2. My 4 Reasons
Why should you decide “for us”?
How is your life going to improve?
Are there logical reasons – not just emotional ones?
Am I the type of man that is worthy?
3. My Chosen Reasons
Here are my 4 reasons…Reasons why your life would not only improve –
but, improve dramatically.
I know you. Of course not all the details…but, I know you. And I have a
deep desire to know you better still. And it isn’t enough for me to simply
know you…I want to walk side by side with you through life, being
someone whose support you can count on, whose counsel you can trust,
whose hand you can hold, whose shoulder you can cry on, whose
encouragement inspires you to reach for the stars in whatever pursuits your
heart desires.
I can envision how our lives would be if you and I were truly together.
4. Reason #4 – Healthy Environment
The home environment would be your shelter from life’s
storms…a place where you can leave the troubles of the day
behind and enter a sanctuary full of love and warmth. A place
where chores were not only your responsibility – but mine as
well…and where they were done in a manner you would
approve of. A place where when you came home from a hard
day, you could get a massage and a hot bath, a meal cooked with
love, and an embrace you could melt in. A place where laughter
was frequent and joy and happiness were just normal everyday
states of mind.
5. The key to success is to keep growing in all
areas of life - mental, emotional,
spiritual, as well as physical…
6. Reason #3 – Personal Growth
You would be free to be the woman you were always
meant to be. Where your inner talents and aspirations
would be encouraged to come forth and shine; where
your insights, thoughts and concerns were treated with
respect and equality. You would experience tremendous
personal growth as you felt more and more comfortable
to spread your wings and fly…
7. Those who improve with age embrace the power
of personal growth and personal achievement
and begin to replace youth with wisdom,
innocence with understanding, and lack of
purpose with self-actualization.
8. Reason #2 – Inner Peace
You would have an incredible sense of peace because
your life would be in harmony and balance. Ours would
be a relationship where all of your relational needs were
met within the relationship which would eliminate the
need to have those needs met elsewhere. You would
experience the peace that comes with living an honest
life, where there is no need for deceit and deception.
9. Living with integrity means: Not settling for
less than what you know you deserve in your
relationships. Asking for what you want and
need from others. Speaking your truth, even
though it might create conflict or tension.
Behaving in ways that are in harmony with
your personal values. Making choices based
on what you believe, and not what others believe.
10. Reason #1 – Your ONLY Baby
And best of all…you would be able to spend the rest of your life with an
awesome man. A man you can be proud of. A man you can depend upon
and trust in all things big and small. A man who is continually trying to
be better – who lives his life striving to be authentic to the values and
ideals that he cherishes. A man not afraid to admit a mistake, not too
proud to accept criticism or advice, who will always strive for that which
is good, and right, and honorable. A man with an incredible amount of
complexity – where you can continually find new things to appreciate and
admire…things that will usually be consistent and true with the other
parts you have already discovered. A man you would not mind being
involved in your children’s lives – providing counsel to them when
requested – because you trusted the quality of that counsel and the man
giving it.
11. Manhood is defined and decided by the ability to
nurture and to protect, by the capability to
provide and to sustain.
The stronger a man is, the more gentle he can
afford to be.
A man with intellect is unparalleled, but a
man with a heart is divine.
