4. • Self-knowledge
• Awareness of individuals
approaches to work
• Adapt to different situations
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Personal
Mastery
• Motivation & team building
• Collaboration & communication
• Risk assessment & problem
solving
• Coaching & mentoring
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Leadership
Skill Mastery
11. Senior IT leaders must make IT
leadership development a priority if IT is
going to contribute to business strategy.
Management must take a comprehensive
approach to integrate culture, behavior,
processes, and training to deliver business
value.
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STUDENT'S JOURNAL ENTRY
As I progressed in this class I tried applying what I was
learning to the world around me and open my eyes to things I do
not see or take for granted. I never really considered myself part
of the dominant group as I felt separate from it growing up
homeschooled in a Romanian immigrant community. Looking
back in retrospection I now that I have benefited from being
white in ways I never even realized. By learning how others
have struggled to gain access to treatment I never had to think
twice about was eye opening.
I look white and have no accent, therefore there is
nothing to set me apart from the dominant white culture around
me. I never realized I was no different from them in their
perspective but also from the perspective of other immigrants
and minorities. I can relate to the struggle to fit in and find a
place in society because in my childhood we were different. We
had an accent, dressed differently, and were poor. However, I
could not relate to how difficult it is for others to assimilate
because as we lost our accents and entered the middle class the
dominant group practically invited us in with open arms.
I have opened my eyes to things I’ve never seen and
see how much further we have to go to create a truly open and
fair society. There is so much injustice around us that I have
never seen before and I feel ashamed for my lack of empathy for
12. those around me.
Just to illustrate how blind I was to racism I have a
little story. I have a Hispanic girlfriend, she is a Mexican
immigrant in fact. Before taking this class she would
occasionally express frustration with how she and her family
were treated by hospital and school officials in her
neighborhood. At the time I processed this as just people having
a misunderstanding and that my girlfriend was probably
overreacting. However as I started learning what racism in
America really looks like, and that its not just hillbillies in
pointy hats I began to notice things I never thought about.
I could see how my girlfriend would sometimes get
different service in a negative way that was racially motivated. I
finally understood why she wanted me to go with her to certain
places like the DMV or car dealerships. She has been talked
down to by others because see is a Mexican immigrant. As my
eyes opened to her plight I saw how different her immigration
story was to mine. I asked her about the time she spent in Texas
where she said her family was the most mistreated by whites. I
understood why she had angst towards the idea of visiting my
family in Tennessee because she is somewhat traumatized by
her childhood experience of crossing into a new land and being
mistreated and seen as a second class person because she was
different.
In hindsight I even noticed while taking this class that
my treatment has changed because of her. Looking back at dates
I have had in previous relationships I would occasionally
receive sloppy service but always just assumed it was an
overworked waiter, or just a grumpy one. Looking back at my
current relationship there has definitely been considerable spike
in bad service. I noticed more events where we would receive
less attention that I was normally accustomed too. I do not want
to over exaggerate, this is not a constant occurrence, however
when comparing past relationships to this one there is a real
tangible increase in bad service and in the number of times a
waiter or waitress would pay less attention to my table than I
13. was use too. The funny thing is that when I brought this up to
my girlfriend she said that unlike me she noticed a considerable
increase in her level of service since we started dating.
I never noticed this because I thought when people
were racist against interracial couples that it would be more
vocal and vulgar. I assumed it would be blatant because that is
what I thought racism looked like. Now I see that the prejudice
that leads to racism is much more intricate and subtle in most
people. I think most people casually discriminate in a passive
way. That is why most people cannot identify it when it happens
all around them. I think in general we need to be more tolerant
and understanding. I think we culturally lack compassion and
blind ourselves to the plight of others because we assume
everyone has the same opportunities we do. I now see that is not
the case, and I am glad to be able to apply what I have learned
to see the things that used to be unseen by my eyes. I hope to
keep these eyes open and hopefully do my part to build the type
of society I’d want to live in. One that is as open and fair as can
be made, where every person has equal opportunities to build
their dreams.
Instruction:
1. Please read the three articles. (Takaki Chapter 8&10&11)
2. Please choose some of the topics covered in each chapter,
provide a brief summary (2-3 sentences) of those topics.
3. Then add your reflections, insights, or relevant experiences,
etc. to help illustrate or expand upon the course.
4. This journal should be at least 400 words.
Lesson 3
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