Love is absolutely essential in life. Love manifests happiness. To manifest love relationships in your life, or to even overcome the hatred and aloofness between relations, either between the husband and the wife, or other relatives, friends, and colleagues, and turn the negative vibrations of hatred or aloofness into attraction, love, and respect, one needs to do some introspection first.
The law of attraction works on the principles of like attracts like. So, you need to first remove any negative thought patterns that could be present in your mind. To attract love in your life, you must first love yourself! By doing this, you are essentially creating the vibrations of love in your life.
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Table of Contents
How to Use the Law of Attraction to Manifest Love
The Science Behind the Law of Attraction
How the Law of Attraction Works
Whatâs Your Vibrational Frequency?
How to Get in Alignment With Your Desire
Prepare Your Mind to Manifest Successfully
The 7 Steps to Manifest Love with Your Specific Person
Affirm to the Universe that You Want to Be with Your
Specific Person
Challenge Limiting Beliefs
Change Your Mindset
Become the Person You Want to Attract
Visualize Your Imaginal Act
Let It Go
Live in the End
How to Remove a Third Party
5 Signs that Your Manifestation Is On Its Way
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Introduction
This is an in-depth guide that reveals the secret to
successfully attracting love and manifesting a specific
person.
Itâs time to write your own love story and start living it!
Alright, so you want to manifest a specific person. Youâve got
your eye on a special someone who you canât stop thinking
about. Youâre crushing hard!
This person makes your heart go pitter-patter. And you know
with every fiber of your being that youâre meant to be with
them. Your mind is absolutely made up and no one else is
going to cut it.
It HAS to be this person.
Well, then my love-struck friend, this guide is your
golden ticket to happily ever after with the prince or
princess of your choice.
So, buckle up and get ready. Because that special someone
youâve been pining over is about to fall six ways to Sunday,
head over heels in love with you!
Think of me as your fairy godmother, here to share with you
how to attract love into your life with the Law of Attraction.
And more specifically, how to manifest love with your
specific person.
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Before we get started bibbidi bobbidi booing your wishes into
reality with our magic wand, letâs answer the question that
led you here to this article in the first place.
Is it really possible to manifest love with a specific person?
Your ex, a crush, a friend youâd like to turn into your lover, or
maybe someone that doesnât even know you exist?
YES! You Can Absolutely Manifest A Specific
Person!
First let me say that yes, itâs absolutely 100% possible to
manifest your desired person. Because ALL THINGS ARE
ABSOLUTELY POSSIBLE. PERIOD.
Manifesting anything is easy. Itâs our natural-born, God-given
gift and weâre doing it all the time. Every second of every
day.
But Iâm not going to lie to you.
If you have a lot of self-sabotaging beliefs lurking in your
subconscious, or find it hard to maintain high-vibrational
emotions, there may be a bit of work you need to do before
youâre able to successfully manifest exactly what you want.
Youâll need to commit yourself daily to developing new
habits.
But once you clean up your vibration, clear out old
limiting beliefs, and follow the steps outlined in this
article, youâll be able to manifest instantly.
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Nothing in This Universe Is Coincidence
The universe operates on a set of laws. Laws that everything
must follow. And when you understand how those laws work,
choosing your reality and what you attract into it becomes a
very practical concept.
Because nothing in this universe is coincidence. And so,
thereâs nothing woo-woo about attracting a specific person
into your life.
When you stop to think about how reality works, it makes
perfect sense.
We just never knew how to play the game before. How to
use these universal laws to our advantage. No one ever sat
us down and gave us a rule book.
Until nowâŠ
Itâs been hidden from us for far too long. And itâs time
you took back your power and start designing the reality
you actually wantâŠincluding who you want in it.
So, if you follow these steps, the person you have your eye
on will have no choice but to be magnetically drawn to you.
Itâs the law.
No More Hope Manifesting
This is not about giving you false promises of overnight
manifestations or a gimmicky technique.
Iâm all about lasting results.
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So, what I can promise you is no more failed or half-
manifestations. Iâm going to show you how to successfully
and accurately manifest a loving relationship (perhaps even
marriage, if thatâs what you want) with the love of your life.
But you have to do the work.
If thatâs what youâre looking for, then stick with me. Because
in this article, weâre going deep guys!
First, weâll cover all the necessary prep work you need to do
before we even begin the 7-step process of manifesting your
dream partner. And ask some hard-hitting questions likeâŠ
Are you really ready to invite your perfect partner into
your life?
If so, weâll move on to the next section where Iâll teach you
step-by-step how to change your mindset, eliminate limiting
beliefs that may be blocking your desire, properly set your
intention, and become the perfect match to the love you
desire.
Finally, Iâll reveal how to connect with the power of creation,
properly visualize your desire for the most accurate results,
and ignore your current reality until your desired relationship
with your SP materializes before your very eyes.
