This Book is written by Ameer e Ahle Sunnat Hazrat Allama Maulana Ilyas Attar Qadri Razavi Ziaee.
This book include the following topics:
*Fulfill the financial and moral rights of relatives
*Ten virtues of treating relatives with kindness
*Restoring relations and treating relatives with kindness
* And many more..
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This Book is written by Ameer e Ahle Sunnat Hazrat Allama Maulana Ilyas Attar Qadri Razavi Ziaee.
This book include the following topics:
*Crown of pearls
*Horrible dacoit
*The cruel are given temporary respite
* And many more..
This Book is written by Ameer e Ahle Sunnat Hazrat Allama Maulana Ilyas Attar Qadri Razavi Ziaee.
This book include the following topics:
*Transliteration Chart
*Black Scorpions
*How is it to reopen grave to take out deceased?
* And many more..
This is a highly influential book for Islamic Sisters; it contains immensely detailed information about veiling. Some of its topics are, a devil with every anklet, precautions when exiting home, how to create a peaceful home, the Islamic verdict about co-education, precautions regarding hair, veiling between spiritual guide and his female disciple and much more. .. A significant and highly inspiring piece of writing which will immensely enhance your knowledge and motivate you to perform virtuous deeds.Don’t forget to leave your comments and share this great piece of writing after reading it online or downloading its PDF format. Comment box, read and download buttons and embed code are given below.
This Book is written by Ameer e Ahle Sunnat Hazrat Allama Maulana Ilyas Attar Qadri Razavi Ziaee.
This book include the following topics:
*Crown of pearls
*Horrible dacoit
*The cruel are given temporary respite
* And many more..
This Book is written by Ameer e Ahle Sunnat Hazrat Allama Maulana Ilyas Attar Qadri Razavi Ziaee.
This book include the following topics:
*Transliteration Chart
*Black Scorpions
*How is it to reopen grave to take out deceased?
* And many more..
This is a highly influential book for Islamic Sisters; it contains immensely detailed information about veiling. Some of its topics are, a devil with every anklet, precautions when exiting home, how to create a peaceful home, the Islamic verdict about co-education, precautions regarding hair, veiling between spiritual guide and his female disciple and much more. .. A significant and highly inspiring piece of writing which will immensely enhance your knowledge and motivate you to perform virtuous deeds.Don’t forget to leave your comments and share this great piece of writing after reading it online or downloading its PDF format. Comment box, read and download buttons and embed code are given below.
This Book is written by Ameer e Ahle Sunnat Hazrat Allama Maulana Ilyas Attar Qadri Razavi Ziaee.
This book include the following topics:
*All graves appear similar but from inside
*Everyone has to die one day
*You will never have experienced a night like this ever before
* And many more..
This booklet gives a brief description of Sayyidi Qutbe Madinah, his life, stay in sacred Madinah and the manner in which Amīr-e-Aĥl-e-Sunnat became his Mureed and in the end the sayings of Sayyidi Qutbe Madinah. ۔ ۔ A significant and highly inspiring piece of writing which will immensely enhance your knowledge and motivate you to perform virtuous deeds.Don’t forget to leave your comments and share this great piece of writing after reading it online or downloading its PDF format. Comment box, read and download buttons and embed code are given below.
This Book is written by Ameer e Ahle Sunnat Hazrat Allama Maulana Ilyas Attar Qadri Razavi Ziaee.
This book include to the very Good knowledge About Islam.
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This Book is written by Ameer e Ahle Sunnat Hazrat Allama Maulana Ilyas Attar Qadri Razavi Ziaee.
This book include the following topics:
*Women wearing Masculine Clothes is deprived of Heaven
*Respect of the elder brother
*One Reason for not having a Madani Environment at Home
* And many more..
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This Booklet comprises useful Madani pearls especially for Islamic sisters ۔ ۔ A significant and highly inspiring piece of writing which will immensely enhance your knowledge and motivate you to perform virtuous deeds.Don’t forget to leave your comments and share this great piece of writing after reading it online or downloading its PDF format. Comment box, read and download buttons and embed code are given below.
This Book is written by Ameer e Ahle Sunnat Hazrat Allama Maulana Ilyas Attar Qadri Razavi Ziaee.
This book include the following topics:
*Glory of Auliya
*Honour every pious person
*Doom of impudent person
* And many more..
Loving our parents, obligations stories of duties and obligations by abdul ma...docsforu
Loving our Parents is a wonderful collection of
stories from the lives of ordinary people on the
rewards of treating our parents with honor and
respect.
It also has detailed and authentic accounts from
both the Noble Qur'an and the Prophet's Sunnah
on our duties and obligations to those who have
sacrificed so much to raise and educate us.
In addition, it provides clear warnings of the
penalties from Allah Almighty in this world and
the Hereafter for abusing and disrespecting our
parents.
This is an essential publication for those who
want to know the Divine Injunctions on not only
how to treat their mothers and fathers, but also
their grandparents, close relatives and elders.
This Book is written by Ameer e Ahle Sunnat Hazrat Allama Maulana Ilyas Attar Qadri Razavi Ziaee.
This book include the following topics:
*Translators Notes
*11 Intentions for Reading this Book
*Chapter 1 Manners of Eating
* And many more..
This Book is written by Ameer e Ahle Sunnat Hazrat Allama Maulana Ilyas Attar Qadri Razavi Ziaee.
This book include the following topics:
*All graves appear similar but from inside
*Everyone has to die one day
*You will never have experienced a night like this ever before
* And many more..
This booklet gives a brief description of Sayyidi Qutbe Madinah, his life, stay in sacred Madinah and the manner in which Amīr-e-Aĥl-e-Sunnat became his Mureed and in the end the sayings of Sayyidi Qutbe Madinah. ۔ ۔ A significant and highly inspiring piece of writing which will immensely enhance your knowledge and motivate you to perform virtuous deeds.Don’t forget to leave your comments and share this great piece of writing after reading it online or downloading its PDF format. Comment box, read and download buttons and embed code are given below.
