INTER-CASTE/RELIGION
MARRIAGES:
      Made In Heaven And
   Destroyed In Earth




                Rajni
                Gcs/114347
Defination of intercaste/ religion
marriages
                 Intercaste/religion marriage,
              traditionally called mixed marriage,
                 is marriage between partners
                 professing different religions.
                 Intercaste/religion marriage
               typically connotes a marriage in
                 which both partners remain
              adherents to their distinct religion,
                and as such it is distinct from
                     concepts of religious
              conversion, religious assimilation,
                cultural assimilation, religious
                  disaffiliation, and apostasy.
History….
   From the time of Kings and Queens, caste system has been practiced.

   In earlier days, it was customary to marry in the same castes. If
    anyone dares to disobey the rules of the society, he was confined to
    severe punishments.

   Whole community was barred from keeping any relation with the
    family where inter caste marriage had taken place.

   Customs and religions practiced were so strict and merciless that
    even sometimes the boy and girl were hacked to death by their own
    family members due to the pressures from the society.
Indian attitude towards
       inter-caste/religion marriages

   Indians had an orthodox mindset. They couldn't imagine
    marriages beyond the same caste , community and
    religion.

   Marriages should be in same community and caste .

   Who so ever dare for the inter-caste marriage face the
    consequences in terms of violence, social boycott, family
    boycott and death of the boys and girls ( honour killing).
Continue….

   21th century, honour killing is still practiced
    mostly in northern India.
   SC/ST being the usual targets for atrocities[1].
   A woman belonging to the SC /ST, marrying to
    forward caste, is abused in the name of her caste
    by a member of the public or by her husband/or
    his relatives.
PROBLEMS ATTACHED…

   The problem of caste system was so deep rooted that it took
    years for the Indians to come out of that idea.

   Even today also India is struggling to come out of this social
    menace.

   History reveals that efforts have been made by various social
    reformers and individuals to make India free from the clutches
    of caste system, untouchability and race discrimination.
Why rejected in india???
   They fear of the social norms and social standing.

   Loss of reputation.

   The cultural difference- they believe that the couple will not be
    able to settle down and religiously follow each other’s culture.

   They believe that the children born out of the inter-caste marriage
    will not be perfect.

   Torture that the family and the couple has to face at the hands of
    the society.
ill –effects of not approving
intercaste/religion marriages…


 Hampering the growth of the society
 Create fissures among different social groups
  and castes
 Poses a threat to the national unity
 Various love couples either end their life or
  are killed
Various couples fell in love and are now paying
        a price for that.

1. Manoj, a dalit of Haryana, married Rimpy, of Saini community. A
   panchayat in Haryana has issued a death fatwa of sorts on the
   couple.
2. Megala 20 of thevar from village kattikulam ,madurai who was killed
   by her parents.
3. Not just villages kuldeep singh (thakur) and monica(gujjar) married
   under pollice protection 2006. Murdered in june.
4. Asha 18,sanjay kumar 24, who are living in hell.. They belong to
   same village in haryana .
The Superfluous Belief

   The set up of Indian caste system makes it clear that

    “One is born into a caste and this cannot be undone even with the saat
    pheras of sapt padi (Hindu marriage)”.

   Today, in Indian society the inter caste marriages are mostly the part of the
    city culture. The rural parts of the country still have a long way to go.

•   In villages ofIndia, people prefer their children to marry in the same caste
    and community; else they disown them.

•   Though there have been numerous incidents of the wife attempting suicide
    or being murdered, this has still not evaded the theory of caste system.
Is inter-caste marriage
 acceptable?

           Sales

      6%                     74% - no
                   1st Qtr
                             20% - yes
20%                          6%- don’t
                   2nd Qtr
                             know
             74%   3rd Qtr
Steps to be taken…
•  It is the responsibility of the younger generation to make
  their elders realize that the rigid caste system is morbid and
  has a dark future ahead.
 The girl or boy should be introduced as a friend to the family
  and be allowed to earn their love and respect
 The qualities of the person you love should be highlighted in
  front of the family members
 Try and learn the customs of each other’s caste. This will
  enable you to earn the love of the family members
 Try and show your family members how this kind of systems
  are obstructing the progress of the nation
Steps that have been already
    taken…
 Government of India has made different laws to
  encourage inter-caste marriages
 Social activists and groups are actively
  contributing to the create awareness among the
  people of the hazards of not accepting the inter-
  caste-marriages
 Movies, plays, street plays, demonstrations, etc.
  have been used to demonstrate that inter-caste
  marriages should be allowed.
Government incentives….

