2. My 4 Reasons
Why should you decide “for us”?
How is your life going to improve?
Are there logical reasons – not just emotional ones?
Am I the type of man that is worthy?
3. My Chosen Reasons
Here are my 4 reasons…Reasons why your life would not
only improve – but, improve dramatically.
I know you. Of course not all the details…but, I know you.
And I have a deep desire to know you better still. And it
isn’t enough for me to simply know you…I want to walk
side by side with you through life, being someone whose
support you can count on, whose counsel you can trust,
whose hand you can hold, whose shoulder you can cry on,
whose encouragement inspires you to reach for the stars in
whatever pursuits your heart desires.
I can envision how our lives would be if you and I were
truly together.
4. Reason #4 – Healthy Environment
The home environment would be your shelter from
life’s storms…a place where you can leave the
troubles of the day behind and enter a sanctuary
full of love and warmth. A place where chores were
not only your responsibility – but mine as well…
and where they were done in a manner you would
approve of. A place where when you came home
from a hard day, you could get a massage and a hot
bath, a meal cooked with love, and an embrace you
could melt in. A place where laughter was frequent
and joy and happiness were just normal everyday
states of mind.
5. The key to success is to keep growing in all
areas of life - mental, emotional,
spiritual, as well as physical…
6. Reason #3 – Personal Growth
You would be free to be the woman you were
always meant to be. Where your inner
talents and aspirations would be encouraged
to come forth and shine; where your insights,
thoughts and concerns were treated with
respect and equality. You would experience
tremendous personal growth as you felt more
and more comfortable to spread your wings
and fly…
7. Those who improve with age embrace the power
of personal growth and personal achievement
and begin to replace youth with wisdom,
innocence with understanding, and lack of
purpose with self-actualization.
8. Reason #2 – Inner Peace
You would have an incredible sense of peace
because your life would be in harmony and
balance. Ours would be a relationship where
all of your relational needs were met within
the relationship which would eliminate the
need to have those needs met elsewhere. You
would experience the peace that comes with
living an honest life, where there is no need
for deceit and deception.
9. Living with integrity means: Not settling for
less than what you know you deserve in your
relationships. Asking for what you want and
need from others. Speaking your truth, even
though it might create conflict or tension.
Behaving in ways that are in harmony with
your personal values. Making choices based
on what you believe, and not what others believe.
10. Reason #1 – Your ONLY Baby
And best of all…you would be able to spend the rest of your
life with an awesome man. A man you can be proud of. A
man you can depend upon and trust in all things big and
small. A man who is continually trying to be better – who
lives his life striving to be authentic to the values and
ideals that he cherishes. A man not afraid to admit a
mistake, not too proud to accept criticism or advice, who
will always strive for that which is good, and right, and
honorable. A man with an incredible amount of complexity
– where you can continually find new things to appreciate
and admire…things that will usually be consistent and true
with the other parts you have already discovered. A man
you would not mind being involved in your children’s lives –
providing counsel to them when requested – because you
11. Manhood is defined and decided by the ability to
nurture and to protect, by the capability to
provide and to sustain.
The stronger a man is, the more gentle he can
afford to be.
A man with intellect is unparalleled, but a
man with a heart is divine.
