This document summarizes a lecture given by Muhammad Nabeel Musharraf at the iCAN Quran Circle on August 25, 2018. The lecture discusses verses 33-36 from Surah Fussilat and focuses on 3 essential requirements for dawah (Islamic proselytizing), describing it as a highly rewarding social principle. It also discusses hadith and verses about following the example of the Prophet Muhammad. The lecture encourages listeners to reconnect with their responsibility of dawah and understand how to win friends, noting that when you fall you should dust yourself off and keep moving, as Allah is watching.
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iCAN Quran Circle - Surah Fussilat 33-36 (Powerpoint)
1. iCAN QURAN CIRCLE
The Most Fortunate Ones – Surah Fussilat 33-36
Facilitator: Muhammad Nabeel Musharraf – 25 August 2018
Islamic Circle of Australia and New Zealand
3. Sources
Tafseeri Nukat of Muntakhab Nisab
Tafheem ul Quran
Maarif ul Quran
Tafseer by other scholars
Further elaboration with research findings
4. Objectives
Reconnect to our responsibility of dawah
Understand the art of winning friends
MOTIVATION
َيذنذمْؤُمْلا ُعَفَنت ٰىَرْكِّذلا َّن
ِ
إَف ْرِّذكَذَو
رمق يةآلا55الارايت سورة من
5. Group activity
Group exercise
Please take notes of points that you
find to be interesting
Please try your best to implement
what you listen today
24. EXPLANATION OF
Instruction in this verse is to:
• Be patient with one who is expressing anger with you
• Be tolerant and forbearing with the one who is ignorant of you
• Forgive the one who has made you suffer
25. How do people make us suffer?
When they deliberately
try to harm us or hurt
us because they
genuinely think we are
bad or evil
When they deliberately
try to harm us or hurt
us because they know
that they are the ones
at fault
When they
hurt us in-deliberately
When they are under
the influence of a high
emotion
Umar R.A.
Khalid R.A.
Ahle Kitab in
Madina
The man who
accused Aysha R.A.
Archers during the battle
of Uhud
The man who asked for
charity
26. 3 ways to respond when someone
does something wrong to us
27. Prophet PBUH at TAIF
Aisha reported: She asked the Prophet, “Have you encountered a day
harder than the battle of Uhud?” The Prophet, peace and blessings be
upon him, said, “Your tribes have troubled very much, and the worst was
the day of Aqaba when I presented myself to Ibn Abd Yalail ibn Abd
Kulal and he did not respond to what I intended. I departed,
overwhelmed with excessive sorrow, and I could not relax until I found
myself at a tree where I lifted my head towards the sky to see a cloud
shading me. I looked up and saw Gabriel in it. He called me saying:
Allah has heard your people’s saying to you and how they have replied,
and Allah has sent the Angel of the Mountains to you that you may order
him to do whatever you wish to these people. The Angel of the
Mountains greeted me and he said: O Muhammad, order what you wish,
and if you like, I will let the mountains fall on them.” The Prophet said,
“No, rather I hope that Allah will bring from their
descendants people who will worship Allah alone
without associating partners with him.”
Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 3059, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 1759
28. The words of Allah swt and his
prophet PBUH are on every
tongue and in every heart
29. Psychology of
Responding to
Anger
Know the reasons for anger
Hiding pain and broken heart
Because of insecurity
Broken self-esteem
Broken expectations
Their source may not be you..
What does anger do to us
- Aggression which is regretted later
- “I’m right” and “You are wrong”
- Cannot think rationally and clearly
- Looks for fight and angry response
- Need at least 20 minutes before coming down to normal
Recommendations based on findings of:
Dr. Nadia Persun, Dr. Jack Schafer
30. Let them vent
Use empathetic statements whenever possible
Do not respond back in anger and stay calm; An angry person is looking for a fight through their
escalation and unfair accusations
He who suppresses his anger despite being able to vent it, Allah (swt)
will fill his heart with peace and security on the Day of Resurrection.”
(Al-Kafi: Volume 2, Page 11, Number 7)
Do not argue; Avoid discussing with them about who did what, when and why, and how it made
them feel
The Messenger (peace be upon him) said: “If any one of you becomes
angry, let him keep silent.”(Al-Musnad: Volume 1, 329)
Ponder on the triggers for anger and try to understand the underlying causes
Give up the need to be proven right
Psychology of
Responding to
Anger
How to respond
Recommendations based on findings of:
Dr. Nadia Persun, Dr. Jack Schafer
31. Psychology of
Responding to
Anger
What to do afterwards
Do good to those who do wrong to you.
Those who do wrong know that they are wrong
Anger is a temporary phase. Once it is gone, people will
understand your arguments.
The constructive response is not to indulge them in any action. When
they shout, you keep silent or speak softly. When they come close,
you increase the distance. When they say a lot, you say nothing or
very little. Some people decide to respond, thinking that ignoring a
provocation makes them lose and a bully to win. This is contrary to
what actually happens. You win by disengaging.
Recommendations based on findings of:
Dr. Nadia Persun, Dr. Jack Schafer
32. Meaning of دفع
To remove
To send away
To eliminate
To get rid off
Responding
Replacing
(inside us)
Replacing
(outside us)
33. Habit change
Forming new habit
Adding new habits to cues
Breaking habit
Complementary habits
Keystone habits
The power of habits
36. Deviation from
As-sirat
When you start
treading on the right
path, satan would
try his best to
deviate you and
humiliate you in
front of others
When it happens,
bow down in front of
Allah – He can
protect you. Do
what Adam A.S. did
and not what Satan
did.
39. LOGICAL FELLACIES
This thing was always like that. Why was it not questioned or corrected before? (One
mistake is not a justification of another mistake)
“You used to be like that before, now you ask us not to be like that” (Past is not necessarily
the same as present and future)
“You, look at yourself. Will YOU tell me know what I have to do?” (Personal attacks)
“Everyone agrees with me”
“The prime minister is has the same opinion as me”
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Editor's Notes
Khiyara is from Ikhtiar
Yasi – to rebel
Present example from Seerah how the companions did
Present example from Seerah how the companions did
Examples of how the prophet PBUH used various techniques for Dawah
Abu Sa’eed Al-Khudri reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Satan said: By your honor, O Lord, I will continue to mislead the children of Adam as long as their souls are in their bodies. The Lord said: By my honor and majesty, I will continue to forgive them as long as they seek my forgiveness.”
Source: Musnad Aḥmad 27627