1.   Government of Maharashtra & punjab – Maharashtra n punjab
     government has decided to gift Rs 50,000 to a couple opting for
     inter-caste marriage on 2010.

2.   Government of Uttar Pradesh- They give cash incentive and
     interest-free loan to couples . Such couples may get interest-free
     loan of upto Rs 15,000 .

3.   Government of haryana- haryana Government offers 50,000
     each for intercaste marriage.
Present scenario
   Now people know that….
    A successful marriage is not dependent on same caste
    and religion
    …..rather it depends on mutual understanding and
    compatibility.

    Today, there are examples where two people from
    totally different background and lifestyle come together
    and spend their entire life happy with each other.
                      THANKS TO EDUCATION.
Various examples

     1.   SAROJINI NAIDU
      ◦ In 1912, she got married
      ◦ She got married at the age of
        19 to Dr. Govindarajulu
        Naidu, a non-Brahmin.
      ◦ During the time when inter-
        caste marriages were not
        allowed.
•In 4th march 2012
                      they tied in one
                            knot.
                      •They set a very
                    beautiful example
                       of intercaste &
                    religion marriage.
Ritesh deshmukh &
     Genelia
d’suza deshmukh
Continue….

1.   A case in ambala … girl from st caste (st)
     married to punjabi jatt boy... On the bahalf of
     parents.

2.   An girl from himachal married to punjabi boy
     and they are happly living there lives..

3.   A girl from uttar pradesh married to punjabi
     boy …
Marriages.. made in heaven!!
    …..murdered on earth!!!!

 t is believed that this is the wish of god… When two
  people meet and their marriage is solemnized.
                             And
 Marriage is mostly dependent on true love and
  feeling and once this is achieved, caste and religion
  all becomes secondary issues.
When God created
men and
women, he has not
assigned any caste
on them.
So,how can the
human beings
divide God's
created world into
castes and
communities
conclusion
   As responsible citizen we need to encourage human rights of
    each individual.

   Human Rights not only includes basic rights, but it has a lot
    more to it. One of the most important aspects is ‘Right to
    Marriage’.

   Marriage is one of the Human Right. Then, why we as
    individuals, society at large not able to digest and tolerate if a
    person, irrespective of his or her religion, caste, creed, state,
    language, nationality, gets married into a different religion,
    caste and creed.The right to choice of life-partner is a matter
    of one’s own decision. It is attached to the sentiments of a
    person
Thank you..!!!!

