"Managing Fear" - keynote presentation at IT Camp 2014. The topic is should you avoid fear and "cure" it, or can you use fear as a positive force to help you change things? I am not sure how much of this can be understood without the corresponding explanations, but for those who were at the conference and asked for a copy, I am happy to share.
Máodùn – Chinese word for “paradox”, literally “spear-shield”
The term originates from a story in the 3rd century BC philosophical book Han Feizi. In the story, a man was trying to sell a spear and a shield. When asked how good his spear was, he said that his spear could pierce any shield. Then, when asked how good his shield was, he said that it could defend from all spear attacks. Then one person asked him what would happen if he were to take his spear to strike his shield; the seller could not answer. This led to the idiom of "zìxīang máodùn" (自相矛盾), or "self-contradictory".
Fear is a tool which is currently used by many political movements. In the UK, there is a large push of extremist political parties which are promoting the fear of the foreigner and the fear of Europe. In particular, they are warning people about Europeans who are coming to Britain to take jobs from the British people, while at the same time living off benefits because they don’t work. When these warnings are proven to be wrong, these political parties are not held to account, but continue to promote fear of the future based on more falsified statistics.
This is not new – we are still living with a heritage of religious fear, which tells us that everyone other than one small group are going to suffer eternal torment. Religion has a great benefits and has brought about stability and education, but again, a small group of extremists continue to promote fear of eternal damnation, while making a lot of money to spend on themselves.
The culture of fear is promoted in business through the pressure of achieving ever more challenging KPI (Key Performance Indicators), frequently, people are being judged based on measurements on which they have little or no influence.
Fear is an important factor in life because not only can fear produce complete paralysis, stopping people from doing anything, including saving themselves, but fear is arguably one of the only two forces which creates and promotes hate and everything that comes with it.
Fear is a fascinating factor and people have been studying, naming and classifying fears for a long time. It is a prime source of revenue for the psychiatric industries.
And more – 530 phobias listed at phobialist.com
My apologies for any of you who suffer of Sesquipedalophobia – fear of long words
Some fears are so powerful that in common language they have come to be seen as expressions of hate rather than fear. This includes
- Xenophobia – fear of foreigners
- Homophobia – fear of sameness, monotony ; fear of homosexuality
Within the work place. Some forms of fear are very detrimental and can cause no end of trouble when trying to move your organization on to the future. These include:
- Atychiphobia and Kakorrhaphiophobia - fear of failure
- Technophobia - fear of technology (see also Luddite)
- Kainotophobia - fear of change
We can generally classify fears into four groups:
Fear of the unknown is possibly the most common, it includes the fear of death, the fear of what would happen if… Most people like to have some level of certainty, control, continuity in their lives. The unknown is a big disrupter.
Frequently related to the fear of the unknown are the fear of one’s own limits: will I be able to cope if something happens. What will happen when my manager discovers that I don’t really know what I am doing but making it up as I go along?
Fear of cartoon animals (not the fear of real animals) is the fear of what we think things are or might be. It is our idea of a spider which scares us rather than the inoffensive tiny creature which eats insects
Fear of memories is an issue for people who have had a childhood trauma and are worried that it my happen again.
Because fear is a force which stops you from doing things, even if you believe that you should be doing them, it is frequently seen as a negative force. Surely something which stops you from acting, which paralyses you, must be something bad. This is not always the case. Your guide on an African safari will tell you that you are right to be afraid of getting out of the vehicle to take a close up picture of a pack of lions eating.
Fear is seen as negative in the world of business. Dr Deming is generally considered as one of the supreme authorities in change management and performance enhancement of industries. Unfortunately, very few people have ever bother reading him directly and trying to understand what he was actually saying, while his short sound-bite statements are being continuously repeated, even by people who do not really know what they mean.
One of the more important texts that Deming published, where his 14 points for effective management. These are all very valid points which continue to be ignored by management all over the world. Within this list, number 8 tells us to drive out fear, because it stops people from working effectively.
Note also points 11a and b, which point back to a previous statement about KPIs and the mis-use of measurement in order to increase fear.
