Mary's father had vascular dementia and uncontrolled diabetes, and refused any help from caregivers sent by agencies. The agencies suggested placing him in a facility or sedating him, but Mary wanted a better solution. She found a consultant who recommended a caregiver from Tender Rose that was able to gain Mr. Jones' trust by learning about his interests and pretending initially just to check his blood sugar levels. This caregiver slowly increased visits until Mr. Jones welcomed her into his home for 10 hours a day to provide needed care. As a result, Mr. Jones' diabetes is now under control and he is happier, allowing Mary to care for her father at home instead of placing him elsewhere against his will.