While some of us still believe that impossible dreams do come true, countless others gave up this right. Over the years, various people tell us to be realistic. Even society says that we all have limits and reaching beyond these limitations is not possible. But I am firmly against that popular belief.
Chetan Bhagat’s The Girl in Room 105: Critically Appreciate Kaushal Desai
Like any other book, “The Girl in Room 105” title also contains a number likes ‘2 States’, ‘Five Points Someone’, ‘Revolution 2020’ etc. Having a number in the title has become the trademarked style for Bhagat. The book also has a lot of comedies for laugh and witty one-liners that you will enjoy.
However, something is different in the book. The book cover is not cartoonish like Bhagat’s other books. There is a photo of a real girl in the cover. The first impression from the cover is clear. This is also a romance book but with elements of mystery and tragic. There is no happy ending in the book this time.
Imagination Has Attacked! Calling All Superstudents! (Grades 7-12)GVWP2014
A collection of projects written by 7th-12th grade students at the GVWP Writing & Technology Workshop in Ripon, California. Original Cover Design by Meredith Perkins. Published June, 2014 by Great Valley Writing Project. All rights reserved. For more information, go to www.gvwp.weebly.com
Chetan Bhagat’s The Girl in Room 105: Critically Appreciate Kaushal Desai
Like any other book, “The Girl in Room 105” title also contains a number likes ‘2 States’, ‘Five Points Someone’, ‘Revolution 2020’ etc. Having a number in the title has become the trademarked style for Bhagat. The book also has a lot of comedies for laugh and witty one-liners that you will enjoy.
However, something is different in the book. The book cover is not cartoonish like Bhagat’s other books. There is a photo of a real girl in the cover. The first impression from the cover is clear. This is also a romance book but with elements of mystery and tragic. There is no happy ending in the book this time.
Imagination Has Attacked! Calling All Superstudents! (Grades 7-12)GVWP2014
A collection of projects written by 7th-12th grade students at the GVWP Writing & Technology Workshop in Ripon, California. Original Cover Design by Meredith Perkins. Published June, 2014 by Great Valley Writing Project. All rights reserved. For more information, go to www.gvwp.weebly.com
If you want your ideas to be stickier, you’ve got to break someone’s guessing machine and then fix it. But in surprising people, in breaking their guessing machines, how do we avoid gimmicky surprise.
Common sense is the enemy of sticky messages. When messages sound like common sense, they float gently in one ear and out the other.
7th Gateway to Hell is my story from the 'Monster Attack' anthology - http://amzn.to/1AZPKhh.
"Discover the most gruesome beasts from Werewolves to Mermaids and the stories behind them, written by the most talented horror authors. Arnaldo Lopez Jr, Dana Wright, Andy Lockwood, Sharon L. Higa, Kyle Flak, Kevin S. Hall, Josh Walker, Kody Dibble, Matt Mesnard, Mathias Jansson, Lila L. Pinord, John M. Wills, Michael Shaw, Debbie Johnson, Victoria Pagac, Alex Winck, Anthony V. Pugliese, Shakeem Winn, Preston Peet, Randy Attwood, Matthew J. Hamblin, Stefan Vucak, Anthony Modungwo, Cecilia H. Doldan, Samie Sands Vered Ehsani and Robert Tozer."
Decide who you want to be because when you look around you, there are no guardrails on your life. The reality is that other people try to tell you that only certain things are right. They paint a dull path for you to follow such as go to school, get good grades, have a degree, get a decent job and retire.
How to have an invulnerable will and not to be broken is something that each one of us has control over. You decide whether or not you can be defeated and how far you are willing to go. And all of it comes down to one simple thing in your mind which is: truly believing in what you are fighting for.
If you want your ideas to be stickier, you’ve got to break someone’s guessing machine and then fix it. But in surprising people, in breaking their guessing machines, how do we avoid gimmicky surprise.
Common sense is the enemy of sticky messages. When messages sound like common sense, they float gently in one ear and out the other.
7th Gateway to Hell is my story from the 'Monster Attack' anthology - http://amzn.to/1AZPKhh.