And to make sure I answer all your questions, Iâve even
included how to remove any third parties and how to look for
signs that your manifestation is on its way.
Over time, manifesting a desire wonât be such a lengthy
process. Itâll be as easy as setting an intention, relaxing
into a meditative state, visualizing your desired end
scene a few timesâŠand voilĂ !
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How to Use the Law
of Attraction to
Manifest Love
The Science Behind the Law of Attraction
Quantum mechanics research shows us that the act of
observing reality creates it. Focusing on something draws it
to you and causes it to appear in your reality.
Hereâs a quick summary of how quantum physics and
the law of attraction relate:
ï· Quantum physics is the study of the smallest particles
of energy.
ï· Physicists have discovered that energy particles
behave differently when being observed (when we
focus our attention on them).
ï· Everything in the universe is connected according to
the theory of quantum entanglement, which states
that two particles act as one despite the distance that
separates them. This physical phenomenon shows us
all things in this world are linked together. One thing
canât be influenced without influencing the other, even
if separated by great distances.
ï· The Law of Attraction states that we attract what we
focus on and what matches our vibration.
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ï· And so if energy behaves differently when observed
and everything is connected, then the vibrational
frequency of your thoughts (which are also energy)
has the power to change your environment. In other
words, you create what shows up in your reality with
your thoughts or whatever you focus on.
So, what did you learn here today? That the Law of
Attraction (the universal principle of magnetism) is actually
very real and has the power to change your life.
Now letâs look at HOW it operates.
How the Law of Attraction Works
According to one of the 12 universal laws, the Law of
Energy, everything in this universe is energy. EVERYTHING.
Every plant, animal, person, object, all the way down to the
smallest particle moves and vibrates at a particular
frequency.
Even your thoughts and emotions are energy.
And through the Law of Attraction, which simply states that
âlike attracts likeâ, youâre radiating a signal (or frequency) that
in turn attracts anything that matches that signal.
Weâre like magnets attracting whatever we give our
energy, focus, and attention to â whether itâs negative
or positive.
The universe is neutral. Itâs only operating in accordance
with these laws.
So, itâs not punishing you.
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If life isnât going the way youâd hoped and your love life
has been more tragic and less happily-ever-after, then
itâs because youâve been unconsciously attracting low-
vibrational circumstances into your life through
negative thoughts, limiting beliefs, and lower-level
emotions.
Now, letâs take a deeper look at how your vibrational
frequency is affecting your manifestation and how to raise it.
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Whatâs Your
Vibrational Frequency?
Letâs face it, we can experience a wide range of emotions on
any given day. So, our frequency is constantly changing in
response to our thoughts and emotions.
When you feel good, you vibrate at a higher frequency. And
when you feel bad, you vibrate at a lower frequency. Seems
pretty simple, right?
Well, yes and no.
You canât just flip a switch and be in a good mood all the
time, thinking the fake smile youâve plastered on your face
will raise your frequency and instantly attract your dream life.
Itâs a little bit more complicated than that.
Because itâs our dominant emotional vibration, where
we find ourselves most of the time, that determines what
we attract into our life.
And that, my friends, is determined by the mountain of
limiting beliefs, memories, emotional triggers (all your
baggage) that youâve unconsciously accumulated over the
course of your lifetime.
Letâs take a look at the Emotional Vibrational Scale (also
known as the scale of consciousness), developed by Dr.
David Hawkins, a psychiatrist and widely known authority
within the fields of consciousness research.
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This chart can give you an incredibly deep understanding of
yourself and the world around you so you can begin to
deliberately attract more quality experiences into your life.
You Must Be An Energetic Match To Your Desire
Why is this important?
Because to manifest anything you have to energetically
match the frequency of it.
And if your desire is to attract love (whether with a
specific person or in general), youâre going to have to
radiate the frequency of love.
And that may be leaps and bounds from where you are right
now.
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But until you match the frequency of your SP (get on their
wavelength), you CAN NOT manifest a lasting, loving
relationship with them. You will only repel them.
So, how do you increase your energetic vibration to match
that of love?
In the simplest terms, your mind, body, and emotions all
need to be in full alignment with your desire.
And what many people fail to tell you about manifesting
a specific person is that if youâre not in alignment with
your desire, then no amount of LOA techniques are
going to make your desire materialize into your reality.
Letâs be honest. The only reason you actually want to attract
this specific person is because you believe that in the having
of this relationship with them, youâll finally be truly happy.
But in order to âhaveâ them, you have to be truly happy
first. It wonât work any other way.
Now youâre probably asking yourself, âHow do I get into
alignment with my desire?â
Well, let me explain how this works.
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How To Get In
Alignment
With Your Desire
Whether thereâs a huge energetic gap between you and your
desire, or just a small hop, skip, and a jump to where you
want to be, youâre reading this article because you have your
eye on a specific person that youâd like to manifest a
relationship with.
