Two people in love and intimacy are two different Consciousnesses with separate Cognitive perceptions about things in life. The ‘common’ domain of body-mind mutuality in intimacy is seldom equal to merger of two consciousnesses. The domain of mutuality is only that common part of two different ‘Circles’, which we now know and accept as separate Consciousnesses.

1. To Feel ‘I Have Understood’, Is
Unfortunate Invite To ‘Calamitous
Probabilities’ In Intimate Relationships...
# ‘Acceptance’ about ‘Exclusiveness’ of Consciousnesses sure holds a loads of
potential for wellness, especially in times of stress and conflicts...
How much one can understand? What is there that makes us understand? And
then, even if one feels and accepts that he or she has understood, how could one
be sure, what he or she understood is what was there to be understood...?

2. The conundrum and puzzles of life and living are infinite... at least it seems so, if
one happens to intend to go for them! However, even if one does not go for them,
it does not anyway relieve one of those confusions and resultant conflicts of
mind...!
The inevitability is always there, however, its acceptance somehow makes life-
living easy. Acceptance of limitations, inevitable optionlessness at times can be
very settling and can lead people to the much-required ‘Wellness’...
So, in human relationships, especially intimate relationships, this ‘Acceptance’
sure holds a loads of potential for wellness, especially in times of stress and
conflicts...
Intimacy and committed love between two people make them feel and accept
that ‘They Have Understood’, each other and the so-called ‘Chemistry’ between
the two bodies and minds. However, this is unfortunate invite to calamitous
probabilities in intimate relationships...
As a matter of fact, two people in love and intimacy are two different
Consciousnesses with separate Cognitive perceptions about things in life. The
‘common’ domain of body-mind mutuality in intimacy is seldom equal to merger
of two consciousnesses. The domain of mutuality is only that common part of two
different ‘Circles’, which we now know and accept as separate Consciousnesses.
Therefore, as two people in intimacy remain all the time as two different ‘circles
of consciousnesses’, with a small common zone of mutuality, the huge ‘Unsure
Zone’ remains live and kicking between them. A big chunk of both
consciousnesses remain ‘Unknown & Unknowable’ to each other, even while love
makes them believe that they ‘know’ each other quite well.
Therefore, in human relationships, especially intimate relationships, this
‘Acceptance’ about ‘Exclusiveness’ of Consciousnesses sure holds a loads of
potential for wellness, especially in times of stress and conflicts...

3. This in turn makes out a clear case of ‘Desired’ action & behaviour for two people
in intimacy and love. Once two people accept to be in intimacy and love, they
have created only a small ‘zone of mutuality’, which is just a starting ‘seed’
situation for success of love. Both then have to evolve together with compassion
for each other’s ‘exclusive consciousnesses’, so that in time to come, the ‘Zone of
Mutuality’ keeps expanding and ‘Exclusivity’ of separate consciousnesses
dwindle and erode in time to as minimum as possible.
The key in love and intimacy is to evolve together, from the point where two
people decide to be on a Mutuality journey. All best.