Communication With Old
  People: 3 Important Rules To
           Remember

              Michael Lee
http://www.20daypersuasion.com/secrets.htm
Communication with old people involves
  more than just words and our sense of
 hearing. We also use our sense of sight,
    smell, touch, and most of all, our
               cognition.
Communicating with the elderly can
prove to be challenging, especially when
taking into consideration their decline in
     mental and physical abilities.
This is why it’s important to learn how to
 effectively handle communication with
old people - especially if you have a loved
 one, relative or friend who you want to
maintain and nurture a relationship with.
Here are 3 important rules to remember:
Step 1: Be Respectful.
Respect the elderly person’s values,
 backgrounds and life experiences. Don’t
try to impose your own views, or insist on
 correcting their opinions even when you
           disagree with them.
You should also respect their privacy
when they prefer to be left on their own.
   When old people are talking, listen
actively. Let them finish and don’t try to
        interrupt or cut them off.
Letting them express their thoughts and
       emotions is important when
communicating with the elderly. Besides,
   you can always benefit from the life
         lessons they may impart.
Step 2: Be Sensitive.
Sometimes, the physical or mental state
  of old people can stand in the way of
 expressing their needs. More than just
   their physical needs (such as food,
clothing, and so on), it is also important
to be mindful of their emotional needs.
Listen to the said and unsaid. Do they
 seem lonely? Do you feel like they need
company? When in their company, try to
   tell if they’d rather chat or be quiet.
When you feel like they’d want to be
quiet, do not try starting a conversation
  or keep asking them questions. Just
being there, spending time with them, is
   as important as talking to them or
           cheering them up.
Step 3: Be Patient.
As communication with old people can
 be difficult, it is important to be always
 patient. When talking or explaining to
them, remain patient when they ask you
            to repeat yourself.
When it takes them a while to finish what
they are doing or saying, quietly wait for
  them. Try using gestures along with
 words, or write down what you want to
 say when necessary. Use simple words
             and sentences.
Though it may be challenging, effective
 communication with old people can be
 very rewarding. Being able to speak to
and understand your loved ones, even in
 their twilight years, is always worth the
                   effort.
Presentation By:
            Michael Lee
    Persuasion Expert and Author
http://www.20daypersuasion.com/secrets.htm

Communication With Old People: 3 Important Rules To Remember

  • 1.
    Communication With Old People: 3 Important Rules To Remember Michael Lee http://www.20daypersuasion.com/secrets.htm
  • 2.
    Communication with oldpeople involves more than just words and our sense of hearing. We also use our sense of sight, smell, touch, and most of all, our cognition.
  • 3.
    Communicating with theelderly can prove to be challenging, especially when taking into consideration their decline in mental and physical abilities.
  • 4.
    This is whyit’s important to learn how to effectively handle communication with old people - especially if you have a loved one, relative or friend who you want to maintain and nurture a relationship with. Here are 3 important rules to remember:
  • 5.
    Step 1: BeRespectful.
  • 6.
    Respect the elderlyperson’s values, backgrounds and life experiences. Don’t try to impose your own views, or insist on correcting their opinions even when you disagree with them.
  • 7.
    You should alsorespect their privacy when they prefer to be left on their own. When old people are talking, listen actively. Let them finish and don’t try to interrupt or cut them off.
  • 8.
    Letting them expresstheir thoughts and emotions is important when communicating with the elderly. Besides, you can always benefit from the life lessons they may impart.
  • 9.
    Step 2: BeSensitive.
  • 10.
    Sometimes, the physicalor mental state of old people can stand in the way of expressing their needs. More than just their physical needs (such as food, clothing, and so on), it is also important to be mindful of their emotional needs.
  • 11.
    Listen to thesaid and unsaid. Do they seem lonely? Do you feel like they need company? When in their company, try to tell if they’d rather chat or be quiet.
  • 12.
    When you feellike they’d want to be quiet, do not try starting a conversation or keep asking them questions. Just being there, spending time with them, is as important as talking to them or cheering them up.
  • 13.
    Step 3: BePatient.
  • 14.
    As communication withold people can be difficult, it is important to be always patient. When talking or explaining to them, remain patient when they ask you to repeat yourself.
  • 15.
    When it takesthem a while to finish what they are doing or saying, quietly wait for them. Try using gestures along with words, or write down what you want to say when necessary. Use simple words and sentences.
  • 16.
    Though it maybe challenging, effective communication with old people can be very rewarding. Being able to speak to and understand your loved ones, even in their twilight years, is always worth the effort.
  • 17.
    Presentation By: Michael Lee Persuasion Expert and Author http://www.20daypersuasion.com/secrets.htm