1. OBLIGATIONS OF PARENT CHILD
Prepared By the 4
Arief Yulianto 11110037
Muhammad Helmi 11110044
Reni Widiastuti 11110047
Hesti Ambarwati 11110053
ISLAMIC EDUCATION FACULTY
STATE INSTITUTE OF ISLAMIC STUDIES
SALATIGA
2012

2. Obligations of children to parents is a
good attitude to the parent form that has
spawned itself into the world, and a good
attitude is rightly given to parents so
large we remember his sacrifice. It is also
present in Al-Qur’an Al-isra’ 23

3. A. Dutiful Importance To Both Parents
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B. Children's Attitudes Towards Parents
When parents are still alive
When parents are dead
C. The forms of disobedience to parents

4. A. Dutiful Importance To Both Parents

5. 1. It is a prayer for a child who is kind to his parents.
Al-Isra '23
ۗ ‫و ق ض ر ب ك ا ل ت ع ب د وآ ا ل ا ا يا ه و با ل وا ل د ي نِ ا ح س ن ا‬
ًٰ ْ ِ َْ ِ َ ْ َِ ُ ِّ ّ ِ ْ ُ ُْ َ ّ َ َ َّ ٰ َ َ
‫ا ما ي ب ل غ ن ع ع ن د ك ل ك ب ر ا حَ د ه ما ا وْ ك ل ه ما ف ل‬
َ َ َ ُ ٰ ِ َ َ ُ ُ َ َ َ ِ ْ َ َ ْ ِ ّ‫ِ ّ َ ْ ُ َ ع‬
ِ‫ا و عع ل ت ن ه ر ه ما و ق ل ل ه ما ق ول ك ر‬
َ ْ َ َ ُ ّ ْ ُ َ َ ُ ْ َ ْ َ َ ‫ُف‬ ّ‫ع ّ ع‬ ‫ت ق لعع ه عآع‬
َ ْ ّ‫ع‬
‫َ ُل ُم‬
‫ي ما‬
َ ْ
"And your Lord has decreed that you not worship
except Him, and let the mother do good to your father
as well as possible. If any one of them or two of them
until they are advanced in maintenance, so you do
not ever say to the two words 'ah' and do not be
shouting at them and say to them a noble word.

6. ‫‪2. Dutiful to parents is jihad‬‬
‫وعن عبدا بن عمر و بن العاص رضى ا عنهما قالَ :‬
‫َْ ُ َ َ‬ ‫ْ َ ِ َ‬ ‫ْ ِ َ ْ ُ َ ْ ِ َ‬ ‫َ َ ْ َْ ِ‬
‫َْ ِ َ َ َ ْ َ َ َ ََ َ ُ َ‬
‫اقبل رجل الى نبي ص لى ا عَليه وس لم فقال : ابايعك‬
‫َ ْ َ ُ َ ُ ا ٌ ِ َ َ ِ ِّ َ َ‬
‫على الههجرة والهجهاد ابتغِ ال جر من ا تعالى : قال : فهَل‬
‫َ َ َ ْ‬ ‫َ َ َ‬ ‫ِ ْ َ ِ َ‬ ‫ْ ِ ْ َ ِ َ ِ َ ِ َِْ‬ ‫ََ‬
‫من والديك احدا ٌ حي ؟ قال نعم, كل هما, قال : فتبتغى ال َ‬
‫َ َ َ َ ْ َ َ ُ َ َ َ َََْ ِ‬ ‫ِ ْ َ ِ َ ْ َ َ َ َ ا ٌ‬
‫ْ‬ ‫جر من ا تعالى : نعم, قال : فارجع الى والديك فاَحْسِن‬
‫َ ِ َْ َ َ‬ ‫َ َ ْ َ َ َ ْ ِ ْ َِ‬ ‫َ َ َ‬ ‫ْ َ ِ َ‬
‫ص حبتهما. )متفق عليه( وهذالقدمس لِم وفى رواية لْهما :‬
‫ِ َ َ ِ ُ َ‬ ‫َ َ َ َ ْ ُ ُ ْ و ٍ َ ِ‬ ‫ُ ََْ ُ َ‬
‫جاءع رجلع فاسعتاذنه فعى الهجهاد, فقالع: احىع والِداك؟‬
‫ْ ِ َ ِ َ َ َ َ َ ّ َ َ َ‬ ‫َ َ َ ُ ا ٌ َ ْ َ ِ َ ُ ِ‬
‫قال :نعم فقال ففيهما فهجاهد.‬
‫َ َ َ َ ْ َ َ َ َ ِْ ِ َ َ َ ِ ْ‬
‫‪Abdullah bin Amr bin Ash narrated that a man asked the‬‬
‫"?‪Prophet jihad permission. He asked, "Are your parents alive‬‬
‫‪The man replied, "Still, even both of them". He said again "Do‬‬
‫"‪you expect a reward from Allah?" The man replied "Yes‬‬

