It is important to learn how to be firm with who you are as a person and do not let anyone tries to change you because they do not like it. The more you change for others the lower your self-esteem becomes.
2. Be Consistent
You have to be consistent about who you are as a
person as well as the standards you hold.
When people see that you are consistent about who
you are, they can start to treat you the way you want
to be treated.
When people see that you are not consistent about
who you are, they are led to believe that you do not
know who you are and they will not take you
seriously.
3. Change When It Fits You
So whatever standards and beliefs you develop for
yourself, believe in them and be consistent.
You can change your standards and beliefs as you
change and grow, but whatever standards and beliefs
you hold at the moment, you have to believe in them
and be consistent.
It does not matter how many people disagree with
you.
4. Be Consistent
When you are consistent and believe in your
standards, beliefs and values, the higher your self-
esteem becomes because they are a part of you and
shape the person you have become.