And if youâre not in a loving relationship with your SP
already, then there is something blocking you.
The first step is to figure out what that is. (Oooh, and it could
be a whole bag of negative ninnies holding you back!)
Then weâre going to have to rip apart the unruly jungle
youâve got growing in your subconscious, pull out all the
weeds, and plant a whole new garden.
Get ready to dive deep! And grab a cute pair of gardening
gloves while youâre at it.
âCause itâs about to get a whole lot of messy up in hereâŠand
I am not even close to being done with the whole âgardenâ
metaphor.
Ok, so if you want to become a match for your desire,
youâre going to have to change your current thoughts,
beliefs, and habits.
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WARNING! Hereâs where the real work begins.
Prepare Your Mind to Manifest Successfully
In order to guarantee your success when intentionally
manifesting your desire, you have to first prepare the soil
and clear your mind of all doubt.
Youâll need to let go of any resistance you may have in
regards to manifesting love with your specific person.
Itâs time to ask yourself if youâre really ready for love.
Youâll need to be honest with yourself. Because if any
lingering doubts are hiding under the surface, your seeds of
desire will never grow. Theyâll block your manifestation.
Itâs that simple.
So, letâs overcome these obstacles before putting in the hard
work of manifesting our dream dude or dudette.
Youâll save yourself time and disappointment in the long run
from failed or partial manifestations by tackling these issues
first.
Ask Yourself the Following Questions:
ï· Do you believe that the Law of Attraction is real and
can work for you?
ï· Do you deeply believe itâs possible that you can be
with this person?
ï· Do you believe you are worthy of love?
ï· Do you love yourself and believe you are whole and
complete with or without another person?
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ï· Are you willing to commit yourself to the work required
to achieve your goal?
If you answered âyesâ to these questions, then
congratulations. Itâs about to get magical up in here!
And you are ready to start attracting your SP into your
life!
But more likely you answered ânoâ to some of those
questions. So, hereâs my advice.
What to DoâŠ
1. PROVE TO YOURSELF THAT THE LAW OF ATTRACTION WORKS
If you donât believe in the Law of Attraction, then itâs never
going to work for you. So, prove it.
Find success stories from other people. Or start trying to
manifest small things, like finding a good parking spot,
receiving a free drink, or a compliment.
Anything that will prove to you that itâs real.
2. TAKE YOUR SP OFF THEIR PEDESTAL
If deep down you donât believe itâs possible that you could
ever be with your specific person, or if youâve put them so
high up on a pedestal that you believe theyâre out of your
league, then youâre definitely NOT going to be a vibrational
match to them.
Youâre only creating more resistance to your desire. Youâre
telling the universe that you donât deserve this person.
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This person youâre hung up on, your crush, is NOT so high
and mighty that youâre undeserving of their time or affection.
Theyâre just an ordinary person. Treat them like one.
Because no one wants to date their stalker.
3. IMPROVE YOUR SELF-WORTH
And that brings me to the next point. Where are you at with
your self-worth?
If you feel unworthy of love or that you NEED your SP to
complete you, then itâs time to work on building your self-
esteem and cultivating some serious self-love before we go
any further.
You canât put that level of pressure on any person to fill a
void inside yourself and be the âreasonâ for your happiness.
Itâs unfair to them.
You have to come at manifesting this person from a place of
knowing YOU ARE ALREADY WHOLE AND COMPLETE.
In other words, from a place of WANTING them, not
NEEDING them.
Itâs no oneâs responsibility to make you happy. Thatâs your
job.
And nobody wants to date someone whoâs needy or clingy.
When you cultivate healthy self-esteem, you will only
attract people who value and respect you. And when
you learn to fully love yourself, thatâs when the doors to
true love begin to open up.
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Alrighty then, now that youâre knee-deep in dirt from ripping
apart your âgardenâ, itâs time to till the soil and start planting
your seeds of desire.
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The 7 Steps to
Manifest Love with
Your Specific Person
1. Affirm to the Universe that You Want to Be with
Your Specific Person
You may think, âWell, hell! The universe should already know
exactly what I want.â
But I can assure you that it doesnât. Because if youâre not
already with your SP, then you are surely giving the universe
mixed signals.
You need to be crystal clear in your thoughts, emotions, and
actions that you desire to date, be in a committed
relationship with, or marry your specific person.
The best way to do that is to set a clear intention⊠and
put it in writing.
What to DoâŠ
PLACE YOUR ORDER FOR YOUR SP WITH A CRYSTAL CLEAR
INTENTION
Yay, this is the fun part! Ok, time to whip out your journal
and fantasize about being in a relationship with your specific
person.
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Write down exactly how you want them to treat you, what a
typical day with them would be like, things youâd talk about,
places youâd go.
