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I am OK, you are OK
Get on with
Prepared By
Manu Melwin Joy
Research Scholar
School of Management Studies
CUSAT, Kerala, India.
Phone – 9744551114
Mail – manu_melwinjoy@yahoo.com
Kindly restrict the use of slides for personal purpose.
Please seek permission to reproduce the same in public
forms and presentations.
I am OK, you are OK : Get on with
• I have just arrived at my
workplace. In comes the
boss with a stack of papers.
• “Here is the report we have
been waiting for” she says “ I
have marked points for your
action. Will you see to these
and report back, please?”
• “Right” I say “I will do that”.
I am OK, you are OK : Get on with
• In agreeing to the boss’s
request, I have checked with
myself that I am competent
to do what she asks and feel
good about doing it.
• I see her being fair and
reasonable in asking me to
do it.
I am OK, you are OK : Get on with
• Thus I am in the position of
“I am OK, you are OK”. In
our social interaction, the
boss and I are getting one
with what we are both
there to do.
• Each time I have an
interaction from this
position, I reinforce my
belief that I and others in
the world are OK.
Thank You
Other TA topics available on slideshare
1. Strokes - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/strokes-24081607.
2. Games People Play - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/psychological-
games-people-play.
3. Structural Analysis - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/the-ego-state-model.
4. What is TA? - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/what-ta-is
5. Cycles of Development - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/cycles-of-
developement-pamela-levin-transactional-analysis.
6. Stages of Cure - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/stages-of-cure.
7. Transactions - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/transactions-33677298.
8. Time Structuring - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/time-structuring.
9. Life Position - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/life-position.
10. Autonomy - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/autonomy-33690557.
11. Structural Pathology - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/structural-pathology.
12. Game Analysis - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/game-analysis-33725636.
13. Integrated Adult - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/integrated-adult.
14. Stroke Economy - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/stroke-economy-
33826702.

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I am ok, you are ok - Get on with

  • 1. I am OK, you are OK Get on with
  • 2. Prepared By Manu Melwin Joy Research Scholar School of Management Studies CUSAT, Kerala, India. Phone – 9744551114 Mail – manu_melwinjoy@yahoo.com Kindly restrict the use of slides for personal purpose. Please seek permission to reproduce the same in public forms and presentations.
  • 3. I am OK, you are OK : Get on with • I have just arrived at my workplace. In comes the boss with a stack of papers. • “Here is the report we have been waiting for” she says “ I have marked points for your action. Will you see to these and report back, please?” • “Right” I say “I will do that”.
  • 4. I am OK, you are OK : Get on with • In agreeing to the boss’s request, I have checked with myself that I am competent to do what she asks and feel good about doing it. • I see her being fair and reasonable in asking me to do it.
  • 5. I am OK, you are OK : Get on with • Thus I am in the position of “I am OK, you are OK”. In our social interaction, the boss and I are getting one with what we are both there to do. • Each time I have an interaction from this position, I reinforce my belief that I and others in the world are OK.
  • 7. Other TA topics available on slideshare 1. Strokes - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/strokes-24081607. 2. Games People Play - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/psychological- games-people-play. 3. Structural Analysis - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/the-ego-state-model. 4. What is TA? - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/what-ta-is 5. Cycles of Development - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/cycles-of- developement-pamela-levin-transactional-analysis. 6. Stages of Cure - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/stages-of-cure. 7. Transactions - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/transactions-33677298. 8. Time Structuring - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/time-structuring. 9. Life Position - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/life-position. 10. Autonomy - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/autonomy-33690557. 11. Structural Pathology - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/structural-pathology. 12. Game Analysis - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/game-analysis-33725636. 13. Integrated Adult - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/integrated-adult. 14. Stroke Economy - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/stroke-economy- 33826702.