Often, when confronted with the question of change, most people feel bad that they are being ‘judged’... Yes, they are but there is this need to ‘change’ the mindset and attitude towards ‘being judged’... Being judged is as good as being questioned to change. It has very high utility for us...

1. Being ‘Judged’ Is Good, Being Told
To ‘Change’ Is Empowering...!
By Santosh Jha
There is this very innocent and innocuous question – ‘why should anyone want to
change me... or, why should one be pushed to change...?’
Somehow, the question involves so much of ‘lateral and vertical’ insecurities and
presumptuous parenthesis of the person, against whom this energy of ‘change’ is
directed, that seldom, this question remains as innocent & innocuous, as it usually has
to be...
This popular reality apart, the very acceptance of this question, at its possible best
suitability, is the primary energy to break us free of the inertia and
move us close towards larger wellness. Why? Because, it slips us towards those answers

2. of the crucial questions of humanity, whose answers have now been discovered with
great objectivity and singularity, even while they were already there since ages.
It opens the doors to the fact that we have now evolved to redesign the key questions of
humanity and accept newer answers, in novel perspectives. This is intended to
move us to real questions, which we probably have not yet asked truly and that is why
not reached to their very meaningfully useful answers.
This simple acceptance is aimed at empowering our consciousness to enhance our life-
living wellness and personal excellence. How?
The idea to put forward about the acceptance of ‘change’ is simple. There are questions
and they are important because only when we accept questions, we move to discover
the answers, which are already there. This is the singular objective road to knowledge
building.
However, wisdom or knowledge comes in stages; they are not usually arrived at
suddenly. Like answers, questions are also born and evolved in time and space
dimensions. So, this acceptance of change opens us to novel questions as well as new
shades of the old questions, which we feel sure of having answered.
Long history of humanity shows us how key life-living questions evolved in stages and
their answers too came in stages. That is why we have to constantly move away and
beyond our current state of mind consciousness, which has the instinctive inclination
for accepting and be happy with comfort of inertia of few questions and subjectively
created answers.
We are talking about this ‘change’ in our mindsets and perspectives. Opening the door
and being prepared to be at the readiness of acceptance of the intelligence of innocence
is the primary change in attitude.
Often, when confronted with the question of change, most people feel bad that they are
being ‘judged’... Yes, they are but there is this need to ‘change’ the mindset and attitude
towards ‘being judged’... Being judged is as good as being questioned to change. It has
very high utility for us... Always remember, even if someone is judging me, I need to
accept that a ‘judge’ is usually a good fellow... a judge is not only and always
pronouncing us ‘guilty’, this judge does it only on the basis of objective proofs. So, even

3. if I am being judged, it is always good and beneficial for me to know and accept as what
‘objective proofs’ are there, which creates a need for me to change...
Moreover, a judge also has compassion and the same objectivity to forgive and pardon...
being judge is not a bad thing always... being judged too is not always bad... rather, it
extends us this huge benefit of getting to the awareness about ‘proofs’ against
something, which we need to change for our own betterment and wellness...
Remember and do kindly accept, We cannot see our own faces, even if we are the most
certified genius of the cosmos... we all need a mirror to be able to do it... somebody being
a mirror to me is surely my best friend... this judge and change-protagonist is someone, I
must love and care for....!
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