This Book is written by Ameer e Ahle Sunnat Hazrat Allama Maulana Ilyas Attar Qadri Razavi Ziaee.
This book include to the very Good knowledge About Islam.
Like & Share Official Page of Maulana Ilyas Qadri
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This Book is written by Ameer e Ahle Sunnat Hazrat Allama Maulana Ilyas Attar Qadri Razavi Ziaee.
This book include the following topics:
*Women wearing Masculine Clothes is deprived of Heaven
*Respect of the elder brother
*One Reason for not having a Madani Environment at Home
* And many more..
Like & Share Official Page of Maulana Ilyas Qadri
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This Booklet comprises useful Madani pearls especially for Islamic sisters ۔ ۔ A significant and highly inspiring piece of writing which will immensely enhance your knowledge and motivate you to perform virtuous deeds.Don’t forget to leave your comments and share this great piece of writing after reading it online or downloading its PDF format. Comment box, read and download buttons and embed code are given below.
This Book is written by Ameer e Ahle Sunnat Hazrat Allama Maulana Ilyas Attar Qadri Razavi Ziaee.
This book include the following topics:
*Glory of Auliya
*Honour every pious person
*Doom of impudent person
* And many more..
Loving our parents, obligations stories of duties and obligations by abdul ma...docsforu
Loving our Parents is a wonderful collection of
stories from the lives of ordinary people on the
rewards of treating our parents with honor and
respect.
It also has detailed and authentic accounts from
both the Noble Qur'an and the Prophet's Sunnah
on our duties and obligations to those who have
sacrificed so much to raise and educate us.
In addition, it provides clear warnings of the
penalties from Allah Almighty in this world and
the Hereafter for abusing and disrespecting our
parents.
This is an essential publication for those who
want to know the Divine Injunctions on not only
how to treat their mothers and fathers, but also
their grandparents, close relatives and elders.
This Book is written by Ameer e Ahle Sunnat Hazrat Allama Maulana Ilyas Attar Qadri Razavi Ziaee.
This book include the following topics:
*Translators Notes
*11 Intentions for Reading this Book
*Chapter 1 Manners of Eating
* And many more..
This inspiring booklet includes deep knowledge about causes and cure for poverty, method of gaining blessings in sustenance, above thirty spiritual cures, great sayings of The Holy Prophet صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم , examples of lies told by the rich and much more.....A significant and highly inspiring piece of writing which will immensely enhance your knowledge and motivate you to perform virtuous deeds.Don’t forget to leave your comments and share this great piece of writing after reading it online or downloading its PDF format. Comment box, read and download buttons and embed code are given below.
This Book is written by Ameer e Ahle Sunnat Hazrat Allama Maulana Ilyas Attar Qadri Razavi Ziaee.
This book include the following topics:
*بیٹے کی قربانی سے روکنے کی شیطان کی نا کام کوششیں
*شیطان کو کنکریاں ماریں
*بیٹا قربانی کیلئے تیار
* And many more..
This Book is written by Ameer e Ahle Sunnat Hazrat Allama Maulana Ilyas Attar Qadri Razavi Ziaee.
This book include the following topics:
#Crown of pearls
#Horrible dacoit
#The cruel are given temporary respite
* And many more..
This Book is written by Ameer e Ahle Sunnat Hazrat Allama Maulana Ilyas Attar Qadri Razavi Ziaee.
This book include the following topics:
*Entreaty of ‘Attar
*23 Intentions for Reading this Book
*Ijtima’ of forgiveness
* And many more..
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This Book is written by Ameer e Ahle Sunnat Hazrat Allama Maulana Ilyas Attar Qadri Razavi Ziaee.
This book include the following topics:
*7 Karamat-Marvels related to his saintly childhood
*What is Karamat-Marvel ?
*Epilepsy is a form of jinn
* And many more..
اس رسالے میں آپ پڑھ سکیں گے:تلاوت کی نیتیں، مناجات کی نیتینں،نعت شریف کی نیتیں اور بہت کچھ ۔ ۔ آپ کے لئے ایک بہت مفید اور اہم کتاب جس کو پڑھنے سے آپ کے علم اور نیکیوں میں ان شاء اللہ عزوجل اضافہ ہوگا۔آپ اس کتاب کو ویب سائٹ پر موجودرہتے ہوئے آن لائن پڑھنے کے لئے Read کے بٹن اور ڈاؤن لوڈ کرنے کے لئے Download کے بٹن پر کلک کریں۔اس کتاب کے بارے میں اپنے تاثرات نیچے دئیے ہوئے Comments Box میں دیں۔برائے کرم اس کتاب کوعلم دین حاصل کرنے کی نیت سے خود بھی پڑھیں اور دوسروں کے ساتھ بھیShare کریں۔
اس رسالے میں آپ پڑھ سکیں گے:سرکار صلّی اللہ تعالیٰ علیہ وآلہ وسلم کی بشریّت کا انکار کرنا کیسا؟، فُوت شدہ مدنی منے زندہ ہو گئے، میں گمراہی سے کیسے نکلا!، والِدَینِ کریمَین جنّتی ہیں، گستاخ کو زمین نے قَبول نہ کیا، ہاتھ ملانے کے 14 مَدَنی پھول،اللہ عَزَّوَجَلَّ کیلئے مَحَبِّت رکھنے کے 8 فضائل اور بہت کچھ۔ ۔ ۔ آپ کے لئے ایک بہت مفید اور اہم کتاب جس کو پڑھنے سے آپ کے علم اور نیکیوں میں ان شاء اللہ عزوجل اضافہ ہوگا۔آپ اس کتاب کو ویب سائٹ پر موجودرہتے ہوئے آن لائن پڑھنے کے لئے Read کے بٹن اور ڈاؤن لوڈ کرنے کے لئے Download کے بٹن پر کلک کریں۔اس کتاب کے بارے میں اپنے تاثرات نیچے دئیے ہوئے Comments Box میں دیں۔برائے کرم اس کتاب کوعلم دین حاصل کرنے کی نیت سے خود بھی پڑھیں اور دوسروں کے ساتھ بھیShare کریں۔
اس رسالے میں آپ پڑھ سکیں گے:بچپن شریف کی سات کرامات،کرامت کی تعریف،غوث پاک نے مرگی کو بھگادیا اور بہت کچھ ۔ ۔ آپ کے لئے ایک بہت مفید اور اہم کتاب جس کو پڑھنے سے آپ کے علم اور نیکیوں میں ان شاء اللہ عزوجل اضافہ ہوگا۔آپ اس کتاب کو ویب سائٹ پر موجودرہتے ہوئے آن لائن پڑھنے کے لئے Read کے بٹن اور ڈاؤن لوڈ کرنے کے لئے Download کے بٹن پر کلک کریں۔اس کتاب کے بارے میں اپنے تاثرات نیچے دئیے ہوئے Comments Box میں دیں۔برائے کرم اس کتاب کوعلم دین حاصل کرنے کی نیت سے خود بھی پڑھیں اور دوسروں کے ساتھ بھیShare کریں۔
هن رسالي ۾ اوهان پڙهي سگهندا: بيماري تمام وڏي نعمت آهي، هڪ رات جي بُخار جو ثواب، مٿي جي سُور جي شُڪراني ۾ 400 رَڪعت نفل (حِڪايت)، بخار ۽ مٿي جو سُور مبارڪ مرض آهن، بيمارين جا 78 روحاني علاج ۽ گهڻو ڪجهه.