Will you guys be one of those couples that spend every
second together, or will you both be more independent and
spend a healthy amount of time apart doing your own thing?
What personality traits do you love about them? What do
they love about you? What attracts you to them?
Define the relationship. Be specific without being
insanely inflexible. This is a person, not a Ken doll.
And writing everything down is the best way to flush out all
the details, get very clear about what exactly it is you want to
manifest and impress your desire upon your subconscious
mind.
Because if the subconscious isnât on board with what
you want to manifest, itâs going to block you every step
of the way.
STAY FOCUSED ON WHAT YOU WANT
You get what you focus on. If youâre constantly focusing on
what you DONâT WANT instead of what you DO want, thatâs
exactly what youâre going to attract.
The Law of Attraction doesnât weed out the negative
statements from the positive ones. It only brings you what
you focus your attention on.
Thatâs why itâs important to steer clear of negative
statements. So, instead of saying, âThey NEVER lose their
temper,â âThey NEVER leave the toilet seat up,â etc.
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Turn it around to be a positive statement like âThey are
ALWAYS in control of their emotions,â âThey ALWAYS put
the toilet seat down,â etc.
You get the point. Weâre training ourselves to speak in
the affirmative and to focus only on the positives.
Be careful about which thoughts and emotions you hone in
on and hold on to. Because if you want to manifest love
with a specific person using the Law of Attraction, you
need to focus only on the things you DO WANT.
Thatâs another reason why you wrote down your desired
intention. Itâs a great way to focus your mind on the wants
instead of the want nots.
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2. Challenge Limiting Beliefs
What are the underlying assumptions or false beliefs you
have that are holding you back and blocking your
manifestation?
What to DoâŠ
MAKE A LIST OF YOUR LIMITING BELIEFS
What beliefs do you have about the opposite sex,
relationships, love, etc.? Do you believe all men are players?
All women leave you? All relationships end badly?
Grab a pen and write down a list of all your limiting
beliefs.
OBSERVE YOUR THOUGHTS
Throughout the day notice what thoughts pop up around the
issue of your specific person, relationships, love, etc.
What triggers you? What do you react to?
Do you notice that a particular thought pops up when you
see a couple showing affection, fighting, engaged in
conversation, etc?
How about when youâre watching a movie?
Take note of whatever thoughts keep popping upâŠand
write them down. (Do you notice a theme here? Write
everything down! This will help you track your progress and
cements new beliefs into the subconscious.)
REWRITE YOUR LIMITING BELIEFS
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Now add all the negative thoughts you experienced
during the day to your list of limiting beliefs. Then flip
them around and rewrite them in a way that makes them
positive statements of empowerment.
These will become affirmations that you should incorporate
into your morning routine, which Iâll discuss in step #3.
You may even want to make a recording of these statements
and listen to it throughout the day to help retrain your
subconscious mind.
3. Change Your Mindset
Now, itâs time to develop new habits and change your
vibrational set point. Unless youâre new to manifestation,
youâre probably already familiar with affirmations, scripting,
and gratitude journals.
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These can be powerful tools to realign yourself each day
with your desire and keep you on the right track.
Develop a Daily Manifestation Routine
Start your day off on the best foot possible by establishing a
morning manifestation routine with affirmations,
scripting, and gratitude.
Itâs the best way to raise your energy and your mood first
thing when you wake up so that you can attract more of the
things you want into your life â like the loving relationship
you want with your specific person.
And when you end your day on a positive note with more
affirmations, gratitude, and visualizing your desire, youâre
cementing not only seeds of your desire but also high-
vibe emotions into your subconscious mind that it will
continue processing while youâre in deep sleep.
These two times of the dayâfirst thing when you wake
up in the morning and right before you drift off to
sleepâare âmagical gateway momentsâ.
This is when your brain enters the Theta state.
In the Theta state, you can influence your subconscious
mind. Which makes it the perfect time to practice
affirmations, scripting, visualizations, or planting any
seeds of change.
What to DoâŠ
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MORNING MANIFESTATION ROUTINE FOR ATTRACTING YOUR SP
As soon as you slap your alarm clock in the morning, hereâs
what youâre going to do:
1. Greet your morning with gratitude
Grab your journal and write 5 things youâre grateful for in
your current life. If you need help with this step or find it
difficult to come up with 5 things to be grateful for every day.
2. Journal About Your Dream Life
Writing about your dream life will create immense
momentum and shift your mindset to the feelings of your
desires.
So, spend 5-10 minutes every day journaling about your
dream life with your specific person. Put yourself in the
shoes of your future self, being in the most amazing and
delicious relationship with your soulmate.
Be sure to write in the present tense and use âI amâ
statements, not âI willâ. So, imagine your desire has already
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manifested. Live in that fantasy and feel the emotion of what
it feels like to be happy with your specific person.
And always end your journal entry with gratitude.
Thank you so much, Universe!
