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ABOUT WHAT MATTERS
IN SEX & LOVE
        OR

WHY KIDS DON’T
GIVE A #%@
ABOUT SOCIAL MEDIA
in 2008, sojourner house got the
opportunity of a lifetime to change
 teen dating violence prevention
the challenge: to develop
innovative, youth-driven programs to help
11-14 year olds build healthy relationships
and prevent teen dating violence.
“For months I
thought I was
talking to this cool
guy online. Turns
out it was some
girls from my
school trying to
make me look
stupid. The whole
school found out
and I did.”
“I’m a guy
dating another
guy. Yesterday
he put our
relationship
status on fb. I
wasn’t ready to
tell my parents.”
“my boyfriend
says that if I’m
not going to
have sex, the
least I can do is
send him nude
pix.”
MISSION: HELP
KIDS DEVELOP
A CRITICAL THINKING
APPROACH TO BUILDING

HEALTHY
RELATIONSHIPS
We saw the Facebook nation, the gaming and we said if we want
to be part of that conversation, we have to use social media.
DEFEATED, WE
DID WHAT MANY WHO
ARE DOWN ON THEIR LUCK DO
WE STARTED KICKING IT
AT THE BUS STATION
THE BEST WAY TO GET
ATTENTION AT A BUS STOP

IS TO START
A FIGHT.

                   (roll it)
I know you
         are still
       texting him!




PLAY                  CREATE/SHARE
turninggearseducation.com
SO WHAT
    *
  # %@ ing

?
BROADCASTING

IS
YESTERDAY
SO
MOST KIDS ARE

GOOD
DIGITAL CITIZENS
FACEBOOK
YOUTUBE, BLOGGING
GAMING, THE MYSPACE
ARE NOT COOL…
… UNLESS THEY ARE TOOLS TO
CREATE, REMIX AND SHARE STORIES
ABOUT WHAT’S REAL.
kate reilly, mph
401.261.1928
kreilly@sojournerri.org

@turninggearsedu

@hkupwithrespect

@kategalloreilly

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Why Kids Don't Give a @#$% About Social Media

Editor's Notes

  1. Millions of years ago when I submitted this presentation abstract and title to sextech,
  2. what is sojourner house? why do we care about digital abuse? because this is a relationship issue. It’s not a problem with the technology, it’s a problem with relationships.
  3. here’s how we involved young people
  4. We heard crickets, we had spent a quarter of our budget and no one liked our stuff
  5. Actually we were this, here are all our bad statistics
  6. Defeated, we did we
  7. Most kids want to have positive experiences in social networks and use interactive media for positive ends. So, craft your interactive strategies with them in mind. Make information easy to share, reduce barriers for feedback. Strongly consider having this stuff happen in real time (sure, things like filtered comments will reduce the possibiity of cruelty, but it will detract from the autnenticity of the experience and prevent kids from being able to tell their story. )
  8. Just because you have a facebook presence, or a blog or making a game doesn’t make you cool and doesn’t protect you from being lame. You can only be cool if you are using these tools to help kids tell their stories and share authentic life experiences.