यह पुस्तक अत्तर से माननीय Muftis और विद्वानों, उपहार, जिन्नों और कई और अधिक से चीजों के संरक्षण से प्रशस्तियां जैसे विषयों की शानदार ज्ञान भी शामिल है । । बेहद आप अपने ज्ञान को बढ़ाने के लिए और प्रेरित करेगा जो लेखन का एक महत्वपूर्ण और अत्यधिक प्रेरणादायक टुकड़ा गुणी deeds.Don't अपनी टिप्पणी छोड़ और इसे ऑनलाइन पढ़ने या अपने पीडीएफ प्रारूप डाउनलोड करने के बाद लेखन के इस महान टुकड़ा हिस्सा प्रदर्शन करने के लिए । टिप्पणी बॉक्स , पढ़ सकते हैं और डाउनलोड बटन और एम्बेड कोड नीचे दिए गए हैं ।
આ પુસ્તક અત્તર થી ઓનરેબલ Muftis અને વિદ્વાનો , ભેટ, jinns અને ઘણા વધુ તરફથી વસ્તુઓ રક્ષણ commendations જેવા વિષયો સુપર્બ જ્ઞાન સમાવેશ થાય છે. . અત્યંત તમે તમારા જ્ઞાન વધારવા અને પ્રોત્સાહન કરશે જે લેખન નોંધપાત્ર અને ખૂબ પ્રેરણાદાયી ભાગ સદાચારી deeds.Don't તમારી ટિપ્પણીઓ રજા અને તે વાંચવા અથવા તેના PDF ફોર્મેટમાં ડાઉનલોડ કર્યા પછી લેખન આ મહાન ભાગ શેર કરવા માટે ભૂલી કરવા માટે. ટિપ્પણી બોક્સ, વાંચી અને ડાઉનલોડ બટનો અને એમ્બેડ કોડ નીચે આપવામાં આવે છે.
এই বইয়ের আত্তারের থেকে মাননীয় মুফতি এবং পণ্ডিতদের , উপহার , জ্বিন এবং আরো অনেক থেকে কিছু রক্ষার থেকে Commendations মত বিষয়গুলির চমত্কার জ্ঞান রয়েছে . . অত্যন্ত আপনি আপনার জ্ঞান এবং উন্নত অনুপ্রাণিত হবে, যা লেখার একটি গুরুত্বপূর্ণ এবং অত্যন্ত দীপক টুকরা ধর্মচারী deeds.Don't আপনার মন্তব্য এবং অনলাইন এটা পড়া বা তার পিডিএফ ফরম্যাটে ডাউনলোড করার পর লেখা এই মহান টুকরা ভুলবেন সঞ্চালন . মন্তব্য বক্স , পড়তে ও ডাউনলোড করতে বোতাম এবং স্থাপিত কোড নিচে দেওয়া হল .
Synthetic Fiber Construction in lab .pptxPavel ( NSTU)
Synthetic fiber production is a fascinating and complex field that blends chemistry, engineering, and environmental science. By understanding these aspects, students can gain a comprehensive view of synthetic fiber production, its impact on society and the environment, and the potential for future innovations. Synthetic fibers play a crucial role in modern society, impacting various aspects of daily life, industry, and the environment. ynthetic fibers are integral to modern life, offering a range of benefits from cost-effectiveness and versatility to innovative applications and performance characteristics. While they pose environmental challenges, ongoing research and development aim to create more sustainable and eco-friendly alternatives. Understanding the importance of synthetic fibers helps in appreciating their role in the economy, industry, and daily life, while also emphasizing the need for sustainable practices and innovation.
Honest Reviews of Tim Han LMA Course Program.pptxtimhan337
Personal development courses are widely available today, with each one promising life-changing outcomes. Tim Han’s Life Mastery Achievers (LMA) Course has drawn a lot of interest. In addition to offering my frank assessment of Success Insider’s LMA Course, this piece examines the course’s effects via a variety of Tim Han LMA course reviews and Success Insider comments.
Embracing GenAI - A Strategic ImperativePeter Windle
Artificial Intelligence (AI) technologies such as Generative AI, Image Generators and Large Language Models have had a dramatic impact on teaching, learning and assessment over the past 18 months. The most immediate threat AI posed was to Academic Integrity with Higher Education Institutes (HEIs) focusing their efforts on combating the use of GenAI in assessment. Guidelines were developed for staff and students, policies put in place too. Innovative educators have forged paths in the use of Generative AI for teaching, learning and assessments leading to pockets of transformation springing up across HEIs, often with little or no top-down guidance, support or direction.