"Discover the most gruesome beasts from Werewolves to Mermaids and the stories behind them, written by the most talented horror authors. Arnaldo Lopez Jr, Dana Wright, Andy Lockwood, Sharon L. Higa, Kyle Flak, Kevin S. Hall, Josh Walker, Kody Dibble, Matt Mesnard, Mathias Jansson, Lila L. Pinord, John M. Wills, Michael Shaw, Debbie Johnson, Victoria Pagac, Alex Winck, Anthony V. Pugliese, Shakeem Winn, Preston Peet, Randy Attwood, Matthew J. Hamblin, Stefan Vucak, Anthony Modungwo, Cecilia H. Doldan, Samie Sands Vered Ehsani and Robert Tozer."
Decide who you want to be because when you look around you, there are no guardrails on your life. The reality is that other people try to tell you that only certain things are right. They paint a dull path for you to follow such as go to school, get good grades, have a degree, get a decent job and retire.
How to have an invulnerable will and not to be broken is something that each one of us has control over. You decide whether or not you can be defeated and how far you are willing to go. And all of it comes down to one simple thing in your mind which is: truly believing in what you are fighting for.
In life, how to transform your limiting beliefs is a necessity because they are just assumptions you make about reality. They are not true but only interpretations of past events and experiences. These sour ideas do not help or serve you. Instead, they hinder you, blocking you from reaching your goals.
A lot of people misinterpret why thinking big is such a great deal. They rather settle for less than more. Yet, greatness and extraordinary results stand for gigantic desires. Pursuing an existence regardless of the odds is the greatest life you can possibly live. So, to be great, you have to think big.
There is no known shortcut on how to be a champion in life. Winning has very little to do with luck or chance but rather with the end result of all the work you put in. So, to have the heart of a winner, you need the dedication of one who knows what he wants and what he has to do to achieve it.
Very often, the greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do. There are great joy and satisfaction to prove others wrong and build the life you want. And yes, at times, a person must travel many roads to find its true nature. But I dare you to show them that they are wrong about you.
Once you look all around you, you realize that all living creatures are miracles of nature. Our world is full of real wonders which make it incredible if you are willing to view it that way. However, sadly enough, most people’s outlook on life is to take everything around them for granted or with despair.
Since childhood, I firmly believe that animals are way smarter than we think. And that we human beings, as a species, are just being too arrogant. Scientific evidence proves that our planet is not the epicenter of the solar system, but today it also shows that we are not the only center of intelligence.
In this beautiful world, animals deserve respect as much as people. They have as much right to live as us, human beings. It is our world, but it is their world too. So, this planet belongs to all creatures living on it. Yet, many are against this notion, since they believe that animals do not have feelings or a soul.
How and why you should always listen to your heart is one of the best things I learned in life. When you follow it, it often leads you on the right path. It is when you do not comply with it that things go wrong. You might not always approve or like what it has to say. Yet, it is constantly honest with you.
Never a failure, always a lesson is an approach that shows you that it never is the end of the road. Everyone fails in life. At one point or another in your existence, you are going to fail. It is inevitable! And although it hurts each time you do, it helps build you up into the person you are today.
Here is an excellent reason why you should assess your life. If at times, you do not evaluate or adjust your goals based on your purpose, or mission statement, you may spend your whole life climbing the ladder of success, only to realize, once you get to the top, that it is leaning against the wrong wall.
In the course of our life, we have to agree that there is no beauty without struggle. No one likes to hear the story of someone who got everything easily. People want to listen to the stories of men and women who, while born in the valley of struggle, endured pain and turned their battles into a gift.
Early on in life, I discovered that you only need to try to be better than who you were yesterday and not compare yourself to anyone. But, at times, I still do, like any human being. This world is in constant flux and change. And yet, most people are comparing rather than focusing on themselves.
It comes as no surprise that often, fear stands for false events appearing real. While most people accept this saying as an indisputable fact, sometimes this suggested feeling may be real. In life, at times, we have perfectly good reasons to be afraid. But why this emotion influences so many of us?
Why every flower must grow through dirt is a gentle reminder that nothing worth having comes easy. We may look at beautiful things and successful people with envy. But if we take a deeper look, it is clear that we often forget that anything worthwhile had to struggle before rising to beauty and success.
