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Beyond judgment and niceness nonviolent communication
1. "The mind creates the abyss and the heart crosses it."
Sri Nisargadatta
Nonviolent Communication
Beyond Judgment and Niceness
Lucy Leu, Certified Trainer, Center for Nonviolent Communication
It's Friday afternoon. It was a long week and then a long wait
at the supermarket, but finally you are home, arms loaded
down with groceries. You open the door which gets caught
against a pile of dirty socks then trip over a dozen video
game magazines and three bags of potato chip (crumbs) on
your way to the kitchen. Your eyes search in vain amidst the
dishes and pots on the counter for an empty spot to deposit
your groceries. Sprawled on the couch is your teenage son,
attention riveted on the TV screen to a soundtrack of
screeching brakes, roaring engines and burning rubber.
You look at the magazines, socks and food on the floor, the
pots and dirty dishes in the kitchen. Feelings of exhaustion
and agitation arise. You are needing more order and beauty
in this place of sanctuary you call home. You would like your
son to put away his things and clean the dishes out of
appreciation for your needs or simply out of his own sense of
order.
However, instead of referring to your feelings of agitation and
need for order, you say, "This house is a mess, Felix, how can
you stand being such a slob? I'm not responsible for picking
up after you all the time, so please clean up." If Felix is like
most of us, he will either resist or comply with your demand
depending on how much guilt, shame, obligation, or fear (of
punishment or withdrawal of your love) he experiences. If he
does comply, you are likely to pay a high price for clean
dishes. That evening of shared warmth and relaxation you've
been longing for may suddenly turn into a chapter of the cold
war or an outright battle. Repeat this scenario over time and
the price is steep: a relationship marred by anger and
alienation between you and your son.
Dr. Marshall B. Rosenberg, founder of Nonviolent
Communication (NVC), uses the term "suicidal language": the
more we are in pain and are wanting others to respond, the
more likely we are to choose words which elicit no
compassionate recognition of our needs words which, in
fact, repel and disincline others to respond to us in the way
we'd like. For example, if I am upset and wanting people to
behave in a way that's more in harmony with my values or
desires, I tend to express myself through judgments of them
as being "inappropriate," "immoral," "wrong," etc. If I want
someone who has a different point of view to agree with me, I
might label them "stupid" or "ignorant." If I am wanting more
intimacy in our relationship than my partner does, I regard
2. him as "cold and aloof." On the other hand, if he is wanting
more intimacy than I do, I regard him as "needy and
dependent." When I am wanting more understanding than I
am getting from someone, I call them "insensitive". If I'm not
getting the respect I'd like from someone, I call them "idiots,"
"racists," "Feminazis," "bullies," "fanatics," etc.
This kind of thinking and speech leads to selffulfilling
prophecies: if I am wanting someone to share their resources,
but express myself by calling them "greedy," chances are they
will refuse to share. I then take this as "proof" that they are
indeed "greedy." Because the only satisfaction we eke out of
this mode of communication is that of "being right," all too
often in our interactions we spend our energy proving who's
right and wrong instead of devoting our combined resources
creativity, energy, intelligence, etc. to getting both our
needs met.
Unlike a language where we blame each other when we are
not getting what we want, NVC emphasizes the joy we humans
derive from our ability to contribute to each other's wellbeing.
We experience deep fulfillment from our power to engage in
actions and words that can relieve and help those who are
suffering a palpable need. All humans have the need both to
receive and to express compassion.
The symbol for NVC is the giraffe. Not only do giraffes have
the largest heart of any land animal, their height gives them a
long view. Giraffe speakers give from the heart, and are able
to see far enough to know the consequences of gifts that do
not come from the heart. NVC inspires us to give willingly
to meet each other's needs motivated by compassion rather
than by guilt, shame, fear, obligation, extrinsic rewards, or a
desire to buy love and approval. We respond to each other's
needs from the heart not out of "got to," "have to," "must,"
"supposed to," "ought to," and "should."
If compassion is a natural movement of the heart that is
inspired by the awareness of an unfulfilled need, and we wish
to respond to each other out of compassion, then it makes
sense (1) to express ourselves in such a way that our needs
are known to others, and (2) to listen to others in a way that
allows us to clearly sense their needs.
In Giraffe language, we rely on four pieces of information in
order to honestly express ourselves to others, and we listen
empathically for these same four pieces of information within
their words. We'll use the example of the parent addressing
her teenage son, and see how she might have expressed
herself differently.
1. The first piece is the observation of
whatever triggered the speaker's current state
of mind. We do our best to state our
observation free of any evaluation: "When I
see video game magazines, socks, and food on
the floor, and these pots and dirty dishes in
3. the kitchen..."
(Not: "When I see this huge mess.")
2. The second is the speaker's feelings in
response to what is observed. We do our best
to identify an emotion, sensation or state of
mind that is free of thoughts: "I feel exhausted
and agitated...."
(Not: "I feel I shouldn't leave you home by
yourself.")