This Gasta posits a strategic approach to integrating AI into HEIs to prepare staff, students and the curriculum for an evolving world and workplace. We will highlight the advantages of working with these technologies beyond the realm of teaching, learning and assessment by considering prompt engineering skills, industry impact, curriculum changes, and the need for staff upskilling. In contrast, not engaging strategically with Generative AI poses risks, including falling behind peers, missed opportunities and failing to ensure our graduates remain employable. The rapid evolution of AI technologies necessitates a proactive and strategic approach if we are to remain relevant.
The French Revolution, which began in 1789, was a period of radical social and political upheaval in France. It marked the decline of absolute monarchies, the rise of secular and democratic republics, and the eventual rise of Napoleon Bonaparte. This revolutionary period is crucial in understanding the transition from feudalism to modernity in Europe.
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The Roman Empire A Historical Colossus.pdfkaushalkr1407
The Roman Empire, a vast and enduring power, stands as one of history's most remarkable civilizations, leaving an indelible imprint on the world. It emerged from the Roman Republic, transitioning into an imperial powerhouse under the leadership of Augustus Caesar in 27 BCE. This transformation marked the beginning of an era defined by unprecedented territorial expansion, architectural marvels, and profound cultural influence.
The empire's roots lie in the city of Rome, founded, according to legend, by Romulus in 753 BCE. Over centuries, Rome evolved from a small settlement to a formidable republic, characterized by a complex political system with elected officials and checks on power. However, internal strife, class conflicts, and military ambitions paved the way for the end of the Republic. Julius Caesar’s dictatorship and subsequent assassination in 44 BCE created a power vacuum, leading to a civil war. Octavian, later Augustus, emerged victorious, heralding the Roman Empire’s birth.
Under Augustus, the empire experienced the Pax Romana, a 200-year period of relative peace and stability. Augustus reformed the military, established efficient administrative systems, and initiated grand construction projects. The empire's borders expanded, encompassing territories from Britain to Egypt and from Spain to the Euphrates. Roman legions, renowned for their discipline and engineering prowess, secured and maintained these vast territories, building roads, fortifications, and cities that facilitated control and integration.
The Roman Empire’s society was hierarchical, with a rigid class system. At the top were the patricians, wealthy elites who held significant political power. Below them were the plebeians, free citizens with limited political influence, and the vast numbers of slaves who formed the backbone of the economy. The family unit was central, governed by the paterfamilias, the male head who held absolute authority.
Culturally, the Romans were eclectic, absorbing and adapting elements from the civilizations they encountered, particularly the Greeks. Roman art, literature, and philosophy reflected this synthesis, creating a rich cultural tapestry. Latin, the Roman language, became the lingua franca of the Western world, influencing numerous modern languages.
Roman architecture and engineering achievements were monumental. They perfected the arch, vault, and dome, constructing enduring structures like the Colosseum, Pantheon, and aqueducts. These engineering marvels not only showcased Roman ingenuity but also served practical purposes, from public entertainment to water supply.
Biological screening of herbal drugs: Introduction and Need for
Phyto-Pharmacological Screening, New Strategies for evaluating
Natural Products, In vitro evaluation techniques for Antioxidants, Antimicrobial and Anticancer drugs. In vivo evaluation techniques
for Anti-inflammatory, Antiulcer, Anticancer, Wound healing, Antidiabetic, Hepatoprotective, Cardio protective, Diuretics and
Antifertility, Toxicity studies as per OECD guidelines
Instructions for Submissions thorugh G- Classroom.pptxJheel Barad
This presentation provides a briefing on how to upload submissions and documents in Google Classroom. It was prepared as part of an orientation for new Sainik School in-service teacher trainees. As a training officer, my goal is to ensure that you are comfortable and proficient with this essential tool for managing assignments and fostering student engagement.
Macroeconomics- Movie Location
This will be used as part of your Personal Professional Portfolio once graded.
Objective:
Prepare a presentation or a paper using research, basic comparative analysis, data organization and application of economic information. You will make an informed assessment of an economic climate outside of the United States to accomplish an entertainment industry objective.
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Sunnat, the founder of Dawat-e-Islami ‘Allamah Maulana
Abu Bilal Muhammad Ilyas Attar Qadiri Razavi
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translated it into English. If you find any mistake in the
translation or composing, please inform the translation
department on the following postal or email address with the
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and have mercy on us! O the One Who is the Most Honourable
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(Al-Musta
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Note: Recite alat-‘Alan-Nabi once before and after the Du’a.