Numerous times, growing up in a broken home builds further willpower and even motivates many to fight back and pave their own road; one that leads to success. These successful
people which made history defied all odds and turned their failures into an achieved success.
Following the first part of my unbelievable story of failure and persistence, this last portion shows you how I turned obstacles and tenacity into boldness and audacity. You have to realize that when back up into a corner, you only have two choices: either fight or give up. What would you do?
Through this unbelievable story of failure and persistence, you realize that behind every success is an uneasy path. There are fiasco, embarrassing efforts, barriers, setbacks and even, drastic changes of direction. It always is the first awkward steps on the road to be successful in anything you undertake.
Like any athlete or successful person, you need to sharpen the axe to reach your goals. It Means working smarter and more easily by preserving and enhancing the greatest asset you have – You. At 15 years old, when I was a racehorse jockey, there would always be an influx of new apprentices on the race
track after the winter months as they had set a resolution to become a racehorse rider.
Welcome to the Program Your Destiny course. In this course, we will be learning the technology of personal transformation, neuroassociative conditioning (NAC) as pioneered by Tony Robbins. NAC is used to deprogram negative neuroassociations that are causing approach avoidance and instead reprogram yourself with positive neuroassociations that lead to being approach automatic. In doing so, you change your destiny, moving towards unlocking the hypersocial self within, the true self free from fear and operating from a place of personal power and love.
1. Sergei VanBellinghen
Impossible Dreams Do Come True
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While some of us still believe that impossible dreams do come true, countless others gave
up this right. Over the years, various people tell us to be realistic. Even society says that
we all have limits and reaching beyond these limitations is not possible. But I am firmly
against that popular belief.
So, how can you overcome your limits? What is being realistic anyway? Can dreams
become real?
The thing you must understand is that virtually everything and anything is possible for you
to create. If you believe and take the time required to form the necessary skills, whatever
you want, do come true. However, you must also collect the essential resources to bring
you there.
But the most important elements for impossible dreams to come into existence are the
belief in yourself and your abilities to learn. Your beliefs determine your actions which in
turn determine your results. So, if you do not believe you can succeed, then you will not
reach your visions. Quite simple!
Realistic and Unrealistic
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2. And when people tell you to be realistic, ignore them. In this world, all progress depends on
those being unrealistic. The only reference people with limits have is some event or person
that achieved something in the past. Those limitations were impossible dreams years
before, yet someone realized them.
However, could you imagine what would happen if everyone only tries to achieve what
others have already accomplished? I believe the human race would still be at the Stone
Age.
So, it is a fact that you and I, all of us are born to brilliance and that success is achievable
by anyone. If you read their biographies, most successful people or greatest performers are
self-made and not born with a gift. Therefore, the only problem for most people is that, for
some reason, they do not believe in themselves enough or for their dreams to come true.
Impossible Dreams Are Possible
If history teaches us anything, it is that when people assumed things are not achievable,
some others preserve the impossible dreams alive. Those are the ones who still dreamed,
making things possible so that it may come true over time. These pioneers did not listen to
anyone who told them to be realistic. If they did, the world today would still be living in
caves.
So, regardless of whether society considers it unrealistic, it is the pioneers, the misfits, and
the mavericks who make it happen. They are the ones who follow their heart, stand up for
an idea and go after it. It is these brave men and women who persistently push the limits of
what the world believes possible. As a result, they are the people who end up remembered
in history.
“Dream the impossible because dreams do come true.” – Elijah Wood
All Can Come True
Playing it safe will bring you nowhere; it is only out of fear and ignorance that people do. In
some situations, it may be good to do so. But most successful people will also tell you that
you have to take some uneasy risks at times.
And so you have to make a choice, with incontestable belief. You need to give your
impossible dreams a ‘go,’ or things will never happen, or even come true. Sometimes you
have to take uncalculated risks to have what you want. You need to see it in your mind and
work it into your reality.
And yes, life is like the art of drawing without an eraser. But life has lessons that no one
teaches you in school. Instead, the education system makes you learn history by
memorizing dates or events but never the real lesson.
A Story about Impossible Dreams
In November 1989, I told my mother that I was leaving for an international competition in
the USA, but that this time I will not come back. The day after, I left my mother and my
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3. grandparents behind me, not knowing what lay ahead. Waving as I went, I saw her cry for
me for the first time.