7. 3. Heaven on mom feet. In addition, the degree of
the mother than the father did three levels
‫وعن ابى هريرة رضى ا عنهُ قال : جاء رجل‬
ٌ ‫َ َ َ ُ ا‬ َ َ َْ َ ِ َ َ َ َْ ُ َِ ْ َ َ
: ‫الى رس ول ا ص لى ا علَيه وس لم فقال‬
َ َ َ ْ ََ َ ِ ْ َ ََ ُ ْ ُ َ ِّ
ِ ْ ُ ِ ِ ّ
‫يارسعول اع : منع اِحقع الناسع بحسن‬
ُ َ ْ َ َ ْ ُ َ َ
: ‫ص حابتى؟ قال : امك, قال : ثم منْ ؟ قال‬
َ َ َ ّ ُ َ َ َ ّ ُ َ َ َِ َ َ
(‫امك, قال : ثُم من ؟ قال : ابوكَ )متفق عليه‬
ْ َُ َ َ ْ َ ّ َ َ َ ّ ُ
From Abu Hurairah Ra he said: a man came to the Prophet,
then asked: "O prophet, who is entitled to respect me
well?" The Prophet replied "Your mother" then who? "Your
mother" Then who? "She" is once again the man asked,
then who? The Prophet replied "Your father."

8. 4. Dutiful to parents to expand sustenance. Prophet
said
"Whoever wants to be his provision expanded and
extended age (full blessing), should he keep the
friendship." (Narrated by Bukhari, Muslim)
5. Services parents may not unrequited
‫ع ن ا ب ي ه ر ي ر ة ر ض ي ا ع ن ه قا ل :قَ ل رَ س و‬
ْ ُ َ َ َ ُ َْ َ ِ َ َ َ َْ ُ ْ َِ ْ َ
‫:ل ي هج زى و ل د‬
ٌ ‫َ َ ا‬ ِ ْ َ َ ْ ََ َ ِ ََْ
‫ا ص لى ا ع ل ي ه و س ل م‬
ََ
‫وا ل د إل ا ن ي هج د ه م م لو كا ف ي ش ت ر ي ه فيقتقه‬
ُ َِ َْ ََ ً ُْ َ ُ َ ِ َ ْ َ ً ِ َ

9. 6. Disobedient to parents, including the biggest sin.
"From Abdullah bin 'Amr bin Ash Ra. From the Prophet said:
major sins are associating partners with Allah, disobey parents, to
kill people and perjury. "
7. Allah favored charity after prayers on time, is to
do good to parents.
‫و ع ن ا بى ع ب د ال ر ح م ن عَ ب د ا بن م س ع ود ر ض ى ا‬
َ ِ َ ْ ُ ْ َ ِ ْ ْ َ ْ ّ ُ َْ َِ ْ َ َ
ّ َ ََ
‫ع ن ه قا ل س ا ل ت ال ن بى ص لى ا ع ل ي ه وَ س ل مْ ا ي‬
ِ ََْ ََ َِ ُ ََْ: َ َ ُ َْ
ُ َ ّ
‫ت ااا عا لاى ( ؟ قا ل:ااال ص ل ة‬
َ‫َ ا‬ َ َ ) ‫اَ ا‬
‫ا‬ ‫ال ع م ل ااا ح ااا لاى‬
َ ‫َ َا ِ َ َب‬
ّ ِ‫ا‬
: ‫ع لى و ق ت ها ,ق ل ت : ث م ا ى؟ قا ل : را ل و ل د ي ن ,ق ل ت‬
ْ ََ ِ َْ َِ ْ ُ ‫ََ ْ ُ ّ َ ّ َ َب‬
ِ َ ِْ َ ََ
(‫ث م ا ى ؟ قا لَ : ال ج ها د فى س ب ي ل ا ) متفق عليه‬
ِ َِْ ِ ُ َ ِ َ ّ َ ّ ُ
From Abu Abdurrahman ibn Mas'ud Ra he said "I asked the Prophet
SAW, charity is the most favored of God? He answers prayers in
time, I ask again, then what? He answered do good to parents. I
asked again, then what? He replied jihad in Allah's way.
"(Narrated by Bukhari and Muslim)

10. When parents are still alive
1. Obey them for not disobey Allah Ta'ala
2. Dutiful and humble himself before both parents.
3. Speaking gently in front of them, Tawadlu (humble) to
both of them is something that is mandatory for children.
4. Provide food for their
5. Provide maintenance to parents
6. Making both the pleasure in doing good to the people he
loves
7. Do not berate the parents.
8. Praying for both parents
9. Taking care of Parents

11. When Parents Die
1. Taking care of the body and a lot of praying for them, as this is
the devotion of a child to his parents.
2. About istighfar (beg forgiveness of Allah Ta'ala) for both of
them, because they're the most important people to pray that
Allah forgives their sins and accept their good deeds.
3. Will fulfill the promise and parents who have not been met
during their lives in accordance with the Shari'a, and continue
the good deeds they had done during their lives.
4. Glorifying a close friend or both parents
5. Praying for both parents
6. Paying off debts both

12. Forms of lawlessness (uquq)
• Disruptive to the good old form of the word (speech) or the
act of making old people sad or hurt.
• Say 'ah' and does not meet the call of the elderly.
• Snap / snap, condemn and degrade the elderly.
• Niggardly (miserly) do not take care of his parents even more
concerned about the rest of the parents take care of their
parents when really needed.
• Mention evil old man in front of a lot or bring discredit to their
parents.
• Putting obedient to wife than parents. There are even some
people with how could expel in order to placate his wife's
mother.