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Du’a for Reading the Book .................................................................. ii
Instant Reconciliation with Paternal Aunt ................. 1
Excellence of alat-‘Alan-Nabi $ ..................................................... 1
Instant reconciliation with paternal aunt .......................................... 2
Secret of reconciliation between mother-in-law and
daughter-in-law ..................................................................................... 3
Definition of ‘ilah-Rimi ('
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Fulfill the financial and moral rights of relatives .............................. 5
Ten virtues of treating relatives with kindness ................................. 6
Restoring relations and treating relatives with kindness ................. 7
Traits of best person ............................................................................. 8
Quranic recitation, piety, call to righteousness and treating
relatives with kindness ......................................................................... 8
Explanation of increase in age and sustenance ............................... 10
Two sayings of Mustafa $ ............................................................... 11
Umm-ul-Mu`minin Sayyidatuna Zaynab
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Ten thousand dirhams distributed among relatives ...................... 12
Refrain from severing relations with relatives ................................ 12
Purposely considering the severing of relations as permissible
is Kufr ................................................................................................... 13
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How is it to say the sentence ‘you are not my brother’ to a
real brother? ......................................................................................... 14
Mercy does not descend in the presence of relations-severing
person ................................................................................................... 15
Make reconciliation with displeased relatives................................. 15
Relations-severing person is deprived of forgiveness .................... 15
Accountability on the complaint of Amanah (entrustment) and
ilah-Rimi (kind treatment to relatives) ....................................... 16
Torment for breaking off relations ................................................... 16
It is Wajib to treat certain relatives with kindness ......................... 18
What do ‘Zu-Rim Maram’ and ‘Zu-Rim’ imply? ..................... 18
7 Madani pearls of treating relatives with kindness .................... 21
1. Different levels of kind treatment to different relatives ........ 21
2. Different conditions of treating relatives with kindness ....... 21
3. Sending letters from abroad ...................................................... 22
4. Return from abroad if parents call you .................................... 22
5. Meeting relatives with gaps ....................................................... 23
6. Not fulfilling need of relative is sin .......................................... 23
7. Keep relations with one who breaks relations with you ........ 23
How to think positive? ....................................................................... 24
Heavenly palace ................................................................................... 25
Giving adaqah to the relative having concealed enmity ............. 25
Pain caused by relative ....................................................................... 25
Transliteration Chart .......................................................................... 28
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Dear Islamic brothers! These days, people break off relations
with each other on trivial matters. With the intentions of developing
mutual affection and conveying the call to righteousness, I am
presenting you with some Madani pearls of advice regarding
treating relatives with good manners. While describing the
Aadiš of the Beloved and Blessed Prophet 7/
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man stood up and went to his paternal aunt he had a years old
quarrel with. After the aunt and the nephew got reconciled with
each other, the aunt asked her nephew to go and ask the reason
for it (i.e. what was the wisdom behind the announcement
made by Sayyiduna Abu Hurayrah 1 #/9
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young man came and asked the reason for it. Sayyiduna Abu
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any relations-severing person in it is not blessed with the mercy
of Allah
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Secret of reconciliation between mother-in-law
and daughter-in-law
Dear Islamic brothers! Did you see how the Muslims of the
past had deep divine fear? The fortunate young man overcome
with divine fear promptly went to his aunt himself and made
reconciliation with her. Everyone should ponder which relatives
they have differences with. If anyone finds out any quarrel
with any relative, they should immediately make efforts for
reconciliation provided there is no Shar’i prohibition. Even if you
have to demean yourself, do it for the pleasure of Allah
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(Shu’ab-ul-Iman, vol. 6, pp. 276, 4adiš 8140)
In order to establish peace at homes and society, join the fragrant
Madani environment of Dawat-e-Islami and travel every month
with the Sunnah-Inspiring Madani Qafilahs for three days. Also
spend your life acting upon Madani In’amat. Let me tell you a
Madani parable for your persuasion. Here is a summary of what
an Islamic brother from Bab-ul-Madinah Karachi has related.
There was a long-standing row between my wife and mother.
At last, my wife fell out with us and went to her parental home.
40. was unable to handle the situation. Meanwhile,
I was lucky to have obtained a Madani Muzakarah VCD titled
‘Ghar Amn ka Gehwarah kaysay Banay’ released by Maktaba-tul-
Madinah, the publishing department of Dawat-e-Islami. Hoping
for some solution to my issue, I not only watched the VCD
myself but also made my mother watch it. Moreover, I sent a
VCD to the house of my in-laws. My mother liked it so much
that she watched it twice and, much to my astonishment, said,
‘Son! Let’s go to the house of your in-laws.’
Heaving a sigh of relief, I thought to myself the VCD seemed
to have done what I could not do despite making repeated
individual efforts. After we reached there, my mother propitiated
my wife very affectionately and brought her home. My wife too
responded positively. The very next day after she came home,
she said to my mother, ‘Dear mother! The room I am living in
is very large, whereas the one other family members are living
in is rather small. Please you people live in my room and I will
live in yours.’
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and disharmony turned into a palace of peace by the blessings
of Dawat-e-Islami.
(The VCD ‘Ghar Amn ka Gehwarah kaysay Banay’ can be
bought from Maktaba-tul-Madinah and can also be watched at
the website: www.dawateislami.net)
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and relationship. (Lisan-ul-Arab, vol. 1, pp. 1479)
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It is sated in Bahar-e-Shari’at, ‘ ()
establishing relations, i.e. doing relatives any favour and treating
them with kindness. (Bahar-e-Shari’at, vol. 13, pp. 558)
Treating relatives with kindness and forgiving them for their
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quality and earns you great reward from the court of Allah
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Fulfill the financial and moral rights of relatives
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Commenting on the foregoing verse, adr-ul-Afail, ‘Allamah
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and asking after them, providing timely help to them and
maintaining good social relations with them. Ruling: If they are
from among the ‘Maarim’ and have been destitute, then it is
obligatory for a well-off relative to provide for them as it is also
their right. (Maarim here imply such close relatives that if one
of them is supposed to be a man and the other a woman, Nikah
[i.e. marriage] is aram forever between them; e.g. the father,
the mother, the son, the daughter, the brother, the sister, the
brother and the sister of the father and those of the mother, the
nephew and the niece, etc.)
Ten virtues of treating relatives with kindness
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1. It brings about the pleasure of Allah .
2. It pleases people. (3. It delights angels.
4. It earns you praise from Muslims.
5. It upsets satan. (6. It increases age.
7. It brings blessings in sustenance.
8. It pleases the deceased forefathers (i.e. the Muslim father
and grandfather).
9. It fosters harmony.
10. It increases reward after demise because people make Du’a
for such a person. (Tanbih-ul-Ghafilin, pp. 73)
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Restoring relations and treating relatives with kindness
Allah
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believe in all the books and Prophets of Allah
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[Kanz-ul-Iman (Translation of Quran)] (Part 13, Surah Ar-Ra’d, verse 21)
Commenting on the foregoing verse, adr-ul-Afail, ‘Allamah
Maulana Sayyid Muhammad Na’imuddin Muradabadi
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no distinction among them by believing some of them and
disbelieving some others. Alternatively, it may imply that they
fulfill the rights of relatives without breaking off relations.
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with respect and Muslims with affection, doing them favours,
assisting and standing up for them, treating them with
gentleness, saying Salam to them and making Du’a for them,
visiting the sick Muslims and fulfilling the rights of friends,
servants, neighbours and travelling companions.