3. Write Your Affirmations for the Day
Choose areas of your life or personality that youâd like to
work on. Itâs time to become the type of person you want to
date.
And because âlike attracts likeâ, youâll attract the person
youâve always wanted to be with.
Hereâs where youâll use the affirmations you created when
writing your limiting beliefs in step #2. For example, âI am
worthy of love,â âAll the people I am attracted to are attracted
to me,â or âI only attract stable, happy, loving people that
respect me.â
Write your affirmations down and repeat them for a few
minutes every morning. But to really rewire these
positive statements into your subconscious, make it a
habit of repeating them throughout the day too. You can
set a timer on your phone if you need a reminder.
Remember that recording of affirmations we talked about in
the âLimiting Beliefsâ section above? If not Iâll give you a little
reminder. Record yourself repeating your affirmations in a
soft, soothing voice. Feel free to add relaxing, uplifting music
too.
Now pull that bad boy out and listen to it morning, noon and
night. At night while youâre sleeping is actually the best time
to reprogram the subconscious mind.
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4. Make A List of Daily Manifestations
Write down 3-5 things youâd like to manifest each day.
Choose things you donât have much resistance to and be
sure to keep the manifestations small (like a free cup of
coffee or receiving a compliment).
Youâll keep track of the results at the end of each day.
Not only does this help build faith in the fact that the Law of
Attraction works, but is also a great exercise to build your
manifestation muscle. When youâre new to manifesting,
keeping track of your daily manifestations helps you get
better at manifesting the bigger desires.
Practice makes perfect, my friend.
Youâll also begin to notice that your small desires
manifest much easier and faster than the big things you
try to manifest. Thatâs because you have less resistance
to them and no attachment to the outcome. In many
cases, you completely forget about them.
When youâre able to do that with your big desires, youâll
manifest at a much faster pace.
EVENING MANIFESTATION ROUTINE
1. Review Your Day
Every evening before bed, mentally review your day.
You may even want to whip out your handy dandy notebook
and take a few moments to rewrite the things that went
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wrong. This helps to cement it into your mind that you want
to change those things. Otherwise, youâd just forget them.
Plus, it gives you something to look back on later to see if
youâve made improvements.
2. Record Daily Manifestation Results
Look back at your list of manifestations you made in the
morning. Did any of them manifest today? Take a look at the
manifestations that youâve written down for the last few days.
Maybe something manifested today that you wrote down on
your list yesterday.
Record what manifested for you that day. How long it
took, any signs that showed up, synchronicities, your
reactions, moods, thoughts, and how it manifested.
This will give you a reference to look back on and prove to
yourself that this stuff absolutely works.
3. Gratitude
Write down in your journal all the things that that went well
during your day. Take time to congratulate yourself and feel
gratitude for those things.
This is not only a great way to raise your vibration, but youâre
also training your subconscious mind to create more of those
good feeling things into your life.
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4. Visualize Your Desire
In the moments right before you drift off to la-la land, you
want to visualize the short scene you created of you being in
a loving relationship with your special person. Youâll want to
do it with as much emotion and details as possible. Use all
five senses to set your scene and repeat it until you fall
asleep.
Visualization is by far the most important step in the creation
process. And thereâs a lot that goes into getting it right to
ensure you manifest accurately and successfully.
So, to find out exactly what you need to do, keep
reading. In step #5, Iâll walk you through the process.
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4. Become the Person You Want to Attract
If you want to attract a fun, loving, confident person, youâre
going to need to become a fun, loving, confident person.
Remember that list of desired traits you want in your specific
person that you made earlier? Those are the traits you need
to cultivate if you want to attract that person into your life.
Iâm not saying you have to be their twin. That would be
creepy. No one wants to date an exact replica of
themselves.
But you do need to have similar qualities if you are
going to be a match your SP.
FOCUS ON YOURSELF
Take your mind off your specific person and start focusing
on yourself. Make feeling good a priority.
Do things that make you happy. Things that get you
pumped about your day. Have lunch with that friend you
havenât seen in a year. Go for a run. Take a bubble bath. Or
read that book youâve always wanted to read.
Taking care of yourself physically and mentally is an
amazing way to raise your vibration. So, show yourself
WORK ON YOUR HEART CHAKRA
When you open up and expand your heart chakra, you are
literally pumping out the energy of love into the universe.
Take a few moments to focus on the things in this world that
you love. Family members, friends, your children or pets.
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Feel the physical sensation of love. The warmth, the way
your heart flutters, the smile that spreads across your
faceâŠall the warm fuzzies you get when you are around or
think about the things that you love.
Youâll begin to light up.
Now hold on to that feeling for as long as you can. Bathe in
it.
Because if you want to attract love, you must vibrate at
the frequency of love. So, make it a daily habit to
practice getting into the right frequency.
