Based on Book :Dawae Shafi by Imam Qayyam Ibn Al jawzi

1. Dawae Shafi
Dr. Kanwal Kaisser
Chapter 77-82

2. 114 chapters

3. Steps to Healing Hearts
Dua
Concept of
Tauba
Understands
Sins &
Disobedience
Effects &
Impacts of sins
Traps of Nafs
and shaitaan
Islamic
punishments
Shirk

4. Tyranny and
Oppression
Opposite to Justice

5. Levels of Oppression
• Killing kids, parents
• Learned the person, graver the sin
• Punishment for the intentional killing of a
believer as dwelling eternally in the Hell-Fire,
with the Curse and Anger of the Lord

6. Because of that, We decreed upon the Children of Israel that
whoever kills a soul unless for a soul or for corruption [done]
in the land - it is as if he had slain mankind entirely…
(Al-Maaida:32)

7. From one to Serial Killing
1. Both of them are disobedient to Allah and are to
receive Allah's Punishment, and both of them
have earned Allah's Anger and Curse, and
dwelling eternally in the Hell-Fire.
2. They both equally deserve being killed.
3. They are both equally guilty in their willingness
to kill unlawfully.
4. When someone hurts a believer, it is as if he has
hurt all the believers.

8. The Prophet ‫ﷺ‬ said: "No human being is killed unjustly,
but a part of the responsibility for that crime is laid up on
the first son of Adam (Qabil) who invented the tradition
of killing (murdering) on the earth.” (Bukhari:3335)

9. Abdullah bin 'Abbad (RA) reported that the Prophet ‫ﷺ‬ said:
"On the Day of Resurrection the slain will bring their slayer
with his forelock and his head in his hand, and his own
jugular vein meanwhile dripping with blood, and he will say:
'My Lord, he killed me', till he brings him near the throne.”
People mentioned repentance to Ibn 'Abbas (RA)' but he
recited the Verse: ( Whoever kills a believer intentionally,
his recompense is Hell to abide therein) , and said: this
Verse has not been abrogated nor changed, so how could he
benefit from any repentance?” (Tirmidhi:3029)

10. Evil Consequences
of Zina
Destruction of Society

11. Contrary to Benefit
• Global values of preserving lineage
• Protecting chastity
• Sanctity of individuals
• Spreads animosity and enmity among people
• Affects other people's wives, mothers, sisters
and daughters
• Destruction to human society

12. Imam Ahmad said: "I don't know a greater evil
after killing (an innocent person) than adultery”

13. And those who do not invoke1 with Allah another deity or kill the
soul which Allah has forbidden [to be killed], except by right, and
do not commit unlawful sexual intercourse. And whoever should
do that will meet a penalty.
(Al- Furqan:68)

14. Nor come near to adultery: for it is a shameful (deed)
and an evil, opening the road (to other evils).
(Al Israa:32)

15. Pre-emptive Measures

17. Fact Sheet Zina(victimconnect.org)
• Sexual threats----- unwanted contact----rape

25. No
connection
with Allah
Chatting
Wrong
spending
Haram
attraction
Transgressor
Breaks trusts
Corrupt
Salah

26. Khashiat
of Allah
Careful
talk
Sadaqah
zakat
Halal
attraction
Limits
Keeps
trusts
Sunnah
Salah

27. Loss Impact
Unfaithful
Untrustworthy
After marriage issues

29. Steps to Healing Hearts
Dua
Concept of
Tauba
Understands
Sins &
Disobedience
Effects &
Impacts of sins
Traps of Nafs
and shaitaan
Islamic
punishments
Shirk
Sanctity of
Human Life

30. Gateways to Sins
Verrrryyyy Invasive Paths

31. Vision
Thoughts
Words
Movement

32. The Prophet‫ﷺ‬ said: "Do not take a second look,
because while you are not to blame for the
first, you have no right for the second.
(Ahmed: 351)

33. The Prophet ‫ﷺ‬ said: "A look is one of the poisonous arrows
of Iblis (Satan), so whoever lowers his eyes from looking at
a woman's beauty, Allah would produce for him an act of
worship whose sweetness he would experience.”
(Ahmed:323)

35. The Prophet ‫ﷺ‬ also said: "Beware! Avoid sitting on the
roads."
They (the people) said: "O Messenger of Allah‫!ﷺ‬ We
can't help sitting (on the roads) as these are our places where
we chat."
The Prophet ‫ﷺ‬ replied: "If you have to sit, then pay the road its
right."
They asked: "What is the right of the road, 0 Messenger of
Allah‫"?ﷺ‬
He ‫ﷺ‬ answered: "Lowering your gaze, refraining from harming
others, returning a greeting, and enjoining what is good, and
forbidding what is evil. ” (Bukhari: 2465)

36. Stare Stair
Looking
Desire
Thoughts
Passion
Will
power
Strong
determination
Action

38. "Patience in lowering
one's gaze is easier
(to deal with) than the
patience with the pain of
the aftermath of
that gaze."

