To learn how live the moment all one needs to do is watch a child’s behaviour. They get angry with someone and in the next moment they forget it. They move on. No stress.

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The Law of Duality
by Dr.Mahboob Khan Phd
Dancing Dolphins
One wanders to the left, another to the right. Both are equally in
error, but, are seduced by different delusions. -- Horace
The Law of Duality basically states that everything is on a continuum
and has a complementary opposite within the whole. To use an old
adage, there may be two sides of a coin but there is only one coin. In
other words, things that appear as opposites are in fact only two
extremes of the same thing. For instance, heat and cold may appear to be
opposites at first glance, but in truth they are simply varying degrees of
the same thing.
On the physical level the law of duality is easy to understand. We can
make comparisons with physical eye. For instance, there is life and
death, day and night, short and tall, masculine and feminine, near and
far, and so forth.

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What becomes problematic with the Law of Duality is when we start
thinking that one aspect of the spectrum is better than the other aspect of
spectrum. We get into labeling things as right or wrong. Unlike
mankind’s laws and morals, there is no right or wrong. For example, in
America they drive on the right side of the road. In England they drive
on the left side of the road. Who is right and who is wrong? Similarly
there are no good or bad experiences. Experiences are just experiences
nothing more, nothing less. What one learns from the experience is all
that counts. We have all had experiences that initially proved unpleasant
but they became the greatest thing that happened to us.
Seeing things from only one perspective is a trap that keeps you locked
into one aspect of a condition. In every situation in life, under the Law
of Duality you are simply seeking to balance the duality. It is not about
operating in either extreme. It is about keeping to the middle path. One
does not however deny the moment. To learn how live the moment all
one needs to do is watch a child’s behaviour. They get angry with
someone and in the next moment they forget it. They move on. No
stress.
Currently there are many who like to label the darkness as evil. There is
not a source of evil. In this universe, there is only a source of love.
There is however negative thought forms as every thought that has ever
been thought is still in existence. If you attune to these thought forms
then you are attuning to that which is not Source Energy.

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It is also important to understand that in order to be for something; you
must be against something. For and against still indicates you are
operating on the same continuum. It is the reason most of our War
Against (drugs, cancer, poverty, homelessness, etc.) campaigns do not
work. What we are essentially doing is focusing our energies on that
which we do not want and in doing so we neglect to define what it is we
do want. As Einstein said, ‘you cannot solve a problem with the same
mind that created it.’
When working with this law you may find that when attempting to
balance the duality you will end up attracting the opposite of what you
want. For the moment you call in that which you are seeking to balance,
everything in its opposite will come tumbling into your life. If you are
seeking more clarity, confusion will seem to reign supreme. Nothing
will seem to be clear anymore, and you will wonder why you ever
started on this journey. Yet, if you continue to work on changing your
thinking and your belief patterns you will reach the balance point. This
is what the Law of Duality is all about. It is about reaching a balance
point. It is not about operating at either extreme. It is about remaining
at your centre even when the hurricane of life is swirling around you.