2. Interacting with Children & Teens
Students should be treated with respect. No physical punishment, verbal abuse,
coercion, or ridicule is allowed at any time.
If a child is unwilling to cooperate after several attempts to redirect (through brain
gym or other incentives) it may be appropriate to stop the session and start fresh the
next week.
Before offering food as a reward, make
sure you are aware of any dietary
restrictions.
3. Interacting with Children & Teens
Sessions should be conducted in an environment that
provides visibility by other adults. You should leave
the door ajar or meet in a room with a glass window.
The Augustine Project strictly prohibits interaction
with students by anyone with a civil or criminal record
of child sexual abuse.
All tutors must have a criminal background check and
agree to signing the Augustine Project Covenant for
Responsible Interaction with Children and Youth.
4. Interacting with Children & Teens
• All volunteers will uphold the Augustine Project
Non-Discrimination Policy.
• Children are not to be left unattended. Tutors
should walk students to and from the classroom.
• Augustine students should not be transported by
their tutor at any time. If a tutor chooses to drive a
student, they are operating outside of the scope of
the program.
• No alcohol, illegal drugs, or use of tobacco products
is permitted.
5. Interacting with Children & Teens
Gift giving can be a form of buying loyalty or
silence. As a result, gifts should only be
offered on special occasions and should not
be elaborate or expensive.
“Open Door” policy - parents, professional
staff, and others have the right to visit and
observe tutoring sessions at any time
10. Children are not
responsible for sexual
abuse; the offender is.
Sexual abuse exploits
children who are not
developmentally capable of
understanding or resisting
the abuse.
14. Studies indicate that female children are abused more often than male
children. It is estimated between 25-33% of women have been sexually
abused during childhood. Estimates for men are 10-16%.
18. Recognizing Child Abuse and Neglect
Physical Abuse
❏Unexplained bruises, welts,
burns, abrasions
❏Eager to please
❏Depression
❏Low self-esteem
❏Fearful
❏School absences
Neglect
❏Lack of supervision
❏Lack of adequate clothing
❏Lack of medical/dental care
❏Constant fatigue
❏Substance abuse
❏Abandonment
❏School absences
19. Recognizing Child Abuse and Neglect
Sexual Abuse
❏Difficulty walking/sitting
❏Bloody underclothing
❏Inappropriate sexual behavior
❏Self-destructive behavior
❏Withdrawal
❏Fearful of person or places
Emotional Maltreatment
❏Behavioral extremes
❏Sleep problems
❏Apathetic
❏Withdrawal
❏Anxiety
20. Reporting Suspected Abuse or Neglect
• Report the situation to the director and/or
child’s teacher
• Report to the school social worker and
principal if it’s determined that there is cause
to suspect abuse or neglect
• DO NOT ask the child leading questions or
confront parent/guardian