(Khazain-ul-‘Irfan, pp. 482 – published by Maktaba-tul-Madinah)
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‘The best among all people is the one who recites the Holy
Quran in abundance, adopts more piety, calls [people] towards
righteousness and prevents [them] from evils the most and
treats his relatives with kindness the most.’
(Musnad Imam AEmad, vol. 10, pp. 402, 4adiš 27504)
Quranic recitation, piety, call to righteousness and
treating relatives with kindness
Dear Islamic brothers! Let me get the privilege of conveying you
the call to righteousness in the light of the foregoing adiš, with
the intention of reaping reward. The foregoing adiš contains
four traits of the best person.
1. Recitation of the Holy Quran in abundance.
2. A great deal of piety
3. Calling others towards righteousness and preventing them
from evils the most.
4. Treating relatives with kindness.
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All of these four are indeed extremely excellent traits. May
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these traits:
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On the Day of Judgement, when the reciter of the Quran
comes, the Quran will say, ‘Ya Rab! Bestow heavenly attire
upon him.’ So he will be made to wear the attire of Karamah
(i.e. heavenly and holy clothing). The Quran will say again,
‘Ya Rab! Increase it.’ So he will be made to wear the crown
of Karamah. The Quran will say once again, ‘Ya Rab! Get
pleased with him.’ Allah
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will get pleased with him. It
will then be said to the reciter of the Quran, ‘Continue to
recite the Quran and get ranks in Heaven.’ And he will be
blessed with a favour for every verse.
2. The good news of success in the Hereafter has been given
to the pious. It is stated in verse 35 of Surah Az-Zukhruf
in part 25:
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[Kanz-ul-Iman (Translation of Quran)] (Part 25, Az-Zukhruf, verse 35)
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Jannat-ul-Firdaus is especially created for the person who
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increased should behave towards his parents kindly and
treat his relatives gracefully.’2
Explanation of increase in age and sustenance
adr-ush-Shari’ah, Badr-u-ariqah, ‘Allamah Maulana Mufti
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1197-page book ‘Bahar-e-Shari’at’ published by Maktaba-tul-
Madinah, the publishing department of Dawat-e-Islami: It is
stated in a adiš, ‘Treating relatives with kindness increases age
and sustenance.’ Some scholars have said this adiš implies what
it apparently means. That is, it refers to Qaa Mu’allaq because
Qaa Mubram cannot be changed3.
1 Tanbih-ul-Mughtarrin, pp. 236
2 Attarghib Wattarhib, vol. 3, pp. 217, adiš 16
3 ‘Qaa’ here refers to fate. In order to learn about its details and kinds, study from
page 14 to 17 of the first volume of ‘Bahar-e-Shari’at’ published by Maktaba-tul-
Madinah. The footnotes given by Majlis Al-Madina-tul-‘Ilmiyyah, in particular,
are unique and a cure for several satanic deceptions.
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When their term completes (death comes), then neither can they
stay behind for a moment, nor can they advance.
[Kanz-ul-Iman (Translation of Quran)] (Part 11, Surah Yunus, verse 49)
Some scholars have stated that the increase in age implies that
he receives reward even after his death; it is as if he is still alive.
It may also mean that people speak well of him even after his
death. (Rad-dul-MuEtar, vol. 9, pp. 678)
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treat relatives with kindness.
(GaEiE Bukhari, vol. 4, pp. 136, 4adiš 6138)
2. On the Day of Judgement, three types of people will be
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relatives with kindness (will be among them).
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pious, more truthful, more kind to relatives and more generous
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(GaEiE Muslim, pp. 1325, 4adiš 2442)
Ten thousand dirhams distributed among relatives
Amir-ul-Mu`minin Sayyiduna ‘Umar Faruq-e-A’am =
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(Asad-ul-Ghabah, vol. 7, pp. 140)
Refrain from severing relations with relatives
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[Kanz-ul-Iman (Translation of Quran)] (Part 4, Surah An-Nisa, verse 1)
Regarding the foregoing verse, it is stated in Tafsir Mahari,
‘That is, refrain from breaking off relations.’
(Tafsir MaKhari, vol. 2, pp. 3)
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Purposely considering the severing of relations as
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‘One who severs relations will not enter Paradise.’
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relations alal and permissible despite being aware of it being
aram, without any cause and doubt, is Kafir [unbeliever] and will
remain in Hell forever. He will not enter Paradise. Alternatively,
it implies that he will not enter Paradise with those entering
it first. Or it implies that he will not enter Paradise even with
those spared from torment (i.e., he will enter Paradise after
being tormented). (Mirqat, vol. 7, TaEt Al-4adiš 4922)
It is stated in Tafhim-ul-Bukhari: Scholars have no disagreement
over the fact that treating relatives with kindness is Wajib and
breaking off relations is a grave sin. There are some levels of
treating a relative with kindness, the least of which is to remove
grudge and to treat him with good manners by saying Salam to
him and talking to him. There might be different conditions of
treating relatives with kindness, depending upon the capability
and the necessity to do it. In some cases, treating relatives with
kindness is Wajib [essential], whereas in some other cases it is
Mustaab [preferential]. In some particular cases, if someone
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treats his relatives with kindness, though not fully, he will still
not be regarded to have severed relations.
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Here is an informative Fatwa extracted from pages 647 and 648
of the 13th volume of Fatawa Razawiyyah:
How is it to say the sentence ‘you are not my brother’
to a real brother?
Question: If Zayd says the sentence ‘you are not my brother’ to
his real brother in a gathering reciting Kalimah loudly, conspiring
against him; does Shari’ah require Zayd to pay any type of
expiation in this situation? What and how much expiation does
he have to pay, if obligatory?
79. Answer: If his brother has treated him unfairly contrary to
brotherhood, then he will not be taken to task because what he
has said does not mean the denial of reality but that of the
brotherly favour, i.e. he said this sentence because his brother
did not treat him the way he should have done. If it is not so
and Zayd said this without any Shar’i reason, then he has
committed three grave sins: (1) A blatant lie (2) Severing of
relations (3) Hurting a Muslim’s feelings. It is Far for him to
repent and obligatory to apologize to his brother.
