1. http://www.youngwomenshealth.org/Quizzes/quiz_safety1.html
Check your relationship with a friend or person you are dating to see if it's healthy!
1. Does your friend or person you are dating tell you the truth about things?
Yes
No
2. Does your friend or person you are dating make all the decisions in your
relationship?
Yes
No
3. Has your friend or person you are dating ever told you that you couldn't
wear something that you wanted to wear?
Yes
No
4. Does your friend or person you are dating lose his/her temper a lot and
always blame you for things?
Yes
No
5. Does your friend or person you are dating prevent you from spending
time with your friends and family?
Yes
No
6. Has your friend or person you are dating ever threatened to hurt you?
Yes
No
7. Has your friend or person you are dating ever pushed, grabbed, or
touched you in a way that hurts?
Yes
No

2. 8. Does your friend or the person you are dating do things to make
you feel afraid?
Yes
No
Check the chart below to see if you got any red lights…
GREEN LIGHT YELLOW LIGHT RED LIGHT
(Healthy) (Warning Signs) (Unhealthy)
Talk to each other Embarrasses you Is clingy
Trust each other Is annoying at times Is Jealous
Support each other Shows off Feel unsafe
Feel happy around the Calls you on the Feel like they are a
person phone often pain or nuisance
Share feelings Is competitive Have limited trust
Have freedom within Makes plans and then Tries to control and
the relationship breaks them manipulate
Have more good Tries to make you Makes you feel bad
times than bad more like them about yourself
Have fun together Uses sarcasm Does not make time
for you
Do things together Disagrees from time Discourages you from
to time being close to anyone
else
Encourage other Have unequal power Criticizes you
friendships
Criticizes your friends
Even one red light means that you may be in an unsafe relationship.
It is important that you talk to a parent or an adult that you trust right away! They
can help you find ways to stay safe—and your safety is the most important thing!