Growing Up Chaim: The Impact of Ethnic
Names On Employment & Education
Presented by: Chaim Shapiro-Touro College
Say It With Me…Chaim
• The “Ch” sound doesn't occur in English-
• Common issue in languages
o Challenge phrase on D-Day-Welcome/Welcome or
Flash/Thunder
o “W” sound and “Th” sound
o Band of Brothers story
• L’Chaim-like the toast?
Say It With Me…Chaim (Cont)
• I still don’t get it? “Chain”?
• Chaim Vs Nechama
o Which would you more likely attempt?
o Nechama vs Nekama-close but VERY different
• Other Hebrew letters: “Tz” as in Tzvi
Barack Obama
Vs
Chaim Shapiro
• Recognizable vs unrecognizable
• Pronounceable vs non-pronounceable
This is NOT just a Jewish challenge
• This is NOT an all inclusive list
• Ethnic African American names
• Asian names
• Muslim names
• Latino names
• Native American names
• Where the Street Has No Name
What Is In A Name?
EVERYTHING
• Identity
o The MOST fundamental part of our identity
o My name-right or...wrong?
• Pride
• Heritage
Sticks and Stones May Break My
Bones BUT Names…
• Names in traditional Judaism
o Named for relatives
o Which name shall we use?
o Divinely ordained?
o Calling an audible
o How I got my full name
Zorach
• Come again? Zorach
o Unusual even among Orthodox Jews
o So rare that It is ACTUALLY the wrong name!
o LinkedIn Search: “Chaim” 10 K: “Zorach” 447
Growing Up Chaim
• VERY aware people can’t pronounce it
o At the circus-6 years old
o Blech…aim
o Assume they can’t
o Apologizing for your name
o Frustration
o I KNOW they are trying
The Curious Case of Greg Button
• I changed the student’s name for this
presentation
• Chassidic student-full Chassidic garb
• Internal Vs External names
• The impact of the Holocaust
• Little ditty about Jack and Eileen
Changing Your Name
• I see this all the time at Touro
• Is this a betrayal?
• Will I be discriminated against?
• Will they make assumptions about me?
• What about “Bob”?
• Talk radio caller “Brian”
Does this REALLY matter?
• Warren Wilson Story-Society is changing
• We are not there yet
• Is there privilege in a name?
• I’m trying…
o Conference name badges
o Apologizing when they try
o NACE14 Video
You said what?
• Turning on Telemarketers
• Tonight Is Going To Be a Good Night-L’Chaim
• Chaim Zorach Shapiro- Life shines beautifully?
• Name withheld by request
• Grad School paper presentations
o APA Format
o ZORACH-Its Klingon
o Isn’t that more of a Romulan name?
Relative Comfort Level
• I’ve given up, BUT I work in a very accepting
profession
• Venturing out for the first time
• Come ON already
• R E S P E C T
What Can We Do As Professionals?
• Avoid the Warren Wilson mistake
• Ask if you are not sure
• Try again
• Ask “is this right”
• Their apology shouldn’t be your excuse
• Work on it
• Apologize if you have to
Contact Me
• Chaim.shapiro@touro.edu ;
chaimshapiro@gmail.com
• 718-535-9375
• https://www.linkedin.com/in/chaimshapiro/
• @ChaimShapiro on Twitter
This Presentation is SHRM-Certified
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and Employers (EACE) is recognized
by SHRM to offer Professional
Development Credits (PDCs) for the
SHRM-CPSM or SHRM-SCPSM. Please
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Growing Up Chaim

  • 1.
    Growing Up Chaim:The Impact of Ethnic Names On Employment & Education Presented by: Chaim Shapiro-Touro College
  • 2.
    Say It WithMe…Chaim • The “Ch” sound doesn't occur in English- • Common issue in languages o Challenge phrase on D-Day-Welcome/Welcome or Flash/Thunder o “W” sound and “Th” sound o Band of Brothers story • L’Chaim-like the toast?
  • 3.
    Say It WithMe…Chaim (Cont) • I still don’t get it? “Chain”? • Chaim Vs Nechama o Which would you more likely attempt? o Nechama vs Nekama-close but VERY different • Other Hebrew letters: “Tz” as in Tzvi
  • 4.
    Barack Obama Vs Chaim Shapiro •Recognizable vs unrecognizable • Pronounceable vs non-pronounceable
  • 5.
    This is NOTjust a Jewish challenge • This is NOT an all inclusive list • Ethnic African American names • Asian names • Muslim names • Latino names • Native American names • Where the Street Has No Name
  • 6.
    What Is InA Name? EVERYTHING • Identity o The MOST fundamental part of our identity o My name-right or...wrong? • Pride • Heritage
  • 7.
    Sticks and StonesMay Break My Bones BUT Names… • Names in traditional Judaism o Named for relatives o Which name shall we use? o Divinely ordained? o Calling an audible o How I got my full name
  • 8.
    Zorach • Come again?Zorach o Unusual even among Orthodox Jews o So rare that It is ACTUALLY the wrong name! o LinkedIn Search: “Chaim” 10 K: “Zorach” 447
  • 9.
    Growing Up Chaim •VERY aware people can’t pronounce it o At the circus-6 years old o Blech…aim o Assume they can’t o Apologizing for your name o Frustration o I KNOW they are trying
  • 10.
    The Curious Caseof Greg Button • I changed the student’s name for this presentation • Chassidic student-full Chassidic garb • Internal Vs External names • The impact of the Holocaust • Little ditty about Jack and Eileen
  • 11.
    Changing Your Name •I see this all the time at Touro • Is this a betrayal? • Will I be discriminated against? • Will they make assumptions about me? • What about “Bob”? • Talk radio caller “Brian”
  • 12.
    Does this REALLYmatter? • Warren Wilson Story-Society is changing • We are not there yet • Is there privilege in a name? • I’m trying… o Conference name badges o Apologizing when they try o NACE14 Video
  • 13.
    You said what? •Turning on Telemarketers • Tonight Is Going To Be a Good Night-L’Chaim • Chaim Zorach Shapiro- Life shines beautifully? • Name withheld by request • Grad School paper presentations o APA Format o ZORACH-Its Klingon o Isn’t that more of a Romulan name?
  • 14.
    Relative Comfort Level •I’ve given up, BUT I work in a very accepting profession • Venturing out for the first time • Come ON already • R E S P E C T
  • 15.
    What Can WeDo As Professionals? • Avoid the Warren Wilson mistake • Ask if you are not sure • Try again • Ask “is this right” • Their apology shouldn’t be your excuse • Work on it • Apologize if you have to
  • 16.
    Contact Me • Chaim.shapiro@touro.edu; chaimshapiro@gmail.com • 718-535-9375 • https://www.linkedin.com/in/chaimshapiro/ • @ChaimShapiro on Twitter
  • 17.
    This Presentation isSHRM-Certified The Eastern Association of Colleges and Employers (EACE) is recognized by SHRM to offer Professional Development Credits (PDCs) for the SHRM-CPSM or SHRM-SCPSM. Please record the activity ID below for self- reporting. This presentation, Activity ID 21-G9JSG is valid for 1.00 PDC for the SHRM-CPSM or SHRM SCPSM. For more information about certification or recertification, please visit www.shrmcertification.org.