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Mercy does not descend in the presence of
relations-severing person
It is stated in abarani that Sayyiduna A’mash 8/9:
82. 1 said, ‘I urge the relations-severing
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because the
doors of the sky are closed for the relations-severing person
(i.e. if he stays here, mercy will not descend, preventing our
prayer from being answered).
(Al-Mu’jam-ul-Kabir, vol. 9, pp. 158, Raqm 8793)
Make reconciliation with displeased relatives
Dear Islamic brothers! The foregoing blessed adiš contains a
great deal of admonition for those falling out with their sisters,
daughters, paternal and maternal aunts, uncles and nephews,
etc on trivial matters. If any of your relatives has fallen out with
you, so it is my Madani request that you should be the first to
get reconciled with him even if he is at fault. Contact him and
meet him with a smiling face, restoring the ruptured relations.
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Relations-severing person
is deprived of forgiveness
The Renowned and Revered Prophet
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those bearing malice with each other and severing relations.
(Al-Mu’jam-ul-Kabir li
-Labarani, vol. 1, pp. 167, 4adiš 409)
Accountability on the complaint of Amanah (entrustment)
and ilah-Rimi (kind treatment to relatives)
The Holiest and Greatest Prophet 7/
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Entrustment and treating relatives with kindness will be sent,
so they will stand at the right and left side of the ira bridge.
(GaEiE Muslim, pp. 127, 4adiš 339)
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the greatest honour given to these two attributes. These two will
be made to stand at the sides of the ira bridge for intercession
and complaint. Their intercession will bring about salvation and
their complaint will result in torment. This blessed saying shows
that one should fulfil Amanah [entrustment] as well as the rights
of relatives because carelessness in these matters lead to terrible
trouble. Their complaint will cause one to fall there but their
intercession will lead to salvation from Hell.
(Mirat-ul-ManajiE, vol. 7, pp. 424)
Torment for breaking off relations
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deposit their belongings with him as entrustment. A person
deposited ten thousand gold coins with him as entrustment and
went on a journey for some work. After he returned from the
journey, he learnt that the Khurasanian person had died. He
asked the family members of the deceased about his entrustment
but they denied all knowledge of it. The gold coins-entrusting
person consulted with the scholars of Makkah Mukarramah
about the issue, they replied, ‘We hope that the Khurasanian
person would be a Heaven-dweller. Go to the Zamzam well after
half of or three quarters of night have passed. Call him with his
name and ask him.’ He did so for three nights but received
no reply. When he informed the scholars about it, they uttered,
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Yemen is a well namely ‘Burhut’. After you reach the well, call
him in the same way.’ He did so and received a reply on the
very first call. The deceased said, ‘I have buried it at so-and-so
place of my home. I have not even informed any of my family
members about it. Go to my son and dig the ground I have
identified, and you will find your money.’ Therefore, he did so
and found his gold coins. He asked the deceased Khurasanian
person, ‘You were a very pious person, why have you been
brought here?’ He replied, ‘Some of my relatives used to live in
Khurasan. I had broken off relations with them and died without
getting reconciled with them. Thus I was brought here as torment
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It is Wajib to treat certain relatives with kindness
It is stated on pages 558 and 559 of the 3rd volume of the 1196-
page book Bahar-e-Shari’at published by Maktaba-tul-Madinah,
publishing department of Dawat-e-Islami: Which are the relatives
that must be treated with kindness as a Wajib obligation? Some
scholars have stated that they are ‘Zu-Rim Maram’ and some
other stated that they are Zu-Rim relatives regardless of whether
they are Maram or not. Apparently, the latter ruling is more
accurate. Aadiš contain an unconditional order of treating
relatives with kindness. The Holy Quran also unconditionally
stated ‘
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S ’ (i.e. the relatives). However, as there are different
levels of relations, there are also different levels of treating relatives
with kindness. Parents have the greatest status. After them is
the status of ‘Zu-Rim Maram’ (i.e. the relatives marriage is
aram with forever due to Nasabi [i.e. genealogical] relation
with them). After them is the status of the rest of relatives,
depending upon how close relationship they have.
(Rad-dul-MuEtar, vol. 9, pp. 678)
What do ‘Zu-Rim Maram’ and ‘Zu-Rim’ imply?
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your relatives with kindness. Since one’s relationship with his
relatives is created by means of his parental relationship and
the kindness of his relatives towards him is lesser than that of his
parents, the right of relatives is also softer than that of parents.
Here are some pieces of advice in this regard:
First piece of advice: ‘ 1Q
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whose relationship is created by means of parental relationship
and they are also called ‘ P
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categories of them: First, relatives of the father such as paternal
grandfather and grandmother, the brother and sister of the
father etc. Second, relatives of the mother like the maternal
grandfather and grandmother, the brother and sister of the
mother and Akhyafi brothers (and sisters, i.e. the stepbrothers
and the stepsisters whose mother is the same but father is
different). Third, relatives of both of the parents such as a real
brother and sister. Whoever of them has a closer relationship
has a greater right.
Second piece of advice: There are two categories of relatives:
Under one category fall those Nikah is aram with, and they
are also called Zi-Rim Maram such as the brother and sister
of the father and the mother (Zi-Rim Maram are such close
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relatives that if one of them is supposed to be a man and the
other a woman, so Nikah is aram forever between them.
These include, for example, the father, the mother, the son, the
daughter, the brother, the sister, the brother and sister of the
father and those of the mother, the nephew and the niece etc.)