As we landed on the tarmac in New York, I could see, from the window of the plane, the
Twin towers standing out in downtown. The horse vaulting competition took place but right
after, taking advantage of a window of opportunity, I defected.
Being from the Soviet Union, I did not know anyone in this new country, had no place to
stay or even a job to rely on. I only had a city name on a piece of paper and fifty dollars
hidden in my pocket. And I did not even speak English. Impossible dreams you say. Yet I
felt my gut tell me: hunt your dream!
Taking the Risk
And yes, I guess I was taking a high risk to make things come true, but I had nothing to
lose. Instead, I had maybe a lot to gain. I soon took a bus to Atlanta, Georgia, then another
one going south of the country. We were a Sunday, 5.30 in the morning, when I arrived at
the little Greyhound station in Camden, South Carolina.
Outside in the cold, I said to myself “What should I do now?” So I decided to walk down the
long street I was on called ‘Fair Street.’ As I was looking at the houses, my eyes flashed on
a big white one, with two columns in front of it.
I felt my intuition telling me “Maybe you should knock at the door and ask for help.” So after
a minute of hesitation, following my feelings, I mustered my courage, went to the door and
knocked. A girl wearing jeans came down the stairs. I could see her through the small glass
windows of the front door where I was standing.
When Things Come True
She did not open the door right away but just asked me what I wanted. I could not speak
English, so I got my Russian-English dictionary to find the words I desired to express. After
a few minutes, I finally succeeded to make her understand that I wanted a job and a place
to live. She seemed not surprised at my request.
Afterwards, the door opened, she let me in the hallway with my suitcase and asked me if I
had different clothes to put on. But I could not understand her, so she opened my bag to
find a pair of jeans. And when she saw them, she gave them to me saying that I had to
wear them.
After changing my clothes, she told me to follow her. She asked me the line of work I was
in. I said to her that I worked with horses and was a rider. Her face lit and explained to me
that she was a horse farm manager. Suddenly, it all made sense. Impossible dreams do
come true! I was at the right place at the right time.
A Life Changing Opportunity
We got in her car and during the ride to the horse farm where she worked; she tried to
speak to me but without real success. Finally we arrived at a horse farm called “Sandy
Dubose Farm.” It was a very big and beautiful place where horses grew for horse racing.
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4. My new friend named Mary Smith told me to wait. Then she left to talk to the owner to see if
she could get me a job. She came back after fifteen minutes later, announcing to me that I
was hired as an exercise boy, a morning jockey if you will. My work was to ride and train
horses each morning.
The Horse farm owner loved European horse riders and was glad to have me on her team.
My impossible dreams had led me to a life-changing opportunity. Yet, there was more to
come. Mary told me that after work, we would look for a place to live, and she had a good
idea of where.
The house where Mary was living in on Fair Street divided into four apartments. She lived
on the second floor but there was no room for me as it was too small. But that across the
hall from her lived another girl, Bridget. And as she had a two bedrooms apartment, she
maybe needed a roommate to share the rent with her.
So we finished my first day at work, the horses being cleaned and fed, we went to another
horse farm. It was where the other girl worked. We found her riding. Bridget was a pretty
blonde with green eyes. After telling her my story, Mary asked her if she was interested in
having a roommate, and she agreed.
And that is how, in a few hours’ time, I got a job and a place to live in the United States. So
never give up on your dreams because impossible dreams do come true if you want them
hard enough.
You Can Do Anything
People often forget that life gives them countless of possibilities and choices. They are too
busy in their day-to-day routine that they lose sight of what they can do if they put their
minds to it. Understand that a vegetable seed has no other choice than to become a
vegetable. Its fate is locked into that one reality. But you have infinite potential at your
disposal. You can do anything you want.
Think any thought you desire.
Change careers.
Learn any language.
Travel to any country.
Learn any craft or skill.
Start any business.
Begin any project.
So, do not be afraid to have impossible dreams others think are unimaginable. Start
working towards them. Be crazy in your dreams. Plan when you can. But remember that
you have to take risks when you can’t. To discover your true limits and what can come true,
you do need to challenge your own beliefs about what is real or not.
If you feel like sharing your impossible dreams, I amhere for you.
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