Intercaste marriages

  • 1.
    INTER-CASTE/RELIGION MARRIAGES: Made In Heaven And Destroyed In Earth Rajni Gcs/114347
  • 2.
    Defination of intercaste/religion marriages Intercaste/religion marriage, traditionally called mixed marriage, is marriage between partners professing different religions. Intercaste/religion marriage typically connotes a marriage in which both partners remain adherents to their distinct religion, and as such it is distinct from concepts of religious conversion, religious assimilation, cultural assimilation, religious disaffiliation, and apostasy.
  • 3.
    History….  From the time of Kings and Queens, caste system has been practiced.  In earlier days, it was customary to marry in the same castes. If anyone dares to disobey the rules of the society, he was confined to severe punishments.  Whole community was barred from keeping any relation with the family where inter caste marriage had taken place.  Customs and religions practiced were so strict and merciless that even sometimes the boy and girl were hacked to death by their own family members due to the pressures from the society.
  • 4.
    Indian attitude towards inter-caste/religion marriages  Indians had an orthodox mindset. They couldn't imagine marriages beyond the same caste , community and religion.  Marriages should be in same community and caste .  Who so ever dare for the inter-caste marriage face the consequences in terms of violence, social boycott, family boycott and death of the boys and girls ( honour killing).
  • 5.
    Continue….  21th century, honour killing is still practiced mostly in northern India.  SC/ST being the usual targets for atrocities[1].  A woman belonging to the SC /ST, marrying to forward caste, is abused in the name of her caste by a member of the public or by her husband/or his relatives.
  • 6.
    PROBLEMS ATTACHED…  The problem of caste system was so deep rooted that it took years for the Indians to come out of that idea.  Even today also India is struggling to come out of this social menace.  History reveals that efforts have been made by various social reformers and individuals to make India free from the clutches of caste system, untouchability and race discrimination.
  • 7.
    Why rejected inindia???  They fear of the social norms and social standing.  Loss of reputation.  The cultural difference- they believe that the couple will not be able to settle down and religiously follow each other’s culture.  They believe that the children born out of the inter-caste marriage will not be perfect.  Torture that the family and the couple has to face at the hands of the society.
  • 8.
    ill –effects ofnot approving intercaste/religion marriages…  Hampering the growth of the society  Create fissures among different social groups and castes  Poses a threat to the national unity  Various love couples either end their life or are killed
  • 9.
    Various couples fellin love and are now paying a price for that. 1. Manoj, a dalit of Haryana, married Rimpy, of Saini community. A panchayat in Haryana has issued a death fatwa of sorts on the couple. 2. Megala 20 of thevar from village kattikulam ,madurai who was killed by her parents. 3. Not just villages kuldeep singh (thakur) and monica(gujjar) married under pollice protection 2006. Murdered in june. 4. Asha 18,sanjay kumar 24, who are living in hell.. They belong to same village in haryana .
  • 10.
    The Superfluous Belief  The set up of Indian caste system makes it clear that “One is born into a caste and this cannot be undone even with the saat pheras of sapt padi (Hindu marriage)”.  Today, in Indian society the inter caste marriages are mostly the part of the city culture. The rural parts of the country still have a long way to go. • In villages ofIndia, people prefer their children to marry in the same caste and community; else they disown them. • Though there have been numerous incidents of the wife attempting suicide or being murdered, this has still not evaded the theory of caste system.
  • 11.
    Is inter-caste marriage acceptable? Sales 6% 74% - no 1st Qtr 20% - yes 20% 6%- don’t 2nd Qtr know 74% 3rd Qtr
  • 12.
    Steps to betaken… • It is the responsibility of the younger generation to make their elders realize that the rigid caste system is morbid and has a dark future ahead.  The girl or boy should be introduced as a friend to the family and be allowed to earn their love and respect  The qualities of the person you love should be highlighted in front of the family members  Try and learn the customs of each other’s caste. This will enable you to earn the love of the family members  Try and show your family members how this kind of systems are obstructing the progress of the nation
  • 13.
    Steps that havebeen already taken…  Government of India has made different laws to encourage inter-caste marriages  Social activists and groups are actively contributing to the create awareness among the people of the hazards of not accepting the inter- caste-marriages  Movies, plays, street plays, demonstrations, etc. have been used to demonstrate that inter-caste marriages should be allowed.
  • 14.
    Government incentives…. 1. Government of Maharashtra & punjab – Maharashtra n punjab government has decided to gift Rs 50,000 to a couple opting for inter-caste marriage on 2010. 2. Government of Uttar Pradesh- They give cash incentive and interest-free loan to couples . Such couples may get interest-free loan of upto Rs 15,000 . 3. Government of haryana- haryana Government offers 50,000 each for intercaste marriage.
  • 15.
    Present scenario  Now people know that…. A successful marriage is not dependent on same caste and religion …..rather it depends on mutual understanding and compatibility.  Today, there are examples where two people from totally different background and lifestyle come together and spend their entire life happy with each other. THANKS TO EDUCATION.
  • 16.
    Various examples 1. SAROJINI NAIDU ◦ In 1912, she got married ◦ She got married at the age of 19 to Dr. Govindarajulu Naidu, a non-Brahmin. ◦ During the time when inter- caste marriages were not allowed.
  • 17.
    •In 4th march2012 they tied in one knot. •They set a very beautiful example of intercaste & religion marriage. Ritesh deshmukh & Genelia d’suza deshmukh
  • 18.
    Continue…. 1. A case in ambala … girl from st caste (st) married to punjabi jatt boy... On the bahalf of parents. 2. An girl from himachal married to punjabi boy and they are happly living there lives.. 3. A girl from uttar pradesh married to punjabi boy …
  • 19.
    Marriages.. made inheaven!! …..murdered on earth!!!!  t is believed that this is the wish of god… When two people meet and their marriage is solemnized. And  Marriage is mostly dependent on true love and feeling and once this is achieved, caste and religion all becomes secondary issues.
  • 20.
    When God created menand women, he has not assigned any caste on them. So,how can the human beings divide God's created world into castes and communities
  • 21.
    conclusion  As responsible citizen we need to encourage human rights of each individual.  Human Rights not only includes basic rights, but it has a lot more to it. One of the most important aspects is ‘Right to Marriage’.  Marriage is one of the Human Right. Then, why we as individuals, society at large not able to digest and tolerate if a person, irrespective of his or her religion, caste, creed, state, language, nationality, gets married into a different religion, caste and creed.The right to choice of life-partner is a matter of one’s own decision. It is attached to the sentiments of a person
  • 22.