It is Far to help them in their hour of need, and one not doing
so is a sinner. Under the other category fall those relatives Nikah
is alal with; such as the offspring of paternal and maternal
uncles and those of the maternal aunt. It is Sunnah Muakkadah
[i.e. strongly advised Sunnah] and a rich reward-earning act to
treat them with kindness and with good manners. Also remember
that treating all relatives and even all Muslims with good manners
is essential and hurting their feelings is aram. (Tafsir ‘Azizi)
Third piece of advice: Distant in-laws are not included in
Zi-Rim. However, some of them are Maram such as the
mother-in-law and the Razai mother1 [i.e. the woman who has
not given birth to a baby but has suckled it within the age of
two and a half years according to the Hijri calendar]. Some of
them are not Maram but have rights. Even neighbours have
rights but these rights are not included in this verse as it refers
to Zi-Rim and other relatives. (Tafsir Na’imi, vol. 1, pp. 447)
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7 Madani pearls of treating relatives with kindness
Accept the gift of seven Madani pearls about ‘kind treatment to
relatives’ extracted from pages 559 and 560 of the 3rd volume of
the 1312-page book Bahar-e-Shari’at published by Maktaba-tul-
Madinah, the publishing department of Dawat-e-Islami.
1. Different levels of kind treatment to different relatives
Muslims have been unconditionally commanded in Aadiš to
treat relatives with kindness. The words ‘ 1Q
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were unconditionally stated in the Holy Quran. However, as
there are different levels in relationship, there are also different
levels of treating relatives with kindness, depending upon how
close a relative. Parents hold the greatest status in this matter.
After them is the status of Zu-Rim Maram (i.e. those relatives
marriage is aram forever with, due to Nasabi [genealogical]
relationship with them). After them is the status of other
relatives, depending upon how close relationship they have.
(Rad-dul-MuEtar, vol. 9, pp. 678)
2. Different conditions of treating relatives with kindness
One can treat his relatives with kindness in different ways. For
example, giving them gifts, providing them help if they need it,
saying Salam to them, meeting them, talking to them and
treating them gracefully and nicely. (Durad, vol. 1, pp. 323)
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3. Sending letters from abroad
If a person is in a foreign country, he should remain in
correspondence with his relatives so that relationship is not
broken off. If possible, he should come to his country so that
ties with his relatives are strengthened. This will also develop
harmony among relatives. (Rad-dul-MuEtar, vol. 9, pp. 678)
(Phoning relatives or staying in contact with them by the internet
is also very useful.)
4. Return from abroad if parents call you
If a person is in a foreign country and his parents call him back,
he will have to return home. Sending letters to them is not
sufficient in this case. Likewise, if his parents need to be looked
after by him, he should return and take care of them. After the
father, the grandfather and the eldest brother deserve the greatest
status. The eldest brother has the status similar to that of the
father. Similarly, eldest sister and sister of the mother have the
status similar to that of the mother.
Some scholars have stated that the brother of the father is
like the father, as is deduced from the adiš: ‘ U
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(i.e. the brother of a man’s father is like his father). As for other
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(Rad-dul-MuEtar, vol. 9, pp. 678)
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5. Meeting relatives with gaps
One should meet his relatives on alternate days or with gaps, as
appropriate, as it will develop affection. One can also meet his
relatives weekly or monthly. The whole family and community
should be united. One should also help his relatives when they
are in the right in any issue. All of them should favour the truth
with unity. (Durad, vol. 1, pp. 323)
6. Not fulfilling need of relative is sin
When any of the relatives requests help for the fulfilment of
his need we must help him because turning down this request
is like breaking ties with him. (ibid) (Remember that treating
relatives with kindness is Wajib and breaking ties is a aram
act leading to Hell.)
7. Keep relations with one who breaks relations with you
Kind treatment does not only mean treating those relatives kindly
who have treated you kindly. This is actually an ‘exchange of
treatment’. For example, sending a gift to the relative who has
sent you a gift or going to the house of one who comes to yours.
In actual fact, kind treatment means establishing ties with one
who cuts off ties with you and caring about the relative who
ignores you and stays away from you. (Rad-dul-MuEtar, vol. 9, pp. 678)
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How to think positive?
Dear Islamic brothers! All of the foregoing seven Madani pearls
deserve great consideration. The seventh point, in particular, has
been very common these days. For example, if a relative has
not invited the other relative to a wedding ceremony, the latter
does not also invite the former. If someone has invited his
relative with more people and the latter has invited the former
with a few people, the former resents it greatly, resorting to even
criticizing and backbiting. Similarly, if a relative does not attend
a ceremony of the other, the other boycotts the ceremony,
widening the gap between them. Even if someone has not
attended our ceremony, we can still have positive thinking
about him in many ways. For instance, he may have fallen ill or
forgotten or got some important piece of work or faced some
urgent problem that he may not be able to explain to us.
Anyway, whether he informs us of his absence or not, we should
have positive thinking, reaping reward and paving our way for
Paradise. The Revered and Renowned Prophet 7/
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positive thinking about Muslim and not having an ill opinion
about them is also one of the acts of excellent worship.
(Mirat-ul-ManajiE, vol. 6, pp. 621)
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Heavenly palace
Even if our relative has not deliberately met us because of
laziness or any other reason or has not invited us or has openly
mistreated us, we should still maintain ties with him, showing
broadmindedness. Sayyiduna Ubayy Bin Ka’b #/9
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One who wants a palace to be built for him (in Paradise) and
his ranks to be raised should forgive one who oppresses him,
bestow [something suitable] upon one who deprives him and
keep relations with one who breaks off relations with him.
(Al-Mustadrak lil-4akim, vol. 3, pp. 12, 4adiš 3215)
Giving adaqah to the relative having concealed enmity
Whether or not anyone treats us gracefully, we should always
treat him gracefully. It is stated in a adiš narrated in Musnad
Imam Amad: ‘ Z
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Pain caused by relative
Amir-ul-Mu`minin Sayyiduna Abu Bakr iddiq #/9
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Surah An-Nur, part 18 was revealed. The verse is as follows:
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and of (worldly) means to give to the kinmen and to the needy
and to the emigrants in the way of Allah; and they should forgive
and overlook; do you not like that Allah may forgive you? And
Allah is Forgiving, Merciful.
[Kanz-ul-Iman (Translation of Quran)] (Part 18, Surah An-Nur, verse 22)
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financial cooperation with him. The foregoing verse shows even
if a person has sworn not to do a certain thing but later on he
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learns that doing that thing is better, so he should do it and pay
expiation for breaking the oath. This is stated in an authentic
adiš.
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