Affirmations, mantras, gratitude, crystals, and meditation are
also great tools to help open your heart chakra.
FORGIVENESS
Practice forgiveness. Holding on to anger, past memories, or
old wounds may be blocking you from manifesting a loving
relationship with your specific person.
Do you need to forgive them for something?
It doesnât matter who your specific person is (your ex,
someone that has you in the âfriend-zone,â a complete
stranger, or whatever your particular situation may be),
release any feelings of anger or resentment you may be
harboring.
Even if itâs forgiving them for not professing their love to you
yet.
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Dig deep. You may even find that you need to forgive other
people youâve dated or someone from your past that may
have hurt you a long time ago.
Forgive them and forgive yourself. Because anger, guilt,
shame, and resentment are all low vibrational emotions
that are weighing you down.
So, release them.
5. Visualize Your Imaginal Act
Neville Goddardâs visualization technique is by far the most
accurate way to manifest any desire. And if you want to
manifest a loving relationship with a specific person, tapping
into the power of your imagination is the best way to seal the
deal.
DESIGN YOUR IMAGINAL SCENE
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Start by constructing your imaginal act (a short, detailed
scene of what it is that you desire). Writing it down can be
beneficial as you try to flesh out all the details.
Be sure to include all five senses with lots of detail.
Really step into the scene.
Where are you? Whoâs there? What are they wearing? What
sounds do you hear? What do you smell?
Be sure to write it all down, in full detail, before you start
imagining it.
RELAX INTO A MEDITATIVE STATE
Next, enter into a meditative state either through meditation
or while lying in bed right before you fall asleep.
How do you know if youâre in a proper meditative state?
Youâll be crossing over into the Theta brainwave state, which
is a very deep relaxation state.
You lose track of all worries, thoughts of the future,
attachment to the body, and the outside world. A deep
sense of inner peace and emotional stability will wash
over you.
ALWAYS VISUALIZE IN FIRST PERSON
Then begin to visualize your mental movie and be sure to
imagine your scene in first person. If you visualize the scene
in third person (like youâre watching a movie), youâre desired
scene may manifest for someone else.
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You are the main character in your imaginal act, so
participate in it.
PRO MANIFESTOR TIP: While imagining, continually
cement yourself in the scene by looking down to look at your
own hands, looking down to see your specific personâs hand
wrapped around yours, or playing with your wedding ring (if
your scene involves you being married to your specific
person). This helps to put you in the body of the main
character and reminds you to stay in first person.
REPEAT
Once the scene feels natural, replay the scene in a loop.
When you reach the end, start over at the beginning. And
repeat the scene until you drift off to sleep.
Do this every night until you feel as though the imaginal act
has already happened. It could take days, weeks, or even
months.
EMOTION IS THE KEY
The key is to evoke the overwhelming emotion of bliss
(in a natural way) while imagining your scene.
Visualization is about living your new reality now, like youâre
inside that moment youâre imagining. Itâs happening now.
You already have what you want and are totally blissed
outâŠright now!
So, would you feel âblahâ about finally being with your
specific person? No, no you would not!
Youâd be overcome with a visceral feeling of joy and
immense gratitude. Pull from past experiences when
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youâve felt like that and conjure up those emotions while
youâre visualizing your imaginal scene. Feel into your scene.
Itâs not a forced or fake feeling. Although it may feel that way
in the beginning. But keep practicing. Keep visualizing until
the bliss feels real and genuine.
Now amplify it.
When you feel that overwhelming emotion of intense
ecstasy followed by a wave of relaxation and
contentment, youâll know youâve successfully planted
the seed.
Want to Know More? For a more in-depth explanation of
Goddardâs visualization technique, be sure to check out
Manifestation Technique: Unlock the Power of Your
Imagination. Itâs a step-by-step guide on how to master the
Imaginal Act.
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6. Let it Go
TRUST THE UNIVERSE
Time to step back and turn your desire over to the
universe. Because it knows what to do. And it wants you
to know that itâs got you, bae!
So, get out the way and let the universe do its thing.
Stop trying to force things to happen on your timetable.
Donât chase after your SP. Because what you chase, you
repel.
I mean, weâre talking about vibes here. If youâre emitting a
vibe of desperation, your specific person will pick up on that.
And they will run as fast as their little feet will take them in
the opposite direction.
Because desperation is a homing beacon only for more
desperation, not the love you desire to manifest.
Thatâs not to say you shouldnât take âinspired actionâ
(which does not come from a place of fear or control).
Itâs actually a gentle nudge from the universe guiding you
along a trail of breadcrumbs to your desire. So, only act if
you feel inspired or are intuitively guided to act.
And do it from a place of confidence and excitement, not
desperation or lack.
DONâT KEEP DIGGING UP THE SEED
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Once youâve successfully planted your seed of desire, stop
digging it up to check on it. Or it will never grow.