3. The third is the unfulfilled need that is
generating the feelings mentioned. We try to
identify as closely as possible a universal need
or value, or at least a desire stated in positive
terms: "because I am needing more order and
beauty in my home."
(Not: "Because I don't want to come home to a
pigsty.")
4. The fourth piece is a request that provides
the listener with an opportunity to exercise
their power to respond to the speaker's need
with something immediate, concrete, and do
able. The mother offers such an opportunity
to the son by asking: "Would you be willing to
put away the things on the floor that belong to
you, toss out the garbage, and wash the dishes
in the sink?"
(Not: "Would you quit making such a mess and
do something about this room?")
When we reveal our feelings and needs, we offer others an
arena where they can express their compassion. It is our
vulnerability that inspires others to want to give to us from the
heart. We all know it's no fun giving gifts to someone who
doesn't need anything.
In a world, however, where people habitually express
themselves by blaming, analyzing and judging each other, it
may seem dangerous, if not downright dumb, to be exposing
ourselves in this vulnerable fashion. That is why it is
necessary for us to grow our Giraffe ears. Not only do we
want to be able to express our own feelings and needs, it is
equally important to be able to hear the other person's feelings
and needs behind their words, gestures, or silences.
If my partner calls me "cold and aloof," instead of hearing
judgment, I now focus my attention on his feelings and needs,
and check them out with him if I'm not sure: "When you say
that I am 'cold and aloof,' are you feeling sad, because you
have a need for more intimacy than you're getting?" If
someone calls me stupid, I may sense that she is frustrated
and wanting acknowledgment or support for her views. With
Giraffe ears, I hear no judgments of myself or of others, only
feelings and needs mine and theirs. As Dr. Rosenberg
5. Felix: "Order and beauty! Order and
beauty! Sordid and pukey! Mom, why do
you have to be so compulsive about
everything? Really!"
Mother (with Giraffe ears, hears no mockery or
accusation, because she is listening only for
feelings and needs): "So, Felix, are you
feeling kind of irritated because you'd
really like more ease...maybe more
relaxation around the way the house
looks?"
Felix: "Yeah, it's not like it's such a big
deal. I mean, do you really think we're
gonna get sick or something because
there's stuff lying around and a few dirty
dishes?"
Mother (continuing to hear what Felix is feeling
and needing behind his words rather than
getting hooked into his rhetorical question of
what she "really thinks"): "Sounds like
you're a little annoyed, and would like me
to understand that there are no harmful
consequences to the things you do around
the house."
Felix: "That's right! It's just a matter of
taste, and everyone's got their own taste.
So what I see as order isn't what you see
as order. But how come you have the
right to order me to make order for you?"
The Mother takes time to empathize with herself in silence by
getting in touch with her own feelings and needs: "Ooh, when
he talks in that tone, I get so angry I want to scream,
"Because I'm the mother, THAT'S WHY!" So what's my need
here? What's my need? Um, it sounds like I need respect,
but perhaps... it's more like consideration that I'm needing.
Yeah, I want him to consider to be aware of how much of
my life I devote to his wellbeing just out of pure and simple
love, and for him to feel moved, to want to do something I
might ask, instead of telling me that I'm ordering him around
to do something for me."
Having gotten in touch with her unfulfilled need, the mother
senses a shift in herself; she is no longer angry even as she is
aware of a deep sadness. Turning back to the conversation,
she can choose either to continue listening to Felix or to
express her own feelings and needs of the moment. She
chooses to listen some more, knowing that he will be more
able to hear her feelings and needs after he has received
adequate empathy and understanding for his own.)
Mother: "Am I hearing you say that you
want some respect for your autonomy?
6. That you'd like to be able to choose what
to do to fulfill your own sense of order,
rather than have to meet someone else's
sense of order?"
Felix: "That's exactly it, Mom. I don't see
why it's always got to be your standards
we're using. I thought this was my home
too."
Mother: "You'd like more say in how
standards are set? ...Maybe for us to
decide together how much or what kind of
order gets established?"
Felix: "Yeah, that's right. Like me, I don't
see that this place is such an impossible
wreck right now."
Mother: "So are you wanting me to
understand that the present condition
meets your standards?"
Felix: "Yeah." (Silence or a diminishing of
words is often a sign that the person has
received adequate empathy for their feelings
and needs.)
Mother (guessing at Felix's request): "So
would you like me to discuss standards
with you so that we can arrive at a
common agreement?"
Felix: "Maybe later. I'm getting hungry;
will you make dinner now?"
Mother (switching from empathy to
expression): "Well, now I am feeling really
frustrated! I did all this shopping,
bought tortellini and that really yummy
sauce, but when I come in and see the
kitchen counters and sink all full of stuff, I
don't even feel like cooking. As I told
you before, I get to feeling exhausted and
agitated because I need more order in my
environment. (Sigh) Felix, I think it
would help me know that I've been
understood if you were willing to tell me
what you just heard me say." (She makes
a request that addresses her need for
understanding.)
Felix: "You're tired and upset and don't
feel like cooking because I made such a
mess in the house."