40. Desires and
Inclinations
Control….. Control

42. But the Unbelievers,- their deeds are like a mirage in sandy deserts, which the man
parched with thirst mistakes for water; until when he comes up to it, he finds it to be
nothing: But he finds Allah (ever) with him, and Allah will pay him his account: and
Allah is swift in taking account. (Nur:39)

44. Most Despised Person
• Turn facts into false wishes
• Mean lives
• Sense of lassitude and apathy
• Contented with illusionary images portrayed
by his/her own thoughts, which never brings
real satisfaction in life
• Feeling of negligence, remorse and regret

45. Four Categories of Desires
1. Desires with which man attains worldly
benefits,
2. Desires with which he drives away his worldly
problems,
3. Desires with which he attains benefit in the
Hereafter,
4. Desires with which he drives away any harm
in the Hereafter.

46. Desires for Akhirah Benefit
• First, reflecting on the Revelation and understanding its meaning.
One past scholar said: "The Qur'an was revealed to be
implemented on; so turn its recitation into practice!"
• Second, reflecting on Allah's Signs and using them as evidence to
confirm Allah's Names, Attributes, Wisdom, Benevolence and
Generosity.
• Third, thinking of Allah's Beneficence, Forgiveness, Mercy,
Patience, and bestowing His Blessings upon His Servants.
• Fourth, thinking of the defects of the self and of one’s actions.
• Fifth, thinking of the duty of time and its function, and directing
all worries around it, to avoid wasting any fraction of it.

47. A scholar Shafi'i said: "I have accompanied Sufi people and I have
not benefited from them, except for two expressions: first, from
their saying: "Time is a sword; if you do not cut it, it will cut you."
Second, "If you do not occupy yourself with the truth, it will
occupy you with falsehood."

49. A desire is like a
passer-by; if you
ignore it, it will go
away; but if you invite
it in, it would bewitch
you with its deceptive
speech.

50. ‫نفس‬
‫مطمئنہ‬
‫نفس‬
‫امارہ‬
Attitude on Sin…..
Light Satisfactory
Heavy Torment

52. A Dangerous Route
to Sins
Tongue reveals the condition of the heart

53. Zip Up
• Say only that which is beneficial to one's Deen
(religion)
• Think twice before uttering a word

54. Yahya bin Mu'adh said: "Hearts are like cooking
pots with their boiling contents, and tongues are
their ladles. When a man speaks, his tongue
scoops up what is inside his heart; sweet or sour."

55. Anas bin Malik (RA) reported that the Prophet ‫ﷺ‬
said: ”A man's Iman (faith) is not straight until his
heart is straight; and his heart is not straight until
his tongue is straight.”(Ahmed: 18)

56. The Prophet ‫ﷺ‬ was asked about the most common
things which bring people into Hell, to which he ‫ﷺ‬
replied: "The mouth and the private parts.”
(Tirmadhi:2004)

57. Mu'adh asked the Prophet‫ﷺ‬ about a deed which could cause
him to be admitted into Paradise and would keep him away
from the Fire. So the Prophet ‫ﷺ‬ informed him that the root of
a matter is Islam, its contours Salat (Prayers) and its peak is
striving in the Cause of Allah (Jihad). Then he ‫ﷺ‬ asked: "Shall I
tell you of that which is at the bottom of all this?"
Mu'adh replied: "Certainly, Messenger of Allah."
The Prophet‫ﷺ‬ took hold of his tongue and said: "Keep this
under control." Mu'adh said: "Shall we be called to account in
respect of that which we say?" He ‫ﷺ‬ answered: "May your
mother lose you! Will people not be thrown face down into
Hell only on account of the harvest of their tongue?”
(Tirmidhi:2616)

58. Abu Hurayrah (RA) said: "The Prophet ‫ﷺ‬ said: "A
Servant ( of Allah) may utter a word which
pleases Allah, without giving it much importance;
and because of that Allah will raise him to
degrees ( of reward); and a Servant ( of Allah)
may utter a word (carelessly) which displeases
Allah, without thinking of its gravity; and because
of that he will be thrown into the Hell-Fire.”
(Bukhari:6478)

60. Abu Hurayrah RA reported that the Prophet ‫ﷺ‬ said: "Whoever
believes in Allah and the Last Day should speak good or be silent.”
(Bukhari: 6475)

61. Abu Hurayrah RA also reported that the Prophet
‫ﷺ‬ said: ”A part of the excellence of a man's Islam
is his leaving alone that which does not concern
him.” (Tirmadhi:2317)

62. Sufyan bin Abdillah At-Thaqafi RA said: "I said:
'Messenger of Allah‫ﷺ‬, tell me something about
Islam of which I would not be able to ask anyone
other than you'. He‫ﷺ‬ said: "Say: ’I believe in
Allah', then go straight." I said: 'Messenger of
Allah ‫ﷺ‬, What is the thing you fear most for me?'
He ‫ﷺ‬ took hold of his own tongue and said:
"This!” (Tirmadhi:2440)

63. The Prophet ‫ﷺ‬ said that when a man gets up in the morning, all
the limbs humble themselves before the tongue and say: "Fear
Allah for our sake, for we are dependent on you; if you are
straight we are straight, but if you are crooked we are crooked.”
(Tirmidhi:2407)

65. Not a word does he utter but there is a sentinel by him, ready (to note it).
(Qaaf:18)

66. Ailments of tongue
Dumb Devil: Silence on truth
Speaking Devil: Disobedience of Allah

68. To get in touch…..
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Dr. Kanwal Kaisser @ HamarayBachchay
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69. To get in touch…..
Dr. Kanwal Kaisser/ Hamaray Bachchay
Dr. Kanwal Kaisser @ HamarayBachchay
hbheadoffice@gmail.com