In other words, donât keep fretting over when itâs going
to happen, how itâs going to happen, or imagining âthe
middleâ.
If your desired end result is to be in a loving, committed
relationship with (or even married to) your SP, stop
visualizing a text message from them or running into
them over the weekend to manifest a date.
Youâre only sabotaging yourself. Because if you start
interfering with the middle, you may end up creating a whole
slew of obstacles and setbacks that could put a halt on your
manifestation altogether.
So, once youâve planted the seed, let it be.
DONâT OBSESS OVER IT
When youâre obsessed with something and constantly
thinking about it, youâre not giving your desire room to
breathe or grow.
And when you NEED something or are too attached to the
outcome, youâre telling the universe you donât have it. So,
the universe has no choice but to keep NOT giving it to you.
Itâs only matching your vibration. The vibration of lack.
If you want to be with your specific person, then you must
feel as if you ARE already with them. You must feel
abundant and focus on feeling love. Grow that feeling and
live in that emotion as much as possible.
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Because when you radiate love, everything in this
universe that you want will be attracted to you like a
moth to a flame.
Itâs the fastest way to manifest the man or woman of your
dreams.
BE PATIENT BECAUSE EVERYONE IS YOU PUSHED OUT
âEveryone is you pushed outâ is a concept associated with
the teachings of Neville Goddard. On one level, it refers to
the fact that every person in your reality is a reflection of
what is going on internally within yourself. And each person
is acting out the role youâve assigned them in your
imagination.
But on a much deeper level, this concept reveals a
hidden truth that every single living being on this planet
is connected by the same awareness.
The awareness that flows through me is the same
awareness that flows through you and everyone else.
With this in mind, know that once you successfully plant
your seed of desire into the field of awareness that
connects every person on the planet, it begins pulling
all sorts of strings to put the right people in the right
place at the right time to bring you closer to your
manifestation.
So, the time frame it takes for your SP to materialize into
your reality depends on who youâre trying to manifest.
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If your specific person is currently in a relationship, lives
halfway across the world, or involves any other tricky
circumstances the universe has to work out, it may take time
for the universe to pull all the necessary strings to put you
two together.
In the meantime, youâll need to be patient. Keep your
vibration up, hold on to the feeling of love, and live as though
your desire has already been fulfilled.
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7. Live in the End
âLiving in the Endâ is not a technique, itâs a state of
being.
This is the reason a lot of manifestations fall apart. Itâs by far
the hardest step for most people and where they trip
themselves up.
Nevilleâs concept of âLiving in the Endâ instructs us to imagine
ourselves into any state and dwell in it.
In the case of manifesting a specific person, in your mind,
you must believe with every fiber of your being that youâre
already in the most amazing relationship with the person you
desire to be with.
In other words, fully live as if your wish has already been
granted.
What to DoâŠ
HOW TO ACT AS THOUGH YOUR DESIRE IS ALREADY FULFILLED
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How would it feel if you were with the person you desire?
Mentally rehearse what your life might be like once youâve
attracted your specific person.
Donât think of your desire. Live from it.
In other words, you must embody your future self and
live from a point in time after your desire has
manifested. Each day your thoughts and actions need to
match those of the person you want to be â the person
thatâs already with your specific person.
If you were in a committed relationship or married to your SP
right now, would you be stalking their social media? Would
you be complaining to your friends about how lonely you
are? Would you be hopelessly pining away for them?
Oh, hell no!
Youâd be genuinely happy, thanking your lucky stars that
your real-life fairy tale came to fruition, and focusing on
manifesting other desires.
Youâd no longer be focusing on manifesting your specific
person because theyâre already in your life.
In other words, youâd feel satisfied and fulfilled. Like a
hungry man after Thanksgiving dinner, youâre full and the
craving for food is gone.
So, be full.
IGNORE YOUR CURRENT CIRCUMSTANCES
Whatever is showing up in your current reality is a reflection
of your past vibration. In other words, everything in your life
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right now is a result of all your past thoughts, beliefs, and
emotions.
When you change your frequency, it may take time for
your current circumstances to reflect that.
Thereâs an echo effect much like when a musician in a large
auditorium plucks a guitar string. It takes time for the sound
of the note played to reach the walls and bounce back to the
ears of the audience. So, the echo of that note is heard long
after the musician has moved on and plucked the next
chord.
DONâT REACT NEGATIVELY TO PARTIAL MANIFESTATIONS
If things donât show up exactly how you imagined or even if
the opposite of what you wanted shows up in your reality,
fight the urge to throw a temper tantrum or lose your faith.
Because a negative reaction can sabotage your efforts and
will postpone your manifestation.
From your limited human perspective, you canât see the
big picture. You donât have a behind-the-scenes view of
everything thatâs happening. So, what may look to you
like chaos or negative events, may be the most perfect
way the universe can bring you your desire.
