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2. Imagine if you tried swimming using
the following method.

3. You stood there on the side of the
pool, shaking from fear.

4. All your buddies were swimming, but
you weren't sure if you could do it.

5. Maybe you looked at a point off in the
distance, and imagined how cool it
would be to swim over there.

6. Then you imagined the cold hand of
death grabbing your ankle and pulling
you down to the lonely bottom.

7. You grit your teeth, and jump in.

8. Only you don't try and swim.

9. You just kind of float there.

10. Then suddenly your instincts kick in,
and you start dog paddling.

11. Everybody's laughing.

12. You paddle back to where you came
from, and climb out.

13. Absolutely humiliated.

14. This is very similar to what most guys
do when they approach girls.

15. Especially when they're nervous while
approaching.

16. Now, if you're nervous and you
approach anyway, congratulations.

17. Most guys can't do this.

18. But when you approach, there's some
things you can do to make it a lot
easier, and some things to do that will
make it a lot harder.

19. The thoughts you hold in your head
WHILE approaching are crucial.

20. If you don't purposely hold positive
thoughts, your caveman brain will take
over.

21. This is like you dog paddling in the
pool.

22. Running on instincts.

23. But if you approach with some positive
thoughts, and HOLD those thoughts, it
will be a lot easier.

24. This would be like swimming the crawl,
based on conscious thinking, rather
than dog paddling, based on instinct.

25. Every action you take, there's a battle
going on in your mind.

26. Your conscious, rational self, vs. your
caveman instincts.

27. Your caveman instincts are usually only
good if you're in a caveman
environment.

28. Like there's some sort of horrible, life
threatening danger, and you've got to
take care of business.

29. But when talking to cute girls, your
caveman brain is NOT your friend.

30. Your conscious mind is.

31. What thoughts should you think?

32. Firstly, you'll need to FORCE them in
the forefront of your brain.

33. Like you might need to consciously
remember how to swim.

34. Any thoughts of any positive
EXPERIENCES with women will do.

35. Ideally, you should have a positive
experience in the recent past, and one
in the near future.

36. Which will take place AFTER you talk to
the girl you're about to talk to.

37. Any positive experience will work.

38. A girl that smiled at you.

39. A cute girl you talked to at Starbucks
(whether she was working there or
not.)

40. ANY experience will do.

41. This works for many reasons.

42. You won't see the girl you're about to
talk to as a life or death situation.

43. Which means you'll significantly tone
down any neediness or desperation.

44. She'll pick up on this, and this will
increase her likelihood of being
attracted to you.

45. Now, this can be tough to do if you
don't have ANY positive experiences
with women.

46. But you can certainly go and get some.

47. Just hit up some shops or restaurants
around town where cute girls work.

48. DO NOT try and pick them up.

49. Just be friendly with them.

50. Go in once a week or so.

51. Learn their names, and tell them
yours.

52. Remember, these are NOT girls you are
picking up or number closing or
getting advice from or anything.

53. Just some girls to have a friendly,
BRIEF, chit-chat with while you drink
your coffee or whatever.

54. THEN, when you see some girls you'd
like to talk to, for real, think of those
"practice girls" while you do so.

55. Do this long enough, and you'll be
building up a HUGE amount of positive
experiences with women.

56. Just remember that this ISN'T
automatic, at least not at first.

57. The first couple dozen times you talk
to real girls, in the real world, you'll
need to FORCE your brain to think of
those positive experiences, WHILE
APPROACHING and WHILE TALKING.

58. But if you keep it up, that feeling of
"good experiences with women" WILL
become automatic.

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