When I got interested in the concept of fear, I started looking up what has been done on the subject, and I found the research and publications generally very poor indeed. Only two areas of fear appear to have been worth studying in some detail. They are the origin of any particular fear and how to overcome it.
One piece of research caught my eye in particular, and that was the use of medication to get rid of fear.
The medication does not stop you from being afraid and encourage you to do stupid things, but it acts om the MNDA in your brain…
… which acts on the neurons. In low doses, the medication improves our ability to learn by increasing neuron activity and, thereby, improves our response to traditional therapy.
This is an interesting point which fell in line with my theory that one of the most important way to get over your fear is education.
When confronted with fear, you should not lose patience, even if you do not understand, but you should learn to show compassion, willingness to listen, to discuss it. Help the frightened person take the first steps.
There was a little boy who was left all alone in the world when his parents died, alone with a hunger for justice.
He was terrified of bats, particularly when those bats attacked him in his parents’ mausoleum.
He decided to use his fear for good and, by managing his fear, become a force for justice.
How about a real character?
Steve Jobs
A profound phobia of buttons, which explains first why he was always seen in polo or turle-neck sweaters rather than suits and shirts. But his phobia went beyond the traditional one and gave him a phobia of all sorts of buttons.
He created the music player without buttons
He created the phone without buttons
He created the computer without buttons
All this because he decided to use the force of fear rather than get cured.
John Kotter is generally recognized as one of the number one gurus in changing companies. After strong leadership, he claims that the only way progress can be made is if there is a strong sense of urgency
You are up against global competition, someone is doing the same work you are doing, only cheaper. You should be afraid of losing your short-term customers to a country which offers cheaper man-hours.
Or you could ensure that you are recognized in what you do. Think about your unique selling point – how can you make sure the world knows that you are better?
Progress is going to happen, with or without you. The older you get, the more difficult it is to follow and adapt. Today’s consumer likes gadgets and is interested in buying something new and flashy because it is new and flashy. Your products are about to become old-fashioned, someone has a newer product out there and is going to steal your customers.
Unless you do your research to stay at the cutting edge. You could also encourage your engineers to think outside the box and come up with new solutions.
The new ways of working you may be rolling out will take away some of those long-standing specialities which only you could do, the idea that you could solve the problem every time is going to suffer when that problem no longer exists.
Of course, the new ways of working mean that people will be sharing their skills and knowledge with you, helping you to become more efficient. You could join in the movement, or get left behind.
A few years ago, a major reservoir of jet fuel in England exploded. Next door to this reservoir was the IT centre which served libraries and schools through the United Kingdom, it was completely destroyed.
The customers never noticed, the system was back up and running before Monday morning.
Of course, I don’t expect many of you to be next door to a place that suddenly goes up in flames
The stupid mistake. Something dramatic, the system broke down, the customers are all shouting loudly, what if you made it?
Reviewing each other’s work is a simple way to identify and remove a lot of mistakes before they become serious. It has nothing to do with the fact that we don’t trust you or are trying to control you, it has to do with the fact that you are human, and we all fail.
Estimating is a difficult problem. When comparing these three estimates, sales and marketing will always think that estimator B (red) is the best guy, he always comes up with the shortest delays and costs, and gets the contract signed.
Estimator C (green) is appreciated by management, who is proud to tell me that “we always deliver on time”.
You want to try to educate management and customers to understand why estimator A (blue) is the one they should be considering.
Costs are climbing at a fantastic rate. This is used to explain how IT people in this area and in others feel that they can easily find a job somewhere else and earn more money. They don’t have more value because they have not learnt something new or amazing, they are just putting up their prices and encouraging the world to look elsewhere.
Cheap labour is available in other countries. You are about to lose your contracts to someone in Brazil, in Morocco or in South-East Asia. That is unless you can show that you are experienced and deliver high-quality which these cheap people cannot (yet) imitate.
Fear is not a bad thing. It is a force which should prompt you to change. This has been known for a long time. Your perception is more important than the facts.
Or, in other words…
Six months ago, Liam was homeless and hopeless. Today, he is volunteering for a charity which collects free samples and gifts from companies and delivers them to needy children. Today, he is happy, he is active, he is appreciated.