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r[maqG olykefBuD;
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r[maqG olykefBuD;
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wpfa,mufu olYom;tzdkY acR;ravmif;wpfa,mufudk vSnf;eJY ac:aqmifvmwmudk bk&m;avmif;
odjrifowJY/ onfawmY a½SUu wiful;NyD; Z&yfwpfckrSm wif;wdrf um&Hxm;um rif;BuD;udk wif;wdrf
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r[maqG olykefBuD;
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wpfaeYum; udk&ifOwåronf ½SifZedE´tm; vufukyfac:,lvsuf? vl½Sif;aomae&mwGif
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r[maqG olykefBuD;
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wyfvrf;jywdkYonfvnf; uwDåyguGyf BudrfvkH;rsm;jzifY vltaygif;wdkYtm; ab;odkY vrf;csJU
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  • 16. r[maqG olykefBuD; Zarni 86 Myanmarcupid Community - 15 - owif;udkMum;&jyefaomtcg pdwfESvkH;udk ,lBuKH;ypfvdkufouJYodkY xdcdkufoGm;av/ ½SifZedE´ udk,fvkH;udk,fayguf? ½kyfvu©Pm [efyeftrlt&mrsm;udkvnf; t½kyfa&;jyouJYodkY ay:ayguf vmcJY avawmY/ tapcHra½SUüum; ]]aMomf ... oem;p&myguvm;}}[k omrnom [efaqmifajymqdkvdkuf aomfvnf; twGif;pdwfrSmrl tawmfylavmifí oGm;½Smav/ avmuü jzpfwwfaom obm0 yifwnf;/ at;at;aq;aq; aexdkifcJYaom reef;EG,fuav;onf pdwfESvkH;udk rnfrQxdcdkuf½Smoenf; [lrlum;? xdkowif;Mum;&onfhtcsdefupí xdktaMumif;udkom wpfawG;wnf;awG; wpfylwnf;ylESifY aerd½Smav&m? tpm;rrSef ttdyfrrSefawmYbJ ESpf&uftMumwGif anmifapmif;ay:ü acGacGuav; ae& ½SmavawmY/ rdbESpfyg;rSmum; jymjymovJjzpfí aeMu½Smav/ udk,fryl acgif;rcJbJ tdyf&mxJwGif vJaeonfh a&m*gudkrodMu? aq;q&mrsm;udk jyo&müvnf; a&m*gudk rqkH;jzwfEdkif/ aA'ifESifY ya,m* q&m? ewf0ifykpämef;wdkYudk ar;aomtcgvnf; rdrdwdkY t,loef&mudk ajymqdkqkH;jzwfvsufaeMuojzifY tcufBuD;cufíaeMu&mrS 0efuawmfBuD;onf tapcHrsm;udk wpfOD;pD ppfaq;av/ rdNidrf;om tvSnfhodkY a&mufvQif ½SifZedE´taMumif; olodw,f xifygaMumif; rwifrus oHawmfOD;wif&mrS awG;awmrdMuojzifY? reef;EG,fuav;tm; acsmYarmYar;Muav/ reef;EG,fuav;vnf; rjiif;om ojzifY [kwfrSefaMumif;0efcH&m? 0efrif;ESifY 0efuawmfBuD;onf tjyifbufodkY xGufum wdkifyifMujyef av/ ]]uRefrawmY odyfNyD;½SufawmYwmyJ/ trdEdkYrS rpifao;bl; 'Dvdkjzpf&w,fqdkwm ...}} ]]r[kwfbl; ½Sifr? a½S;b0u a&pufyg&if BuD;aom i,faom r[kwfbl;/ jzpfwwfwJY obm0yJ ...}} ]]olYpdwf wpfcgwnf; jywfoGm;atmif [dkarmif½Sif aoNyDvdkY ajymvdkufMupdkYvm; ...}} ]][m ... 'Dvdkqdk&ifvJ olvnf; wpfcgwnf; aooGm;rSmaygY/ usKyfoabmawmY orD; tqkH; rcHEdkifbl;/ armif½Sifudk vlxGufcdkif;NyD; aMumif;vrf;xm;vdkufr,f/ [kda½S;a½S;wkef;u xkH;pHvdk orD;½Sifu oruf½Sm&wmyJjzpfjzpf orD;rao&if NyD;a&maygY ...}} ]]uRefrvJ udk,fvG,farG;&wmygyJ ... 'gayr,fY 'djyifenf;vrf; r½SdawmYbl;vm; ...}} ]]r½Sdbl; r½Sdbl; ... ½SifryJ oGm;NyD; armif½Sifudk vlxGufcdkif;? tdrfac:cJYr,fY taMumif;udk ajymayawmY [kwfvm; .../ olYpdwfoufom&m&atmif ajymygaemf ...}} ]][dk armif½Sifu Mum;&wJYowif;twdkif;jzifY aorsm;aoaerSef;rS rodbJ ...}} ]]tdk ... aorS aowJYtvdkufaygY/ olYem;rSm owif;aumif;Mum;&if oufomygvdrfYr,f ...}}[k qdkojzifY 0efuawmfBuD;vnf; orD;tcef;odkY 0ifum taptyg;rsm;udk tjyifodkY xGufapav/ CommercialuseofthisbookwillbeatyourOW N RISK.