Want to Know More? For more information on how to
guarantee that your desire successfully materializes, be sure
to check Boost Your Manifestation Power and Accuracy.
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How to Remove
A Third Party
If your specific person is dating someone else, already
married, or maybe theyâre just hung up on someone other
than you, you can still manifest them into your life.
Itâs actually very simple.
Donât Focus On the Third Party
If youâve been paying attention, you know that we create our
own reality. And we do that by attracting that which we focus
on.
So, if you want to remove a third party, all you have to
do is NOT focus on them.
If you see your SP with someone else, donât freak out.
Because when you obsess over your specific person being
with another person, youâre creating an obstacle to your
desire.
And every time you react in a negative way to this third party
person, youâre cementing them into your reality. More of
what you DONâT WANT is showing up.
Only focus on the end. You with your specific person.
Thatâs the only way to take the third party out of the
equation entirely.
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Donât give them any attention whatsoever. Youâre not
wishing them any harm. Only that they donât exist in YOUR
reality.
Donât Let The Third Party Into Your Imaginal Act
And under no circumstances should they show up in your
imaginal act!
You should only be imagining after having received your
desire anyway. So, they should not be anywhere in the
picture. Not even a thought in your mind.
If youâre truly living from the end, you know that youâre
already with your specific person. And if your SP is already
in love with you and only has eyes for you, then why would
be upset or even think about this third party?
They shouldnât even be an issue.
Now, thatâs not to say that if you bump into this third party
person or have actual physical contact with them in your
current reality, that you should literally ignore them. That will
only throw up more roadblocks to your manifestation.
Just act normal. But donât think about them, give them
negative attention, or allow them to enter into your
mental space where youâre living in the end.
Itâs that simple.
Ok, I can feel you chomping at the bit. Now that youâve done
all the work (youâve crossed all your tâs and dotted all your
iâs), youâre wondering if there will be signs when your
manifestation is close.
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I can assure you that, yes, there will absolutely be signs. So,
letâs discuss some of them.
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5 Signs That
Your Manifestation
Is On Its Way
Once youâve planted the seed, you may start to see signs
that the universe is working on your order and your
manifestation is on its way.
I donât advise playing the waiting game with your desire and
searching for signs. But if you do start to notice signs from
the universe, it can be reassuring and help build your faith
that all this is real.
So, take notice and record any signs you receive in your
journal.
That way you can refer to whenever you need to be
reminded that a loving relationship with your specific is just
around the corner.
But donât constantly seek reassurance and desperately
search for signs that arenât really there. Youâll just end
up lowering your vibrational state and postponing your
desire.
Hereâs what you might seeâŠ
1. Angel or Repeating Numbers
This is a sign that youâve raised your vibration and that
things are aligning in your favor. These numbers offer
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reassurance that youâre on the right path or that a change is
coming.
2. Synchronicities Begin to Occur
What are synchronicities? Theyâre events that appear to us
to be coincidences but are actually connected in some way
that science or reason canât explain. These events occur
because the universe is working its magic to place the right
people in the right place at the right time so that you and
your SP can be together.
3. An Abundance of Love is Showing Up in Your Reality
You begin to notice that love is all around you! You overhear
people talking about it. Youâre seeing lovers canoodling
everywhere. People are linking up and gushing about their
significant other more than usual. Itâs a sign that youâre
vibrating at the frequency of love, which causes you to see
more evidence of it all over your reality. Appreciate it and
know itâs a sign your special someone is on their way!
4. You Feel as if Youâve Already Received Your Desire
When youâre in complete alignment with your desire, a sense
of calm washes over you. You have released all resistance
and you KNOW your desire is manifesting.
5. Challenges and Obstacles
These are a little tricky. Donât react to these obstacles
negatively, though. Remember that what appears to be an
obstacle to us, maybe what the universe sees as the
quickest way to make our desire manifest. Or maybe the
universe is placing a challenge in your path because there
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are a few lessons you need to learn first in order to grow and
progress towards your manifestation.
So, take them in stride and remain in the end.
And Thatâs It Folks!
Everything happens in divine timing. When everything is
aligned, your desire will absolutely manifest. But each
desire is different and your life circumstances will affect
how long your desire takes to materialize.
So, unfortunately, I canât predict an exact time frame. No one
can.
What I can tell you is if youâve successfully followed the
steps in this guide, and youâre maintaining a vibrational set
point of love, then the loving relationship youâve been
longing for with your specific person WILL MANIFEST.
And once youâve planted the seed of your desire, donât wait
for it to show up. Move on. Full steam ahead!
Plant another seed. And another. Keep planting seeds and
creating more amazing things in your reality.
And before you know it, youâll be so busy creating your world
that youâll be completely caught off guard whenâŠS-M-A-C-
K! You run full force into the love of your lifeâŠand if you
imagined correctly, will live happily ever after.
~THE END~