to stay free.