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- 2. ِحِلٰـ َّ لصأَو أ ُ نُكِم ٰىَمٰـَيَ أ ْلأ ۟اوُحِكنَأَو أ ُ ُكِئٓاَم ِ اَو أُُكِداَبِع أنِم َني ۟اوُنوُكَي ن ِ ا ۚ ۗ ۦِ ِ ِل أضَف نِم َُّ َّللأ ُمِ ِِنأغُي َءٓاَرَقُف ٌيِلَع ٌع ِسََٰو َُّ َّللأَو “And marry the unmarried among you and the righteous among your male slaves and female slaves. If they should be poor, Allah will enrich them from His bounty, and Allah is all-Encompassing and Knowing. An-Nur : 32
- 3. “They are clothing for you, and you are clothing for them…” [Al Baqarah :187] َُّنه اسَبِل أ ُ ُكَّل َو أ ُ نتَأ اسَبِل َّل َُّنه ۗۗ
- 4. ‘Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.’ [Al-Furqan :74] اَنَّبَر أ بَه اَنَل أنِم اَنِجََٰوأزَأ َّيِرُذَو اَنِنٰـ َةَّرُق ن ُ نيأعَأ أجأَو اَنألَع َنيِقَّنُمألِل اًماَم ِ ا
- 5. “And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought.” [Ar-Rum :21] أنِمَو ٓۦِهِنٰـَياَء أنَأ َ قَلَخ ُ ُكَل أنِم ُفنَأ أ ُ ُك ِ ِس اًۭجََٰوأزَأ ُنُك أ ِسَتِل ۟آو اَ أْيَل ِ ا َلَعَجَو ُ ُكَنأيَب ًۭةَّدَوَّم ًةَ أ ْحَرَو ۚۗ َّن ِ ا ِ ف ََٰذ َ ِ ل نتٰـَياَـَل نمأوَقِل َنَي َونُرَّكَف
- 6. “The Messenger of Allah said: ‘O young men, whoever among you can afford it, let him get married, for it is more effective in lowering the gaze and guarding chastity, and whoever cannot then he should fast, for it will be a restraint (wija’) for him.” [Sunan an-Nasa’I, 3209]
- 7. Marriage is layered in human emotion and is a union woven together through love, companionship, kindness, compassion, and support. The Quran implores spouses to treat each other kindly. A secure relationship is achieved by mutual commitment, respecting each other’s rights, and having sincerity in intentions and efforts. Marriage according to the Quran entails building a life that facilitates thriving and contentment in the relationship itself, which as a result influences a good home environment for the family, which can thereby contribute beneficially to society at large.
- 8. SEARCH FOR A SPOUSE!!!
- 9. Quran : 4:23 أ تَمِرُح أ ُ ُكأيَلَع أ ُ ُكُنٰـَهَّمُأ أ ُ ُكُتاَنَبَو أ ُ ُكُتَََٰوخَأَو أ ُ ُكُنٰـَّ َ َعَو ٰـَخَو أ ُ ُكُنٰـَل ُ اتَنَبَو ِخَ أ ْلأ ُ اتَنَبَو ِ تأخُ أ ْلأ ُ ُ ُكُنٰـَهَّمُأَو ٓ ِ تٰـَّلأ َنأعَضأرَأ أ ُ ُك ُ ُكُتَََٰوخَأَو َنِم ِةَعٰـَضَّلرأ َو ُ تٰـَهَّمُأ أ ُ ُكِئٓآ َِسِن ِئٰٓـَبَرَو ُ ُ ُكُب ِ تٰـَّلأ ِ ف ُُكِورُجُح نِم ُ ُ ُكِئٓآ َِسِن ِ تٰـَّلأ ُ تألَخَد َّنِِِب ن ِ اَف أمَّل ُكَت ۟اوُنو ُ تألَخَد َّنِِِب َ لَف َنُج َاح أ ُ ُكأيَلَع ُلِئٰٓـَلَحَو ُ ُ ُكِئٓآَنأبَأ َينِ َّ َّلأ ِم أن أ ُ ُِكبٰـَل أ صَأ نَأَو ۟اوُعَمأََت َ أ نيَب ِ أ نيَتأخُ أ ْلأ ََّل ِ ا اَم أدَق َ فَل َس ۗۗ َّن ِ ا ََّ َّللأ َن ََك اًورُفَغ اًميِحَّر
- 10. Generally, prohibition of marriage maybe due to any of the following 9 reasons: 1.Qabaarbat (close relations) 2.Musaahirat (in-laws) 3.Two sisters in one marriage 4.Female slave after marrying free woman 5.Someone else’s woman 6.Razaiyyat – fostership 7.Musrikah -nonbeliever 8.Mutallaqah who has been given 3 talaqs without halalah. 9.Women In Iddah 10. During Ihraam
- 11. Specifically, it is not lawful for a man to marry the following women: 1.daughters (including his real daughters (haqeeqi) and his granddaughters (majaazi) (4:23) 2.sisters (4:23) 3.father’s sisters (including real paternal aunt, half and step paternal aunts ) (4:23) 4.mother’s sisters (including maternal aunt half and step maternal aunts) (4:23) 5.brother’s daughters (including daughters of half and step brothers) (4:23) 6.sister’s daughters (including daughters of half and step sisters) (4:23) 7.foster-mothers (4:23)) 8.foster-sisters) (4:23) (Hadith: “Prohibited on the basis of rada” are those who are prohibited on the basis of lineage”) 9.wives’ mothers (mothers-in-laws whether marriage with his wife has been consummated or not) 10.step-daughters under his guardianship (born to wives with whom he has consummated marriage but step-daughters of his wives will not be prohibited if he has not consummated marriage with the concerned wife); reason is that guardianship is mentioned as norm here and not a condition and negation of consummation is condition for marriage only). 11.previous or present wives of his sons proceeding from his loins ( aslaab-including sons and grandsons; wives of tabanni, meaning adopted sons are not included ) (4:23)
- 12. Mehrams For Males Mehrams For Females Mothers & Grandmothers Fathers & Grandfathers Sisters / Suckling Sisters Brothers / Suckling Brothers Nieces Nephews Aunts Uncles Mothers-in-Law Fathers-in-Law Wife’s Daughters Husband’s Sons Daughters-in-Law Sons-in-Law Sister-in-Law (If the other sister is still in Nikah) Brother-in-Law (If the other brother is still in Nikah)
- 13. THE ENGAGEMENT
- 15. Kindness, Trust and Forgiveness are the most Important Ingredients for a Happy Marriage.
- 17. ADVICE FOR MEN / WOMEN