materi webinar Nenden yang disampaikan tahun 2021 di acara webinar Internasional dengan narsum dan pesertanya dari 3 negara (Indonesia, Malaysia dan India).
3. Good character is strengths in which positively
related to peer acceptance and friendship quality in
early adolescents.
Example: love, kindness, social intelligence,
teamwork, leadership, and humor associated with
higher peer acceptance (Wagner, L. 2019).
GOOD CHARACTER
4. You don’t think what you are
But You Are What YOU
THINK
YOU ARE What You Think
Pirandello, L. (2015).
5. You are what your action
Who are YOU?
You are what your wish
You are what your word
8. It is a KEY of communication
Listen the other, NOT JUST HEAR
Listen is DIFFERENT to hear
ACTIVE LISTENING, not hearing with
ear but with your EYES and your
HEART.
BE A GOOD LISTENER
9. • Everyone is normal to have many friends.
• But no everyone can make a friend.
• Don’t be shy to introduce your self to initiate making friend.
• Show that you are enjoy to meet and being their friends
WARM&FRIENDLY
10. As human being, We want to be important person.
It is basic need for human to achieve self
Actualization’s
Don’t interrupt, use your eye contact to admit that
your friends is worth
MAKE THE OTHER WORTH
11. Care and empathy can reduce the sadness
Show to your friends that you can feel what their feel.
If they are sad, so we feel sad too.
EMPATHY Cramer, D., & Jowett, S. (2010).
12. People who meet you will happy
if see your smile.
The happiness can lead to next
enjoyable activities.
Don’t hard for giving smile.
Learn for smile everyday and in
every situation.
Don’t wait happy for smile but
let's smile to make you happy.
FULL OF SMILE
Hess, U., & Bourgeois, P. (2010).
13. Humor is useful to break
the loneliness
Humor is useful to reduce
stress n boring.
Most people like to laugh
and happy to hear and
watch something fun
Learn to be humourism for
have fun and make other
enjoy to talk with you.
HUMOR Hall, J. A. (2017).
15. 1. Ensure that the relationship is a positive
one.
2. Accept and celebrate differences
3. Give people time and “be present”
4. Develop your communication skills.
5. Manage mobile technology
6. Adaptable & Helpful
7. Treat people as you would like to be
treated
LET’S HAVING GOOD
& POSITIVE
RELATIONSHIP
Debrot, A. (2012).
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psychology, 84(3), 514-520.
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