  • 17. r[maqG olykefBuD; Zarni 86 Myanmarcupid Community - 16 - xdkYaemuf orD; ezl;qHpwdkYudk prf;oyf,k,um ]]orD; EG,fEG,f ... b,fYES,f aeao;ovJ? r,fr,fwdkY tjypfrwifygbl;/ b0u taMumif;yg&if 'Dvdkjzpfwwfw,fvdkY crnf;awmfuvJ ajymqdk ae½Smygw,f/ orD; pdwfaumif;atmifaeyg/ [dk armif½Sifudk vdifjyefcdkif;NyD; ae&mcsxm;ay;ygvdrfYr,f}} [k ajzmif;jzajymqdk½Smav/ reef;EG,f rsufESmtrlt&muav;rSm tenf;i,f Munfvifívmav/ wpfzef rarQmf vifYaom rdrdpdwf jzpfysufykHudk awG;½Sufum rsuf&nfrsm;usqif;vmjyefav/ q&mawmfbk&m;um; vlrrm ½SifZedE´ eHab;wGif xdkifum vlrrm ZmwmcGifudk yk&ydkuf wpfckwGif uefYulqHESifYjcpfum wGufcsufMunfh½SKaeawmfrlvsuf½Sdav/ ]]igYwynfh bmrSrjzpfEdkifbl;? tcdkuftwefY roifYwJYtcg 'DvdkBuKHawGU&wmyJ/ odrfv*frSm we*FaEG-t*Fgyl;NyD; Ak'¨[l;u uef&moDrSmaew,f/ wynfhvJ em;vnfw,f r[kwfvm; ... tck tm,ku 12-vkH; 2-yg'f 3-ADZem qdkawmY uk#KrÜtdrfrSm pkwftdrfpkwfBuKdufyJ/ 'gayr,fY eu©wåd uD'omeJYqdk&if Mumoyaw; xlv'omrSm &m[k tEÅ&'om pm;qJ tcdkuftwefYuav;rSm 'Dvdk zsm;aewmyJ? aumZm&m[ku od[f&moD? paeu yxPDtdrfrSmqdkawmY 'guav;wpfck enf;enf; qdk;ayr,fY raxmif;wmygbl;/ igYwynfh rausmfapmbJ ppfolBuD;rjzpfbJ raoEdkifygbl;uG,f ...}}[k tm;ay;pum; ajymMum;awmfrlaomfvnf;? vlrrmrSm rsufvkH;zGifYMunfh½kHxufydkí bmrQrajymEdkif½Smacs/ cyfawGawG aMumifwufwufjzpfíom aeawmY/ xdktcdkuf ausmif;om;wpfa,muf q&mawmfbk&m;tm; 0wfcsum oefvsif0efrif; a&muf½Sd aeaMumif; ajymqdkav&m? q&mawmfbk&m;vnf; avvkHaom vlrrmcef;rS xGufBuGum ae&mxdkifwGif wifyv’ifcsdwf xdkifawmfrl&if; ... ]]b,fYES,f 'umBuD; ... bmudpörsm; taMumif;xl;½SdvmygovJ ...}} ]]udpöxl;awmY r½Sdygbl; bk&mY ... q&mawmfeJY qGrf;cHwJYtcg vdkufygavY½SdwJY armif½Sif aeraumif;bl; Mum;vdkY tar;tjref; vm&jcif;yg bk&m; ...}} ]]aMomf ... aMomf ... armif½SifZedE´vm;? odyfNyD; rusef;rrmjzpfae½Smw,f 'umBuD;&JU ...}} ]]bmjzpfvdkYwkef; bk&mY ... tat;rdvdkYvm; ...}}[k rod[efaqmifí ar;av&m ... ]][m ... 'umBuD; bm&,fvdkY r[kwfbl;/ qGrf;rpm;bJae&mu zsm;wmygyJ/ 'Doli,fudk cufygw,f? pdwfu olrsm;eJYrwlbl; ...}} ]]pdwfESvkH;BuD;ykH&ygw,f bk&m;/ em;½Gufum; acgif;um;eJY ÓPfvJ xufjrufykH&ygw,f ...}} ]]'gYaMumifY q&mawmf *½kpdkuf ukoae&wmaygY .../ y&d,wådbufu tvGefÓPfoGm;wJY oli,fyJ ...}} CommercialuseofthisbookwillbeatyourOW N RISK.
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