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Difficult Conversations | Madison Merrifield | LEAP 2016
Hello from the
of the conversation.
How to WIN at life.
.When you…
. I feel…
I Need…
1. Feelings, Identity, Actions
• Where is your heart?
•Where is your head?
• Where are your hands?
2. Check
• Why bring it up?
• Is it necessary?
• Sort out the story
• Don’t assume
4. Get your Reframe Game on point
your POV
+
their POV
=
new POV
5. Make a map
• Where do we go from here?
•How do we communicate?
• What actions do we take?
1. What is something you learned
from this session?
2. Do you feel better prepped for
a difficult conversation?
3. Is this relevant to your life?
4. What would you change/add
to this session if you taught it?

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LEAP - Hello

  • 1. Difficult Conversations | Madison Merrifield | LEAP 2016 Hello from the of the conversation.
  • 2. How to WIN at life. .When you… . I feel… I Need…
  • 3. 1. Feelings, Identity, Actions • Where is your heart? •Where is your head? • Where are your hands?
  • 4. 2. Check • Why bring it up? • Is it necessary?
  • 5. • Sort out the story • Don’t assume
  • 6. 4. Get your Reframe Game on point your POV + their POV = new POV
  • 7. 5. Make a map • Where do we go from here? •How do we communicate? • What actions do we take?
  • 8. 1. What is something you learned from this session? 2. Do you feel better prepped for a difficult conversation? 3. Is this relevant to your life? 4. What would you change/add to this session if you taught it?