Gossip
Moderator
Zulaikha Binti Zulkifli
(4192008141D)
Panel 1
Nurul Hannah Binti
Mohd Rofidi
(4192008651D)
Panel 2
Hani Arissa Binti
Harman
(4192008661D)
Panel 3
Nur Fatin Athirah Binti
Mohd Fareh
(4193001461)
Gossip
Gossip is usually about
things like love and
relationships, or private
things that people don’t
want others to know.
Rumor
A rumor is a statement (or report)
that is being said without knowing if
it is true or not.
What is the
difference
between Gossip
and Rumor?
RumoursGossip
casual talk about
other people’s private
lives (might be
unkind, disapproving,
true or not true)
Have you heard the
latest gossip about
Tom cruise?
information that is
passed from one
person to another and
that may or may not
be true
I heard rumours that
he was going to be
promoted.
Real or made up
Rumors and Gossip might be
true, they might be partially
true, or totally made up. Unless
someone can definitely say the
story is true -it will stay a
rumour or gossip story!
Rumors and Gossip
spread
From person to person, or
can spread from one person
to a bunch of people at once.
This is usually done behind
the person’s back.
Rumors and Gossip
can change
They can change slightly each
time they’re told, so they get
more exaggerated over time
Rumor Example
I heard that anybody who fails
the next Sociolinguistics exam is
going to have to repeat the
subject next semester.
What are some rumor/gossip
examples that you have heard?
Why do people
gossip and
spread rumors?
● To feel superior
● To feel part of a group
● For attention
● For control or power
● Out of jealousy/revenge
● Out of boredom
Why It Hurts,
Why It Wrong?
Words hurt as much or more
than a punch!
Gossip and rumors can be a
form of exclusion -leaving
someone out!
Gossip and rumors DESTROY
TRUST
True or not, private is private!
Breaking the chain
Decide whether the
rumor or gossip is hurtful
or harmless by asking
yourself the following
questions.
How do you go about
Breaking The Chain of
rumors and gossip?
Triple Filter Test
Triple Filter Questions
Before telling someone something
ask yourself these questions:
Is it True?
Is it Good?
Is it Useful?
If you can’t say yes-
DON’T REPEAT
THE RUMOR
Someone Want To Tell
You A Rumor
1. Refuse to repeat rumors or gossip
2. Tell the person to stop spreading
rumors or gossip
Look the rumor-gossiper in the eye and
using a strong (but not raised like yelling or
angry) voice and say,
“That sound like a rumor. You should talk to
(the name the rumor is about) and
not spread that rumor to anyone else”
To Tell or Not To Tell
You are in the cafe at Unisel. You hear a
girl planning a party and she distinctly
says “I am not inviting Sarah”
Sarah is a good friend of yours, how many
of you tell her what you have heard?
Rule of Thumb
➔ If it’s going to hurt the other person to
hear it.....don’t tell the person!
➔ If you hear it from a third party, go with
the assumption it is not true.
➔ If you know the rumor is false-say so!
Other statements to say
That sounds like a rumor to me!
You don’t have proof of that!
You don’t know if that’s true!
That sounds like something you should
talk about with the person involved.
STOP GOSSIP
Conclusion
● When people gossip it’s because
they can’t deal with negative issues
in their own lives, and it’s easier for
them to criticize others than to face
their own situation.
● And finally it gives people a feeling
of power.

Gossip

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    Panel 1 Nurul HannahBinti Mohd Rofidi (4192008651D)
  • 4.
    Panel 2 Hani ArissaBinti Harman (4192008661D)
  • 5.
    Panel 3 Nur FatinAthirah Binti Mohd Fareh (4193001461)
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    Gossip Gossip is usuallyabout things like love and relationships, or private things that people don’t want others to know.
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    Rumor A rumor isa statement (or report) that is being said without knowing if it is true or not.
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    RumoursGossip casual talk about otherpeople’s private lives (might be unkind, disapproving, true or not true) Have you heard the latest gossip about Tom cruise? information that is passed from one person to another and that may or may not be true I heard rumours that he was going to be promoted.
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    Real or madeup Rumors and Gossip might be true, they might be partially true, or totally made up. Unless someone can definitely say the story is true -it will stay a rumour or gossip story!
  • 11.
    Rumors and Gossip spread Fromperson to person, or can spread from one person to a bunch of people at once. This is usually done behind the person’s back.
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    Rumors and Gossip canchange They can change slightly each time they’re told, so they get more exaggerated over time
  • 13.
    Rumor Example I heardthat anybody who fails the next Sociolinguistics exam is going to have to repeat the subject next semester. What are some rumor/gossip examples that you have heard?
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    Why do people gossipand spread rumors?
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    ● To feelsuperior ● To feel part of a group ● For attention ● For control or power ● Out of jealousy/revenge ● Out of boredom
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    Words hurt asmuch or more than a punch! Gossip and rumors can be a form of exclusion -leaving someone out! Gossip and rumors DESTROY TRUST True or not, private is private!
  • 18.
    Breaking the chain Decidewhether the rumor or gossip is hurtful or harmless by asking yourself the following questions.
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    How do yougo about Breaking The Chain of rumors and gossip?
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    Triple Filter Questions Beforetelling someone something ask yourself these questions: Is it True? Is it Good? Is it Useful? If you can’t say yes- DON’T REPEAT THE RUMOR
  • 22.
    Someone Want ToTell You A Rumor 1. Refuse to repeat rumors or gossip 2. Tell the person to stop spreading rumors or gossip
  • 23.
    Look the rumor-gossiperin the eye and using a strong (but not raised like yelling or angry) voice and say, “That sound like a rumor. You should talk to (the name the rumor is about) and not spread that rumor to anyone else”
  • 24.
    To Tell orNot To Tell You are in the cafe at Unisel. You hear a girl planning a party and she distinctly says “I am not inviting Sarah” Sarah is a good friend of yours, how many of you tell her what you have heard?
  • 25.
    Rule of Thumb ➔If it’s going to hurt the other person to hear it.....don’t tell the person! ➔ If you hear it from a third party, go with the assumption it is not true. ➔ If you know the rumor is false-say so!
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    Other statements tosay That sounds like a rumor to me! You don’t have proof of that! You don’t know if that’s true! That sounds like something you should talk about with the person involved.
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    Conclusion ● When peoplegossip it’s because they can’t deal with negative issues in their own lives, and it’s easier for them to criticize others than to face their own situation. ● And finally it gives people a feeling of power.