1. Disclaimer: (Must read before proceeding)
Any resemblance of below mentioned thought process to any „Living‟ or „Not so Living‟ or „Just
Surviving‟ or „Brave Hearts‟ or „Dead Souls‟ etc. etc. is SHEER COINCIDENCE …
My Underage & Unmarried Nephews, Nieces and Ardent Fans who are on my FB List are
refrained to read since some of the material may be SCARY or IMPROPER for your age / phase of
life..
Posted with NO intention of offence towards anyone‟s sentiment…Requesting to all Readers,
not to take any of the statement personally. Nor any correlation is allowed to make with
WRITER‟s PHILOSOPHY.
Please note that such wisdom comes only & only after WEDDING / MARRIYING, IN no case
before that.
Bold / Underline / Italics are simply used to transfer the intensity of emotions.
Every kind of so called „Happy Marriages‟ comes with an Expiry Date. Unfortunately every
wedded couple misplaces the wrapper after a month or so and keep assuming or creating or
avoiding their own set of Expiry Dates throughout their life.
Lastly I am not responsible if after reading this stuff any of my Unmarried Friend wish to remain
so, or in case undergo any sort of depression or phobia..

2. 10 Bitter Sweet Lessons which I learnt in 10 years of marriage..
1. Togetherness is far far far better than Separations….. After all Fights over Phone
& Internet Chats has its own limitations.. 
2. It‟s damn difficult to keep / maintain Silence after a heated argument. In fact it
becomes IMPOSSIBLE as you share years together. One of you needs to Wait till
that STORM (Hey !! Should I use TORNADO here  ) pass away..And that ONE of
YOU should be ALWAYS “YOU” NEVER “ME”… What an agony..
3. Life is COOL / CHILL when you are alone, but it becomes WARM / WARMER /
HOT / SIZZLING HOT / VERY VERY HOT ….. (I need not have to mention till last
version of heat here ) when you are sharing it with someone….
4. Ignorance / Pretending / Acting, as if you don‟t know anything, wherein you
know the WHOLE TRUTH / a bit of Faking (Stop !! You Dirty Minds !!) … many a
times actually helps marriage to sustain.
5. They say “Knots are tied up in Heaven”.. Why the hell at times it hurts on “Plain
Simple Smooth Canvas of Life”…. Accept that, Knots are always Knots …. and
move on..
6. We all read & believe AT SOME POINT OF TIME  that “Marriages are made in
Heaven “. I guess even God could not tolerate MARRIED COUPLE so sent them to
earth & finally saved Heaven !!
7. A „SIX BY SEVEN SIZE BED‟ can be a Heaven on Earth, provided it must be placed
in your home….. (With due respect to sentiments of almost 50% of population
(i.e. MALES) . They may (Read „will‟) either „Disagree‟ or ‟Only Agree till Half of
the Sentence‟.
8. With passage of time, we want everything BLOATED for example Bank Balance,
Wardrobes, Lockers , Assets, Children‟s Score in academic, Social Circle, Love ,
Trust etc. etc. etc. ………………..except WIFE....
9. Kids have great instinct --- to wake up or knock the bedroom door at WRONG
times. I guess that is their own way of giving NIGHTMARES to their parents..

3. 10. Waking up every day next to a same face / person … mornings after mornings,
years after years though SOUNDS BORING but gives you a chance to understand
the “Process of Metamorphism” in real sense  .. So Think Positive & Enjoy !!
Last one is for all of you guys who read till 10th TRUTH
It‟s always good & assuring to have SAME BUNCH of PEOPLE around during this
„JOURNEY OF LIFE ….‟. They were there when you took those „7 WOWS‟ or „7 STEPS‟
with that so called SOMEONE SPECIAL … and who are still THERE FOR YOU who
patiently / calmly hears you out --- now your „7 SWEARS‟ (GAALIYANN) or ‟7 SINS‟
against that SOMEONE SPECIAL … Without making a WRONG IMPRESSION about YOU
and still loves you as ever, as you ARE /WERE to them …. Million Million Thanks to all
SUCH Mothers / Fathers / Sisters / Brothers / Dear most Friends / Few Real Good
Relatives .. We should be always thankful to such dear ones who saved our marriage in
times of turmoil and rocked the party when thrown ....
Am blessed to have many SUCH DEAR ONES in my life… Blessed to have DEEPAK in life
who kept alive my „WRITER SOUL‟ through all these years…Blessed to have TWO CUTE
SONS who kept me away from writing in times of sorrow…
MANY MORE YEARS TO COME ….MANY MORE WISDOM THOUGHTS & SHERO SHAYARI
TOO ….  BE WITH ME & STAY COMMITTED … 